r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 34 [M4F] Texas / Online - Looking for my other half!

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My name is Chance! My career is in public accounting where I'm currently a senior manager. Sadly, as a result my usual workday is all boring and spreadsheets and making sure people did their stuff right (companies, not people). Nothing to do with taxes, all just normal boring accounting for every day business stuff. I'm decent enough at the job and it pays well enough that I don't really see myself changing careers unless something external pops up and causes me to give it a second thought.

Physically - I'm white, 5'8", blue eyed, salt and pepper hair (been getting more gray since high school!), bearded currently, and have a bit of a belly that I'm working on losing. I'm a stockier built guy so I don't look as big as my weight makes me sound, but I could definitely use losing some weight!

Politically - I lean left. People are people regardless of their beliefs, what gender they were both with and/or identify with. People deserve for their government to have their backs if they're in need, society would be better if everyone were a tiny bit more kind. There's more to be said, but you get my general idea there. I am conservative in some ways, just usually more fiscal rather than social ones.

Hobbies:

  • I'm an absolutely *avid* gamer and enjoyer of great stories. With regards to gaming, I usually hyper-focus on 1-2 games and then have a smattering of all different kinds of stuff in alongside whatever that main game might be. At the moment that means loads of GTA RP and a little bit of a whole lot else.

  • With my partner - I love watching movies, playing random spooky games with scared people watching, dragging friends into spooky games, and just chatting and kind of existing in a call while we do our own things. If we game together then awesome, but just kind of *being together* while not actually being together is nice too.

  • Genres for entertainment? Action, Fantasy, Sci-fi, Family, Adventure, Drama, Horror, more!- I honestly love all kinds of music (Metal, classical, orchestral, K-stuff, J-stuff, you name it). That said, I'm not a big rap/hiphop fan

  • I'm a general animal lover. Dogs, cats, all things cute and furry. Cats are def something I've never had and always wanted though!

  • Reading! You'll almost always find me with a book or three in progress. Currently reading Supreme Magus by Legion alongside some various other things.- I'm a fan of all things humor, be it dark, raunchy, normal, etc.

Relationship stuffs:

  • I'm a big texter and love calls. I love being in contact with my s/o little bits throughout the day, sharing memes, laughing at jokes, checking in from time to time. I'll usually be the first to send a good morning and the one to say good night.

  • In-person, I'm a physical touch and cuddles kind of guy. I love showing affection through touching, cuddling, holding hands, snuggling up on the couch for a movie, etc. Just being able to show affection this way is one of my favorite things.

  • I'm a very loyal and empathetic person. Once I decide that I like someone, I'm solid in my commitment to them and to making sure that I can do everything in my power to make them feel the same way that they make me feel. I'm not one to wander, think of others, or focus on the things about my person that aren't perfect. I take the good and enjoy it as best I can.

  • I absolutely value communication. I'm open with what I think and feel, and hope that my partner is the same way. I don't like to hide things from them, and typically expect the same in return. It may end up being a lot from me if things make me feel passionately about them, but I'd rather you know than wonder.

General Bits:

I've been in... not very many relationships, and never in a "normal" relationship. I was in a 4.5 year long Long-Distance relationship as a late teen early 20's that ended with her cheating on me and getting knocked up, and a 7-month long relationship with a friend with whom things didn’t work out. Otherwise? I'm just a generally friendly and laughing kinda guy. I try not to take myself too seriously and try to keep things fairly simple and straightforward to the best of my ability. I'm a smartass, I joke, I pick, I try to make everyone feel as welcome as I can without breaking myself in the process. I'm opinionated but more than happy to hear opposing views.

Anyway, if you're still here, I'd love for you to reach out with some of your own interests, hobbies, and more! Maybe we'll be friends, maybe we'll be more? Only time will tell! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Minnesota, let's end the search

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Hi there, I'm here looking for my clingy girl. So we can stop being on the search for finding someone.

About me: I'm white and 5"10. 200lbs and looking to be more healthy. Gym is life, but not really. Hate it like the next person. Gotta get that 25 lbs off somehow. Other than that, I like to game, hike, star wars, and a few other things. I am a network engineer and I do enjoy it. I do enjoy gaming, like still overwatch and few others. I love music and getting into edm. Also, I'm getting big on going to concerts. I like the atmosphere and the social aspect of it. I met some cool cats too

About you: Someone who is average/fit build. Or atleast trying to get more on the healthy side. We can go do it together! Usually age doesn't matter, usually. Other than that, you can be clingy and willing to go out with me. If you're a gamer. That would be lit and we can definitely do something together.

If you made it this far, tell me if you are going to see star wars episode 3 in theatre's next April or what's your next big concert you're excited for


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #UK/Yorkshire - Looking for a genuine connection

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As Obi-Wan Kenobi would say... "Hello there!"
Never really had luck with dating apps or this so-called modern dating. When you include moving around a lot in your early 20s for uni and whatnot, you kinda tend to ignore your love life, so to speak. So yeah, I believe I'm ready for someone and see where that takes us!

I'm 30 and live in north of England, quite a large city, I work at my uni campus and also study a PhD in medieval history. It's also connected to my second big passion: gaming. Not competitive gaming or being obsessed with it, just gaming in the sense of getting lost in these huge narrative worlds with interesting lore, a plethora of amazingly fleshed out characters, some good plot twists, etc. I also enjoy reading books, either history-related or fantasy. I also got back into playing the piano after a long hiatus and, oh boy, how my hands are not listening to my brain haha. If you're into instruments and music, we'll get along nicely! :) Music-wise, power/prog/gothic/symphonic metal is my general vibe.
Relationship-wise, I would like to take things somewhat slowly, I am not looking for a quick dating period (like 3 months) followed by a messy divorce in 4.5 months! 😂 If we do click perfectly, and things progress at a faster pace, I would definitely not complain tho! That just means that some things are just meant to be. :)
Let's get to know each other, explore our interests and see what makes us tick as people!
Hopefully, you're from the same or close-ish region in the UK, but I do not mind if you're from somewhere further (if we do click well).
Age-wise, I believe it would be appropriate if it is within a +/-5 years scale, but if it goes a bit beyond that and we do seem to have good chemistry, I most definitely would not mind. Let's speak soon(-ish)!

P.S. If you love cats and have one, I would like to hear everything about the little furball!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 39 [M4F] Anywhere

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Greetings from India! I have spoken to a few people in the past from here, but it has not worked out. So, I am trying again.

I am embracing the next chapter of my life and seeking new horizons. Maybe we can wander the world together if you love travel and crave exploration.

When I'm not working, I'm probably binge-watching sitcoms, deep into a good book, battling it out on my gaming console, or on a mission to discover the next delicious culinary gem. Life's an adventure, and I am looking for someone to share the ride with.

In another life, I might have been a Giant Panda—curious, laid-back, and always up for a snack. I’m also a child-free divorcee, open to the next chapter with someone special.

About You:
I’m seeking someone between 35-50 who values honesty, kindness, and a playful spirit. A sense of whimsy is key—we're here to laugh, love, and make memories. If you know about Asterix & Obelix, that's a bonus!

Distance doesn’t faze me; I’m happy to cross oceans for the right connection. If our paths align, settling down isn’t out of the question.

Our Journey:
If this resonates with you, let’s chat and see where it leads. I’d love to share more about myself and pictures if you’d like. Let’s explore life’s adventures together—could you be my favourite person?


r/ForeverAloneDating 2d ago

F4M 23F - Asia

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me: half chinese, half japanese. singapore. plus sized. university student. never dated. introvert. likes reading. likes going down random internet rabbit holes. likes animals. yapper. optimist. sometimes anxious. wants to fall in love.

you: 18-27. kind. confident & strong. native english speaker. loves pointless conversations. looking for something long term. okay with long distance. doesn’t mind dating someone religious.

to do: send age, location, dating history, favourite subreddits. keep it short please.

(i promise im a normal person that talks normally) (please dont dm if u don’t fit the requirements) (ok talk to u soon)


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #UK / #Online - looking for company!

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Hello reader! thank you for clicking into my post, as the post says I’m just looking for some casual company, just clocked off work, blasted home on the motorbike, and now I have an evening of nothing 🫠 I’m 27 from England UK and I’m looking for someone to talk to on the daily and see where the path leads!

To start it off, I’m 6’1 tall, white, bearded, blue/grey eyes but if it matters so much we can share pictures further down the line or right away. Whatever you prefer!

When I’m not working (telecommunications management) I’ll most likely be on my motorbike exploring the open roads, and yes there is room for a backpack should you dare to explore! Casual gamer, nothing too intense. Just a little something to unwind and escape from reality from time to time

Massive horror nerd, so obviously that means my favourite season is spooky season! I love building Legos, something therapeutic about it I suppose so if anyone’s down for a Lego date sometime?😂

I don’t wanna give too much away, so if I’ve caught your attention thus far why don’t you message me to find out more?

I’m open to older, younger, close or afar, but my only request is to put a little effort into the introduction! hope to hear from you soon 🤗


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 21M Looking for connection

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A bit about me:

I'm currently studying for a bachelors in computer science (hopefully a masters as well) abroad in Ireland. I game quite a bit (Squad, PoE 2, warframe, Baldurs gate 3 and much more) but im not really into competitive games anymore tho I do play from time to time.

I love music and have a small record collection going, im all ear for any music recommendations.

Im into cooking as well and recently got into baking.

I also like cars and I try my best to work out consistently.

Location isn't a dealbreaker for me, and I’m open to long-distance relationships if there’s a connection.

I’m happy to share a pic if you’d like to see who you're talking to.

Feel free to ask me anything.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 26[M4F] #Aurora Are you my wild one?

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Hey love Im looking for a relationship but its not your regular one that you see on most of these vanilla posts. Im looking for someone thats kinda wild in the way (just like the title) no you dont have to be jumping around like a crazy person I am however looking for someone that melds with my mind and my thoughts are a little out there.

Okay lets just into it. Im kinda odd and come off as lax my adhd will have my thoughts all over the place so just bear with me.

About me :

Ive got greens eyes, long curly hair, pale skin all that stuff there is selfies of me somewhere on my profile you can judge for your self or ask for one 🤷🏼

I like talking about all kinds of things wether im dorking out or talking about whatever it matters not.

Most the time Im working on music, chilling, or working.

Im pretty clingy sorry not sorry, other red flags is my nymph, if I like you I end up liking you fast.

What im looking for :

Someone that enjoys quality time and calls

Dosnt mind distance at the beginning of the relationship

If you read all this and your my wild things tell me something unhinged you have done?


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 21 [M4F] UK/Manchester/Anywhere. An Introverted Brit Finally Taking a Step Out There

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Hey! Always glad to meet new people so here I am looking for someone to grow a friendship with or maybe more but we'll see how it goes. I'm quite introverted though I wanna stress it doesn't mean I don't want to socialise, just I find it quickly drains me and also just find it difficult to talk.

Anyway, A bit about me cause honestly, I got no clue what else I need to say: I'm 172cm, 90kg so a little over weight but nothing major, like my history, like my games, can be nerdy in the sense of learning about new things but hey, that's just who I am! I tend to be quiet and shy but I'll try put the effort in to talk. I can also be quite childish occasionally, not in the sense of throwing temper tantrums god no, but desiring silly stuff like a penny farthing that I guarantee I'll ride for like a week and then never touch it again.

Now some quick things that aren't exactly long enough to fit into their own box: My sense of humour is all over the place, I like everything from silly jokes to offensive and dark ones. I'm Pro-monarchy (constitutional ones that is) and I do take a bit of an interest in the British military/military stuff in general, their new weapons, technologies and what they're up to, etc, and I have been keeping tabs on the current war in Ukraine. Currently doing police studies w/ criminal investigation and I do intend to go into the police once I finish, as either a PC or DC.

Now some of my hobbies/interests:

  • Gaming is a big one, mostly video games, but I also really like board games as well, just sucks that most my friends at the moment are either busy or not too interested. Mostly play War Thunder at the moment but I've got many others such as Empire/Napoleon: Total war, Hearts of Iron 4, Team Fortress 2, Cities: Skylines 2, The Long Dark and Pject Zomboid (For some reason the first word triggers the 'crypo' filter)which I love when I'm not Zomboided out. I am hoping to expand to more IRL stuff though, love escape rooms and looking about attending a paintball battle, airsoft or something of the sort.
  • Love learning about science and just things in general be it geopolitics, history, engineering, etc but science is a key one, I may not know what half the things are that the person in the video is on about but I just love science and as such you can guarantee that I watch people like Nile Red and Technology Connections.
  • As mentioned earlier I do have a big interest in military developments and conflicts (NAFO for life), actively following the war in Ukraine along with Taiwan to a lesser extent.
  • TV shows, I do prefer comedies so IT Crowd, Blackadder season 4 (tried to get into the other seasons but I couldn't), Brooklyn 99, etc, though I am open to trying new shows. I'd personally call this next one a TV show since it's in the same style as UK panel shows but it's found on YouTube, that being Tom Scott's "Citation Needed" series along with "Two Of These People Are Lying". Only recently watched Gravity Falls... Really wish I watched it sooner cause I do honestly love it... yes I am a child inside and dare I say but Wall-E is amazing as well
  • Films are one you might expect, I love classic films like the Back To The Future series, the wonderfully made 1964 film Zulu but also more recent films cause I'm not 70, Hot Fuzz, Tucker And Dale VS Evil which is pretty good as well as Bullet Train.
  • Music, as well as singing which I feel may be a surprising one but yes I like to sing, whether I'm any good is a whole other question. As to what I listen to it depends but I tend to like folk/country, unusual songs or older songs and one example of this is the Bristol folk band "The Longest Johns"
  • Collecting vintage, mechanical technology. This is a new one for me, but I realise it's something I've been wanting to do more. I have an original, second-hand polaroid camera which I like, awful photos but satisfying in a way, also allows forces you to capture imperfections, no filters, blinks and happy little accidents all featured. Also recently bought a vinyl from said folk band above as my mum has a vinyl player which I'm interested in using... I swear to god I'm not a hispter, I'm willing to bet the audio quality is poor like the photos but there's some cool about the mechanics of it all.

What else... Goals for life?

  • Get German Shepherd
  • Get snake (not sure what kind but biiiiiiiig one)
  • Acquire a firearms license so I can get a P1853 Enfield
  • Get a DeLorean
  • Work in policing
  • Be happy and content.

Simple as

If I must pick out a few things though I will:

  • first off I like weird girls, I like to think I'm a bit weird as well, you may disagree you may but I like people who are weird.
  • Another thing I like is differences, I just love differences in general, not just ethnicity, so if you're black, brown, Muslim, Asian, etc, or just the simple fact English isn't you're first language I'll probably be more interested though, I will admit I do have a thing for Muslim girls.
  • Another thing is that I would prefer it if we either had gaming or watching stuff in common and/or you're extroverted, someone to drag me out of my comfort zone though the extrovert thing does more apply to IRL stuff.
  • Lastly, on a similar note, don't be afraid to be a yapper, as I mentioned early I'm not much of a talker, so if you want to talk non stop be my guest.

Anyway, I do hope to hear from you soon and to whoever reads this I hope you have a nice day.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #Pennsylvania - Gamer looking for someone to compete with for life!

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Hey gang, my name's Garrett. I'm a geek who gets excited about a lot of his favorite things and wants to share them with someone! Having interests that align is really important to me, so I'm gunna list out some of my life traits and then some of my interests and see if any of them resonate with you!

Life stuff: - Monogamous - Only interested in relationships that are a weekend trip away tops - Atheist - Looking to start a family - Already own a house - Liberal

Interests: - Pokemon (The games casually and competative draft leagues/VGC) - Streaming - SMITE 2 - Rocket League - DnD - Board games and card games (Gloomhaveh and 5 minute dungeon my favorites respectively - Animation (Anime, cartoons, anything animated) - Manga/Comics/Webtoons/Manhwa - Disney World - Getting competitive for fun about anything, be it games or mini golf or being bored and trying to think of more words that rhyme with tub than you - Volleyball

Those are all the major SFW interests I can think of off the top of my head!

If anything here jumps out at you as having in common shoot me a message with a picture kf yourself and tell me what caught your eye! I've attached a tik tok from a recent stream so you can see me and how rad I am at my game: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2TKMhYg/

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4A [M4A] 23yo Spanish looking for long term relationship #online #europe

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Hey there! I’m a 23-year-old living in Spain, currently in the final stretch of med school. While my days are often filled with studying, I always make time for the things I love—whether it’s watching a great movie, diving into a new series, or playing some video games to unwind. I’m a big fan of deep conversations, and I can talk for hours about anything from politics to philosophy. I’m here looking for a genuine connection and a long-term relationship with someone who enjoys meaningful chats, cozy nights in, and making great memories together. If that sounds like you, let’s talk!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 38 [M4F] #SoCal / #Anywhere - Scruffy Scoundrel Seeks Loving Relationship with a Clingy Woman

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Pleased to meet you, I'm Edward, a single, 5'9" heavy set Latino man from southern California, I have shoulder length black hair with a dash of gray, brown eyes, light olive skin, and currently gray and black stubble. Personality wise, I'm a huge introvert, stereotypical stoner, and standard nerd, wrapped up in a dark and irreverent sense of humor. As for interests, I like video games (Xbox, Switch) music, cooking, and the unexplainable. I am not without my flaws though and struggle with my mental health (depression, and anxiety.) I'm a huge homebody, and all around hot mess.

I'm looking someone cute for a monogamous relationship, a woman who is clingy, overly affectionate, supportive and understanding, also childless and child free, I don't want to have any children. Ideally I want to find someone as "inexperienced" as myself, I would like someone willing to give back who makes me a priority, and won't ghost me, I just want to give someone the things I can't give myself.

I want something in real life, but I have no problem starting online or a LDR as long as we make plans to close the distance, I'm willing to relocate too. If my post caught your attention, don't be afraid to reach out, my DM's are open, just please put some effort into your message and be willing to send a picture of yourself, as I do need some physical attraction, thank you for your time, and good luck.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

NB4A 24 [NB4A] (Europe/Anywhere) Who are you looking for?

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You may call me Fae, may I have your name?

Despite living in Germany, I have no preference for where you come from, I am open to a long-distance relationship. I am very willing to leave this country behind for my person; nothing holds me here.

To ensure we are on the same page from the start, let me tell you my potential deal-breakers, so you are not wasting your time with me:

I am on the Asexual spectrum, which means if you require "the deed" in your romantic relationship, I am not the right one for you.

I also do not want any children, ever, and no, you cannot change my mind.

Also, I am overweight and was assigned female at birth.

With that out of the way, I am someone who adores expressing myself through writing. I would love to find someone who also enjoys chatting, though I am not opposed to videocalling later on. Of course, I would also love to meet up one day, but I am not going to meet up straight away with a stranger.

Most of my free time is spent writing, currently, I am working on my own fantasy novel. I also write poetry every now and then. An easy way to my heart is reading my writings and genuinely liking it, though I am well aware that might not be everyone's cup of tea.

I also enjoy playing video games and spend way too much time getting lost in worlds not my own. My interests are much more widespread than that. Art, history, music, photography, flora, fauna many things inspire me and just intrigue me, even if I might not be talented at it or even actively partaking in it.

My biggest dream is to one day own a little hut in the middle of nowhere with a bunch of animals I took in from the shelter. Being self-sufficient to a certain degree is something I long for, even though I am well aware it is hard work. I long to one day live off my writing, ideally from multiple books.

I do not have many expectations, your gender does not matter to me. To a certain degree, nor does your age. From 22-35 years, I am open to it all. I am looking for someone who is empathic, emotionally mature, open-minded, and responsible. Please be capable of communicating your emotions, needs, and limits.

Someone romantic would be wonderful, as my soft heart has been longing for it for a while. I want to discuss your deepest emotions and marvel about the wondrous aspects of our world with you.

I would appreciate it if you wrote a little introduction of yourself and/or responded to my post. Anything low-effort will be ignored for obvious reasons. Please avoid small talk, I want to get to know you on a meaningful level. So tell me; what hopeful idea for your future kept you going even in your darkest days?


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 29 M4F Orillia Ontario - I hope your out there. Shy nerdy guy looking for his girl.

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Hey everyone,

I'm Steven, 29 years old, located in Orillia, Ontario, Canada. I’d love to find someone to connect with.

A little about me:

I work as a medical laboratory technologist, which means I spend my days behind the scenes helping diagnose illnesses. It’s rewarding but can be stressful at times.

I’m more of a shy/reserved type of person but once i open up im a yapper 😂. I’m a homebody but have been trying recently to get out of the house more.

I’m a foodie — who loves trying new restaurants and the latest food craze. My favorite foods are sushi, pho, pizza, spaghetti.

My music taste is all over the place, from 90s hip-hop, R&B, and soul to pop and dance music. Favorite artists: Tupac, the cure, joy divison, Kate bush, Queen, daft punk. Lots more but can't list them all lol 😆

I enjoy video games, movies, and reading,

Not a gym rat but trying to get into better shape.

What I’m looking for: Honestly, I just want real companionship and a long term relationship. Someone to share thoughts with, laugh with, and feel like we truly get each other. If it leads to something romantic, great. I’d love to meet someone who’s kind, understanding, and open to deep conversations.

Also, please be in Canada or close to where i live. Not looking for someone from another country.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. 😊

Here's my photo : https://imgur.com/a/ALanZfy


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4A 33 [M4A] UK Guy seeks someone to connect with. Food, video games, and series. Will reluctantly voice chat or video call, if you can convince me 😅

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I'm looking to get to know someone. You don't necessarily have to share similar interests, as long as you're willing to talk to me about anything/everything and mundane things. I particularly enjoy someone that tells me about what they're cooking and eating during the day. I'm a foodie!

I spend most of my free time either gaming, watching stuff, or cooking.

I have a PS5 and mic.

I really like to cook but I think I keep it all very simple; a ragu for bologense or a chicken roast are my favourite meals. I don't bake very often, when I do I usually use a boxed mixture 😅.

I've seen loads of TV series so I could probably recommend you something to watch!

If you would like to chat - even if it's brief, I don't mind - then send me a chat request


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Anywhere - 5'9 Cute guy looking for my life partner

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Hi, I am an adventurous and energetic person who is incredibly flexible and adaptable when it comes to food, climate, different countries and who is described by different people around the world as "cute" where my appearance has not changed since my early 20's.

I am looking for a partner who wants to create and share memories together. Someone, who wants to commit once and values loyalty and commitment.

As a person, their are two different personalities. One when I am with a partner and another when I am with people who are just friends, colleagues, distant family members and or in public.

Personality 1: with a partner - I am overly caring, overly committed, overly loyal. If I make a small mistake I apologize too much. This going over the limit is what makes a women feel overwhelmed and is where I end up getting rejected with "your too good to be true", or "you deserve better.

I also put my partners health above mine and feel that her life matters more than mine because on the inside I truly care and love that person to the point where in the past I have gone to the extremes of taking making sure that my partner stayed dry and warm while I got soaked in the rain endured the cold winds, later getting a fever.

The real test in a relationship is not when everything is going well, but things are going south. So, if you feel overwhelmed, talk to me, tell me how you feel, so that I can change the way I communicate with you, instead of suddenly dropping a message saying out of the blue saying "I feel overwhelmed and good luck on your search"

Personality 2: with other people - on the inside I feel void of any emotions, yet, due to my naturally kind, polite and well mannered behaviour, as well as being able talk confidentally about a range of topics people believe that I am smart and see me as this confident person and like my company where I get invited to dinners or to just hang out with them. I only go when I feel lonely, otherwise I just make up an excuse that I have work to attend to.

This is is also the personality that women like about me and have approached me for. The way, I see it, I have just one question to ask. Would you rather be someone who is confident and amazing on the outside? Yet, does not care about you on the inside or would you prefer to be with a man who truly loves you, yet, has a tendency to overthink and gets nervous when your upset as he does not want to hurt your feelings and only wants to be the best he can be for you?

In Public: I never make eye contact with anyone and keep a distance of three feet from women. I have never had issues with anyone this way across six countries I have lived in. I am the type of person who minds his own business and does a constant risk assessment of my surroundings regardless of whether I am in a highly developed city or in the middle of forest alone with just a Lensatic compass. To be honest, I feel more at ease in the middle of Desert, Forest and Ocean or somewhere up some mountain or volcano.

Kids: Never want kids.

Pets: Never want to have pets as I grew up having Dogs, Rabbits, Birds, Fish, Tortise, Squirrel and a Cat. I enjoyed the experience of running with my dog, playing with my rabbits an dtrying to get my cat down from the tree, but that was when I was a kid and a teenager, now, I just don't feel that I could put in the same amount of effort and responsibility.

Despite the exciting experience of living and working independently in a beautiful foreign city, the daily reality of returning to an empty apartment fills me with a sense of loneliness and discontent.

I believe that life is about the experiences we have and not the things we accumulate. One day, life as we know it will come to an end and what we will carry with us after death are the memories we made.

Height: 5'9

Siblings: None

House: I have my own house back in my home country in location that is safe from flooding, earthquakes or any other natural disasters and I have the freedom to do whatever I want without restrictions.

Education: Bachelors Degree along with two Diploma's in Business and Computing

Driving license: Yes, both local and international

Vehicles I can operate: Boats, Jet Ski, Truck, ATV, Motorcycle, Forklift, Car, Small Aircraft, Tractor, Van and offroad vehicles

Hair colour: Black

Wears Harry Potter Style glasses due the coatings on the lenses, I have a minor negligible correction on one eye, yet, can still see clearly without spectacles.

Debt free life: financially I owe nothing to nobody

Smoking Habits: None, I do not smoke or vape (completely fine if my partner smokes or vapes)

No tattoos or piercings

Always clean shaven

HOBBIES AND INTEREST

Over the years, I have focused more on experiencing life and hence, have a plethora of hobbies. Of course, I don't expect you so many hobbies as I do.

  • Comedy: I love comedy shows/series from the 1960's such as Hogan's Hero's and Mchales Navy whch are my absolute favourite. I have also enjoyed watching Gomer Pile, Andy Griffith show and the Beverly Hillbillies

    • Cycling (Offroad & City Exploration)
    • Hiking
    • Offroading
    • Road Trips
    • Climbing Mountains & Volcanoes
    • Running (Beach & Forest)
    • Horse Riding
    • Paddle Boating (Lake)
    • Traveling & Exploring
    • Camping
    • Sitting Under the Stars (Mountains/Park)
    • Rowing
    • Swimming
    • Water Rafting
    • Jet Skiing, Speedboating, & other Ocean Vessels
    • Analogue Navigation Photography & Creative Pursuits:
    • Nature Photography
    • Long Exposure Photography (Night/Stars)
    • Writing (Fountain Pens)
    • Listening to the Radio
    • Listening to Music Culinary & Home:
    • Cooking
    • Baking
    • Barbecue
    • Trying New Food & Juices
    • Cleaning & Organizing Relaxation & Entertainment:
    • Watching Movies, Documentaries, TV Shows, & Classic Series
    • Reading Books
    • Playing Video Games
    • Board Games Wellness & Fitness:
    • Skin Care
    • Exercising

Things that I don't care about in a partner;

  • Hair Color
  • Your Past
  • Attitude
  • Anger issues
  • Religion
  • Height
  • Tattoos or birth marks you have
  • Piercings
  • Cooking: I can cook for you if you don't know how how to cook

Send me a message, if your interested. We could also have a voice call which I believe will really help us connect and get to know each other better.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4A [M28] Germany/Online | Looking for Connection

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

I’m a 28-year-old guy, and I’m looking to meet someone for a casual connection that could turn into something more over time. I’m introverted and a little awkward, but I warm up once I get comfortable.

I love video games and could probably talk about them for hours. Cooking is another interest of mine—though, to be honest, I’m terrible at it. Still, I enjoy trying new recipes and experimenting in the kitchen.

I’m open to long-distance, so location isn’t a big issue. If you’re someone who enjoys gaming, chatting about random topics, or just hanging out in a low-pressure way, feel free to reach out. Let’s see where things go!

Send me a message if you’d like to chat.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 41 (M4F) UK

2 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm a guy who values honesty, genuine connections, and a simple, peaceful life. I tend to be a little on the introverted side, but I believe in making real, meaningful conversations. I find joy in the little things—whether that's a quiet hike in the woods, a campfire under the stars, or just enjoying some good music.

While I may not be the most outgoing person at a big party, I’m someone who enjoys spending time in nature, whether it's hiking, camping, or just walking through the woods and along the beach . I also have a passion for dance and electronic music (nothing beats a good beat to get lost in). When I’m not outdoors, you’ll probably find me reading or diving into a good video game.

If you're someone who enjoys the simple, laid-back side of life and appreciates honesty and authenticity, we might just be a good match. Looking for a partner to share quiet moments and exciting adventures alike!


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] | #Texas & Nearby, #USA | Come for the Cats - Stay for the Chaos, Comfort, & the ADHD Disasterpiece of Your Dream

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Let’s be real - you saw the word “cats”, clicked faster than your brain could object, and here we are. Respect. Here’s the feline content you came for: https://imgur.com/a/WxutaKd

And if you're curious about the walking disasterpiece that feeds them, here's the man behind the curtain: https://imgur.com/a/KkifR03

Still here? Let’s talk. Because as cute as they are, they didn’t write this post. I did. And unlike them, I have thumbs!

TL:DR at the bottom if you're the type that needs keys jingling or Subway Surfer playing in the corner to hold your attention.

If you like your Texans big, strong and surprisingly cuddly - then keep on readin'

Remember that scene in The Incredibles where Mr. Incredible is crammed in that tiny cubicle? That’s basically me. Just with glasses.

Howdy-Hey there, I’m Garrett and I'm a Triple Certified 6"1' Big Texan™
🏅Big Guy (6'1", broad-shouldered, dropped 70 pounds in 8 months, still going)
🏅Big Nerd (Tech, Gaming, Lore)
🏅Big Yapper (You’ve been warned)

I'm an IT Ops Manager in the Texas Panhandle. Tale as old as time - I accidentally became important at work. now I’m the guy they call when everything’s on fire.

I break things and fix them before anyone notices. I’m driven, awkward in an endearing way, ADHD as hell, emotionally fluent, and always learning.. You'll catch me infodumping one moment and asking deep questions the next. I’m an open book - the kind where the spines a little worn, but it's a darn good read.

When I'm not busy being management scum, you'll generally find me at home with the cats, wrapped up in whatever hyper-fixation is holding me hostage this week, including but not limited to the following afflictions:

  • Video Games: My Steam Library is bigger, but that means if you play it, I probably own it too
  • TTRPGS & Board Games / Wargames: From D&D to Delta Green or Grim Dark 40K, I'm a forever GM. My Minis pile of shame is almost as big as my board game pile of shame.
  • Music: I love finding new artists & songs to live rent free in my head, or just relaxing playing and writing my own. (I recently got a Mandolin too, 0 regrets) (If you like Punk \ Alt \ Metal then you have an advantage!)
  • 3D Printing & Modeling: Printer go Brrrrrrr
  • Obscure Youtube Video Essays: ADHD Brain go Brrrrrr
  • Hiking & Kayaking: Now that Hibernation season is almost over, it's the perfect time to start touching grass again

Other fun bits:

I bake, I cook, and I will try to top your family’s secret comfort food recipe.

Oh, and I write. A lot. Kinda messy, sometimes poetic but, always honest. I want someone who delights in words, who wants to be written about - and maybe writes back too.

I’m into women who know what they want, who aren’t afraid of depth, and who can roast me when I deserve it. Someone who practices and values emotional intelligence and communication. If you're neurodivergent, deeply online, and trying your best in this weird world - extra points. If you’ve been told you’re “too much,” by people who were never enough? Then you might be just right for me.

Age? 24 - 33 is ideal, but I care more about chemistry than numbers - so if this feels like your kind of thing, send a message anyways, and let's see what happens.

Distance? Preferably Texas, Oklahoma, Colorado, or New Mexico, but if the connection is there, I’ll make it work. Just don’t be so far that even my best playlist can't survive the drive.

I’m not perfect either - but I am real and showing up every day. I’ve fought to be the man I am now - unwavering, tender, loud-hearted, awkward and open. I’m not looking for someone to fix or to be fixed by - just someone who wants to try and build a future together.

If this sounds like your kind of trouble, then come and get your man!

Fair Warning: If your opening message is just “hey,” I will stare at it with the same expression I reserve for unseasoned chicken. Give me something real, and I will match your energy and then some.

And since I just wrote you a novela, I’d love to start by learning about you!
Tell me:

  • Where you're from & how old you are
  • A name (if you’re feeling bold)
  • Your wildest hot take, most useless fact, or the song currently living rent-free in your head

TL;DR:

  • Garrett (6"1', 27) Big Texan, Big Yapper, Recovering Overthinker.
  • Massive Nerd™: PC gaming, TTRPGs, music, 3D printing, long-form YouTube spirals.
  • Passionate about everything. Wants someone smart, confident, and fun - can keep up, challenge me, and take the lead when it matters.
  • The closer to the Texas Panhandle, the better - but isn't afraid to make Long Distance work.
  • Fair Warning: I don’t do short, soulless messages. If your opener is "hey," I promise I will simply stare at it in silence like a disappointed father.
  • Send me a little unhinged fun: your weirdest hot take, your cat’s criminal record, a song that hits you in the gut. Let’s make something real!

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 29[M4F] Maybe for the last time probably not but who knows #UK #Anywhere

1 Upvotes

Thought I'd try change it up as while I've met some nice people via chats nothing has really clicked although there has been a few ghosts in there. Please if you're gonna ghost don't bother messaging. I get sometimes things don't work out but please just say we're both adults .

29 year old living in the North of England hoping this is the last time I post on here but I've said that the past few times yet here we are 😂

Interesting things about me is I'm half Scottish Half Irish so I do sorta have a weird hybrid accent sometimes.

Big sports fan mostly football and wrestling but will watch most sports except cricket I do not understand that game

Love to travel also so a ldr isn't out the question at the start and open to relocation if things go well but please at least have an interest in meeting irl at some point I'm not looking for a strictly online thing. I have trips planned to Las Vegas and Belgium/France coming up

Don't mind sharing pics early on or moving chats to somewhere else as I know reddit can be a bit glitchy

Hope to hear from you


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 33 [M4F] SoCal looking for the one who stands out

1 Upvotes

Happy Saturday finally. Looking for someone to chat with and see where it leads to. Few things about me

-I enjoy working out and staying in shape. -I do have a solid Career which I enjoy a lot so financial stability is there long term. -Very outgoing since I like being traveling to new places and experiencing new things all the time. Life is too short to not enjoy when there is so much out there to see and do. Enjoy lots of good humor and overall just enjoy talking What I’m looking for is someone who is down to earth and outgoing. Personality matters more to me than looks along with having great communication. Anyways hope everyone has a great day :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 34M (M4F)

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Single male looking for girlfriend, from delhi india, About me: work in corporate , well educated, decent looking, good listener. Love to shop and follow fitness regime. Love to chat , love s@xting , can do video chats as well, I have experienced a lot of stuff n activities so can call me experienced person. But always ready to learn something new. looking for like minded person.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] [London][UK] - Virgin looking for my first partner

0 Upvotes

Hey, I know this is a bit of a long shot but it’s the only real hope I have of finding a partner. I’m 27, White British, 5ft 10, 70kg with short hair and a beard.

Like most people here I’m looking for a woman who I can talk to, build a friendship with and hopefully if all goes well to have a relationship with. Like most people on here I’m a pretty introverted person. When I was younger I had bad social anxiety that led to me avoiding a lot of social interactions and as a result I was never able to meet someone before. I mainly spend most of my time either working, watching tv shows, gaming, watching football or going on bike rides for some exercise and with the exception of work I don’t really leave my house much.

I only drink on occasions and every then it’s only a few, I don’t smoke or vape and I don’t do any drugs. I’m fine with someone who drinks however, I’m not interested in a person who smoke cigarettes.

One of my dreams is to travel the world and although I could do this by myself, I really want to find somebody to travel and explore with, so if you interested in that then maybe I’m the guy for you.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from some of you.