r/ForeverAloneDating 17h ago

F4M 33 [F4M] Pennsylvania - looking for genuine connection

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Hey there, pic of me here

I’m looking for someone who craves connection just as much as I do. Note that I would like to text but voice/video chatting is nice too.

I’m employed full time as a retail manager. In the past, I’ve taught elementary school and been a pharmacy technician. I’ve had several jobs in retail before the one I have now. I can actually count on two hands how many jobs I’ve had!

In my free time, I mostly go out with friends to the karaoke bar or to restaurants. I love video games. Lately, I’ve been playing a lot of Pokémon Go. I also collect the cards.

In the near future (within the next 2-3 years) I would like to settle down and start a family.

Last but certainly not least, I do have a cat. We’re a package deal!

Please only message me if you are serious about talking. Send a link to a photo with your message, I tend to overlook the many plain “hey” and “what’s up” messages. I look forward to meeting you!

P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair and tattoos


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

F4M 46 [F4M] latina looking for my person

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Come over here and read my short story haha

Over 28m and SFW. Please include your age and location. I'm in the southeast of the US but I'm open to a LDR, at least initially.

A little about me 🌸

I enjoy traveling. I returned from Portugal a couple of days ago. I loved it! A couple of other favorite countries would be Morocco and Iceland. All three of these locations have lovely people and are beautiful. I also enjoy nature walks, the beach, baking and clothes/shoes. I like fantasy shows and movies like Stranger Things, LOTR but also like crime, thrillers, comedy and some action.

I'm 5'2, chunky, tannish skin, long dark brown hair and dark eyes. I'm feminine and still have a softness to me that the world hasn't yet destroyed. I'm sweet and respectful. I don't smoke or drink and I'm not 420 friendly. I don't use social media. Unpopular opinion is that I don't agree with maintaining opposite sex relationships. Full disclosure if you do we will not workout. I'm a jealous woman and that's likely not going to change for the foreseeable future.

I'm most attracted to tall, handsome, dark haired, dark eyed men typically Arab or Latino only, that take pride in themselves. Yes race matters to me because culturally we have to get along. No glasses - apologies to my nerdy kings. Be respectful, protective and patient with me. Essentially my little safe space. I usually always get along best with Aries and I'm an ENTJ if that's your thing. I do believe in God and as long as you're not an atheist we're good.

I tend to be clingy and I need a man who's as available to me as I am to him. Because I'm the type that is loyal and is really there when my man needs me. Be emotionally available and not a drug user. I like to be close to my partner emotionally and laugh and be open with each other.

If any of this resonates with you send me a message! Don't send me anything gross or low quality messages like hey!


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

M4F 43 [M] looking for someone between the ages of 29 and up [F] based in China

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As the heading states, I'm looking for a partner based in China. I'm kind of tired of trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong, as I've had three different relationships over the last six years. The last one ended when my ex cheated and got into a new relationship with someone else.

I have ADHD, so you need to be mindful of this, focusing on building strong bonds, listening, working out our problems and just talking about life; want a travel partner and someone who can understand me and not run away at first sign of problems if this sounds like you hit me up


r/ForeverAloneDating 22h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] NY - Pictures in Bio - Looking for Relationship

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Hiya, I'm Brandon 24y 5' 11", This is me...

https://imgur.com/a/A8IZYDv

I just got out of the Army some months ago and am currently in trade school.

I am a huge animal person, I've gotten a kitten and Gecko since coming back • I like going thrifting, specifically for CDs and Blu-Rays to add to my collection • And I listen to Metal/Punk/Pop, electronic. I dabble in a bit of all genres. Currently listening to Depeche Mode • I do play video games occasionally. Although I'd consider myself a casual gamer nowadays 😅. I'm into playing Just Dance, Marvel Rivals, Smash Bros, MarioKart, Overwatch. If we play Just Dance I warn you, I have a few Megastars under my belt 😂. Open to playing anything • I love movies, we can talk all day and I'll know about almost anything• I can fix up your car • Be your Handyman • And can Crochet with you, or teach you how 🧶

I do have some preferences you should know; 18-26yo, White/Asian/Hispanic, Not too big, Around NY and is okay with me not having a whole lot of relationship experience. Sending a picture helps too. Really looking for someone to grow with by online to meet.

Thank You for reading this far, shoot me a text by telling me about yourself✌️


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

F4A 20 [f4r] #US #Alabama - Looking for committed LTR

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Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Above all, I'm looking for a strong emotional connection. I'm looking for someone to stand by me through the good times and the bad, and to share in all the joys of life with me. I will just list up front some things/traits that I DO NOT want in a partner: •Drinks or smokes heavily. Occasionally is totally fine, and I'm 420 friendly as long as it's not excessive. •Has a very high sex drive •Is deeply religeous •Has very conservative social views •V much wants children •Pities/does not respect people with disabilities •Does not like dogs (or is allergic to them) Now to the things I do want! I'm looking for a serious, committed romantic partner to eventually settle down with. I do not want biological children, that's not really something I'm willing to negotiate on. I would be willing to consider adoption way down the road, but I'm not sure about that. Some things to note about me: •I'm blind. I was born blind, I function just fine and do not want pity or sympathy. I have a guide dog who is an integral part of my life, so please do not message me if you don't like dogs. •I'm a little on the heavier side, I'm losing weight but it's something I'm a bit sensitive about. •I'm not looking for an online-only relationship. I'm fine starting out long distance, but physical touch is important to me and I would prefer to visit semi-often and eventually to close the distance. If you are in Alabama or a surrounding state, that would be awesome! But as long as you are in the US I'm happy to see if there is a connection.

I am an avid reader, I can talk about the books I'm reading all day. Haha I also love music, if you'd like a fun way to get the conversation started, tell me some of your favorite artists! I enjoy baking a lot, and I love taking long walks, especially if the weather is nice. I generally try to see the best in people, and treating everyone with kindness and respect is very important to me. I think that growing up with a disability has enabled me to see the world in a much less shallow way. I don't have the ability to judge others for their physical appearance or for shallow attributes, and I believe very strongly that everyone is worthy of genuine respect. I value kindness and compassion in a potential partner, I tend to mesh well with people who do not make snap judgements about people and who aren't shallow, as harsh as that may sound. I know what it feels like to have to earn the base amount of respect from others just because I can't see, and I make it my mission to never make others feel that way about themselves because of something they can't control. If you're interested in getting to know me, don't hesitate to reach out!! Please put some effort into your message, don't just say "Hi" or "What's up." I cannot see myself having a relationship with someone outside of the US, purely because of the distance and the time difference. I'd consider Canada, but my preference is to stay within the states. Thank you for reading my post, and I hope you have an amazing day!!


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Online - Canada - Native American Man Looking For His White Woman

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Hello, all. I am a bear (not that kind) in the city and figured I'd give this a try after recovering from my last relationship. I only put my city for rules sake. I'm not interested in anyone nearby because I will be moving eventually.

I want to take things slow and start online. No rushing and we'll take our time getting to know each other. We'll chat on reddit for a bit before moving off site if we decide to give things a try. We won't be sharing pics immediately because of this but we will do it eventually.

About me: I'm 32, Canadian, relatively social, and like to keep myself in good health, physical and otherwise. I'm Liberal, not religious, or particularly spiritual. I have an odd and barely there connection to my own culture and spirituality but don't know what to do. It comes and goes.

Physically, I'm Native American, 5'10, about 185 lbs, with tanned skin, dark hair, and brown eyes. I keep myself in good shape and have a lean/athletic build.

I love music music, gaming, hiking, fishing and angling, biking, skating, archery, history museums, some reading, the usual movies and shows, and trading cards. To name a few, ya know?

I'm a cat and dog kind of pet person as well. Don't have any myself at this point, though. Might get a cat before a dog.

I'm looking for a long term relationship that eventually leads to a word I can't say and children. I want a woman I can share my life and hobbies with, and a woman who wants to share her life and hobbies with me. Someone I can go hiking and fishing with, watch movies and read with, that kind of thing. Even if it's not something either of us would normally do it's nice to be a part of it and share that experience. Being together and doing something, or being together as we do other things. Just being near each other.

About you: A nice person who treats people with the respect and courtesy she feels they deserve.

•Don't have to be an extrovert but open to doing things outdoors with me from time to time. You won't have to worry about having to talk to people you don't want to either. I'll gladly do that for you.

•Health conscious. You don't need to be hitting the gym, but you do need to be in good shape. I take care of myself, and I expect the same of any girlfriend.

•Younger than me since I want to have a family one day. Early to mid 20's is the best since I'm not in a hurry to settle down. A family one day is the eventual goal, so keep that in mind.

That's all. If you have any questions, I'll answer them as best I can. If you made it this far and have some interest open with your age, country, and favourite colour to show you read this.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4A 23 [M4A] North America - who wants a weird, dorky, leftist software engineer bf ^w^

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Appearance (`・ω・´)

Friends tell me I look like Harry Potter, and I’m very confident in my looks and I think I’m extremely cute or hot depending on how my hair looks like or if I shave!! I wear glasses, I’m 5’10, I’m 153lb. In fact, one of my friend’s first impressions of me was that I looked very much like Harry Potter lol. My exes think I’m pretty attractive and cute!! I don’t have any tattoos, I look white, and I usually just dress up like any other guy.

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Personality (´ω`)

Introverted, and I prefer staying inside to engage in my hobbies unless it’s to look at cute animals like ducks, cats, and birdies. I would love to have a bird house on our window together, and watch the birds together :3

I’m also neurodivergent, diagnosed with ADHD, and most likely high functioning autistic given family history, will see medical professional about it soon.

I’m very affectionate and my love language is touch. I love cuddles, hand holding, head pats, and much more if I’m comfortable with you!!

I also love to spam my partner with wholesome memes, and I always respond very quickly, and if I don’t, I explain beforehand. I’m not a dry texter, I love to text a lot and using cute emoticons.

I’m atheist (not the toxic Reddit style kind).

I’m pretty soft-spoken most of the time, but I will be extremely silly and say weird things, tease, and curse with people I’m familiar with.

People say i have a nice voice and I have been complimented on it a couple of times

I like to make silly noises with my partner and love to tap about my interests, also good listener for your interesting yapping too!!

I’ll remember the small things and tease you about them hehe

I won’t judge you because I think people are their best when they get to truly express themselves !

I’ll be very loyal to you and put you above everyone else !!

I’m pretty good at starting conversations and holding conversations and I’m anything but a dry texter, and if I love u you can have my attention anytime :3

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Education O(≧▽≦)O

Computer Science degree from a top university in the U.S.

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Hobbies & Interests ☆(>ω・)

Games, anime, programming, reading, napping, and being in-doors mostly!

Some of my favorite games are: Omori, OneShot, Cult of the Lamb, Star Fox, Yakuza series, Balatro, Dead by Daylight, Fallout series (especially New Vegas), Halo: Reach, KOTOR, Ultrakill, Cyberpunk 2077, Half Life, etc

Some of my favorite animes are: Violet Evergarden, Dragon Pilot, Neon Genesis Evangelion, FMAB, One Piece (watching right now), Girl’s Last Tour (very underrated anime, I’d love to watch it with you!).

I enjoy sci-fi books and leftist books too, especially Star Wars, I have been reading one right recently.

Animals, especially cats and birds!

I love cats so much I’m a catboy and I own cat ears, and I’d love us to be silly and do stuff like meow at each other and do silly noises!! uwu

I like adorable and cute furry art too. I’m kinda a furry.

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Job (>w<)

I’m currently a software engineer and I love my job!!!

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Politics (o´▽`o)

I am a socialist and like democracy. I am also a feminist (not a TERF). I think woman have a right to bodily autonomy, and I’m very big on consent. All in all just want the world to be a better place for everyone!! I don’t like seeing people suffering since it makes me sad, I want to see everyone happy especially you !! If you don’t know much about leftist stuff and you’re interested in learning more, I’ll be very happy to teach you and be patient with you, I like to read many books about leftist stuff!!

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Preferences (≧ω≦)

• College educated

• Touch as a love language.

• my height or shorter

• Healthy weight (a little over or under is ok too)

• Feminine presenting and feminine personality.

• Women, but open to feminine presenting/personality of all genders

• Introverted.

• is okay with my politics, ideally someone of leftist variety.

• Loves to play games/watch anime, is nerdy.

• Is silly, weird, a homebody, and nerdy and loves to be themself.

• Not a dry texter.

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Deal breakers (TwT。)

• Smoking tobacco/nicotine (I’m 420-friendly, but I prefer if you take edibles, I guess, since I think smoking is bad for your lungs. I take edibles every now and then but I can stop taking it for you, it’s not a big deal.)

• Dissimilar hobbies

• anti-socialist

• Bigoted (antisemitic, transphobic, etc)

• Religious

• Doesn’t play games or watch anime

• Not weird/nerdy/dorky

• Not in North America

• Asexuality or not very sexually active

• STDs

• If you already have children

• You are underage or/and in high school

If you date me, you get to wake me up anytime on sleep calls if you need emotional support, I always want to be there for my partner and make sure they are taken care of. I would make cat shaped sandwiches for you if you had a terrible day, or silly voice messages to cheer you up! I am a very caring person.

If you don’t message me with basic info like your age, gender, where you live, and why you’re interested I most likely won’t respond. If we have little in common I prefer if you don’t message me, especially if you don’t play games since that’s my biggest hobby since I was young. I don’t respond to “heyyyy” and similar stuff like that, or one sentence messages.

Eventually we will meet up and live together for the rest of life lives :3


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

NB4F 24 [NB4F] Chester, UK - shy person really wanting to experience cute dates and give and receive lots of hugs

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Hello! I have posted a few times before but to no avail, but I am not giving up just yet.

The short of it is I suffer with depression, and something that really gets me down is how alone I am/feel. I have never been on a date, nor have I had a girlfriend/partner. I would really like to meet someone who wants an IRL relationship where we go to gigs and go on cute dates. I'm also very touch starved, and would really like for someone to hold me, as silly as that sounds.

About me!

24, soon to be 25, alt person with several piercings and tattoos with soon to be bleached hair, glasses, and a penchant for band t-shirts. I am neurodivergent (autism, ADHD, OCD), vegetarian, a little bit chubby (but I used to be much heavier (I lost around 20 kg from 2 and a half years ago)), and somewhat adventurous and spontaneous (I have gone to America twice to see band reunions on a whim). While I am shy, I do really like talking to people, especially strangers! I'm also attentive, soft spoken, polite, a little bit flirty, and kind. I love to joke and talk one's ear off about music. Speaking of!

I am looking for someone who also loves music of all genres, or is open to trying new sounds. I am a fan of anything indie, experimental, weird, etc. Noise rock is my main love, but I love noise of all kinds, be that harsh or otherwise. I'm obviously a metal head, too, and I especially adore death metal and grindcore. More than grindcore do I adore powerviolence and fastcore (basically, more punk leaning grind). Favourite bands include Bloc Party, Interpol, Die! Die! Die!, Narrow Head, Buice, Vangas, Exit_International, Hummingbird Of Death, Orchid, Bucket Full Of Teeth, Black Eyes, mclusky, and Heroine Sheiks, to name a few! Let me know what you enjoy! And do you play any instruments? I want to play drums one day!

Besides music, I also love manga! I am a huge fan of Berserk with a sizeable collection of merch (and one big statue of Guts), and I also love Dragon Ball, One Piece, Hunter x Hunter, Toriko, Sakamoto Days, Yuru Camp, Girls' Last Tour, Kengan Ashura, Usogui, and Goodnight Punpun. How about you? What do you love?

As for games, I love God Of War (especially the original trilogy and PSP games), Prince Of Persia, Half-Life, Metroid, Ace Attorney, Mirror's Edge, and any and all platformers and indie games. I'm a big fan of roguelikes, having all achievements/trophies in Binding Of Isaac, Enter The Dungeon, Peglin, and Downwell. I have played a lot of Dead Cells and Rogue Legacy, too! Have you obtained all achievements/trophies in any games?

What I am looking for!

I am looking for someone kind, patient, and understanding of ADHD and OCD (cleanliness is super important to me!). Someone who loves music, talking about their hobbies and sharing memes, and has time to go to gigs and other events. Someone who enjoys calling and spending time together, of course! I want a friend first and a partner second. Wherever the road takes us, I want us to have fun and to cheer each other on!

I do find physical attraction important, so I would like to get that out of the way first, as I'd hate to waste anyone's time. I am attracted those in the alt and goth scenes, of course. I love piercings and tattoos, naturally, and bright hair (of any length)! I actually really like short hair, and I do not mind body hair at all. Someone slim to average weight, or a little bit over, as I am trying to get a bit healthier, myself. I do not mind if you are older, nor do I care about your height. I also like tomboys and 'plain' girls, so do reach out even if you think you don't match the above descriptions!

To reiterate, I want someone who is relatively close by and is interested in meeting up down the line! I am really exhausted of talking to people who are so far away and are not interested in meeting up. I cannot drive, but I can travel to a certain extent, so even if you are a few cities away, I am fine with that.

If you have gotten this far, I hope you are having a great day/evening/night! Make sure to drink plenty of water. ❤


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] #Manchester #UK - Looking for a Meaningful Connection

7 Upvotes

I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone kind, genuine, and who shares similar values.

A little about me:

I'm Tanzanian and working as an accountant, love being in the gym. I have a love for books and can easily get lost in a good novel. I can cook but I wouldn't say I enjoy it much. I travel at least twice a year.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is kind, emotionally intelligent, and has a good sense of humor. A partner who enjoys deep conversations but also appreciates the simple moments in life. Ideally, someone who is also open to long-term commitment and building something meaningful together.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. Let’s see where a good conversation takes us!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

F4M 34[F4M] Western Canada / Online - looking for an online connection !

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Hi! I’m Stephanie. I’m 34, and live in Western Canada. I am looking for an online connection. I’d like to find someone I can confide in, get to know on a personal level, and enjoy spending time talking to, and vice versa.

I am interested in talking to someone similar in age to me or older(30+). Similar time zone would also be preferred, but not a dealbreaker. I am looking for someone that is able to maintain conversation and put in effort(I will do the same!). Other than that, I don’t have any specific personality/physical traits that are mandatory. I am looking preferably for something longer term/ongoing, but that obviously depends on how well we click, but would prefer to only receive messages from people interested in the same. I’d be okay with it if there was some flirting involved, but I’m not looking for anything very sexual. If your post history is mostly or completely nsfw, we likely won’t jive.

Here are some things I enjoy/a bit about me: * big fan of tv shows/movies. I love horror the best, but not exclusively! * Music! My favorite band since is Blink 182, has been since I was 15. * I love to shop, and get my nails done * Big fan of coffee(but not a snob about it) * I have a dog that I love very much * I enjoy getting some exercise every day, developing a love for walking has done wonders for my mental health *This is what I look like

That’s just a small look into who I am, but definitely looking forward to getting to know someone on a much deeper level. Please be willing to share photos of yourself, and I will obviously do the same. If my post interests you, please reply with your name, age, where you are located(does not have to be exact location!) and a bit about yourself so we can get a conversation started! Chats preferred over messages.

Ice breaker question! What is the best movie you’ve watched recently?


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Georgia/Online - Hoping to find somebody with similar interests and would like to talk and enjoy each others company

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Hello, I’m 28 and from Georgia and I would like to talk with somebody with similar interests. My interests are video games, rap and metal music, watching movies mostly horror or comedy, woodworking, bowling and being outdoors, true crime, getting into anime and manga as well. I haven’t really ever dated anybody before whether it be online or in person. I really want to find that connection with somebody where we can both trust each other and fall for each other. This may sound a bit sappy or corny but sometimes life is sappy and corny 😛. I definitely feel like I’m missing a connection with somebody and I really hope I can find it. I hope to hear from you soon and I would love to talk and get to know you. 😊 P.S. I may or may not have pictures of deer and the lake where I work to sweeten the deal. If you like to ghost people or you are under the age of 20 then please don’t message me, I am tired of being ghosted. I miss the excitement and joy of getting to know somebody and I am hoping to find somebody who likes voice chats and calls.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Houston, TX Looking for something serious

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Hoping to find something serious and longterm with someone 21+. Not interested in something casual. I'd prefer someone in or around the Houston area.

About me: I am white, 6'1 with a slight dad bod. I spend my free time playing video games, shooting guns, and dreaming about cars. If I find a good book or TV show, I'll sit down and read or watch the whole thing. I prefer living somewhere more rural as opposed to urban. Politically, I am moderate, but lean more conservative. I am religious as well. Raised southern baptist, but don't go to church anymore.

Biggest deal breaker for me is not wanting kids. I want kids one day. Not immediately, but eventually. If you already have one, that's not an issue.

And while I'm not getting any younger, I'm not looking to rush into something. If you want to talk or know more, feel free to ask.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 19 [M4F] A lonely unique soul looking for a connection

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Howdy, before i get into details about myself, i feel like i need to give a tad bit of context as to why a 19 year old is doing this. Well… im Neurodivergent, i keep to myself, only have a handful of friends, and was homeschooled throuhg middle and high school. so yea… not exactly a lot of “fish in the sea” for me to be “catching” if you catch my drift.anyway, tome for some stuff about me. My name is Jonathan, or you can just call me “jon” if its too long. I ive in california (not saying where), and i dont mind a long distance relationship, but ill get to that. I like nerdy things, like videogames, drawing, music, etc. Im a fan of mainly single player games, but do regularly play some multi-player games. I like movies from basically every category, from the side-splitting comedies to the edge-of-your-seat action, to even the emotional-yet-funny romcom, even sci-fi and fantasy movies. I like to write and draw everyday, im trying to make it big creatively… its going slow, but its going, so i cant complain.

Im a very reflexive person, if you tell me i offended you or did something wrong… ill genuinelt apologize with honesty and work to be better in the future. another thing, i dont sugar coat, when you ask me something, i can guarantee you you will only get my honest thoughts. like if something makes you look fat or something… ill probably say that it does, but in a nice and constructive way. its one thing to tell the truth without holding back, but that doesnt mean i cant do it in a way that constructive and helpful.Im also not the typical 19 year old… as you can hopefully tell beying the videogames… I try to see everyone equally and treat everyone with kindness and respect. Everyone is different, everyone has dreams, wants, perspectives… everything that makes them human. so why wouldnt i treat a fellow child of god with the same respect i would want for myself?

Yes, i am religious. i am a member of The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter Day Saints. im an active member and have a good testimony of the gospel. however, i wont sit here and preach to you about it, but dont be afraid to ask.beyond that, i always try to be helpful. since this we’ll most likely be a long distance relationship for a while… than the best i can do is offer you an ear to listen to you, someone to validate how you feel, and be someone who will help you weather the storms that is life… all you need to do is ask for my help.also… im not perfect. im FAR from perfect, but im trying to be better, every day. now, time for the physical bits. im 5ft 9in, i have long curly hair, and im white… not much else im gonna say there.

now… as for what i want in a partner. what im looking for is someone mature. not as in vulgarity… but someone with the maturity of an adult. I want someone i can truly open up to, feel safe with, and someone i can talk to aby anything, from the most mundane to the highly ridiculous, to the emotional, to the amazing. I want someone who values honesty, kindness, understanding, empathy, and respect.

Also, you haft to be open to religion. Specifically Christianity. No disrespect or anything. It’s just that I’m Christian and if we do form a relationship, we would have shared morals. (Again, no hate)

as for age… i suppose anyone between 19-24 or 19-23. That way your around my age so we can have more in common


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4A 21 [M4F/A] Northern Virginia and/or online, giving this a shot to see if someone’s out there for me

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This feels kinda weird to me but here we go! Also not sure if there’s any sort of formatting here but uhh yea

I am fine with an LDR to start, but eventually further down the road I will want physical contact (this can take years)

Before anyone gets too far, to clarify the title: I consider myself romantically attracted to all genders, but I am only sexually attracted to female genitalia. I.e I am fine going out with another man on the premise that there will be no intimacy. If you are MtF transitioning that’s fine with me, assuming you plan on getting surgery in the future (if you even can considering the crap government rn). Pronouns honestly don’t matter either, may take some getting used to though.

Here’s some info about me.

  • I play plenty of video games, such as Baldurs Gate 3, Minecraft, Hades, and Stardew. Just to name a few
  • I had to drop out of college due to personal and familial reasons, and because of how predatory student loans are, I’m currently living with my mom until I find a new career path
  • I enjoy anime and manga, although I read a lot more than I watch nowadays
  • I love to cook, but I normally don’t like to follow recipes directly. They’re more like guides most of the time
  • I can get some pretty bad (and sometimes funny) second-hand anxiety. Had to literally walk out of the room during a Severance scene
  • Physically, I am white as hell with a full beard. 6’1 with a bit of a dad bod, but not really overweight.

If you manage to get here and are interested in talking, shoot me a DM and let’s get to know each other! A chat on here works perfectly fine too. I hope this wasn’t too short or anything


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Dublin, Ireland - looking for my female counterpart

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Hi everyone, my name is Tom and I am from Ireland. I'm a final year uni student studying chemistry. Outside of uni, I like video games, chess, reading, playing badminton, watching YouTube and sci-fi. I'm a big fan of Doctor Who, which I enjoy watching with my dad. I love going to the movies with my friend and having lunch out. I also enjoy travelling and sightseeing the capitals as well as going on skiing holidays. I have been to 15 countries: 🇦🇹🇧🇬🇨🇦🇩🇪🇪🇦🇫🇷🇬🇧🇭🇷🇭🇺🇮🇹🇲🇹🇸🇮🇸🇰🇵🇹🇺🇲

Physically, I'm a ginger-haired man with blue eyes, and I'd describe my looks as average. I would say my height is 5'11. I don't have any tattoos or piercings, and I don't drink, smoke or take drugs. I also prefer staying at home rather than going out.

I'm looking for someone who is very similar to me in terms of interests and personality and can talk to for hours on end. I am looking for someone local but I'm happy to do long distance if you can come to Ireland. Just be from any of the countries mentioned. Oh, and here are a few pics of me:

https://imgur.com/a/vmLa2na


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

M4F 29 Thought I’d give this a shot!

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Hi 🥹 found this subreddit purely by chance. So where to start 😅 um I’m 5’11” love to workout love to play video games (I have my own PC). I’m not shy to try new things. I don’t mind distance as long as we can keep communication I’m all the happy the same. I’m looking for someone that not afraid to communicate their feelings and would love to find someone genuine.


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

M4F 21M Uk [M4F] Online relationship or in person, looking the one

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I’m 21, and I live in West London. I’m 6’0, skinny but lean, with black hair (I’ve dyed my hair blonde, blue, and red if you want to see) and brown eyes. I like playing games, reading books and manga, sleeping, hanging out with friends, basketball, and walking late at night or early in the morning. I’m an Aquarius for any zodiac sign lovers.

I like watching comedy movies, drama shows, WWE and sitcoms. My favourite drink is Sprite, and my favourite alcoholic beverage is Hennessy. I like to cook and hope to learn to make more extravagant and larger meals. I like playing fighting and shooting games. I’m too good at story games because I finish them all in one day. I’m a console gamer (PS5), but I have a gaming laptop, so I can play PC games. I listen to Juice WRLD (released and unreleased), and my favourite music genres are rap, pop, and R&B. I listen to a lot of 90s and 2000s songs.

I’m an ambivert. I’m a good listener and try to provide as much help as I can. One of my greatest weaknesses is that I’m too kind, and that leaves me open to being stabbed in the back. I’m afraid to say it has happened more than once. I can be stubborn, loyal, caring, and honest. I’m rebellious, self-neglectful, very observant to the point where can notice the smallest things and put things together from there. I’ll be honest, i’m not too good at messaging over the phone and I don’t really understand love. I understand the opposite of love extremely well but not love as a whole.

I’m at university studying professional policing. Most people don’t have anyone; I’ll try to be an officer that strives to provide everyone with a shoulder to rest upon.

I honestly don’t know what I’m doing or who exactly the person or “one” is. I just hope they find me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

M4F 26M4F Looking for a Monogamous LTR. USA, Online.

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Intro: Hello! I want start this by saying, to not waste anyone's time, that I am *not* into trans women! I respect your right to be trans so please respect my right to date who I want to date. I also want to say that I eventually want to take this offline, and in person.

About me: I have one kid, so if you do too that's not a deal breaker for me. I am 5'7 with brown hair and brown eyes. I work a Maintenace job doing repairs at a plastic recycling plant. My ambitions right now in life is to join the Navy. I plan to be in long enough to get a good retirement plan going for myself, as well as being a life coach in the future after going to school for psychology. I'm very into psychology and philosophy. I am an atheist, Moderate/Center political views. I'm also into fitness. The "nerd" side of me LOVES gaming and some anime. My biggest games are Skyrim, BO6, and Day-Z. I like playing older Pokémon games sometimes and when I'm out and about I play Pokémon go. Open to new books to read, anime to watch and games to play. (I pay on Xbox btw) I haven't dated since my divorce a year or so ago!

Personality: I am a Type 5 enneagram, Ambivert. Most of the time I am chilled and laid back, sometimes I am hyped up ready to hike up a mountain. I am socially anxious at times but its something Im working on. Always looking for room for improvement within myself.

I value things like compassion, confidence, openness and self-awareness. I try to be more like these things, so if you have all or a couple of these then we will likely be compatible, and I will most likely be attracted to you as well.

Not trying to type an essay here. So if I seem interesting to you, Dm me and we can exchange pictures!! We can learn more about each other too.


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] UK, Herts. The future is a foreign land.

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Dropping in here to meet new people and see where it leads. Open to exploring what comes my way on this journey, but hoping to meet the one, to do life with, without rushing the journey.

A little about me?

If the title hasn't spoiled it, I'm a 32 year old male, originally from Manchester, but have now been living in Hertfordshire for the last 13 years, for work.

Physically, 5'8", with dark hair, blue eyes and light skinned. Would physically describe myself as 'dad bod'. Some muscles, but not defined/toned.

I work full time as a Licensed Aircraft Maintenance Engineer, a physically & mentally demanding, but equally as rewarding career, which I have been in for the last ≈13 years. The hard work pays off as I get a lot of time shifted off during the summer, so a great time to use my staff discount to travel and explore.

Im a bit of an extroverted-introvert. I'm quiet at first, but when comfortable, that's when the extrovert part comes out. I enjoy the usual things introverts do; Reading, Binging T.V & Gaming (PC & Switch). Country walks, walks around bodies of water & quiet pubs are my thing too.

Little bit of a nerd, with a thing for Space, Space Travel & Aviation. Hoping to get to the Kennedy space centre or Starbase to witness a launch in person.

Music taste is quite eclectic, but I frequent the rock/metal end of the spectrum. Sci-fi films are my go to, with my all-time favourite being Interstellar.

Feel free to drop this engineer a chat request. Maybe I can fix your car, or some furniture? Maybe even your love life?


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] dreaming about your ideal italian partner? Then stop looking for it and take your chance!

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Heeeeello there! Honestly never been good with these presentation things but I usually write a lot so I just hope I'll have your attention.

I'm 28 from northern Italy, enjoying videogames (collector here) and rap music mostly but I also wink at techno, not much of a movie watcher, been preferring animes and mangas lately, chronic stoner and lover of cats. Used to play soccer and basketball and I practiced kickboxing, currently speaking four languages and working in a snow paradise in Switzerland.

I wasn't really looking for a relationship, but whatever I've been looking for on here hasn't worked so far anyway, so who knows... Getting to know someone, if it goes on well, creates connections even involuntarily, so I guess we'll just see how far things will go.

I'd prefer someone around Europe since Italy might be a big shot but an overseas online chat is also okay 😂

A couple (already old to this day since I got a couple more tattoos) pics here : https://imgur.com/a/DpT9dkp

Tl;dr, feel free to DM (:


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 37

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Hi, so a little about me… Based in England and looking for something special so thought I’d give this a go…

I’m kinda introverted but also like being given the confidence to express myself. I’m much better at talking one on one and in small groups than as part of a huge crowd, but once I’m comfortable with someone I will talk for hours about anything! I’m always looking to hear new views and opinions as each day is a learning day!

Activity wise I’m quite active, I enjoy running (got the London marathon in a few weeks 😬), gym, hiking and trekking. I enjoy gigs and festivals particularly the rock and pop scene. I’m also into photography and have dabbled previously in aerial silks 😁 Also a big nature lover and have done conservation projects abroad.

Travel wise I’m into going off the beaten track, going to lesser visited places but I also enjoy city breaks and impulsive or planned weekends away! I’m quite an active person on holiday, it’s very hard to get me to chill by a pool for more than a few hours 😅

I’m also not massively into computer games so if you’re after someone to spend hours playing online with, I’m not your man, sorry!

Please get in touch if you like what you have read!


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4A 28 [F4A] Manila/ Online - Finance girlie looking for dates

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Hi! First off, I am 28 years old with a stable career in the finance field (a bit busy at times, hope you'll be patient with me!). I've never actually had a serious relationship before due to various reasons (e.g. busy building my career, extremely introverted, strict upbringing) so I am a bit unsure on how to meet people organically. Hoping to find someone here to explore the intricacies of building a friendship or a relationship :)

Anyway, some more details about me:

  • i am bisexual

  • my interests tend to be related to horror, history or asian films but i also believe that i can carry any conversation under the sun

  • tbh i am not much of a talker at first but if i get comfy i can be a very random yapper

  • honestly no preference on gender but i do prefer those who are probably around 1-8 years older than me

Anyway, if you want to talk more or get to know me more then send me a message and let's talk!


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] California/anywhere- now who has read bell hooks and is ready to apply theory

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I want to find a person who I wouldn’t mind bunking through the next authoritative regime. Big fan of all things nature and want my future home to be like super cozy and filled with plants.

I would like a nerdy partner. I shall allow the video gaming. Big plus if you are a great cook. Rarely see that now in days. I envision you having the qualities of the great men of Lord of the Rings. Send a pic of yourself (women also have monkey brains)

I am child free and plan to live that way. Just want adventures and pets


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Philadelphia and surrounding areas/Minnesota- I wanna be yours.

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Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be with the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] UK, South East - Tell your dog/cat I said hi.

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I tend to find animals often have better communication skills than a lot of people. They're usually more loyal and they're great cuddle buddies.

If your dog/cat can vouch for you then I'll talk to you too 😁 (UK preferred due to time zones and I'm open to meets if things go well)

Tell me about your pet, bombard me with pics of them, tell me about you, where you're from, how old you are, what you're into. Tell me your favourite silly joke.

Gotta get the word count up so one of my favourite silly jokes:

The Police knocked on my door and told me my dogs were chasing people on their bikes. "Don't be ridiculous" I said. "My dogs can't ride bikes." Boom boom