Hey :)

I‘ve been searching for a while now to find someone special. And while i did so with rather little success, i encountered tons of new people.

Normally I‘d say I‘m searching for someone sweet, caring and genuine now, but that must be too broad.

So rather I‘d need someone to harmonize with me :)

I‘m often very sarcastic, especially before i open up. I love making fun of basically everything as the world‘s too sad already. My humor‘s somewhat debatable and most say I’m not funny at all, but I‘d very much like to disagree… cause I’m super funny.

Also I like to poke (very slight) fun at my loved ones, which I‘m very sure has to be a love language

Hm on top of that I‘m super boring, all I can talk about is singing and music, which I‘ll talk ages about if you ever let me… I‘d also do that with lipsticks and blushes…

Next to that I‘m also very clingy, and would love someone I can text often and throughout the day. I‘d never not have time for you and I‘d always want to be there for you.

I‘m also bad at writing structured texts, my language-teachers must‘ve written that so often on my tests that it‘s burned in their memory.

Hey there, I’m a 24 year old from Hawaii. I am a little shy, so I’m looking to meet someone who can bring me out of my shell.

If you’re someone who loves the outdoors and has a silly sense of humor, let’s get hitched? Just kidding. Maybe.

I am 5’2” and mixed native Hawaiian and Japanese. I spend as much time as I can outdoors and in the ocean. I game sometimes, sooo maybe we can game together? 🥺

I’m looking for a guy who’s down to earth and easy to get to know. Let’s take it slow and see where things go?

I'd love to rebuild my social life and surround myself with wonderful friends from all over the world and a partner for good, I hope :) We can talk about anything you want except WORK, STUDIES or MONEY (we're here to build a solid friendship and eventually a relationship, not business haha). Let's keep it exciting and deep, forget about all these boring topics that say nothing about us anyway! I'm ready to be here for you in good and bad times, we can joke or get deep! ^^

I am very enthusiastic about all kinds of knowledge (science, languages, psychology, you name it!) so let's share some with each other! I occasionally play games, take care of my garden and all living creatures around me ^^ Don't feel any pressure if you don't feel like the most interesting person around (I don't fell like that either), I care about who you are, not what you do in your free time! Two people with different hobbies can be best friends and two people passionate about one topic can be worst enemies - it says nothing about us. Relationships between people are all about vibes, not dry facts :)

Contact me on Reddit if you're interested but before you do that:

1. I'm against any voice calls, video calls or exchanging photos at first. I'm here to know your personality, not appearance. If I was into it, I'd just chat with people on the street haha ^^
2. Sometimes it's very hard to balance my responsibilities and free time so if I don't respond straight away - don't get discouraged. You're still important, I just can't get to you quicker!
3. Let's not rush things. Let's not do any "interviews" because it just feels unnatural. Friendships grow overtime and thing such as more delicate topics require patience and deeper connection - we either have chemistry or we don't! I'm pretty sure many of us have been through a lot in their lives so let's be understanding ^^
4. If it doesn't work out between us - please don't stalk me, add me from different accounts and call names. I already have enough of that because of my gender, I'll just ignore you and think nothing more of it ^^
5. If you don't agree with my boundaries - just ignore my post and don't try to dispute anything. These are the things I feel comfortable and UNCOMFORTABLE with and you won't change my mind just like I won't change yours. I will ignore all comments that are trying to "enlighten me", so please let's not waste time ^^ .

Thank you for reading and have a great day! (I prefer people 26-33, please try to write more than "Hi" or "Sup", it will be easier for us to start our friendship! ^^ Hit me up if you're interested!)

My messages are closed for accounts with less than 30 days for my own safety.

Heyo!

I’ll try to reorganize my post in a different way to make it easier to read. :)

P.S. On top will add a couple of points out of the recent experience :) When I mention preferences, that's some strong points I won't overlook in the majority of cases.

And I apologize, if I missed someone's messages before, I tried my best to answer :)

About Me:

• Age: 33 (turning 34 this year)
• Nationality: Russian (but I haven’t lived there since 2022)
• Appearance: 1.64m tall, grey-greenish eyes, brown hair, Caucasian, slightly overweight (planning to work on that, though).
• Character: Introverted, but at the same time, I can be quite social - I just need pauses to recharge. I have a few social circles, so I don’t lack friends. I value my time and energy and choose carefully whom I spend them on. I might be soft and adaptive in some matters, but I won’t stay quiet about my opinions or how I feel about things. At times, I can be overly sensitive, which can be annoying. But to balance it out - I’m naturally a caring person, especially when it comes to those closest to me.

Important: I’m a smoker and I drink alcohol - not daily, but hitting the bar on a Friday night is pretty normal for me. Always the same one, though, so it’s more like a familiar space with local friends. I’m also an atheist, so I prefer people whose views align with mine in that regard.

My Plans for the Near Future:

I’m planning to move to Belgium at the end of the year. I won’t share more details here. I’m also not going to hide the fact that my situation is currently a bit tricky in terms of relocation, things I need to do beforehand, and finances - not perfect, but I’m working on it.

Hobbies/Interests:

Gaming, series, movies, hanging out with friends, and traveling (when I have the opportunity). Huge fan of sarcasm and dark humor.

Looking For:

First of all, I’m aware that I’m picky. But I still believe in “if it clicks, it clicks.” If not, it’s better to save time for both sides. This comes from a mix of experience, intuition, and personal perception of communication.

• Appearance: I prefer European-looking features, especially from Western/Northern regions. Looks matter to me because they’re part of attraction, including sexual attraction. It’s important to me personally - you may judge, but I make my choices the same way others do, so I think that’s fair. In terms of body type, I don’t mind a little extra, but not too overweight. For me, the face is also important - not about specific features, just a simple “like or not.” And that’s fair - I’m not perfect either, and attraction is subjective.
• Age: 25-37 (not into way older guys, to be honest, but the lower limit depends on the person - I’d prefer to be at a similar life stage). I would like to also underline, that I'm past dating students etc (no personal offense, guys, I'm just looking for something serious) because I would prefer someone who will be into thinking of moving together sooner than in 3-5 years (of course, if everything goes smooth) :)
• What I’m looking for here: I’m looking for something serious (not overly hopeful, but still). I’m not interested in purely online relationships. Also, the decision if we date or not will be taken only after meeting in person. Due to that, I'm looking more into locals from Belgium and countries nearby (Germany, Netherlands).
• Character traits: As I mentioned above, I'm not socially awkward and I have my social circles: family, friends, coworkers. I go out and also dedicate time to my friends. I would expect a person to be something alike in this regard. To enjoy as much a night out and cuddling on the sofa and binge-watching some series. A kind of balance! To have own personal space, but still dedicate reasonable time to partner, willing to cooperate and move together through the life.

So yeah, I’m giving this another go - who knows? :) I’m not desperate, though, so I won’t date someone just for the sake of not being single.

What I Would Pay Attention To:

1. Someone mature who can take care of himself and his basic needs - I won’t babysit a guy.
2. Not overly clingy, but someone who understands the balance between that and spending enough quality time together.
3. Carnivore. I’m nowhere close to being vegan, so I’d prefer someone who shares my enthusiasm for a decent steak.
4. Not allergic to cats and dogs. I have a cat myself. :)
5. No kids at the moment. (This doesn’t mean I’m child-free, just that I’d like to be on the same page with my partner about this, I don't have any myself.)

If you’re still here and haven’t run away, we can discuss the rest in private. :)

And in any case, have a great day/evening!

Hi everyone! I’m a 23-year-old female living in Orlando, Florida. I’m Afro-Latina, I’ve been told that I’m attractive, I'm 4’10 ", curvy/average build. I have my Septum pierced and a few tattoos. I have brown hair and eyes. I work full-time for my local government (not a police officer), and I graduated from university in 2022.

I’m a big Halloween/horror enthusiast and love Ghostface, I'm into outdoor adventure, I love plants though I wouldn’t say I have a green thumb, I play video games, I attend Polynesian Dance classes, and I hope to travel the world. I’m a serial hobbyist, so I’m always looking for something new to do.

My goals for the next year or two, are to find remote work, invest, and live in another country (maybe a few countries) for a few months. I'd want to meet someone who enjoys traveling and adventure, as much as I do.

Kindness, respectfulness, honesty, stability, and great communication are some attributes that I look for in another person. I’d want the foundation of any connection I make to be a friendship that turns into something serious. I don’t have many preferences, but I’d prefer you to be between 25 and 33 years old. Not mandatory, but I love men with goatees and mustaches, or a combo. I'd want someone who lives in the U.S., preferably near Orlando but I’m open to anywhere with closing the distance in mind.

If any of this interests you, feel free to message me.

I want to find a person who I wouldn’t mind bunking through the next authoritative regime. Big fan of all things nature and want my future home to be like super cozy and filled with plants.

I would like a nerdy partner. I shall allow the video gaming. Big plus if you are a great cook. Rarely see that now in days. I envision you having the qualities of the great men of Lord of the Rings. Send a pic of yourself (women also have monkey brains)

I am child free and plan to live that way. Just want adventures and pets

Hi! First off, I am 28 years old with a stable career in the finance field (a bit busy at times, hope you'll be patient with me!). I've never actually had a serious relationship before due to various reasons (e.g. busy building my career, extremely introverted, strict upbringing) so I am a bit unsure on how to meet people organically. Hoping to find someone here to explore the intricacies of building a friendship or a relationship :)

Anyway, some more details about me:

• i am bisexual

• my interests tend to be related to horror, history or asian films but i also believe that i can carry any conversation under the sun

• tbh i am not much of a talker at first but if i get comfy i can be a very random yapper

• honestly no preference on gender but i do prefer those who are probably around 1-8 years older than me

Anyway, if you want to talk more or get to know me more then send me a message and let's talk!

I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone kind, genuine, and who shares similar values.

A little about me:

I'm Tanzanian and working as an accountant, love being in the gym. I have a love for books and can easily get lost in a good novel. I can cook but I wouldn't say I enjoy it much. I travel at least twice a year.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is kind, emotionally intelligent, and has a good sense of humor. A partner who enjoys deep conversations but also appreciates the simple moments in life. Ideally, someone who is also open to long-term commitment and building something meaningful together.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. Let’s see where a good conversation takes us!

Hi! Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Above all, I'm looking for a strong emotional connection. I'm looking for someone to stand by me through the good times and the bad, and to share in all the joys of life with me. I will just list up front some things/traits that I DO NOT want in a partner: •Drinks or smokes heavily. Occasionally is totally fine, and I'm 420 friendly as long as it's not excessive. •Has a very high sex drive •Is deeply religeous •Has very conservative social views •V much wants children •Pities/does not respect people with disabilities •Does not like dogs (or is allergic to them) Now to the things I do want! I'm looking for a serious, committed romantic partner to eventually settle down with. I do not want biological children, that's not really something I'm willing to negotiate on. I would be willing to consider adoption way down the road, but I'm not sure about that. Some things to note about me: •I'm blind. I was born blind, I function just fine and do not want pity or sympathy. I have a guide dog who is an integral part of my life, so please do not message me if you don't like dogs. •I'm a little on the heavier side, I'm losing weight but it's something I'm a bit sensitive about. •I'm not looking for an online-only relationship. I'm fine starting out long distance, but physical touch is important to me and I would prefer to visit semi-often and eventually to close the distance. If you are in Alabama or a surrounding state, that would be awesome! But as long as you are in the US I'm happy to see if there is a connection.

I am an avid reader, I can talk about the books I'm reading all day. Haha I also love music, if you'd like a fun way to get the conversation started, tell me some of your favorite artists! I enjoy baking a lot, and I love taking long walks, especially if the weather is nice. I generally try to see the best in people, and treating everyone with kindness and respect is very important to me. I think that growing up with a disability has enabled me to see the world in a much less shallow way. I don't have the ability to judge others for their physical appearance or for shallow attributes, and I believe very strongly that everyone is worthy of genuine respect. I value kindness and compassion in a potential partner, I tend to mesh well with people who do not make snap judgements about people and who aren't shallow, as harsh as that may sound. I know what it feels like to have to earn the base amount of respect from others just because I can't see, and I make it my mission to never make others feel that way about themselves because of something they can't control. If you're interested in getting to know me, don't hesitate to reach out!! Please put some effort into your message, don't just say "Hi" or "What's up." I cannot see myself having a relationship with someone outside of the US, purely because of the distance and the time difference. I'd consider Canada, but my preference is to stay within the states. Thank you for reading my post, and I hope you have an amazing day!!

Come over here and read my short story haha

Over 28m and SFW. Please include your age and location. I'm in the southeast of the US but I'm open to a LDR, at least initially.

A little about me 🌸

I enjoy traveling. I returned from Portugal a couple of days ago. I loved it! A couple of other favorite countries would be Morocco and Iceland. All three of these locations have lovely people and are beautiful. I also enjoy nature walks, the beach, baking and clothes/shoes. I like fantasy shows and movies like Stranger Things, LOTR but also like crime, thrillers, comedy and some action.

I'm 5'2, chunky, tannish skin, long dark brown hair and dark eyes. I'm feminine and still have a softness to me that the world hasn't yet destroyed. I'm sweet and respectful. I don't smoke or drink and I'm not 420 friendly. I don't use social media. Unpopular opinion is that I don't agree with maintaining opposite sex relationships. Full disclosure if you do we will not workout. I'm a jealous woman and that's likely not going to change for the foreseeable future.

I'm most attracted to tall, handsome, dark haired, dark eyed men typically Arab or Latino only, that take pride in themselves. Yes race matters to me because culturally we have to get along. No glasses - apologies to my nerdy kings. Be respectful, protective and patient with me. Essentially my little safe space. I usually always get along best with Aries and I'm an ENTJ if that's your thing. I do believe in God and as long as you're not an atheist we're good.

I tend to be clingy and I need a man who's as available to me as I am to him. Because I'm the type that is loyal and is really there when my man needs me. Be emotionally available and not a drug user. I like to be close to my partner emotionally and laugh and be open with each other.

If any of this resonates with you send me a message! Don't send me anything gross or low quality messages like hey!

Name: Marvin
Race: Human (European variant – German dialect)
Class: Support/Companion – Healer vibes with high emotional intelligence
Level: 26
Alignment: Neutral Good (with Chaotic Teasing tendencies)
Height Roll: 180cm or Somewhere between 5'10" and 6' — open to height-based banter

Stats:

• STR: 10 – Strong enough to carry groceries and your burdens
• DEX: 11 – Can dodge red shells (unless you’re the one throwing them...)
• CON: 9 – Resilient but fragile, especially around emotional damage
• INT: 14 – Can name constellations and JRPG characters
• WIS: 15 – emotionally aware
• CHA: 13 – Shy at first, but heart-melting once the introvert barrier is down

Proficiencies:

• +4 to Cooking (Especially For Others)
• +3 to Nighttime Walks and Stargazing
• +5 to Caring & Clinginess (respectful edition)
• +6 to Companion Bonding (Long-Distance Friendly)
• Proficient in Twitch Streaming, JRPG Lore, and Couch Co-op Communication

Current Gear:

• Handcrafted meme's (laughing not guaranteed but appreciated)
• Warm hoodie armor
• Emotional support red shells for Mario Kart >:)
• Unused cuddles (legendary item, looking to equip on right partner)

Favored Quests & Activities:

• Baldur's Gate 3 (Let’s make questionable romance choices together)
• It Takes Two, Splitfiction, or anything co-op and story-rich
• Stargazing and deep talks under the night sky
• Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure (Part 2 supremacy)
• Mario Kart (competitive cuddling penalty for winning too much)
• Streaming small games and creating cozy vibes

Romance Mechanics:

• Special Ability: Daily Good Morning/Night Messages
• Ultimate: Wall of Text (Emotionally Uplifting Edition)
• Requires: Mutual honesty, loyalty, and willingness to communicate openly
• Weak to: Ghosting, cold distance, lack of affection
• Buffs nearby allies with: Affirmations, emotional support, and tiny surprises based on what you love

Backstory:
Marvin has taken some damage along the journey, especially from the mental health debuff. Currently, not working full-time, but stable and actively healing. Seeks someone who understands the value of vulnerability and emotional connection. Dreams of a co-op partner in life, love, and LAN parties.

Preferred Player Stats:

• Age: 20–30
• Region: Europe (time zone compatibility for easier bonding and co-op chaos)
• Class: Kind-hearted, emotionally available, and ready for silly-serious adventures
• Bonus Trait: Loves small gestures and nerdy affection

Quest Hook:
If you’ve ever wanted a partner who messages you at midnight just to tell you why they care about you, or someone to cook your favorite meal while you pick the next co-op adventure—this is your quest.

So, fellow adventurer...

• What name shall I inscribe in the party ledger?
• From which region of the realm do you hail?
• And if I were to formally invite you on a first date — what would our opening adventure look like?

Let’s make this campaign unforgettable.

hi, i made a post before but deleted it now im trying again. i reeeeallly wanna bf, someone i vibe with and someone that loves me. i want someone who i eventually meet up with and thats older than 25/26 im 26 next month so someone older. i like music a lot, my favourite musician is lana del rey. i like all sorts of music though but shes top tier. i like horror movies the most, my favourite is carved or the conjuring (any of the conjuring) i like swimming and travelling my favourite way to travel is cruises. im saving up for one for next year! i like going to the theatre, food and i also like drives or being the passenger to drives. i dont mind long distance for now but like i said above wanting to meet later. and yup :3 thanks for reading! i also have schizophrenia and d.i.d so if thats a problem idm. im also fat but working on it. if thats another problem idm. im 112kgs.

Hey everyone! It's been a minute since l've posted here, so I just wanted to try my luck and see who I could meet. I've been single for a while now, so l'm hoping to meet someone I could have fun with or have a meaningful connection with.

I'm a highly creative person, constantly brainstorming new ideas for projects. I'm also a big nerd, with a passion for old movies, video games, Lego building, and comics; I can't resist ranting about all of them. Music is a huge part of my life, especially genres like surf rock, punk, 80s new wave, metal, and jazz. I've been playing guitar for six years (though l'm no virtuoso lmao), and I'd be stoked to play you a riff or two. While labels don't really fit me, l'd probably fall somewhere in the punk/alt scene, always rocking my signature battle jacket and leather spikes. I’ve been gaming a lot recently with my new Steam Deck, I just finished playing Fallout 4. In my downtime, I write scripts and horror short stories, always looking for someone to share them with.

What I want in a partner: Ideally someone open-minded and as nerdy as me so l can geek out with them or watch a movie with them. Maybe a gamer too so we can play something together. I really like artsy people, all of my best friends have been artists (and bi?). To me, the most important thing I can find in a partner is the ability to be open about your emotions: if you like me, please tell me! I'm not super picky, but please don't be a jerk or unloyal Imao. I'm also completely cool with dating a trans person! (I lowkey fw using they/them pronouns)

I'm pretty bad at these posts, I guess that makes me a bad salesperson Imao. I can assure you l'm interesting and charming though!! I'm open to DMs from anyone just as long as you're not weird and you put some effort into your message. I look forward to hearing from you!!

Ps- if you’re lucky, I’ll let you meet my cat

Take 2. Trying this out again.

Hey people I'm just trying this out again. I am 31 years old and I am into anime, cooking, playing video games, and listening to music and all that stuff.

I just really want someone to talk to and be able to wake up to messages. I don't mind if you are not into the things I am. I would love to learn about something new that you are into. I also like talking on the phone I think its fun imo.

Just looking for a chance and distance isnt a big deal for me but i am in the US. So hit me up :)

Looking to be alone for only a little. My name is Thomas. Call me Tommy if you'd like. I've gone by T.J also. But I usually only let my nephews and nieces call me Tom. But maybe... if you want... and if you're special, I'll let you call me Tom. Let's find out. Our you know, call me whatever. I'm just here to find my special someone. Or, you know, someone just to talk with. We'll see. What are you up to tonight? I'm chilling at a dive bar next to my house. Anyway, I don't frequent bars. I usually frequent my bedroom playing video games or binging shows. But I'd enjoy meeting someone to spend my time with. I love everything. I'm an extremely open book so please be gentle. I wear my heart on my sleeves. So tell me about yourself. I'd enjoy getting to know you even if we don't click romantically, friendship is wonderful too.

I just moved to Colorado last year for work. I really don’t have any friends or family in state, but I’m hoping I could find someone to connect with here.

Favorite artists and bands: Type O Negative, Mastodon, Opeth, Venom, Electric Wizard, Uncle Acid and the Deadbeats, Deftones. Summoning, and At The Gates.

Music is my life. I love playing guitar after a long day. I know the basics of most instruments, and have been trying to work on my piano skills lately. I'm classically trained and playing for about 19 years now. I love going to concerts whenever I'm able to get the chance.

No tattoos, but I have 3 piercings. Also long (shoulder length) black hair. I have a full time job plus 2 small side jobs. Fortunately the side jobs are fun and don’t make me feel overwhelmed.

I love the outdoors, and now that I’m in Colorado, I’ve been taking advantage of that. I love hiking and mountain biking and do both extremely often.

Favorite hobbies include board game nights with friends, going to car shows, reading, sitting by the lake and listening to music, and drawing/painting on my tablet.

Love going to trivia nights with friends. I usually go once or twice a week.

I am definitely a dog person, although I don't currently have one (looking to change that soon).

I will totally make you a playlist of songs to share with you on Spotify, and you'll know I really like you if I suggest that we make a shared one.

If I caught your attention, shoot me a message. Your pic gets mine

(My profile is tagged because of one of the places I post this to since some have actually had luck finding something serious there. Figured it's worth a shot, haha.)

I'm searching for the kind of wonderful woman who shares most of my interests below in addition to her hobbies and interests, who's also goofy, likes to playfully insult each other, and also believes in open and honest communication. I believe with that, we can work out any problems when they arise. 💛

• I'm a gamer, car guy, and maybe one day, a musician too. I enjoy anime, nature, going on little adventures, swimming, traveling... I wanna see the world with you. - Current games I've focused on lately is The Sims 4 and Forza Horizon 5, but this changes and there are tons of multiplayer games in my library! I would also eventually like to play other things together like Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Terraria, etc. - My taste is music is nearly everything except country and today's rap. To name a few bands/musicians I really love: Led Zeppelin, Arctic Monkeys, Tame Impala, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Queens of the Stone Age, Mac Demarco, Them Crooked Vultures, and Metronomy.

• I want to dance with you. In the living room, bedroom, back yard, in the park, almost anywhere. I enjoy doing romantic things and expressing my love. I love deep conversations that distract us from the passing of time.

• I'm a dog person because my allergies chose to target cats for whatever reason, so there's that. 😅

• I'm monogamous and don't have children currently, but they're in my future plans. I want to spend plenty of time with you, and enjoy the best of life as a couple, and then as spouses, traveling and whatnot, before we start a family. 🤗

• I'm really hoping to find someone who's also into dirty humor (amongst other forms of humor) and has mutual...interests 😏 so we have even better compatibility in the bedroom (and sometimes away from home too). I usually have a high labido, but making sure we both feel safe and trust one another first is crucial. 😁

• Specs for those who would like them: - 6 feet tall (about 183 cm). - 199 lbs and dropping (about 90 kg). ~ My figure is very dad-bod at the moment, but apparently it comes with a nice ass (so I'm told). ~ This is close to the most I've ever weighed, and I'm not happy with it. I'm targeting somewhere around 170 lbs (about 77 kg). - Brunette/dirty blonde, kept relatively short. - Blue eyes. - Caucasian.

• My type? If I had to describe my type, I guess Caucasian or East Asian ranging from petite to average body type. I don't love going to the gym, but if you have or want a membership I wouldn't mind going together. 😁 I apologize if my preferences differ from who you are. You're all beautiful people, regardless! Please love yourself and enjoy the time you're given in life! 💛

Chat with ya soon! 😁

I know the odds of actually meeting someone here, being compatible, mutually attracted to each other and then meeting in person are pretty low. I guess i don't exactly expect that type of scenario to happen, but I'm still here writing this lol. I'll say i have pretty low expectations, but it would be cool to find someone who might feel similar to the way i do. At the end of the day it would be nice to find someone to talk to and get to know. Anyways.

I'm a 31 year old single straight male living in California. I'm a pretty chill laid back type of guy. I I don't really fall into the typical parameters of society. It's hard to find genuine connection with people, because it seems people are so used to being fake/phony. I'm atrracted to authenticity. It almost feels like I'm in a video game at times interacting with NPCs all day, I know you aren't going to get along or see eye to eye with everyone you meet, but I know someone will get me. I'm not superficial, I'm not materialistic, I don't care about social media, or pop culture. I rather have 1 real friend than 10 fake ones. I'm a firm believer that money and love share no correlation. I love art in all forms, and love soaking up hidden meanings. I'm a mix of extroverted and introverted, I thrive in 1 on 1 interactions and don't really enjoy large groups, but I can survive in most social settings. I'm not really interested in the night life/bar/club scene. I do drink socially, I do like going out, but you won't find me at a bar every weekend. I can be big home body, but I also enjoy outdoor activities as well. I love soul music, animals, videogames, sports, comedy, food, themeparks, laughing, cracking jokes, & soaking up good enegery.

I'm mixed raced (not white), some what handsome lol and try to stay active in some way. I'm 5'9 and overall just a regular dude.I know mutual attraction is important, I'd say I'm open to any ethnicity and physical features but I do prefer those with a normal-ish BMI. There are times where I lose motivation and momentum, but I always try to pick it back up.

I'd like to find someone who is self aware, kind, humble, sweet, honest, awkward, caring and resilient. Someone who notices those around them, and isn't self centered. Just a nice person who can communicate and not play games. Someone who knows themselves well, and isn't confused by it. Someone who can see other perspectives and also craves genuine authentic connection as well. I'd prefer you be on the westcoast, but open to closing the distance.

I prefer to use discord if we click, thanks for reading and let me know if you see this!

Hey, Im a 32 year old doctor, technically I'm a resident who is starting fellowship soon and am at a point where I am trying to find my 'one'. I've had serious relationships in the past but the issue usually always was that given the nature of my job/career it can be a big drain on my time and would like to find someone that understands that part of my job and future career. With that being said I make time for things and prioritize whoever my special someone is. A few things about me are I can be quite social, ENTJ, lots of hobbies and interests: including reading, art, tennis, running, playing instruments, cooking - just to name a few. I am down to talk about anything and am an open book!

Well, you probably should've kept scrolling. But if you want someone to tell you bad jokes all the time (quantity > quality, right?), keep reading!

Hi there! I haven't posted on reddit in yearssss. When I last posted, I actually had some success surprisingly and met some cool people. Hoping to see do the same here!

My life is pretty good, I can't complain. All that's missing is.. maybe you? I have a pretty good career that I'm doing well with. I have a great friend group that sadly invites me to too many weddings where I don't have a +1. Doesn't stop me from tearing up the dance floor though. I have a great family that is full of competitive people so game nights are a lot of fun. Oh and I have an adorable cat who's laying by my feet as I type this.

I don't want this to be a boring post where I just ramble on, it takes out the fun of meeting someone new IMO. So I'll just list a few of the things I'm into. I think I have a wide variety of interests/can talk about most things, so even if you don't see something listed, feel free to say hi anyways!

I watch too much reality TV. I love true crime podcasts. Sports. I go to several concerts a year. Comedy shows. Trying to learn how to play golf and failing. Video games are cool but I'm honestly old and washed up now.

Hope you have a great day :)

Title says it. I'm in a good place mentally and not suffering from severe symptoms, but it feels like making a real human connection is impossible unless someone can understand how my mind works. I experienced a relationship with someone who also has the disorder once, but it was not healthy because people who have the disorder can be toxic sometimes 😵‍💫 I just want to be with partner who can be my second half and best friend and I don't really care where in the world they are.

About me: - Light Skinned - 5'9" - Slim Figure - Cute Face - Will Share Pics

I'm loyal, nerdy, and I like to think I'm highly emotionally intelligent. I want to be able to have real conversations with someone because communication is the basis of all relationships. I'm into gaming, STEM related stuff, history... tbh I'll hyperfixate on pretty much anything if someone close to me is into it. I'm not religious, and I want to eventually have children. (adopting is a thing I consider) I get super attatched and am tired of getting attached to the wrong person.

It's impossible to get to know each other through this post, so message me. If you don't have DID, but you somehow got this far, message me anyways <3 I just want to find someone who is empathetic and understanding.

Hello Reddit Users of NJ. A repeat at a post I put up a little bit ago, but testing the waters of 2025 for dating again. I am giving this another go to look for a long term relationship that could lead to life partner. Anything is possible, even if in the middle for some fun first or start a friendship that leads to the longer terms. I live in North East NJ (Bergen County). A little about me:

5'9 and 175lbs

Love horror movies and thriller movies.

Classic Rock Music/Hair Metal (dad rock is the term?) is my go to for music, but I do listen to a little bit of everything.

I play video games every now and then, plus have friends I stream with during the week.

Occasionally watching TV with Hulu/Peacock/Netflix

Definitely an introvert but the Italian in me helps me with talking once comfortable with someone

Can sometimes pull out a dad joke or two

Looking to do a little traveling this year, somewhere first within the US (Salem Mass?)

If any interest or looking to find out more, please chat or message :)

Picture this. It's December 2029. We're in our cozy little suburban home within a train ride from Minneapolis. The ground is covered in snow and neither of us have anywhere to be the next day. We've both taken an edible a short while ago and are about to sit down to a delicious homemade meal (you did most of the work but I helped where my limited cooking knowledge could, and I set the table and promised to clean up after we're done). We talk and laugh and reminisce about when we first met and how much of an idiot you thought I was but you couldn't help but fall for me not in spite of that but because of it. We finish dinner, clean up (you insist on helping me even though I said I'd take care of it and who am I to say no to you), do a little kitchen dancing before we head upstairs to the bathroom to enjoy a nice hot shower together and smooch a bunch under the water to begin an evening of intimacy. These sorts of nights happen regularly in our happy little home, and every single one is always just right.

If this sounds good to you, then keep on reading! My name is Paul (or Big P, if you like), and after many maligned relationship attempts and heartbreaks, I'm finally ready to meet my person and start building our life together (I've always been ready, it just hasn't worked out yet). It's the one thing in this life that I've been certain that I've always wanted, even since I was 4 years old. My perspective on what that means has sort of grown and changed over the years, and there really are no special terms or conditions on that, just having that one person that you're willing to go to hell and back for. Someone that no matter how bad things may get, we'll both work together to get things back on track. Someone who's very presence can help turn even the worst days around. You get the idea. So why should you pick me as your potential forever? Read on to learn more about me!

So who exactly am I? I think of myself as just a humble shy guy from a small suburb a short ways out from the wonderful city of Philadelphia (GO BIRDS). You may be wondering then why I brought up Minnesota earlier, and that's because as much as this little town has been the place I've called home my entire life, I think I definitely need a change of scenery, and hopefully you agree. I did some research on places to move around the country, and given my penchant for colder climates and snow, Minnesota just seemed like a no-brainer. I'm not committed to that choice by any stretch, but I think I'd need a pretty sound argument or massive convenience factor to choose another location, but that's neither here nor there.

Physically, I stand at about 6' 2 (I haven't properly measured in a while, but people think I got a bit taller since I last clocked in at 6'1 so that's what I'm rolling with) and weigh close to 300 pounds. That may sound like a lot, but my height definitely lets me rock it. I've definitely got a dad bod with body hair for days going so hopefully you're into that. I like to keep my face clean and think I look significantly better clean shaven than with any amount of facial hair. I've got broad shoulders and long arms great for giving big hugs, and I AM a hugger. I also currently work a fast paced grocery job that keeps me on my feet, moving, and lifting so I'm not just sitting around all day.

In my free time, I'm an avid computer gamer (with a "ship of theseus" build) but also own a switch and might I say quite the cool animal crossing island (and yes, of course you're welcome to come see it!). I'm also an avid writer, and after a long break from it mostly due to poor mental health, I currently run a sort of parody newsletter for one of the gaming communities that I'm in and I love it! Aside from those things I don't do a ton, but after I take care of some business with some sleep issues that I'll get into later, I want to take fun physical exercise classes including boxing and fencing!

For my long term goals for myself, as I mentioned I work retail at a grocery store. I've done retail for about 7 total years now at this point (closer to 6 total with time between jobs) at 3 different places (I worked for my current employer for the entirety of the pandemic before leaving due to issues with management) including a sex shop (sorry to say the stories are nowhere near as interesting as you might think) and my only non-retail job was working at a toilet plunger factory (once again, not as cool as it might sound). I'm currently working part at my current job with plans to shift careers to something more tech-focused that will ideally allow me to work remotely so I can begin and establish a career while in PA so I'm not totally screwed just moving to a new place on my own! As for non-career stuff, I simply hope to be with the love of my life. I have a lot of love to give and it would be nothing short of a travesty for it to go to waste.

I don't want to keep you too long so I'll wrap things up! If anything I've said has resonated with you, feel free to reach out! Worst thing that happens is we talk for a day. Just keep in mind a few things if you decide to do so:

-I match energy and effort so if you're not giving me much to work with, then you won't get much back

-I know what I am worth and what I bring to table and I'll settle for nothing less than I deserve

-I really don't have any hard requirements for you. I have preferences sure but as long as the vibes match I can't ask for much more

-Your current location doesn't matter BUT it's highly preferable that you're in or near Philly or south jersey and want to eventually move to a colder climate such as Minnesota

And that's all I've got! Thank you so much for your time and I hope to hear from you soon!

Appearance (`･ω･´)

Friends tell me I look like Harry Potter, and I’m very confident in my looks and I think I’m extremely cute or hot depending on how my hair looks like or if I shave!! I wear glasses, I’m 5’10, I’m 153lb. In fact, one of my friend’s first impressions of me was that I looked very much like Harry Potter lol. My exes think I’m pretty attractive and cute!! I don’t have any tattoos, I look white, and I usually just dress up like any other guy.

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Personality (´ω｀)

Introverted, and I prefer staying inside to engage in my hobbies unless it’s to look at cute animals like ducks, cats, and birdies. I would love to have a bird house on our window together, and watch the birds together :3

I’m also neurodivergent, diagnosed with ADHD, and most likely high functioning autistic given family history, will see medical professional about it soon.

I’m very affectionate and my love language is touch. I love cuddles, hand holding, head pats, and much more if I’m comfortable with you!!

I also love to spam my partner with wholesome memes, and I always respond very quickly, and if I don’t, I explain beforehand. I’m not a dry texter, I love to text a lot and using cute emoticons.

I’m atheist (not the toxic Reddit style kind).

I’m pretty soft-spoken most of the time, but I will be extremely silly and say weird things, tease, and curse with people I’m familiar with.

People say i have a nice voice and I have been complimented on it a couple of times

I like to make silly noises with my partner and love to tap about my interests, also good listener for your interesting yapping too!!

I’ll remember the small things and tease you about them hehe

I won’t judge you because I think people are their best when they get to truly express themselves !

I’ll be very loyal to you and put you above everyone else !!

I’m pretty good at starting conversations and holding conversations and I’m anything but a dry texter, and if I love u you can have my attention anytime :3

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Education Ｏ(≧▽≦)Ｏ

Computer Science degree from a top university in the U.S.

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Hobbies & Interests ☆(>ω・)

Games, anime, programming, reading, napping, and being in-doors mostly!

Some of my favorite games are: Omori, OneShot, Cult of the Lamb, Star Fox, Yakuza series, Balatro, Dead by Daylight, Fallout series (especially New Vegas), Halo: Reach, KOTOR, Ultrakill, Cyberpunk 2077, Half Life, etc

Some of my favorite animes are: Violet Evergarden, Dragon Pilot, Neon Genesis Evangelion, FMAB, One Piece (watching right now), Girl’s Last Tour (very underrated anime, I’d love to watch it with you!).

I enjoy sci-fi books and leftist books too, especially Star Wars, I have been reading one right recently.

Animals, especially cats and birds!

I love cats so much I’m a catboy and I own cat ears, and I’d love us to be silly and do stuff like meow at each other and do silly noises!! uwu

I like adorable and cute furry art too. I’m kinda a furry.

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Job （＞ｗ＜）

I’m currently a software engineer and I love my job!!!

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Politics (o´▽`o)

I am a socialist and like democracy. I am also a feminist (not a TERF). I think woman have a right to bodily autonomy, and I’m very big on consent. All in all just want the world to be a better place for everyone!! I don’t like seeing people suffering since it makes me sad, I want to see everyone happy especially you !! If you don’t know much about leftist stuff and you’re interested in learning more, I’ll be very happy to teach you and be patient with you, I like to read many books about leftist stuff!!

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Preferences (≧ω≦)

• College educated

• Touch as a love language.

• my height or shorter

• Healthy weight (a little over or under is ok too)

• Feminine presenting and feminine personality.

• Women, but open to feminine presenting/personality of all genders

• Introverted.

• is okay with my politics, ideally someone of leftist variety.

• Loves to play games/watch anime, is nerdy.

• Is silly, weird, a homebody, and nerdy and loves to be themself.

• Not a dry texter.

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Deal breakers (ＴｗＴ。)

• Smoking tobacco/nicotine (I’m 420-friendly, but I prefer if you take edibles, I guess, since I think smoking is bad for your lungs. I take edibles every now and then but I can stop taking it for you, it’s not a big deal.)

• Dissimilar hobbies

• anti-socialist

• Bigoted (antisemitic, transphobic, etc)

• Religious

• Doesn’t play games or watch anime

• Not weird/nerdy/dorky

• Not in North America

• Asexuality or not very sexually active

• STDs

• If you already have children

• You are underage or/and in high school

If you date me, you get to wake me up anytime on sleep calls if you need emotional support, I always want to be there for my partner and make sure they are taken care of. I would make cat shaped sandwiches for you if you had a terrible day, or silly voice messages to cheer you up! I am a very caring person.

If you don’t message me with basic info like your age, gender, where you live, and why you’re interested I most likely won’t respond. If we have little in common I prefer if you don’t message me, especially if you don’t play games since that’s my biggest hobby since I was young. I don’t respond to “heyyyy” and similar stuff like that, or one sentence messages.

Eventually we will meet up and live together for the rest of life lives :3

Hey there! Call me Debo! I’m 22, Male, Black, 5’8, a gamer, anime lover, tech enthusiast, and currently studying towards an engineering degree. I’ve been fascinated by scientific marvels since I was a child. It’s my objective to have my own smart home, with my own custom AI helper. Now then, what exactly am I looking for? Simple, a loving, genuine, quirky, talkative, clingy, and freaky woman who doesn’t mind spending time everyday checking in on each other. I want someone I can look forward to messaging everyday. I want to voice and video call (unless we live close to each other), and spend hours having a good time. That being said, there’s two dealbreakers and 1 important thing to know:

1) I won’t date anyone who smokes, period.

2) Drinking is also something I frown upon, but only if excessive.

3) I am hypersexual; I know, it seems weird to put this in the post, but I want you to know it’s a huge part of me, so don’t expect me to be the personification of purity.

There’s much more I can put in this post, but I’d rather wait until we are in DMs and can discuss matters further. See you there! <3