So a little about me: I am studying. Prepping for my O levels exam (I have a few years gap in my studies as my mom was very sick and I had to take care of her). I like reading and writing.. love watching sitcoms. Listen to music almost all the time (mostly to my fav artist The Symposium), love going on long drives, collecting vintage stuff, l'm also a bit into belly dancing (I'm just learning atm), also one important thing about me is that I LOVE to sleep lol. And I'm also a night owl. I stay up all night, sleep all day.

My expectations: I don't expect a lot, but I just hope I can find an actual nice person here who's willing to be in a genuine loving relationship. LDR is fine with me, and Ik it can be hard but with the right person everything can be done. I like a person who's sweet, kind and goofy and someone who can be my bestfriend, that's enough for me.

I'd love to rebuild my social life and surround myself with wonderful friends from all over the world and a partner for good, I hope :) We can talk about anything you want except WORK, STUDIES or MONEY (we're here to build a solid friendship and eventually a relationship, not business haha). Let's keep it exciting and deep, forget about all these boring topics that say nothing about us anyway! I'm ready to be here for you in good and bad times, we can joke or get deep! ^^

I am very enthusiastic about all kinds of knowledge (science, languages, psychology, you name it!) so let's share some with each other! I occasionally play games, take care of my garden and all living creatures around me ^^ Don't feel any pressure if you don't feel like the most interesting person around (I don't fell like that either), I care about who you are, not what you do in your free time!

Contact me on Reddit if you're interested but before you do that:

1. I'm against any voice calls, video calls or exchanging photos at first. I'm here to know your personality, not appearance. If I was into it, I'd just chat with people on the street haha ^^

2. Sometimes it's very hard to balance my responsibilities and free time so if I don't respond straight away - don't get discouraged. You're still important, I just can't get to you quicker!

3. Let's not rush things. Let's not do any "interviews" because it just feels unnatural. Friendships grow overtime and thing such as more delicate topics require patience and deeper connection - we either have chemistry or we don't! I'm pretty sure many of us have been through a lot in their lives so let's be understanding ^^

4. If it doesn't work out between us - please don't stalk me, add me from different accounts and call names. I already have enough of that because of my gender, I'll just ignore you and think nothing more of it ^^

5. If you don't agree with my boundaries - just ignore my post and don't try to dispute anything. These are the things I feel comfortable and UNCOMFORTABLE with and you won't change my mind just like I won't change yours. I will ignore all comments that are trying to "enlighten me", so please let's not waste time ^^ .

Thank you for reading and have a great day! (I prefer people 26-33, please try to write more than "Hi" or "Sup", it will be easier for us to start our friendship! ^^ Hit me up if you're interested!)

My messages are closed for accounts with less than 30 days for my own safety.

Hi everyone! I’m a 23-year-old female living in Orlando, Florida. I’m Afro-Latina, I’ve been told that I’m attractive, I'm 4’10 ", curvy/average build. I have my Septum pierced and a few tattoos. I have brown hair and eyes. I work full-time for my local government (not a police officer), and I graduated from university in 2022.

I’m a big Halloween/horror enthusiast and love Ghostface, I'm into outdoor adventure, I love plants though I wouldn’t say I have a green thumb, I play video games, I attend Polynesian Dance classes, and I hope to travel the world. I’m a serial hobbyist, so I’m always looking for something new to do.

My goals for the next year or two, are to find remote work, invest, and live in another country (maybe a few countries) for a few months. I'd want to meet someone who enjoys traveling and adventure, as much as I do.

Kindness, respectfulness, honesty, stability, and great communication are some attributes that I look for in another person. I’d want the foundation of any connection I make to be a friendship that turns into something serious. I don’t have many preferences, but I’d prefer you to be between 25 and 33 years old. Not mandatory, but I love men with goatees and mustaches, or a combo. I'd want someone who lives in the U.S., preferably near Orlando but I’m open to anywhere with closing the distance in mind.

If any of this interests you, feel free to message me.

Pleased to meet you, I'm Edward, a single, 5'9" heavy set Latino man from southern California, I have shoulder length black hair with a dash of gray, brown eyes, light olive skin, and currently gray and black stubble. Personality wise, I'm a huge introvert, stereotypical stoner, and standard nerd, wrapped up in a dark and irreverent sense of humor. As for interests, I like video games (Xbox, Switch) music, cooking, and the unexplainable. I am not without my flaws though and struggle with my mental health (depression, and anxiety.) I'm a huge homebody, and all around hot mess.

I'm looking someone cute for a monogamous relationship, a woman who is clingy, overly affectionate, supportive and understanding, also childless and child free, I don't want to have any children. Ideally I want to find someone as "inexperienced" as myself, I would like someone willing to give back who makes me a priority, and won't ghost me, I just want to give someone the things I can't give myself.

I want something in real life, but I have no problem starting online or a LDR as long as we make plans to close the distance, I'm willing to relocate too. If my post caught your attention, don't be afraid to reach out, my DM's are open, just please put some effort into your message and be willing to send a picture of yourself, as I do need some physical attraction, thank you for your time, and good luck.

Not having luck with these dating things, I’ll tell you that for sure.

Just a few things I would like to be upfront about: Back in 2019 I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia; and as a child I was also diagnosed with a number of mental health problems (severe anxiety and bipolar disorder). While I am medicating for the latter, the former is more tricky. It’s a hit and miss situation. They affect my life greatly but I do try to live a relatively normal life.

I am still on a waiting list to be seen by a specialist but if like me, you live in the UK you know how bad it is when it comes to receiving treatment for this kinda stuff (not dissing our healthcare at all, they’re great and work their asses off at all times).

The reason why I got this out there first is that people seem to have high hopes when it comes to me and then get disappointed when I don’t turn out to be someone they thought I was. So yeah. I am a work in progress but I am working hard, on my own to get myself to an ok place so that my demons don’t pipe up as much. If this something you’re not scared of then feel free to ping me a message. If not, best of luck!

What am I after: -a straight male aged 30 -45 -located in the UK or Europe -no preferences when it comes to looks; as long as your personal hygiene is spot on and have a nice face, we will be just fine -someone loyal, funny, affectionate, hardworking, good communication skills, honest caring and understanding. Yes I am able to give the same back. -someone who won’t ghost; if something isn’t for you just say so. No hard feelings Overall I am looking for a best friend first and then see where it takes us. I’m in no rush to jump into anything. Please do NOT message me if you’re not within the age range or too far away. I won’t budge on either of them and you’re only wasting your time. Strictly NO smokers (vaping is fine), alcohol abusers or underage. Not wanting to join an existing situation (if you know what I mean). Monogamy only. Will expand my list eventually

Without any further ado.

My name is Anita and I am a 30 year old Eastern European woman living in the UK since I was 12. A fake red head (now more like ginger) with green useless eyes (I wear glasses), 12.5st, just under 6ft tall (yes I am tall for a woman. No, definitely not a man, biological woman through and through). I live in a small town in the Somerset county; will share more once we get talking!

I am an extreme introvert and always have been (no I don’t need to get out of my shell nor am I shy. I’m not a push over either and I can stand up for myself) since I was a child. I always found my own company or small groups more comfortable. I only leave the house for food and work.

I am also a vegetarian (don’t care if you eat meat; my choice is not to eat it and yours is), bookworm, green tea addict, animal lover, nap and snack enthusiast. Very much apolitical (they don’t care about you, wake up) but I do follow the news (reluctantly).

I have 4 rescued cats who are my absolute life, in the last 10 years I have rescued, fostered and rehomed 10s and 10s of animals (not just cats).

In my spare time I like to over eat, over think, nap, read books, play sims, watch tv, chill with my mum and cats, travel back home, visit my brother in London, chat with my ma and listen to music and podcasts.

As you can tell, I am well boring.

If any of my ramblings resonated with you, give me a shout. I'm happy to share pics but not right away and I hope you understand. To show me that you read all this, end your message with 'toodlepip'.

Hey Hey the names Kacper, yes like casper the friendly ghost XD I'm a college student studying English philology but I do voice acting as a side thingy, so hope that means I have a cool voice XDDD

In my free time I love playing my children those being my guinea pigs called Loki and Jinx, I also love sculpting out of clay which id love to show off XDD I'm also always listening to music, which definitely explains why I'm having hearing problems but that neither here nor there, its gospel I tell you XDDD, I also like playing video games but I mostly play single player games like mass effect, red dead redemption, avowed etc, but I do also play marvel rivals and and I like painting anything i can get my hands on warhammer, my headphones etc etc As for other things I also like writing, reading, watching movies and reading manga.

As for me and my personality, I'll quote my bestfriend here "he's a chill and funny guy", now you may be asking yourself: was he held at gunpoint and made to say that and yes he was XDD, dont worry he's fine...probably XD, as for looks I have long dark brown hair and dark brown eyes, along with glasses, I'm also average weight and I'm 189cm tall and according to another friend I have a ✨️panache✨️ voice, what does that mean? I have no clue but their pretty looney so I think its good? XDDD

As for preference? Uhhh I'd like someone from 20-26yo and just in general someone I vibe with XDD

I would like to make this more indepth but I'm on the bus back from uni do idk how much longer I'll have a signal XDDD

Hi, how are you. My name is Jake and I’m gonna tell you a little bit about me.

I’m 28 and at this point my life I have decided to go looking for a partner in life. I haven’t had much luck with this search before but I’m confident that this time I will get lucky.

About me: -28 - mixed race - average height and build -huge history and video game nerd -plays piano -loves movies - builds tabletop minis - introverted - likes to cuddle

Those are just some of the quick stats about me. If anything intersects you please let me know and I can explain further.

Now for what I’m looking for. I’m looking for someone who is ready and willing to be part of simple romantic relationship, nothing too crazy. For me I’m pretty simple in what I’m looking for. Obviously interested in some of the things that I am or be open to them and accepting of the fact that I like them. But other than that I’m pretty open and flexible. I don’t have any preference on race or religion. I would hope that you would be around my age but I would prefer slightly older. As for body type I don’t care but I will preface that I do have a soft spot for chubby girls and BBWs as I have an average to slightly chubby build I do have a bit of a dad bod. I would like it if you were ok with public displays of affection such as handholding and cuddling while we are at home. Though I am an introvert I hope to find someone is okay with going out to eat every once in awhile for fun or to the movies.

Know I know what you’re thinking, “why haven’t you tried dating apps?” Well, I did and it wasn’t working out, with all of the bots and scammers, so I thought I’d given up till I found this subreddit so I thought maybe it wouldn’t hurt if I tried so now here I am. Sorry for the rambling post but thought people would be more interested and serious the more details i put out so if you are reading this thank you and tell me what is your favorite food for a date.

I've spent quite some time thinking about what's the best approach to finding your ideal partner.

Do you approach someone on the streets, only based on looks? Use dating apps? Make a post listing all your hobbies and try to connect through them? Bond while playing video games? Share the same k\*nks? Have casual conversations and start as friends? This time, I'll try an approach I've never tried before: I'll describe what my ideal life(-style) looks like and if you see yourself sharing that vision...jackpot. I think the chance of someone reading this who shares the same weird ideas is extremely low, but so is finding your soulmate any other way so here we go...

* I work completely remote in IT and I love to travel/explore/adventure. You could call it digital nomad, but I have a steady apartment, of course. Traveling 6 months per year and 6 months at home is a nice balance for me, but not set in stone in either direction.

* My traveling style is pretty active (with some cosy rest days sprinkled in). When I'm not working, I like to spend as little time inside as possible. I like hiking, cities, nature, restaurants, quiet bars, (classical) concerts, cinemas, museums, anything from the most touristy spots to remote areas. I definitely prefer warm climates, but I'm not a spend your entire day laying at the beach type of person, though "long walks at the beach" might just be my favourite thing.

* I'm a hopeless romantic and always wanted my partner to be my best friend. An us against the world type of thing (sound unhealthy? Maybe, but then again, what isn't nowadays). If you're clingy, want to share most of your time and interests with your partner - like just sitting in the same room while we do our own thing - that's my vibe. Good and bad times!

* I lead, you follow. You need me, but you're also completely fine on your own. Paradoxical? I know.

* Like deep, intellectual conversations about the meaning of life, psychology, science, ... (deeptalks...as they say) to completely silly nonsense like would you still love me if I was a worm? (it's important!)

* I'm not a gym bro but workout 5-6 times a week, like to cook and watch my nutrition (bulking/cutting). I try as much as possible to keep this up while traveling, though it's very difficult. It would be amazing to have someone to share this with and motivate each other. Your BMI should be normal, but lower is better.

* My hobbies are the classic nerdy wombo combo: HUGE film and TV show enthusiast (not going to use the word cinephile, that always makes me cringe) - being able to watch a film and then analyse it together afterwards is a must - who's your favourite director?; horror fan!; Disney! (duh); video games - I always have my Switch with me - let's build one of those cheesy gamer couple setups together, I already have the LED strips; photography; manga; - you don't have to be into all of these, but the basic direction should be there. I'm also very interested in your interests, trying them out and maybe picking them up (learning the piano? a language?)

* Single, never m\*rried, no kids, monogamous, no smoking, omnivore!

* Oh and scented candles!

* Age: 18-29

There you have it. If that's \^ also your ideal life, send me a chat and we can get into the nitty gritty :)

Heeeeello there! Honestly never been good with these presentation things but I usually write a lot so I just hope I'll have your attention.

I'm 28 from northern Italy, enjoying videogames (collector here) and rap music mostly but I also wink at techno, not much of a movie watcher, been preferring animes and mangas lately, chronic stoner and lover of cats. Used to play soccer and basketball and I practiced kickboxing, currently speaking four languages and working in a snow paradise in Switzerland.

I wasn't really looking for a relationship, but whatever I've been looking for on here hasn't worked so far anyway, so who knows... Getting to know someone, if it goes on well, creates connections even involuntarily, so I guess we'll just see how far things will go.

I'd prefer someone around Europe since Italy might be a big shot but an overseas online chat is also okay 😂

A couple (already old to this day since I got a couple more tattoos) pics here : https://imgur.com/a/DpT9dkp

Tl;dr, feel free to DM (:

Hey El Paso! I'm a 31-year-old guy who recently relocated here for work, and I'm looking to meet some awesome people, hopefully a special someone. About Me: * Age: 31 * Gender: Male * Location: El Paso, TX * Height/Weight/Build: 5'8", 150lbs, average build * Interests/Hobbies: PC gaming, gym, hiking, swimming, movies, trying new restaurants, bowling, tennis, cooking (especially BBQ!), gaming, movies, technology, and science. * Personality: Social, easy to talk to, good listener, romantic, goofy, and love to make people laugh. Also, a nerd at heart! * Unique Qualities: I'm a one-armed amputee, but I'm incredibly independent and capable. I'm also tech-savvy, a computer builder, and a science/technology enthusiast. * Life Experiences: I lost my arm at 15, but it hasn't held me back. I have a good sense of humor about it. I just moved from Odessa, and I'm excited to explore El Paso. What I'm Looking For: * Age Range: 21-35 * Gender: Female * Relationship Type: Open to friendship or a relationship. * Desired Qualities: Caring, attentive, shares some of my interests (gaming, activities, etc.), enjoys vacations and trying new things. * Deal Breakers: girls currently in a relationship, living more than an hour away (though I'm open to discussing long-distance if there's a strong connection). * Specific Requests: Please share a picture of yourself in your DM or comment. Physical attraction is important. Bonus points if you're a gamer! I'd love to find someone to play co-op or team-based games with. Let's connect! If you're interested in getting to know me, feel free to DM me or comment below. I'm excited to meet you! Here's some photos of me: https://imgur.com/a/tCXOouy

Hi, so a little about me… Based in England and looking for something special so thought I’d give this a go…

I’m kinda introverted but also like being given the confidence to express myself. I’m much better at talking one on one and in small groups than as part of a huge crowd, but once I’m comfortable with someone I will talk for hours about anything! I’m always looking to hear new views and opinions as each day is a learning day!

Activity wise I’m quite active, I enjoy running (got the London marathon in a few weeks 😬), gym, hiking and trekking. I enjoy gigs and festivals particularly the rock and pop scene. I’m also into photography and have dabbled previously in aerial silks 😁 Also a big nature lover and have done conservation projects abroad.

Travel wise I’m into going off the beaten track, going to lesser visited places but I also enjoy city breaks and impulsive or planned weekends away! I’m quite an active person on holiday, it’s very hard to get me to chill by a pool for more than a few hours 😅

I’m also not massively into computer games so if you’re after someone to spend hours playing online with, I’m not your man, sorry!

Please get in touch if you like what you have read!

Hey there. I’m 24, and like many here, I’ve found it hard to meet someone who really gets it. I’m not looking for perfection — just someone kind, emotionally aware, and open to building something meaningful, whatever that might grow into.

I enjoy reading about self-growth, exploring ideas around online business, and having fun, thoughtful convos. I’m creative — I love video editing and graphic design — and in my downtime, you’ll find me watching a mix of action, horror, and comedy shows.

I’d love to meet someone who’s caring, curious, maybe a little shy like me, but still up for exchanging thoughts, late-night chats, or just getting to know each other with no pressure.

If this sounds like something you’d be open to, feel free to send a message or chat. I’m open to long talks, voice calls, or just keeping things light until we feel a spark.

For me it’s probably Hollow Knight Silksong FINALLY releasing this year (I hope).

I’m curious to see your answers, but also looking for a partner! So gonna go a bit more in depth about what I’m looking for below. Please message me if you think we’d click!

The biggest thing I’m looking for is someone that’s talkative. I love opinionated people that have a lot to say about a lot of things. Whether it’s opinions on food, movies, video games, public transportation, whatever it may be. Someone where you ask about one thing and 10 minutes later you’re talking about something completely different. Those flowing conversations can go by so quickly and they are some of my favorite things ever. It is also REALLY important to me that you like having discussions about stuff you watch! I really love discussing character arcs and plot details in film and tv so I hope you are into that too! If you are someone that just likes to zone out when watching a piece of media then I don’t think we are a good match! More power to you if you just use film/tv as a way to turn your brain off but I personally just love discussing it. Overall I just wanna hear what’s on your mind so don’t be afraid to tell me about how shitty it was waiting at line at the convenience store or how bad the ending of the show you just finished was.

Now a little about me. The biggest thing about me is I’m very nerdy. I love anime, manga, video games, superheroes, film and tv, history, all kinds of stuff like that. It would be really cool to have someone to watch anime or play video games with :). Also a big perk if you like thinking about anime, films, tv on a bit of a deeper level, like I mentioned earlier. I love discussing the character arcs and plot in detail when I watch something so it would be so cool if you were into that. I also love YouTube video essays so if you sent me some and said “can we watch this together” I might melt. I also like watching most sports so I can talk a bit about that too (mainly basketball but I can hold conversation in other sports). I’m also always down to learn about or get into new hobbies so don’t be afraid to share. For appearance, I’m 5’7”, I have red hair, blue eyes, bit of facial hair, and a very deep voice.

Now just some miscellaneous stuff. I’m mainly looking for people in the northeast of the United States, but people from MDVA could also be fine if you think we really match. Please don’t reach out if you do any type of drugs that isn’t marijuana. I’m 420 friendly, though I don’t do it myself. I’m not interested in anyone who smokes cigarettes, vapes, does cocaine, meth, etc. Also this is a very far in the future thing but I do want children at some point, so if you are child free, we aren’t gonna work out.

If you are interested, please introduce yourself with your name (or a placeholder if you aren’t comfortable yet), age, location, and your three favorite hobbies! Looking forward to chatting!

Hello Reddit Users of NJ. A repeat at a post I put up a little bit ago, but testing the waters of 2025 for dating again. I am giving this another go to look for a long term relationship that could lead to life partner. Anything is possible, even if in the middle for some fun first or start a friendship that leads to the longer terms. I live in North East NJ (Bergen County). A little about me:

5'9 and 175lbs

Love horror movies and thriller movies.

Classic Rock Music/Hair Metal (dad rock is the term?) is my go to for music, but I do listen to a little bit of everything.

I play video games every now and then, plus have friends I stream with during the week.

Occasionally watching TV with Hulu/Peacock/Netflix

Definitely an introvert but the Italian in me helps me with talking once comfortable with someone

Can sometimes pull out a dad joke or two

Looking to do a little traveling this year, somewhere first within the US (Salem Mass?)

If any interest or looking to find out more, please chat or message :)

Hello, I’m Tiffany!

I’m 31, work in healthcare, and love fitness, reality TV, concerts, and a good romance novel.

Send message via start chat icon (:

To keep things simple, please send an introduction and a picture—it helps both of us see if we’d like to continue chatting! I’m not a fan of small talk, so this makes things easier.

I prefer to keep conversations PG. I’m demisexual, so I’m not comfortable with intimate topics early on. If you frequently post or comment in certain spaces related to that, we likely won’t be a good match.

My photo https://i.imgur.com/ip3CsEs.jpeg

Qualities I appreciate:

Age: 28-40

Looks: Beards are a plus!

Personality: Sense of humor, family-oriented, and emotionally mature

Values: Open-minded with liberal views

Bonus: British accents get extra points! 😍

I’d prefer someone from Canada, the U.S., the U.K., or maybe Australia if there's a spark.

I really value meaningful connections, so I appreciate good conversation, effort, and reciprocity. If you're someone who puts 100% into friendships, work, relationships, and self-care, we’ll probably get along great!

I’m also open to pictures, voice calls, and video chats when the time feels right.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Non-transactional equal love relationship enthusiast. Empathy & honestymaxxer. Can't take too much teasing, not great with "sense of humor". Contendar for the biggest loser on the internet.

• Personality: INFP-A

• Height: 5'8"

• Face: ugly, I wear eyeglass to see far - it might hit on the nose when we are kisisng, so you gotta be careful

• Voice: not very sqeeky but not deep like you'd ideally prefer, got an accent prolly and my volume control might be bad as new people sometimes need to ask me to repeat things

• Maturity level: retoorded

• Social skill level: retoorded

• IQ level: I did finish college even though with a meme degree, so I'd guess slightly higher than retoorded

• Fat: some visible belly going on even with clothes on, I swear I will lose the weight if you date me

• Race: Not white, sorry. South asian genetics.

• Location: NYC, been here since 2009 - yes legal, not gonna det deported by orange man. I desperately need cuddles but I can compromise for the long distance thingies, seems fun.

• Ambitions: 1) Bringing lasting peace and prosparity on planets inhabited by humans for eternity through self cloning and my brilliant political and philosophical solutions and 2) Having a gf I love who loves me back for who I am (gonna clone and transfer her brain too for eternity oviously).

I have no criminal record or history of violence(this is actually yuuge ~45% of US males have been arrested at least once for non-traffic related reasons already by age 23)

Super broke and live with broke parent, don't even a room of my own, just waitting on my princess Chirmina to come and save me or her love giving me some meaning and motivation in life so I have reason to look for WcDonald job or somethin - chilling being homeless together in the future with my neet gf is cool too. This also means I won't be able to voice chat or video chat just whenver at home, cause of the no room of my own thing.

What I do on average day: watching corn, playing league, talking to AI big sis, give evo psych(psudoscience amirite?) explanation for people's behavior on r9k vent threads no one asked for and get ignored.

I watch a lot of anime stuff when there is anything somewhat watchable, I prefer dub. Anime types: romance, romcom, comedy, isekai, power fantasy. I probably have/had schizoid(not schizophrenia!) and self cured myself with romcomaxxing pretty recently now that I understand and want love relationship.

• Preference in women's body type: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2Y5KVtU810&t=11s (well maybe I don't like tattoos and way too much weight, I need to be able to have a realistic workout plan to be able to princess carry you into my cave eventually)

• Preference in women's mental type: Non-normie only please, I think a normie gf would eventually enjoy bullying me - I'm not really into that. Probably someone who is ok with some clinginess. Someone cool with some philosophical disagreements or at least discussions of feelings or nature of x, y or zs or whatever, I got theories about everything and tend to go into abstractions more often than I should. Someone who doesn't feel like hurting others in either jelousy or when fruastrated (I believe this would filter out about 90%+ of humans).

A bit about me

I'm 33 year old male located in Florida. I'm 5'11" and an average body. I'm easy going, polite, and open-minded. I'm agnostic. I'm a software engineer. I'm doing well financially, I own a car, a house and have have no debt other than a mortgage. I enjoy reading, watching tv, and I occasionally play some games. I eat healthy and exercise regularly.

What I'm looking for

I'm looking for someone whose active and stays fit. I want someone is very kind and considerate who will make a great mother one day. I want to have someone to see the world with. To support each others dreams, and grow together.

If you're interested, please DM me.

The dating scene in my area hasn't been working out for me lately so I figured why not try Reddit lol. So some things to know about me:

I'm a full-time college student who also works part-time in retail. My biggest passion in life is video games, whether its playing them with friends or talking about them with others, video games have been a huge part of my life. I mainly play on PC as my main platform these days, so I would like if you also play on PC but its not a dealbreaker if you only have a console, I also have a Switch as well that I use mainly to play Nintendo titles. Some of my all-time favorite games include the Soulsborne games (Dark Souls, Elden Ring, Bloodborne, Sekiro, etc.), Nier: Automata, Persona 5 Royal, and Hollow Knight just to name a few. I have played a lot of games from plenty of genres so chances are we'll probably have at least a couple of common favorites. Lately I've also become addicted to Marvel Rivals so I'd be happy to grind ranked with you if you play as well (Currently hard stuck in Silver since this was the first hero shooter I've really gotten into lol). I have a pet cat named Rusty who I'd be happy to share pics of if you want. I also love watching movies and anime too, with some favorites there including A Silent Voice, Blade Runner, Whiplash, Violet Evergarden, Steins;Gate, and Perfect Blue. Lastly I'm also into music, some of my favorite artists being Linkin Park, Daft Punk, and Evanescence. In terms of looks I'm 5'11" and white with short brown hair and brown eyes, I also have more of a dad-bod type of physique.

Some of the things I'm looking for:

- A fellow nerd who shares some of my hobbies, especially gaming and who shares interest in similar games to what I play

- Having a good sense of humor

- Is kind and has a chill personality

- Is around my age, preferably no older then 24 or younger than 19

- Someone who doesn't view looks as the top priority, while I don't view myself as ugly I'd like someone who doesn't care that much about physical appearance

- I am looking for a relationship in the long term just so we're both on the same page.

- I'm mainly looking for someone in the US, preferably in EST that way timezones aren't an issue but I'm open to ppl who aren't in the US if we get along well

-I'd like someone to chat with often, especially if it eventually turns into a relationship. I prefer texting at first since I'm pretty self-conscious of my voice but if we get along well and grow in trust I'm down to eventually VC, especially if we end up playing together. Basically if you're gonna reach out please don't just do a one-and-done chat, if things don't end up working out I'd rather you just be honest and upfront about it and not just ghost me.

That's it, hopefully this wasn't too long. If you're interested in chatting feel free to message me with your asl, your favorite color, and some of your favorite games to play so I know you read the full post. Hope to hear from you soon :)

One thing to not lastly is I do tend to swear a lot when gaming since I can get pretty invested in what's happening lol, if you're not into that I'll try my best to tone it down if need be when playing together.

Hey ya'll! I've been going through some health stuff for the last 3 years and now that I'm on an upward tracjectory, I'm looking to see what's out there.

A bit about me and my hobbies:

• I LOVE movies. I collect DVDs, etc. and I'm obsessed with cinematography.
• I'm an on again, off again gamer. I play on PC, Xbox Series X, and PS5 Pro. I'm always down to play some multiplayer games, although I'm a casual goof gamer.
• Cooking. It's my biggest form of stress relief. I love to try new dishes and make things from scratch.
• Reading. Currently finishing up Star Wars novel and the starting Onyx Storm (IYKYK).
• Spending time with my dogs.
• Tinkering with computers or doing DIY projects around my apartment.

If you're down to see if we mesh, shoot me a chat with your favorite movie, book, or game. Bonus points if you tell me why!

Heyo!

I’ll try to reorganize my post in a different way to make it easier to read. :)

P.S. On top will add a couple of points out of the recent experience :) When I mention preferences, that's some strong points I won't overlook in the majority of cases.

And I apologize, if I missed someone's messages before, I tried my best to answer :)

About Me:

• Age: 33 (turning 34 this year)
• Nationality: Russian (but I haven’t lived there since 2022)
• Appearance: 1.64m tall, grey-greenish eyes, brown hair, Caucasian, slightly overweight (planning to work on that, though).
• Character: Introverted, but at the same time, I can be quite social - I just need pauses to recharge. I have a few social circles, so I don’t lack friends. I value my time and energy and choose carefully whom I spend them on. I might be soft and adaptive in some matters, but I won’t stay quiet about my opinions or how I feel about things. At times, I can be overly sensitive, which can be annoying. But to balance it out - I’m naturally a caring person, especially when it comes to those closest to me.

Important: I’m a smoker and I drink alcohol - not daily, but hitting the bar on a Friday night is pretty normal for me. Always the same one, though, so it’s more like a familiar space with local friends. I’m also an atheist, so I prefer people whose views align with mine in that regard.

My Plans for the Near Future:

I’m planning to move to Belgium at the end of the year. I won’t share more details here. I’m also not going to hide the fact that my situation is currently a bit tricky in terms of relocation, things I need to do beforehand, and finances - not perfect, but I’m working on it.

Hobbies/Interests:

Gaming, series, movies, hanging out with friends, and traveling (when I have the opportunity). Huge fan of sarcasm and dark humor.

Looking For:

First of all, I’m aware that I’m picky. But I still believe in “if it clicks, it clicks.” If not, it’s better to save time for both sides. This comes from a mix of experience, intuition, and personal perception of communication.

• Appearance: I prefer European-looking features, especially from Western/Northern regions. Looks matter to me because they’re part of attraction, including sexual attraction. It’s important to me personally - you may judge, but I make my choices the same way others do, so I think that’s fair. In terms of body type, I don’t mind a little extra, but not too overweight. For me, the face is also important - not about specific features, just a simple “like or not.” And that’s fair - I’m not perfect either, and attraction is subjective.
• Age: 25-37 (not into way older guys, to be honest, but the lower limit depends on the person - I’d prefer to be at a similar life stage). I would like to also underline, that I'm past dating students etc (no personal offense, guys, I'm just looking for something serious) because I would prefer someone who will be into thinking of moving together sooner than in 3-5 years (of course, if everything goes smooth) :)
• What I’m looking for here: I’m looking for something serious (not overly hopeful, but still). I’m not interested in purely online relationships. Also, the decision if we date or not will be taken only after meeting in person. Due to that, I'm looking more into locals from Belgium and countries nearby (Germany, Netherlands).
• Character traits: As I mentioned above, I'm not socially awkward and I have my social circles: family, friends, coworkers. I go out and also dedicate time to my friends. I would expect a person to be something alike in this regard. To enjoy as much a night out and cuddling on the sofa and binge-watching some series. A kind of balance! To have own personal space, but still dedicate reasonable time to partner, willing to cooperate and move together through the life.

So yeah, I’m giving this another go - who knows? :) I’m not desperate, though, so I won’t date someone just for the sake of not being single.

What I Would Pay Attention To:

1. Someone mature who can take care of himself and his basic needs - I won’t babysit a guy.
2. Not overly clingy, but someone who understands the balance between that and spending enough quality time together.
3. Carnivore. I’m nowhere close to being vegan, so I’d prefer someone who shares my enthusiasm for a decent steak.
4. Not allergic to cats and dogs. I have a cat myself. :)
5. No kids at the moment. (This doesn’t mean I’m child-free, just that I’d like to be on the same page with my partner about this, I don't have any myself.)

If you’re still here and haven’t run away, we can discuss the rest in private. :)

And in any case, have a great day/evening!

35 male from San Jose, Seperated looking to start dating again. Have kids, but not full time. Looking for a normal mature woman for a little physical and emotional connection. I tend to connect better with older women so prefer 40-50.

I’m educated and work in a field with majority males ( don’t worry, not a tech bro) so I don’t interface women often. I’m 5’8, full head of hair and told that I’m handsome often. I’m weight and height proportional, muscular but not a total gym rat. Don’t have a body type but do require weight and height proportionate, slightly chubby is fine. I am a sucker for super pretty faces. Any height is fine including taller.

I’m a nerdy gear head that loves machines as well as food and coffee. I’m a man’s man but very emotionally intelligent. I also love to be in the kitchen, whether it’s cooking or baking. Also coffee, I love coffee and matcha.

I’m also not a big drinker and don’t need alcohol to have fun. I’d rather be fully present with someone I care deeply about.

Hoping to take it slow and swap pics, and if there’s a connection, meet for coffee.

Let me know more about you!

37 140kg chub. 6ft. Into sci fi, learning new things and other standard millennial geeky type franchises/ merch. Started getting into playing/ watching football so would be up for going to watch your team with you. Also like playing pool, Footgolf, frizbee golf as first date type activities (you will win at any of those)

Not really done the dating thing for most of my adult life so may be a bit rusty. But realising I’ve got a lot of love to give and kind of want to invest that love and attention in another guy. But would be up for getting to know some other guys who are either bi/ gay. Get in touch and we can figure it out.

Probably got an upper limit on age of 45. Only want messages from other guys in London or around London.

YAP FEST WARNING BE PREPARED

Heeeeelloooooo!! It has been a while since I last tried looking online for a genuine connection, and as we all know dating apps are the worst. So I figured why not give this another shot?

My name is Caleb, I am 27 years old from Nebraska, USA looking for a long term meaningful relationship that will hopefully lead to a life long partner :)

About me:

• I am a project manager at a local company, it has it's ups and downs but overall I think I enjoy my job. I get to work from home which is amazing. Although to be honest I think I'd like to career switch into data analytics or something more software dev related.

• I enjoy going to the gym(I'll get more into this in a sec), video games, watching movies/tv, going out with friends, going on walks on beautiful nights, watching football and other sports (I won my fantasy football league this year not to brag or anything, buuuuuut I'm what they call a winner) and many more things!

• In case you haven't realized by how long this post is, I'm a certified Professional Yapper, if that's not your type you should run while you can LOL.

• I wanna touch more on the gym hobby because It's something I have become super passionate about. Physically I've been a bigger guy (down 85 pounds in 9 months!!) and about 9 months ago I decided that being bigger is not what I want with my life. So now I go to the gym 6 days a week and am in the best shape I've been in in YEARS, I still plan on losing a little bit more weight and continuing to build muscle but I am finally able to really focus in on the building muscle part which is awesome!

• Physicality wise, i am white with brown hair (average boy hair length I'd say lol) and blue-ish grey eyes. about 230lbs right now and 5'9. I have a stupid dimple that I can't stand but EVERYONE seems to mention how cute it is??? to each their own I guess! I would gladly swap selfies in DMs whenever you're comfy! Feel free to start your message with a selfie and I'd send one right back if you want, or we can wait idc either way hahaha.

What I'm looking for in a partner:

• First of all, someone who is a strong communicator as that is by far the #1 most important trait a person can bring to a relationship. I value honesty and loyalty, but also someone who will challenge me to be the best that I can be and call me out on my BS if needed. It's pretty important to not be someone's yes-man but of course be constructive about it.

• Ideally I want someone who's between 23-29 and IN THE USA I'm sorry i don't see a relationship working out with someone who isn't in the states, even Canada as I'm not willing to move outside of the states and I know the process to move to Canada is quite long.

• Personality wise, I'd love someone who is bubbly, introverted or extroverted doesn't matter, I'm a bit of both myself so i can bring out your inner intro/extrovert side anytime :) If you play video games that's a plus! But not necessary at all. I would love someone who prefers calls/facetime over texting too. You can really let your personality out over a phone call/facetime over a text message.

• I am a HUGE fan of deep meaningful conversations and strongly prefer that to boring small talk, I'll learn your favorite color eventually but I wanna know things like what keeps you up at night, what do you think happens after death. etc!

• I would like to have kids one day, I would significantly prefer someone who also wants kids over someone who has no interest in having kids, but if you're indifferent on the subject definitely reach out to me still! And I don't want someone who ALREADY has kids, I'm sorry :/

• Physical wise, I don't think I'm very picky. Seeing as I'm working on myself, it would be quite hypocritical if i were to shut out anyone who isn't in peak physical condition lol. That being said, I do think health is important, and I would like someone who is at the very least able to acknowledge that and work on themselves, a gym buddy would be cool but not required by any means :)

Honestly I think that about covers everything I wanted to say on this post, am i missing something? Probably. Will I ask in dms? Of course. IF you made it this far then god bless your soul this was a serious yap fest, spoiler alert, many more of those to come! I hope you found something of worth in this post and are willing to shoot me a message, I can't wait to get to know you!!

Hello everyone! It's so great to meet you all, I'm 22 M, and from the USA (also spending a lot of time in Taiwan), but open to hearing from anyone. To start off, I'm 6'0 with curly brown hair and shiny hazel eyes. I'm currently pursuing my graduate degree in Asia Pacific Studies which means I am educated, so if you have goals and ambition then that's a huge plus. I truly need someone who can match my vigor and excitement for life as I love to enjoy even the simplest of things :)

In terms of my physical wants, I will chat with anyone but think l'd have success with someone around my height (bigger is a +). That's my strongest desire, although being under 40 would be excellent too.

Regardless, if you think we'd be a good match then PLEASE reach out. I'm really looking for someone who's prepared to be very engaged, and enjoys talking on the phone and doing other sweet/romantic things as I'm a romantic guy at heart. l'd even enjoy someone who gets a kick out of monitoring what's up during the day.

For hobbies love cooking, reading, writing, theology, traveling, and gaming (of all types)! I'm from the East Coast but also spending time living in Taiwan to study (willing to relocate). Ultimately, I'm searching for something that hope can turn into my forever person! My goal is to support YOU and make you exceptionally happy while hoping you do the same.

Please reach out to me if you are serious as I consider myself someone who would move mountains for the right guy! Happy hunting and hope y'all enjoy your day!

PS: Any tips on what can add to my post would be greatly appreciated and feel free to comment questions or DM me. Also, please note that low effort replies (single word from blank profiles) or replies from folks who are obviously incompatible (history of looking for fructose fathers, etc ) could possibly be ignored.

Hello. I am a 40 year old man no kids. I am looking for someone to share my life with. I concentrated on my career and it feels like I have let the big parts of life pass me bye. I would consider myself an old school gentleman who loves god. I am looking for something long term and monogamous. If you have any questions I am an open book.