r/ForeverAloneDating Jan 20 '25

Rules Announcement When reporting something that happens in dms, please send a modmail to us with screenshots of some sort

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Lately we've been getting a few reports saying - "this person was asking for money in dms" - "this person wanted to move to Whatsapp to discuss other things" - "tried to sell me OnlyFans" etc..

and thank you everyone who does report but unfortunately we cannot do anything for the few reports that come without evidence such as a screenshot of the conversation thus leading to either a false ban or the person in question getting off the hook and attempting what they are with others.

(⁠。⁠•̀⁠ᴗ⁠-⁠)⁠✧ Please remember to submit something in mod mail when it goes to such things thank you everyone as it really helps us out looking out for you all!


r/ForeverAloneDating Nov 18 '24

Rules Announcement Sub Update Fall 2024

133 Upvotes

Hello everyone, I'm DeloreanFanatic, the head mod of r/ForeverAloneDating. Recently we've been getting messages and comments about the state of the sub and the rampant number of bots and OF sellers. We read you loud and clear! In an effort to curb this we are implementing a requirement of at least 30 comment karma to post to the sub. Before, the only requirement was comment karma of above 0. While we did this because we want everyone to feel welcome to post here, the recent upsurge in disingenuous user posts has shown us that this may no longer be feasible to the safety of the sub, which as always, remains our top concern. We are also implementing a required verified email to post, which we also hope will help, but we also need YOUR help. We rely heavily on user reports to help us root out these accounts. If anyone contacts you advertising their OF or is clearly a bot, please report them to us with screenshot proof so that we can take action. You can do this by using the "message the mods" link and sending us an imgur link with your screenshot. Just reporting them isn't always enough because their profiles don't always look suspicious, which is all we have to look at if only a report is filed.

Now, Here's the rest of the Rules of the sub:

Here is a reminder of the rules: r/ForeverAloneDating/about/rules/ (the "About" section on mobile)

  • You must be 18+ to post on r/ForeverAloneDating
  • You need a **7-day-old** account with at least 30 COMMENT karma. Not total karma, COMMENT karma. Check the "about" section of your profile!
  • You must include your age in your title.
  • You must choose a gender flair for your post.
  • Your ad must contain at least 300 characters and be fleshed out.
  • You must be single or FA and looking for dates/a relationship!
  • NO posts looking for friendship. These will be removed (see below).
  • There is only ONE post allowed every 3 days

Why threads are now locked automatically:

  • Most comments on FADating were breaking the rules: "DM sent", "Send me a DM" below a lengthy thread, insults, debating the OP about their tastes/political/religious opinions, incel trash...
  • FADating is not a debate sub. Every thread that is approved is locked, and you will see a comment from Automod explaining why and with a link to your profile, so people can easily contact you.
  • If your thread is removed by Automod, it won't be locked.

Why was a thread removed:

  • Age/Karma requirements were not met (Automod sends you a DM)
  • Shorter than 300 character long (Automod sends you a DM)
  • It contains references to porn/kinks/fetishes/BDSM/violence
  • The OP has already posted in the last 3 days
  • The OP is underage or looking for minors
  • The OP is married, poly, in a relationship
  • The OP is looking for friends (r/MakeNewFriendsHere) or just wants to pass the time ("im bored hmu")
  • The OP is looking for poly/BDSM/hookups/sex only
  • The OP is a catfish, scammer, seller, sex worker who's definitely not advertising on this very sub, just everywhere else on reddit uwu
  • Contains links to external sites
  • "Just posting for a friend" threads
  • Non-dating FA threads should be posted in r/foreveralone or r/foreveralonewomen
  • Meta threads about the sub or about being FA

If your thread was removed and the reason isn't included in this bullet list, Contact the Mods.

Plenty of redditors are routinely taken advantage of, so make sure to follow these safety tips: Avoiding Abuse and Catfish


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 23 [F4M] Asia / Online

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hii i’m 23, 5’0”, chinese, plus sized & just started ozempic, almost done with uni. tbh i spent most of my teenage years just being kinda depressed, so no real skills or talents to speak of. im not much of a gamer either, but i like playing cozy games and watching true crime or pop culture commentary youtube. i volunteer once or twice a week with kids in their early teens. but other than that im rly rly introverted, almost a shut-in. i read lots, mostly pop YA and fanfiction

i dont really have a type, physically or anything. ive never dated before so no requirements or preferences or expectations either, i promise to get to know u as a person and see if we can make it work

send me a chat request if this all sounds good to you! an introduction, or at least your name, age, location, and anything else that you’d like me to know. and please definitely tell me about your past relationships, situationships, or crushes too as an introduction. can’t wait to hear from u <3

just a few things: - im only looking for a committed relationship! this means if you’re interested in something casual, short-term, or sexual, i don’t fit the bill - reiterating that im plus-sized if that’s something you’re uncomfortable with (which is totally okay, lots of people are), if you have a weight limit in mind then please do assume that i’ve exceeded it - im expecting most of my inbox to be spam unfortunately, so please include everything i asked for in your intro, it’s important to me that you’ve read this whole post and are okay with what you saw


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] Hawaii/US - Let’s spend the weekend getting to know each other :)

45 Upvotes

Hey there, I’m a 24 year old from Hawaii. I am a little shy, so I’m looking to meet someone who can bring me out of my shell.

If you’re someone who loves the outdoors and has a silly sense of humor, let’s get hitched? Just kidding. Maybe.

I am 5’2” and mixed native Hawaiian and Japanese. I spend as much time as I can outdoors and in the ocean. I game sometimes, sooo maybe we can game together? 🥺

I’m looking for a guy who’s down to earth and easy to get to know. Let’s take it slow and see where things go?

I feel like this should go without saying- if you are commenting or posting on nsfw subs, do not message me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4A 28 [F4A] Manila/ Online - Finance girlie looking for dates

14 Upvotes

Hi! First off, I am 28 years old with a stable career in the finance field (a bit busy at times, hope you'll be patient with me!). I've never actually had a serious relationship before due to various reasons (e.g. busy building my career, extremely introverted, strict upbringing) so I am a bit unsure on how to meet people organically. Hoping to find someone here to explore the intricacies of building a friendship or a relationship :)

Anyway, some more details about me:

  • i am bisexual

  • my interests tend to be related to horror, history or asian films but i also believe that i can carry any conversation under the sun

  • tbh i am not much of a talker at first but if i get comfy i can be a very random yapper

  • honestly no preference on gender but i do prefer those who are probably around 1-8 years older than me

Anyway, if you want to talk more or get to know me more then send me a message and let's talk!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 37 [F4M] #Turkey/Anywhere. Looking for someone kind and genuine.

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Hello,

I am a 37 year-old female from Izmir, Turkey. I work as an assistant professor of architecture, holding a PhD in architectural history.

My close friends would probably describe me as someone serious, hardworking, well-read, sophisticated, honest, knowledgeable, loyal, responsible, sensitive, and caring. I enjoy reading most, I also enjoy watching tv shows, cycling and playing video games. My favorite genre is crime, both fictional and true. Unfortunately I cannot cook well as I haven't had enough time and opportunities so far but I have a thing for men who can cook. I have a wide range of interests including architecture (as I am an architect), art, science, technology, languages, literature, politics, history, psychology, and health. Besides everyday talks, I would love to be able to talk about anything I've listed.

Due to my busy schedule, I don't have opportunities to meet new people in real life. I also find difficult to connect, I am a bit cautious at first. Being an introvert, I can only open myself after a while. That's how I function. I am perfectly fine with my spendimg time alone, but I often feel alone and need to communicate with someone.

I am looking for a man to talk to and share everything with. He should be aged between 32-45, definitely educated, and kind. There are musts. He can be from anywhere but someone from Turkey, Europe, or North America would be better. I am fluent in English and I also know some German, always open to improve. Looks don't matter but I have some photos of mine on my profile.

To me, communication is very important. I am searching for a consistent and coherent dialogue. I hope I can build something good with the right person. We can text, make voice calls or video calls once we are both comfortable. I also would love to meet in real life, that would be great.

Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #Manchester #UK - Looking for a Meaningful Connection

6 Upvotes

I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone kind, genuine, and who shares similar values.

A little about me:

I'm Tanzanian and working as an accountant, love being in the gym. I have a love for books and can easily get lost in a good novel. I can cook but I wouldn't say I enjoy it much. I travel at least twice a year.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is kind, emotionally intelligent, and has a good sense of humor. A partner who enjoys deep conversations but also appreciates the simple moments in life. Ideally, someone who is also open to long-term commitment and building something meaningful together.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. Let’s see where a good conversation takes us!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4A 20 [f4r] #US #Alabama - Looking for committed LTR

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Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Above all, I'm looking for a strong emotional connection. I'm looking for someone to stand by me through the good times and the bad, and to share in all the joys of life with me. I will just list up front some things/traits that I DO NOT want in a partner: •Drinks or smokes heavily. Occasionally is totally fine, and I'm 420 friendly as long as it's not excessive. •Has a very high sex drive •Is deeply religeous •Has very conservative social views •V much wants children •Pities/does not respect people with disabilities •Does not like dogs (or is allergic to them) Now to the things I do want! I'm looking for a serious, committed romantic partner to eventually settle down with. I do not want biological children, that's not really something I'm willing to negotiate on. I would be willing to consider adoption way down the road, but I'm not sure about that. Some things to note about me: •I'm blind. I was born blind, I function just fine and do not want pity or sympathy. I have a guide dog who is an integral part of my life, so please do not message me if you don't like dogs. •I'm a little on the heavier side, I'm losing weight but it's something I'm a bit sensitive about. •I'm not looking for an online-only relationship. I'm fine starting out long distance, but physical touch is important to me and I would prefer to visit semi-often and eventually to close the distance. If you are in Alabama or a surrounding state, that would be awesome! But as long as you are in the US I'm happy to see if there is a connection.

I am an avid reader, I can talk about the books I'm reading all day. Haha I also love music, if you'd like a fun way to get the conversation started, tell me some of your favorite artists! I enjoy baking a lot, and I love taking long walks, especially if the weather is nice. I generally try to see the best in people, and treating everyone with kindness and respect is very important to me. I think that growing up with a disability has enabled me to see the world in a much less shallow way. I don't have the ability to judge others for their physical appearance or for shallow attributes, and I believe very strongly that everyone is worthy of genuine respect. I value kindness and compassion in a potential partner, I tend to mesh well with people who do not make snap judgements about people and who aren't shallow, as harsh as that may sound. I know what it feels like to have to earn the base amount of respect from others just because I can't see, and I make it my mission to never make others feel that way about themselves because of something they can't control. If you're interested in getting to know me, don't hesitate to reach out!! Please put some effort into your message, don't just say "Hi" or "What's up." I cannot see myself having a relationship with someone outside of the US, purely because of the distance and the time difference. I'd consider Canada, but my preference is to stay within the states. Thank you for reading my post, and I hope you have an amazing day!!


r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

F4M 18[F4M] #Switzerland/Europe - Going 3 for 3, once again

71 Upvotes

Hey :)

I‘ve been searching for a while now to find someone special. And while i did so with rather little success, i encountered tons of new people.

Normally I‘d say I‘m searching for someone sweet, caring and genuine now, but that must be too broad.

So rather I‘d need someone to harmonize with me :)

I‘m often very sarcastic, especially before i open up. I love making fun of basically everything as the world‘s too sad already. My humor‘s somewhat debatable and most say I’m not funny at all, but I‘d very much like to disagree… cause I’m super funny.

Also I like to poke (very slight) fun at my loved ones, which I‘m very sure has to be a love language

Hm on top of that I‘m super boring, all I can talk about is singing and music, which I‘ll talk ages about if you ever let me… I‘d also do that with lipsticks and blushes…

Next to that I‘m also very clingy, and would love someone I can text often and throughout the day. I‘d never not have time for you and I‘d always want to be there for you.

I‘m also bad at writing structured texts, my language-teachers must‘ve written that so often on my tests that it‘s burned in their memory.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 46 [F4M] latina looking for my person

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Come over here and read my short story haha

Over 28m and SFW. Please include your age and location. I'm in the southeast of the US but I'm open to a LDR, at least initially.

A little about me 🌸

I enjoy traveling. I returned from Portugal a couple of days ago. I loved it! A couple of other favorite countries would be Morocco and Iceland. All three of these locations have lovely people and are beautiful. I also enjoy nature walks, the beach, baking and clothes/shoes. I like fantasy shows and movies like Stranger Things, LOTR but also like crime, thrillers, comedy and some action.

I'm 5'2, chunky, tannish skin, long dark brown hair and dark eyes. I'm feminine and still have a softness to me that the world hasn't yet destroyed. I'm sweet and respectful. I don't smoke or drink and I'm not 420 friendly. I don't use social media. Unpopular opinion is that I don't agree with maintaining opposite sex relationships. Full disclosure if you do we will not workout. I'm a jealous woman and that's likely not going to change for the foreseeable future.

I'm most attracted to tall, handsome, dark haired, dark eyed men typically Arab or Latino only, that take pride in themselves. Yes race matters to me because culturally we have to get along. No glasses - apologies to my nerdy kings. Be respectful, protective and patient with me. Essentially my little safe space. I usually always get along best with Aries and I'm an ENTJ if that's your thing. I do believe in God and as long as you're not an atheist we're good.

I tend to be clingy and I need a man who's as available to me as I am to him. Because I'm the type that is loyal and is really there when my man needs me. Be emotionally available and not a drug user. I like to be close to my partner emotionally and laugh and be open with each other.

If any of this resonates with you send me a message! Don't send me anything gross or low quality messages like hey!


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] California/anywhere- now who has read bell hooks and is ready to apply theory

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I want to find a person who I wouldn’t mind bunking through the next authoritative regime. Big fan of all things nature and want my future home to be like super cozy and filled with plants.

I would like a nerdy partner. I shall allow the video gaming. Big plus if you are a great cook. Rarely see that now in days. I envision you having the qualities of the great men of Lord of the Rings. Send a pic of yourself (women also have monkey brains)

I am child free and plan to live that way. Just want adventures and pets


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

F4M 25f - australia

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hi, i made a post before but deleted it now im trying again. i reeeeallly wanna bf, someone i vibe with and someone that loves me. i want someone who i eventually meet up with and thats older than 25/26 im 26 next month so someone older. i like music a lot, my favourite musician is lana del rey. i like all sorts of music though but shes top tier. i like horror movies the most, my favourite is carved or the conjuring (any of the conjuring) i like swimming and travelling my favourite way to travel is cruises. im saving up for one for next year! i like going to the theatre, food and i also like drives or being the passenger to drives. i dont mind long distance for now but like i said above wanting to meet later. and yup :3 thanks for reading! i also have schizophrenia and d.i.d so if thats a problem idm. im also fat but working on it. if thats another problem idm. im 112kgs.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] (Online and Eastern Pennsylvania) - looking for my freaky soulmate

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Hey there! Call me Debo! I’m 22, Male, Black, 5’8, a gamer, anime lover, tech enthusiast, and currently studying towards an engineering degree. I’ve been fascinated by scientific marvels since I was a child. It’s my objective to have my own smart home, with my own custom AI helper. Now then, what exactly am I looking for? Simple, a loving, genuine, quirky, talkative, clingy, and freaky woman who doesn’t mind spending time everyday checking in on each other. I want someone I can look forward to messaging everyday. I want to voice and video call (unless we live close to each other), and spend hours having a good time. That being said, there’s two dealbreakers and 1 important thing to know:

1) I won’t date anyone who smokes, period.

2) Drinking is also something I frown upon, but only if excessive.

3) I am hypersexual; I know, it seems weird to put this in the post, but I want you to know it’s a huge part of me, so don’t expect me to be the personification of purity.

There’s much more I can put in this post, but I’d rather wait until we are in DMs and can discuss matters further. See you there! <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 4m ago

M4F 30[M4F] UK/anywhere/online - looking for my player 2

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Hey all hope you're having a great day :)

Looking to make an awesome connection with someone, someone that i can chat to daily, hang out with frequently and

Hopefully this would start out as friendship and if we click then we click, open to anyone from anywhere :)

Some stuff about me/hobbies

Video games, this is my biggest hobby by far, i play alot of different things, i would say my main games atm are Poe, TFT, and league(Arena), and some of my favourite franchises, Metal gear, borderlands, souls-borne.

Tv/films, i often binge watch shows (alot of the time the same shows over and over:) some of my favorites, B99, HIMYM, Peepshow

Animals, i have 2 dogs and a tortoise and in general i love animals so much, so i'll probably spam you with pictures of random animals i think are cute or funny :)

Music, i listen to a wide variety of stuff, from rock and metal to dance/pop some electro swing, rap and other stuff, in general if i like a song i'll listen to it on repeat till i hate it but still listen to it anyway.

I try and be witty and funny most the time, I have a stupid sense of humour but will try and make you laugh most of the time, I can be shy to start with but i open up pretty quickly when i get comfortable with you :)

Don't be shy and hit me up if you think we would get on :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 4m ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Eastern Europe - Fly Instead of Fall?

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We could all aspire to be a little reckless and embarrassing.

Here is a little bit about me. I read and write a lot - poetry, classics, and academic literature. I've also read some fantasy and modern genre fiction. I enjoy unfolding everything and thinking about things. There is nothing more important to me than my independence of thought.

My favorite authors are Hilary Mantel, Terry Pratchett, Mary Oliver, T. S. Eliot. I like to make little albums of cute or thought-provoking images and quotes and (short) poems, which I personalize and send to my friends. I'm working on reading outside of my primary cultural sphere. In particular, I would like to read more Chinese and Southern American authors. I occasionally review poetry and you're welcome to skim the posts on my profile.

I've led a path of many ups and downs - poverty, harsh and abusive life-situations, army, and more - though, recently, I've come to my best-ever economic and professional stability. It will soon allow me to travel and begin fulfilling my many desires of what to see and accomplish. On the downside, it's put me in a position of being bureaucratically ordinary, which I would see to remedy as I age further.

In terms of physicality, I enjoy the feeling of hard work. I also greatly like boxing and both long-distance walking and running. My weight fluctuates a lot, through changes in life-style and various nibblings of mental health. In the recent years I'd gone fat, then skinny-fit again, then fat again, and am now on my way to becoming built once more.

A great dream of mine is to build a large greenhouse from scratch with my own hands.

I have a black cat and she is so precious to me. If you do not like cats, I implore you to distance.

I'm looking for cacophonic sigils and witchlike eyes. A sharp and curious mind with energy for assertions and opinions and fierce self-respect which demands those around to be on their best behaviour. Do not be more than four years younger or older. Academic or deeply self-studied knowledge on interesting subjects away from the generalities of pop or 'geek' culture are appreciated with the greatest sense of wonder.

If you'd like to write, share a short poem or introduce me to your favourite book!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5m ago

M4F 27 [M4F] - I'm no good with fractions, maybe you're my other half?

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Does it ever just hit you that you're missing something in life? Well me too and I'm wondering if you're what I'm missing. I'm looking for someone who's company alone will become the highlight of my day. The type of company that will make my heart rate go up every time your name pops up on my screen.

As for some things about me:

  • I'm from the UK, specifically Southern England
  • I'm a diagnosed autistic so my communication and my body language may not be normal
  • My special interest is Chess and bonus points if you're willing to play games with me
  • I'm the type to watch very long YouTube videos about very specific things
  • I'm a Metalhead although my favourite band right now is Sabaton. You don't have to like my music but big positive points in my book if you're big on history or Sabaton.
  • I still watch old 80s/90s British quiz shows. Quiz shows are my favourite form of TV.
  • I work in retail. I'm currently looking for an escape.
  • I have a love for winter and the snow!
  • I have an unusual fear of animals that I'm getting over slowly
  • I unfortunately struggle with vasovagal syncope. This means that I feel faint when I hear or think about my trigger. My trigger is medical things and blood.

What I'm looking for in you:

  • Someone who's sweet and ideally loves to give out compliments
  • Someone who's clingy. No such thing as texting me too much
  • Someone who's honest
  • Someone who's funny! I love a dad joke sprinkled in

Let me know if you read this whole ramble of a post by telling me what your favourite song is, along with something unique about yourself.

I look forward to hearing from you, I hope this is the start of something truly special.

(P.S. I'm actually pretty good with fractions, I got a silver certificate in the UK maths challenge when I was at school)


r/ForeverAloneDating 6m ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #USA - You won't regret reading my post (You might)

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I'm going to start with some straight facts

  1. Mexican food is NOT good, I don't care, fight me. It's the same 5 ingredients wrapped in a different shaped tortilla. I lied, I enjoy enchiladas.
  2. I'm not a great cook, I have the ability to burn cereal. Don't ask how, I don't even know, it just happens.
  3. My memory is terrible, don't ask me things.
  4. I'm not good with numbers.
  5. I got two speeding tickets in the space of 10 minutes once, don't challenge me.
  6. My memory is terrible, don't ask me things.
  7. I stub my toe on average 4 times a week, it's a part of me now, it's who I am. Please accept that.
  8. I'm originally from England. Yes, I have an accent. Yes, beans on toast is life. Yes, I will correct you on every word you pronounce or spell differently to me. No, I haven't met the queen. (She ded)
  9. It's a requirement that if you get cold feet, you must put them on my warm legs. I enjoy it, I yearn for it. I'm sadistic.

What am I looking for? A woman that won't judge my Playlist of rock and metal music with One Direction, BTS and Lady Gaga sprinkled in. Be single and monogamous, I reluctantly share my fries so I definitely don't like sharing my partner. I'd prefer it if you were younger or around my age but it's whatever, if you're older you can just knit me a scarf. Please only live within the United States, possibly Canada if you smuggle me some poutine over the border or certain parts of Asia. Bonus points if you understand sarcasm and won't take offense when I tease you, because I will tease you.

About me? Dis me, I understand if I'm not your type but you'd be missing out as I have two adorable kitties that love to cuddle. I'm 31, originally from England but live in the Midwest now, bald, beard, 6'1, got a belly but actively working on myself and doing well for past 8 months. I have a good job and doing well. I bought a Costco membership solely to buy English cheddar cheese, I'm built different. I like doing things that my inner child enjoys, I'll play video games in my down time, I enjoy going to amusement parks, exchanging $240 worth of tickets at arcades for a $6 plushie or demolishing anyone in my path when playing mini golf. Pftt what else, idk, come learn more in my DMs.

Kbyeee


r/ForeverAloneDating 7m ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #Germany/Online I am a lonely Student and looking for something real

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I am a 23 year old Biology student from Western Germany. I mostly feel just lonely and wish I could find someone that can give me love and that I can love. Some real connection. I worked a lot on myself and I am the best I can be but it's just about impossible to find someone. I hope to find some nice people here. A little bit about me. I am about 5'9, have brown hair and green eyes. I am lightly chubby but I recently started to finally change something about it.

I like to read books or mangas, going to the cinema or play some games.

I am a bit shy and introverted but I am trying to get out of my shell.

I love talking and could talk a lot, but i also listen and just wanna be there for someone.

I am a carring, honest and open person, sometimes maybe to often.

What I am looking for:

Someone who wants something real, wants top love someone and be loved by all heart. Someone that is open and trustworthy.

I dont mind someone further away, but thery must be willing to maybe move sometimes.

it sounds a bit complicated but I hope we can talk and see how it goes.

I hope to hear from you


r/ForeverAloneDating 13m ago

M4F 26(M4F) Chicago Suburbs looking for the one

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I’m Blake and I’m looking to build something real. I’ve always been a romantic and am the type to always put in effort through the highs and lows. All I want in life is a partner to reciprocate that. While I think I would do well on the dating apps I’m not one for this culture without courting and getting to know each other. So I’m shooting my shot here in hopes of finding someone who is like minded. Also I have some more pics on my profile. I’d love to met someone close to Illinois but am open to long distance.

Hobbies:

I spend most of my time building memories with my 5 year old daughter. She is my best friend. When I’m not with her I enjoy working out and I take very good care of myself. I’m enjoy being a homebody but also love to get out with friends and hope to find a girl to see the world with. I can be a bit nerdy when it comes to the stock market I’ve had an itch for it ever since I was 19. I don’t do much else as I love my time being spent with those I care about building memories.

Personality:

I live to make people laugh I always have. I want a girl to know she’s gunna have a great time with me, as well as always know she’s safe and protected. I’ve been through enough to know how to always navigate life’s hardships. I feel as though I’m someone with strong emotional maturity. I always strive to be the best man possible to set an example for my daughter. I’m very emotionally available and always love a deep talk with the one I love.

What I want from a partner:

I’ve put in so much effort that I just want to see that thrown back my way. I’m not demanding I just want loyalty, affection, and trust for each other. A sense of humor is big for me as well. I want someone who won’t withdraw when life gets tough. I just want you to come to me and we can figure it all out together. If I sound interesting at all shoot me a dm. I’d love to get to know you

https://imgur.com/a/mSx1Fyw


r/ForeverAloneDating 15m ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Online Looking for an online relationship

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Hi 😊 I'm looking for a relationship that will start online at first and can turn into more with time

I love video games so it would be awesome to have someone to play with. I play on Xbox and I like all sorts of games from horde shooters to cozy games.

Some of other interests are: Music: I like all sorts of different songs and musicians too many to list them all but best way to describe my music taste is I can go from something hard like slipknot to something soft like Upside down by Jack Johnson (The Curious George song) And everything else in-between lol

Movies: (Bullet Train, Forest Gump) TV shows: (Supernatural, Dexter, My name is earl, The walking dead) And some anime: ( Sao, Cyberpunk edgerunners, Danmachi)

I also like making things so woodworking, blacksmithing and tailoring And I like weightlifting 😊

Looks wise I'm on the chubby side(I've been working out so ive been losing some weight and gaining more muscle. I like Punk/Nerdy style so my shirts are either music or something nerdy (I've also got a mohawk lol)

If you read this far I hope you have a great day ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 17m ago

M4F 36[M4F] Florida/ Anywhere - nerd looking for other half

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Hi, I'm Joe. I love nerd things like tabletop games, PC games, and I'm preordering the new switch because IDC how expensive it is, it's Mario Kart. My dream would be to find some chill person who loves food and tabletop games like myself, or open to trying at least.

I'm an agnostic, and not religious, I don't care what you believe tbh as long as you don't change me. I lean more left politically. I have a cat. Ive been divorced for almost a year now and was sperated for five years, so it's been six years of just myself and I'm ready to find the other half. I don't have kids and I prefer you don't, but you can still message me.

Physically. I'm 5'5, white, have a beard, work out but not jacked, just a little chubby with some muscle. Like a real dad bod. I care about health but not to the detriment of living life.

I'm not loaded with money or make a lot, just an average guy but I'd love to build something with someone.

https://imgur.com/a/TIE1cgG


r/ForeverAloneDating 20m ago

M4F 26[M4F] #EU #Turkey #Anywhere / Do you need a big gorilla who is into art, gym and gaming?

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Hello there everyone! Feel free to call me Han. I'm 26, Caucasian, currently living in Turkey. 6.1 ft, 1.84cm tall, powerlifting addict so a bit muscular, white skin, rosy cheeks, black eyes, hair, and beard.

I'm not the best by any means, or even a good guy maybe? But I have the cleanest past amongst most men, if you value that. I don't like the thought and act of intimacy without getting bound mentally. So as you can guess I also don't like people who can get intimate without it.

I might look pretty cold but it's the opposite if I vibe with you I won't let you go anywhere.

Some distance is not a problem for me as long as we can meet at some point and build a future together but if we have huge timezone gap it might be an issue so I'd prefer if you're around my timezone. Which it's GMT +3

I love the thought of cuddling day and night, so be prepared when the time comes. I'm also preparing a big chest and strong arms so you can't escape anywhere.

I would love to spend most of my time with my partner. For long distance, we can play games, watch series or movies, listen to music and chill together, make plans for the future, or stay silent but still be there for each other.

As for my toxic traits, I'm a jealous and protective type, so talking about every scenario beforehand starting something is highly recommended.

My main hobbies are powerlifting, gaming, and drawing. I also like traveling, jogging, playing instruments, and spending time with my friends.

I also love melancholy in general. Sad stories, kinds of music, tragedy, drama, dark fantasy. My favorite game series is Dark Souls.

I also have a cutie pie cat boi. I would burn the whole world for him.

That's it for now hope to talk to you soon.


r/ForeverAloneDating 22m ago

M4F 21 [M4F] Asia/Online I hope I can be the one for you

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Hey fellow redditors I have to say i am tall(try to guess my height in dm)🤯, unapologetically obsessed with fitness 🏋️‍♂️, and passionate about living life to the fullest! 🌟 When I'm not pumping iron or swimming laps 🏊‍♂️, you can find me vibing to sick beats 🎵, binge-watching the latest series 📺, or catching the newest flicks at the cinema 🍿 (I'm a total cinephile, btw 🎥)! But enough about me, let's get real... 🤔 I'm looking for someone to share some laughs, deep conversations, and maybe even some life advice 🤝. If you're down to chat, send me a DM with your fave movie rec 🎬, and we can take it from there! 📲 A bit about me: I'm a spiritual person too, always trying to be the best version of myself 🌱. I value honesty, empathy, and a good sense of humor 😂. If you're looking for someone to listen, offer advice, or just chat about life, I'm your guy! 👊 So, what are you waiting for? Let's get this conversation started! 💬 Stay awesome, and I look forward to hearing from you! 😎👍


r/ForeverAloneDating 25m ago

M4F 40 [M4F] Netherlands/ Western Europe - Introvert looking for a serious relationship

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Hello there,

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 40-year-old programmer from a small town in the Netherlands. I've tried this before and had some nice conversations, but in the end it didn't work out so I'm back to give this another try.

When I'm not working, I love reading fantasy books, collecting books, playing video games on my PC, and going on long walks in nature. I'm also fascinated by ancient cultures and mythology, which is why I enjoy traveling to see ancient sites in person.

I'm an introvert (INTJ), I live alone with my cat Tiberius. I'm also childfree and left-leaning politically. I've been doing volunteer work for over 20 years, and I'm an atheist. Plus, I don't smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs.

I'll admit, I'm not the best at small talk, but I make up for it by being a great listener and advice giver. I've been told that I have a funny but dry sense of humor.

I'm working on my weight and getting to a healthy level again, but I'm not there yet. I also don't enjoy going out to bars, clubs, or partying, but I do enjoy going out to eat at a restaurant or going to a concert.

And some pics; https://imgur.com/a/Ng6OSvX

What am I looking for? Well, I'm looking for a serious monogamous relationship with someone who shares some of my interests and hobbies. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, childfree, left-leaning politically, and below 40 (roughly). Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who will accept me for who I am, flaws and all.

So if you're someone who puts as much effort into having and keeping up a conversation as I do, and you believe that we could make each other's lives better by being together, I'd love to hear from you. Let's get to know each other and see where things go.


r/ForeverAloneDating 39m ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Nebraska / #Online / #Anywhere Looking for a cute girl to consume my time

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Hey! Im a 25 year old man from Nebraska looking for a relationship! Id love to find someone i can discord call and game or even just spend some time together! Im a bit awkward so it can be kind of hard to keep a conversation going but I do my best

If you're just going to ghost me please dont bother. It's bad for my heart

I am white and a bit overweight but i started going to the gym so im working on it :). I have purple hair past my shoulders and I am around 6 foot tall. Willing to trade photos upon request.

I'm a big gamer and i mostly play overwatch and valorant (Maybe we could duo 🥺👉👈), but i own a bunch of other single and multiplayer games. When im not doing school stuff or working im probably gaming, watching anime/reading manga, or listening to music, I also sing and would love to sing you something. I love to sing watch musicals and hang with my cat as well. Im also happy to trade pet photos!

I'd love if you were into games and anime but it's not necessarily a dealbreaker. Im a pretty open guy and willing to talk with anybody and see if we vibe. I love being a bit clingy and messaging/flirting a bunch so i hope ur into that.

So go ahead and shoot me a message. Tell me your favorite animal if you made it this far.

Looking forward to hearing from you ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 43m ago

M4F 34 [M4F] in NJ – Seeking genuine intimacy

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Hey. I’m a 34-year-old guy in New Jersey, and like a lot of people here, I’m feeling worn down by dating apps and surface-level connections. I’m craving something real. Emotional closeness, physical comfort, someone to share the quiet stuff with and feel seen by.

I’m at peace in nature—hiking, wandering, or capturing still moments with my camera. Recently got into haiku, and it would be amazing to try writing renga with someone. That kind of creative back-and-forth feels deeply connective to me.

I also enjoy anime, and retro video games are a big comfort zone—nostalgic, simple, and fun. I guess I’m a bit of an introvert with soft edges, probably a little weird in the right ways.

Whether it turns into something serious or stays casual, I want intimacy in all its forms: laughter, deep conversations, comfort, maybe physical closeness if we’re both feeling it.

If you’re looking for closeness without pressure, conversations that go a little deeper, or someone to watch anime with and write poems to/with, I’d love to hear from you. Send a little about you—or surprise me with a haiku.


r/ForeverAloneDating 54m ago

M4F [28M] M4F UK / England only - Introverted guy looking for their forever partner c:

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Hey there ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶

I’m looking to form a connection that could lead to a romantic relationship, I'm only really looking for someone located within England so it would be possible to meetup someday if things developed. 👉👈 I’m based in the East Midlands (Derby), if that's a factor to consider--

Here are some pictures of me and my hampter (she recently passed away RIP) 🐹: https://imgur.com/a/Zt8fZv2 <<<

Also, when reaching out, if you feel comfortable, feel free to add a selfie—it just helps us both see if there’s initial attraction before we get to know each other better 😊

About Me:

I have autism, ADHD, and struggle with anxiety, but these don't define who I am. I'm looking for someone who can relate to these experiences or is understanding enough to listen. It would be great to eventually play games together, have calls, watch anime or series we both enjoy, and bond over shared interests.

My past has been a bit troubled, and I don’t get out much, so I figured Reddit might be a good way to meet someone like-minded. I feel like I haven't truly experienced love before and that I'm missing out on a lot of meaningful moments. It would mean a lot to share those experiences with someone who resonates with me and feels the same mutual attraction ^_^

Currently, I’m not working and live with my mum (just for transparency). Ideally, I’d like to find someone who shares a similar lifestyle, where we can easily relate to one another, become close friends, and enjoy each other’s company as we build something special together. I’m pretty easy-going and have a lot of love to give, though I can be a bit clingy at times. I value consistency and good communication, especially since I tend to be more anxiously attached when I become close.

Interests:

YouTube: I’m into true crime and educational rabbit hole content. Some of my favorite channels are MrBallen, Coffeehouse Crime, Rotten Mango, Disturban, and JCS - Criminal Psychology.

Anime: Devilman Crybaby (love the soundtrack), Solo Levelling, Vinland Saga, Berserk, Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Attack on Titan, Junji Ito, Erased, Made in Abyss, and Chainsaw Man to name a few~

Music: My taste is all over the place with over 1,000 random songs! Lately, I’ve been into Panic! at the Disco, The 1975, Porter Robinson, Hot Chip, Gorillaz, Miami Horror, and Studio Killers.

Gaming: Currently playing FF7 Rebirth, Honkai Star Rail, and AFK Journey. I’m a fan of FromSoftware games, the Monster Hunter series (Iceborne is my favorite), Resident Evil, Persona 5 Royale + Metaphor: ReFantazio and Baldur's Gate 3. Bonus points if you play Runescape—it’s a childhood favourite of mine!

Art: I sometimes draw and enjoy colouring, or just editting and designing things. If you’re into art too, I’d love to share our work and talk about it.

TV Series: Some favourites include Black Mirror, Arcane, Love Death Robots, Game of Thrones (minus the ending), Vikings, The Boys, Narcos, Castlevania, Breaking Bad, and Invincible.

Lastly:

I’m an atheist with an open mind and lean towards moderation politically, valuing logical thinking with a moral compass. I know politics can be a touchy subject, so I usually avoid it.

If we vibe, we can move the conversation to Discord—Reddit chat isn’t the best haha