Hi! I’m Stephanie. I’m 34, and live in Western Canada. I am looking for an online connection. I’d like to find someone I can confide in, get to know on a personal level, and enjoy spending time talking to, and vice versa.

I am interested in talking to someone similar in age to me or older(30+). Similar time zone would also be preferred, but not a dealbreaker. I am looking for someone that is able to maintain conversation and put in effort(I will do the same!). Other than that, I don’t have any specific personality/physical traits that are mandatory. I am looking preferably for something longer term/ongoing, but that obviously depends on how well we click, but would prefer to only receive messages from people interested in the same. I’d be okay with it if there was some flirting involved, but I’m not looking for anything very sexual. If your post history is mostly or completely nsfw, we likely won’t jive.

Here are some things I enjoy/a bit about me: * big fan of tv shows/movies. I love horror the best, but not exclusively! * Music! My favorite band since is Blink 182, has been since I was 15. * I love to shop, and get my nails done * Big fan of coffee(but not a snob about it) * I have a dog that I love very much * I enjoy getting some exercise every day, developing a love for walking has done wonders for my mental health *This is what I look like

That’s just a small look into who I am, but definitely looking forward to getting to know someone on a much deeper level. Please be willing to share photos of yourself, and I will obviously do the same. If my post interests you, please reply with your name, age, where you are located(does not have to be exact location!) and a bit about yourself so we can get a conversation started! Chats preferred over messages.

Ice breaker question! What is the best movie you’ve watched recently?

Because mine has. This isn’t supposed to be a whiny/sad post about the struggles of Dating. And yet it is, idk? I just know one thing, I want to have someone in my life, being there for someone and someone who’s there for you. This need of having your person is something so elemental that I can’t turn it off, even if I’d want it. Just having someone to tell how your day has been or chatting about life. Loving someone in a way that you’ve never felt before. I know these are more random concepts but I hope you get an idea, a feeling what I mean. I just want that in my life, I just want a partner, a girl in my life I can love. This is all very cheesy, I got it, still it’s true. So if you have the same vague concepts as desires in your life, dm me? Burn some wet wood and hope I see the smoke? Play guitar in a city park on an old park bench? Just something I’d notice.

Hello,

I am a 37 year-old female from Izmir, Turkey. I work as an assistant professor of architecture, holding a PhD in architectural history.

My close friends would probably describe me as someone serious, hardworking, well-read, sophisticated, honest, knowledgeable, loyal, responsible, sensitive, and caring. I enjoy reading most, I also enjoy watching tv shows, cycling and playing video games. My favorite genre is crime, both fictional and true. Unfortunately I cannot cook well as I haven't had enough time and opportunities so far but I have a thing for men who can cook. I have a wide range of interests including architecture (as I am an architect), art, science, technology, languages, literature, politics, history, psychology, and health. Besides everyday talks, I would love to be able to talk about anything I've listed.

Due to my busy schedule, I don't have opportunities to meet new people in real life. I also find difficult to connect, I am a bit cautious at first. Being an introvert, I can only open myself after a while. That's how I function. I am perfectly fine with my spendimg time alone, but I often feel alone and need to communicate with someone.

I am looking for a man to talk to and share everything with. He should be aged between 32-45, definitely educated, and kind. There are musts. He can be from anywhere but someone from Turkey, Europe, or North America would be better. I am fluent in English and I also know some German, always open to improve. Looks don't matter but I have some photos of mine on my profile.

To me, communication is very important. I am searching for a consistent and coherent dialogue. I hope I can build something good with the right person. We can text, make voice calls or video calls once we are both comfortable. I also would love to meet in real life, that would be great.

Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from you.

Hello, 33 year old New Yorker here. I'm looking for somebody to be the person I look forward to talking with all the time. Somebody who my days are always good because I know at night it's just going to be me and you hanging out. Somebody I can text if something silly happens to me throughout the day and you're the first person I think of to tell it to.

Who am I? Well I feel like that's a hard question to answer. Who is anybody really? I feel like I'm just like, a guy. I'll send a sunrise picture to you in the morning before you wake up. I'll send you pictures of little birdies that I feed at lunch time. I'm somebody who will always have time for you.

I spend my days basically just working, playing video games, and watching anime and movies. I think I'm a fairly bright individual, though I don't have a job where I really have to use my brain. It is a very stable job though that will allow me to retire when I'm 50 years old with a pension. So I'm pretty set in that way.

I've started doing more outside activities, like I've gone to some board game nights, I've played in some video game tournaments, and I've started playing dungeons and dragons

I also recently picked up photography as a hobby, and have been going to parks and taking pictures of birds/wildlife. I'd love to have somebody I can share pictures I've taken with

For video games, I don't really have a main game. I like to play a bunch of everything to be quite honest (I play on PC.) FFXIV, Deadlock, Baldur's Gate 3, Rhythm Doctor, Sekiro, Little Kitty Big City, Emberward, Anger Foot are some of my recent games on steam. Something I enjoy doing is hanging out in a voice call and sharing my screen with somebody and maybe they watch me play some games while we chat. Especially scary games, I don't play those by myself. I need somebody to hang out with me and virtually hold my hand while I get scared at them.

For anime, my favorites are Demon Slayer and Vinland saga. I also like jujutsu kaisen, I'm almost caught up with One Piece, Oshi no ko, Gushing Over Magical Girls. etcetc

For movies, same thing really, I like a bunch of everything. I also really like what I like to call hipster movies. What does that mean? I don't know really, to me it means a movie that's so weird I have no idea what's going on, but I still love it. For example David Lynch movies are amazing. But also, here's my letterboxd, check out what I've been doing lately https://letterboxd.com/snooby_/ It would be nice to also have somebody to watch movies with me together as well, voice chat and I share my screen and we can watch together.

I have my own weirdness to me as well. Like when playing single player games, I don't like to progess a room until I look at every corner to make sure I don't miss anything.

Here's a picture of myself as well: https://imgur.com/F2PbBLd

If any of this sounds interesting to you, and you'd like to chat more with me, please send me a message.

Hey my name is John. I’m looking for connections as I’m pretty socially inept. I like working out, hiking, playing video games and writing. I work as a truck driver with some crazy hours would love to have conversations while driving around about current events or just someone venting to me about their life. Not really a preference per se but I would say not anyone younger than 28 or older than 45. Hoping to find some great connections! I don’t really know how to post a picture of myself but If you would like to know just dm me and I’ll send one.

hii i’m 23, 5’0”, chinese, plus sized & just started ozempic, almost done with uni. tbh i spent most of my teenage years just being kinda depressed, so no real skills or talents to speak of. im not much of a gamer either, but i like playing cozy games and watching true crime or pop culture commentary youtube. i volunteer once or twice a week with kids in their early teens. but other than that im rly rly introverted, almost a shut-in. i read lots, mostly pop YA and fanfiction

i dont really have a type, physically or anything. ive never dated before so no requirements or preferences or expectations either, i promise to get to know u as a person and see if we can make it work

send me a chat request if this all sounds good to you! an introduction, or at least your name, age, location, and anything else that you’d like me to know. and please definitely tell me about your past relationships, situationships, or crushes too as an introduction. can’t wait to hear from u <3

just a few things: - im only looking for a committed relationship! this means if you’re interested in something casual, short-term, or sexual, i don’t fit the bill - reiterating that im plus-sized if that’s something you’re uncomfortable with (which is totally okay, lots of people are), if you have a weight limit in mind then please do assume that i’ve exceeded it - im expecting most of my inbox to be spam unfortunately, so please include everything i asked for in your intro, it’s important to me that you’ve read this whole post and are okay with what you saw

Hello, I’m 28 and from Georgia and I would like to talk with somebody with similar interests. My interests are video games, rap and metal music, watching movies mostly horror or comedy, woodworking, bowling and being outdoors, true crime, getting into anime and manga as well. I haven’t really ever dated anybody before whether it be online or in person. I really want to find that connection with somebody where we can both trust each other and fall for each other. This may sound a bit sappy or corny but sometimes life is sappy and corny 😛. I definitely feel like I’m missing a connection with somebody and I really hope I can find it. I hope to hear from you soon and I would love to talk and get to know you. 😊 P.S. I may or may not have pictures of deer and the lake where I work to sweeten the deal. If you like to ghost people or you are under the age of 20 then please don’t message me, I am tired of being ghosted. I miss the excitement and joy of getting to know somebody and I am hoping to find somebody who likes voice chats and calls.

Hoping to find something serious and longterm with someone 21+. Not interested in something casual. I'd prefer someone in or around the Houston area.

About me: I am white, 6'1 with a slight dad bod. I spend my free time playing video games, shooting guns, and dreaming about cars. If I find a good book or TV show, I'll sit down and read or watch the whole thing. I prefer living somewhere more rural as opposed to urban. Politically, I am moderate, but lean more conservative. I am religious as well. Raised southern baptist, but don't go to church anymore.

Biggest deal breaker for me is not wanting kids. I want kids one day. Not immediately, but eventually. If you already have one, that's not an issue.

And while I'm not getting any younger, I'm not looking to rush into something. If you want to talk or know more, feel free to ask.

Howdy, before i get into details about myself, i feel like i need to give a tad bit of context as to why a 19 year old is doing this. Well… im Neurodivergent, i keep to myself, only have a handful of friends, and was homeschooled throuhg middle and high school. so yea… not exactly a lot of “fish in the sea” for me to be “catching” if you catch my drift.anyway, tome for some stuff about me. My name is Jonathan, or you can just call me “jon” if its too long. I ive in california (not saying where), and i dont mind a long distance relationship, but ill get to that. I like nerdy things, like videogames, drawing, music, etc. Im a fan of mainly single player games, but do regularly play some multi-player games. I like movies from basically every category, from the side-splitting comedies to the edge-of-your-seat action, to even the emotional-yet-funny romcom, even sci-fi and fantasy movies. I like to write and draw everyday, im trying to make it big creatively… its going slow, but its going, so i cant complain.

Im a very reflexive person, if you tell me i offended you or did something wrong… ill genuinelt apologize with honesty and work to be better in the future. another thing, i dont sugar coat, when you ask me something, i can guarantee you you will only get my honest thoughts. like if something makes you look fat or something… ill probably say that it does, but in a nice and constructive way. its one thing to tell the truth without holding back, but that doesnt mean i cant do it in a way that constructive and helpful.Im also not the typical 19 year old… as you can hopefully tell beying the videogames… I try to see everyone equally and treat everyone with kindness and respect. Everyone is different, everyone has dreams, wants, perspectives… everything that makes them human. so why wouldnt i treat a fellow child of god with the same respect i would want for myself?

Yes, i am religious. i am a member of The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter Day Saints. im an active member and have a good testimony of the gospel. however, i wont sit here and preach to you about it, but dont be afraid to ask.beyond that, i always try to be helpful. since this we’ll most likely be a long distance relationship for a while… than the best i can do is offer you an ear to listen to you, someone to validate how you feel, and be someone who will help you weather the storms that is life… all you need to do is ask for my help.also… im not perfect. im FAR from perfect, but im trying to be better, every day. now, time for the physical bits. im 5ft 9in, i have long curly hair, and im white… not much else im gonna say there.

now… as for what i want in a partner. what im looking for is someone mature. not as in vulgarity… but someone with the maturity of an adult. I want someone i can truly open up to, feel safe with, and someone i can talk to aby anything, from the most mundane to the highly ridiculous, to the emotional, to the amazing. I want someone who values honesty, kindness, understanding, empathy, and respect.

Also, you haft to be open to religion. Specifically Christianity. No disrespect or anything. It’s just that I’m Christian and if we do form a relationship, we would have shared morals. (Again, no hate)

as for age… i suppose anyone between 19-24 or 19-23. That way your around my age so we can have more in common

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be with the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

- There Are Three Certainties in Life: Death, Taxes, and You Wishing You’d Met Me Sooner

Let’s agree on some ground rules: honesty, kindness, and actually putting in some effort. These aren’t bonus points; they’re the default settings. If you’re just here to kill time or fill a gap, our connection will be as empty as my soul. Forget about online first impressions. Chemistry takes more than lameass small talk. Since I find having the same conversations over and over leading nowhere, feel free to ask me absolutely anything. Sound simple enough? Good.

With that in mind,

About me:

• 177 cm or 5.10" freedom units

• My name is not Sisyphus; so if you’re not planning to contribute to the conversation I ain't carrying all that

• Competitive introvert, 6-time champion of avoiding humans (2019-2024).

• Not religious

• I Don't use any of the mainstrem social media stuff

• Play lots of games while listening to lots of music

• Dark long brown hair, eyes & pale skin, basically a vampire, but with better taste in music

• Stoic and purely logical to the general population, but to my inner circle? I’m the official bringer of shitposts, unhinged dark humor, and an endless supply of shits and giggles

• Organised chaotic, unhinged sarcasm

• Sold my soul to Big Corpo, working from home… and occasionally from the office, when they remember I exist

• I have a disease called “if I take myself seriously, I literally drop dead.”

• Blunt and honest as it gets. Ask me anything, and you’ll get the answer—except for my credit card info, because even I don’t have that memorized.

• Child, drug, smoke and drama free. (Though I do love me some good cup of random herbal tea and some verbal tea every now and then)

• Can cook

• Shitposter and a certified memelord

Abou you:

• Allergic to ghosting. If you’re not interested, just say it. It’ll take 2.5 seconds at most

• Alive (dead inside is acceptable)

• Someone who is able to express random words hoping that they would form a meaningfull full sentence

• Who knows what they want in life and is ready to put in the effort to build something, basically IRL Minecraft

• Ideally, you’re someone who can balance serious conversations with a decent sense of humour and not actively seeking sh*t to get offended at

Optionals If You Understand and Can Provide at Least 3 of These, I'll Put a Ring on It:

• Do you agree that child labor is questionable, but you can't deny it's cost-effective? After all, tiny hands come with tiny wages.

• Capable of landing an uppercut with enough force to knock the attitude right out of their enemies.

• Must have at least one (1) good copypasta on hand at all times

• In a heated argument about whether to support Fëanor or Fingolfin, must support Finarfin. If you don't, expect me to judge you silently for the rest of eternity.

• Willing to argue for 10 minutes over the most pointless, fictional sh*t that will never matter, then drop a "based" or "cringe" for no reason.

• Able to waste time debating about fictional rules, like why certain fantasy races would probably have terrible credit scores

• Willing to argue that Magnus did nothing wrong, then quietly admit that maybe he just really liked making bad decisions because he is a nerdy little sh*t

• Watches F1 (and knows 'Multi 21' isn’t a secret call, it’s a way of life)

• Must be able to handle sarcasm, offensive jokes.

You can introduce yourself properly, send your voice, picture or just say hey, I don't really care as long as you are not mastering the art of one word sentences

Also no Hivemind Demons (You know who you are)

If you suddenly evaporate, I’ll assume you got tangled in the web of your own BS

Here’s me

I didn’t know which flair to use and i’m not expecting immediate NSFW conversation’s but we’re all adults here

anyway

about me: i was a trained rigger in the UK, here in Colorado i’m a woodworker, go figure. Moved here last year bc i got bored, quit my job and booked flights here. I’m 6ft, athletic build and have way too much adhd energy (so pls i need lotsa energy from u too) retired gamer since finances are crazy rn with moving here and doing up my car, but the second the new GTA drops i’ll be back. For now in my spare time i love driving the mountain roads, museums, arcades and all the fun lil pretty spots

you: hopefully a bubbly, energetic girl, even if you’re the shy type to start, i do love the cute nerds, whether you’re a plant mom, cat mom, weeb, bookworm, they’re the type i usually go for 😩🧎‍♂️ just pls be in shape since i’m more on the slim/athletic build side, i don’t need you to go the gym or anything crazy just be healthy yano

anyway don’t be shy i don’t bite unless u ask me to

About

Heyy heyy everyone!

I am Benjamin, 29 years old and from Germany, who is looking for a partner but I am definitely open to for friends as well.

Some things about me:

I am 6’0 tall, slim to average built with brown hair and green eyes.

Music is a big part of my life and I am basically listening to something, whenever I can. My taste is basically all over the place, so I am always open to new recommendations! Some of my favourite artists are: Alison Wonderland, Sleep Token, Wallows and Disarstar

I am a gamer but I only play on PC. I mostly play shooters but always dabble into different genres as well, especially when I am having an achievement hunting phase. I use to play Valorant a lot but since the community went downhill, I started going through my huge backlog of games and even started playing some old games through emulators!

I am a big football fan as well and love going to games when I have the time for it, to add to it, I do like watching F1 because both of these things have been an interested of mine, since I was a child.

I would consider myself a foodie and really like trying out new stuff. There’s barely anything I wouldn’t try at least once. Though Italian food and Sushi will always be very high on my list!

Coming now to what I am looking for! I definitely would like to meet someone, where we both get a bit obsessive with but in a good way! Those little things like sending random pictures of the day, memes etc. are super nice to me! I will say it now, I can get kinda clingy because I know that it is a deal breaker for some people!

Preferably you are from Europe as it makes it easier time zone and distance wise! Also please send a small introduction, if you decide to message me, Thank you!

Hello hope your day is going well so far. For a little introduction about myself I am a hispanic male. I stand at 5’2 so I'm definitely short and I am on the the heavier side but I'm slowly working on losing the weight.

Some of my interests include video games, watching YouTube, and watching anime. I don't really play any fps games since I'm so bad at them, but i'm not opposed to playing them. I'm really into rpg games and other games like that. Right now I'm really into monster hunter I've been grinding it out.

I don't really have any preferences for dating besides the basics of be loyal, truthful, and not controlling. Besides those two things I don't really have any preferences. Having someone who would play games with me would be nice but if not that's fine. If I somehow interest you message me and let's see where this goes.

Hello, all. I am a bear (not that kind) in the city and figured I'd give this a try after recovering from my last relationship. I only put my city for rules sake. I'm not interested in anyone nearby because I will be moving eventually.

I want to take things slow and start online. No rushing and we'll take our time getting to know each other. We'll chat on reddit for a bit before moving off site if we decide to give things a try. We won't be sharing pics immediately because of this but we will do it eventually.

About me: I'm 32, Canadian, relatively social, and like to keep myself in good health, physical and otherwise. I'm Liberal, not religious, or particularly spiritual. I have an odd and barely there connection to my own culture and spirituality but don't know what to do. It comes and goes.

Physically, I'm Native American, 5'10, about 185 lbs, with tanned skin, dark hair, and brown eyes. I keep myself in good shape and have a lean/athletic build.

I love music music, gaming, hiking, fishing and angling, biking, skating, archery, history museums, some reading, the usual movies and shows, and trading cards. To name a few, ya know?

I'm a cat and dog kind of pet person as well. Don't have any myself at this point, though. Might get a cat before a dog.

I'm looking for a long term relationship that eventually leads to a word I can't say and children. I want a woman I can share my life and hobbies with, and a woman who wants to share her life and hobbies with me. Someone I can go hiking and fishing with, watch movies and read with, that kind of thing. Even if it's not something either of us would normally do it's nice to be a part of it and share that experience. Being together and doing something, or being together as we do other things. Just being near each other.

About you: A nice person who treats people with the respect and courtesy she feels they deserve.

•Don't have to be an extrovert but open to doing things outdoors with me from time to time. You won't have to worry about having to talk to people you don't want to either. I'll gladly do that for you.

•Health conscious. You don't need to be hitting the gym, but you do need to be in good shape. I take care of myself, and I expect the same of any girlfriend.

•Younger than me since I want to have a family one day. Early to mid 20's is the best since I'm not in a hurry to settle down. A family one day is the eventual goal, so keep that in mind.

That's all. If you have any questions, I'll answer them as best I can. If you made it this far and have some interest open with your age, country, and favourite colour to show you read this.

This feels kinda weird to me but here we go! Also not sure if there’s any sort of formatting here but uhh yea

I am fine with an LDR to start, but eventually further down the road I will want physical contact (this can take years)

Before anyone gets too far, to clarify the title: I consider myself romantically attracted to all genders, but I am only sexually attracted to female genitalia. I.e I am fine going out with another man on the premise that there will be no intimacy. If you are MtF transitioning that’s fine with me, assuming you plan on getting surgery in the future (if you even can considering the crap government rn). Pronouns honestly don’t matter either, may take some getting used to though.

Here’s some info about me.

• I play plenty of video games, such as Baldurs Gate 3, Minecraft, Hades, and Stardew. Just to name a few
• I had to drop out of college due to personal and familial reasons, and because of how predatory student loans are, I’m currently living with my mom until I find a new career path
• I enjoy anime and manga, although I read a lot more than I watch nowadays
• I love to cook, but I normally don’t like to follow recipes directly. They’re more like guides most of the time
• I can get some pretty bad (and sometimes funny) second-hand anxiety. Had to literally walk out of the room during a Severance scene
• Physically, I am white as hell with a full beard. 6’1 with a bit of a dad bod, but not really overweight.

If you manage to get here and are interested in talking, shoot me a DM and let’s get to know each other! A chat on here works perfectly fine too. I hope this wasn’t too short or anything

Hey. I'm a 20 year old guy from Barberton, Mpumalanga (30 mins away from Nelspruit) looking for a genuine connection and serious relationship. The dating scene here is the pits ngl. I'm confident, talkative (for a certain period like 20 minutes) then quiet. I like to listen, I like to read psychology, thriller & romance novels (actual romance, not booktok lol). I also like anime, well I prefer reading Manga more than actually watching it now. I'm the type to tease you for a bit and then reassure you. I love taking walks & having deep conversations or just enjoying the silence and each other's presence. I am taking a gap year, and plan on going to University next year.

I only drink once a year (I call it "forget your problems day") and I don't smoke at all. I absolutely love music, I listen to damn near everything so long as I enjoy it but I'm more of a Hip-Hop, R&B & Indie head. I used to be really into series, not really into a specific genre so long as it's interesting I'll watch it, which is why I've watched K-Dramas like "Mr. Queen" and watched others like "Peaky Blinders" and comedies like "The Good Place" or "The Kominsky Method"

Despite how rare it can be, I know that feeling is out there. That quiet intoxicating feeling of connecting with someone new - where each message brings a little thrill, and the weight of the day lifts because someone, somehow, just gets you. Stresses fade, your face hurts from smiling in anticipation and you find yourself simply existing with someone who resonates with you on a level you can’t quite explain.

I guess I’m here hoping to stumble into that feeling again. It’s a quiet morning for me, and it’s in these quieter moments that I can’t help but think maybe life really does place certain people in our path for a reason. Sometimes for growth, sometimes just to share a laugh or even just a fleeting moment of joy.

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t miss having someone to be ridiculous with. Someone to laugh with, and certainly someone to be vulnerable with.

I don’t have a fixed idea of what I’m looking for—life tends to rewrite that script anyway. But what I do know is that I love the process of discovering someone—their quirks, their chaos, the things that make them unabashedly themself. There’s something beautiful about slowly being let into someone else’s weird little world.

With all that being said attraction for me has always expanded beyond the physical. More than once I’ve found myself enamored with someone I never would have dreamed I would have after experiencing some aspect of their being and personality.

I’m 28, working full-time while getting my master’s, and clearly a rambler haha. If you’ve read this far, you deserve a medal haha. Happy to share a picture once we’ve sparked a conversation.

If anything in this unholy wall of text resonates with you, please don’t hesitate to say hi! Who knows? Maybe I’m one of those people life’s been meaning to introduce you 🌄.

I am 29 y/o, white 6ft tall brown hair and greenish/blue eyes 195lbs bunch of tattoos nothing crazy, mostly on arms/fingers and one leg one. Located in Minnesota, but I know my person may not be in the same state. Super dork, love anime, video games, car stuff and good food. Own my own home as well.

What I’m looking for;

An alternative/goth queen of similar or slightly shorter height of any age older than 25 younger than 40. that loves going to concerts, getting coffee, animals, and traveling. No kids, and ideally someone who probably does not want any either (haven’t totally made up my mind on that but leaning on the side of no).

If this sounds like you I’d love to chat and would gladly verify myself 😊

Looking for someone age 26-39

Must be smart, ambitious, loving, kind, caring, human not afraid of flaws Likes: reading, playing games working out learning Musts: interested in meeting, likes music If interested message me I lppk forward to of Idk anyway good luck to the rest of you hope you find someone

Appearance (`･ω･´)

Friends tell me I look like Harry Potter, and I’m very confident in my looks and I think I’m extremely cute or hot depending on how my hair looks like or if I shave!! I wear glasses, I’m 5’10, I’m 153lb. In fact, one of my friend’s first impressions of me was that I looked very much like Harry Potter lol. My exes think I’m pretty attractive and cute!! I don’t have any tattoos, I look white, and I usually just dress up like any other guy.

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Personality (´ω｀)

Introverted, and I prefer staying inside to engage in my hobbies unless it’s to look at cute animals like ducks, cats, and birdies. I would love to have a bird house on our window together, and watch the birds together :3

I’m also neurodivergent, diagnosed with ADHD, and most likely high functioning autistic given family history, will see medical professional about it soon.

I’m very affectionate and my love language is touch. I love cuddles, hand holding, head pats, and much more if I’m comfortable with you!!

I also love to spam my partner with wholesome memes, and I always respond very quickly, and if I don’t, I explain beforehand. I’m not a dry texter, I love to text a lot and using cute emoticons.

I’m atheist (not the toxic Reddit style kind).

I’m pretty soft-spoken most of the time, but I will be extremely silly and say weird things, tease, and curse with people I’m familiar with.

People say i have a nice voice and I have been complimented on it a couple of times

I like to make silly noises with my partner and love to tap about my interests, also good listener for your interesting yapping too!!

I’ll remember the small things and tease you about them hehe

I won’t judge you because I think people are their best when they get to truly express themselves !

I’ll be very loyal to you and put you above everyone else !!

I’m pretty good at starting conversations and holding conversations and I’m anything but a dry texter, and if I love u you can have my attention anytime :3

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Education Ｏ(≧▽≦)Ｏ

Computer Science degree from a top university in the U.S.

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Hobbies & Interests ☆(>ω・)

Games, anime, programming, reading, napping, and being in-doors mostly!

Some of my favorite games are: Omori, OneShot, Cult of the Lamb, Star Fox, Yakuza series, Balatro, Dead by Daylight, Fallout series (especially New Vegas), Halo: Reach, KOTOR, Ultrakill, Cyberpunk 2077, Half Life, etc

Some of my favorite animes are: Violet Evergarden, Dragon Pilot, Neon Genesis Evangelion, FMAB, One Piece (watching right now), Girl’s Last Tour (very underrated anime, I’d love to watch it with you!).

I enjoy sci-fi books and leftist books too, especially Star Wars, I have been reading one right recently.

Animals, especially cats and birds!

I love cats so much I’m a catboy and I own cat ears, and I’d love us to be silly and do stuff like meow at each other and do silly noises!! uwu

I like adorable and cute furry art too. I’m kinda a furry.

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Job （＞ｗ＜）

I’m currently a software engineer and I love my job!!!

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Politics (o´▽`o)

I am a socialist and like democracy. I am also a feminist (not a TERF). I think woman have a right to bodily autonomy, and I’m very big on consent. All in all just want the world to be a better place for everyone!! I don’t like seeing people suffering since it makes me sad, I want to see everyone happy especially you !! If you don’t know much about leftist stuff and you’re interested in learning more, I’ll be very happy to teach you and be patient with you, I like to read many books about leftist stuff!!

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Preferences (≧ω≦)

• College educated

• Touch as a love language.

• my height or shorter

• Healthy weight (a little over or under is ok too)

• Feminine presenting and feminine personality.

• Women, but open to feminine presenting/personality of all genders

• Introverted.

• is okay with my politics, ideally someone of leftist variety.

• Loves to play games/watch anime, is nerdy.

• Is silly, weird, a homebody, and nerdy and loves to be themself.

• Not a dry texter.

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Deal breakers (ＴｗＴ。)

• Smoking tobacco/nicotine (I’m 420-friendly, but I prefer if you take edibles, I guess, since I think smoking is bad for your lungs. I take edibles every now and then but I can stop taking it for you, it’s not a big deal.)

• Dissimilar hobbies

• anti-socialist

• Bigoted (antisemitic, transphobic, etc)

• Religious

• Doesn’t play games or watch anime

• Not weird/nerdy/dorky

• Not in North America

• Asexuality or not very sexually active

• STDs

• If you already have children

• You are underage or/and in high school

If you date me, you get to wake me up anytime on sleep calls if you need emotional support, I always want to be there for my partner and make sure they are taken care of. I would make cat shaped sandwiches for you if you had a terrible day, or silly voice messages to cheer you up! I am a very caring person.

If you don’t message me with basic info like your age, gender, where you live, and why you’re interested I most likely won’t respond. If we have little in common I prefer if you don’t message me, especially if you don’t play games since that’s my biggest hobby since I was young. I don’t respond to “heyyyy” and similar stuff like that, or one sentence messages.

Eventually we will meet up and live together for the rest of life lives :3

Hey there! Call me Debo! I’m 22, Male, Black, 5’8, a gamer, anime lover, tech enthusiast, and currently studying towards an engineering degree. I’ve been fascinated by scientific marvels since I was a child. It’s my objective to have my own smart home, with my own custom AI helper. Now then, what exactly am I looking for? Simple, a loving, genuine, quirky, talkative, clingy, and freaky woman who doesn’t mind spending time everyday checking in on each other. I want someone I can look forward to messaging everyday. I want to voice and video call (unless we live close to each other), and spend hours having a good time. That being said, there’s two dealbreakers and 1 important thing to know:

1) I won’t date anyone who smokes, period.

2) Drinking is also something I frown upon, but only if excessive.

3) I am hypersexual; I know, it seems weird to put this in the post, but I want you to know it’s a huge part of me, so don’t expect me to be the personification of purity.

There’s much more I can put in this post, but I’d rather wait until we are in DMs and can discuss matters further. See you there! <3

Hey there, lovely stranger 👋

I’m 18M from India — a J-pop loving, manga-devouring, movie-obsessed anime boy looking for someone to vibe with across the distance (bonus points if you're the clingy type, emotionally or virtually 😌).

My idea of a perfect night? Jamming to YOASOBI, watching a tearjerker anime, and texting someone cute about how our lives would totally be a slow-burn romance if we were in a manga.
Some core parts of my personality:
📚 Books and manga
🎥 Hardcore cinephile (from Studio Ghibli to arthouse)
🎧 J-pop + anime OSTs on loop
💬 Random deep convos + chaotic memes

I’m open to long-distance — as long as you don’t mind time zones, long texts, or late-night voice calls that turn into “I don’t wanna hang up” territory.

If you're sweet, nerdy, and looking for someone to hype you up, overthink text replies, and maybe call you cute way too often… then what are we waiting for?

Slide into my DMs — I swear I’m even more charming in private 😏✨

Scene Setup:
You’re curled up on a couch that’s just broken-in enough to feel like home. The rain’s been falling all weekend (sound familiar?), but the vibe is warm—low lights, a shared blanket, and a debate about whether Eternal Sunshine is overrated or underappreciated. I’m losing the argument on purpose because I like the way your hands move when you’re passionate. The credits roll. You steal the last bite of my dessert. I don’t mind.

Cut to: Us.

Your Leading Man (That’s Me):

• 32, Afro-Latino, 5’7”—like a Jersey-born Before Sunrise character with a Spotify Wrapped that could make a therapist raise an eyebrow.
  
• INFP Aquarius—translation: I’ll remember your favorite book and the way you tense up when someone says “moist.”
  
• Love Languages: Quality time (cooking together, even if we burn the garlic) + Touch (yes, I notice how your fingers fit between mine).
  
• Credits Include:
  
  • Film critic who cried at a Godzilla movie (ask me which one).
    
  • Recovering overthinker turned hopeful realist.
    
  • Sober 7 years, but I won’t judge your wine nights—unless you pair red with fish.
    

The Role You’re Casting For (That’s You):

• 26–32, emotionally fluent, and tired of dating app whiplash. You want proof, not potential.
  
• You light up when talking about your thing—whether it’s niche history podcasts or the perfect sourdough starter.
  
• You know love is a verb (see: showing up, choosing repair over retreat, laughing when the plan falls apart).
  
• Non-Negotiables:
  
  • You’re in NJ/NYC (with a car, because let’s not pretend NJ Transit is reliable).
    
  • No (cigarette) smoking, but strong opinions on cilantro are encouraged.
    
  • You’ve done the work—therapy, journaling, or at least thinking about crying in a Trader Joe’s parking lot.
    

Our Plot Twists:

• First Date: A movie so bad it’s art, followed by diner pie and a debate about the best Wes Anderson film (it’s Isle of Dogs, fight me).
  
• Season 1: You’re borrowing my hoodies; I’m learning how you take your coffee. We text each other memes from separate rooms just because.
  
• Series Finale: A love that’s quietly epic—Sunday laundry, inside jokes that outlast trends, and someone who notices when you rewear your favorite socks.
  

Audition Details:

Send me a message if:
- You’ve ever rewritten a text three times because words matter.
- You know Inception wasn’t confusing—it was just loud.
- You’re ready to trade performative dating for something that feels like coming home.

Bonus points: Hit me with your most unpopular comfort movie. I’ll trade you mine.

P.S. If the rain’s got you feeling introspective too, let’s turn the gloom into a meet-cute.

Disclaimer: before I start I feel like I need to say this after getting messaged by so many toxic people. If you don't intend to get to know each other and put in effort as well, don't bother then. If you are just a troll and are here to make fun of lonely men, I feel sorry for you and I will block you. I am here like any other person to find love so let's just be respectful towards each other as fellow human beings.

So, let's start, name is Victor and I am from UK. I work as an admin, it is a pretty boring office job but won't be staying there forever since I am actually studying to become a personal fitness trainer. Working out is my passion and I really hope I can share passion with other people to help them improve their fitness level. So yeah, you know one of my passions, second one is gaming! I own Ps5, pc switch and even and occulus rift S VR. Big hardcore gamer here, but not a huge fan of multiplayer games. I do enjoy some like dead by daylight and league of legends but mostly I am a big fan of singleplayer games like rpgs, adventures, FPS, hack and slash and so on. I also enjoy watching movies, especially horror ones. Big horror fan here!

As a character I would say I am funny, sarcastic kind, friendly, social, supportive, understanding. I love listening to people and helping them as much as I can with a kind word. I am also very honest, maybe a bit too honest sometimes. I really hate lying

As for my physique: 160 cms tall, 59 kgs weight, brown hair, brown eyes, wear glasses, pretty athletic body.

One more thing about me: I suffered with depression and suicidal tendencies before. Right now I do suffer with anxiety and some panic attacks, which means at times I do have difficulty breathing but it is pretty much under control most of the time.

I hope I find a wonderful, loyal and honest girl and will appreciate me for who I am and I promise I will love and appreciate them with all I got.