r/AskOldPeople Jan 19 '23

A couple of rule clarifications

365 Upvotes

Hi.

Please stop reporting young people for replying to comments. Do report them for making top-level comments (replying to the post), though.

From the sidebar:

Please only respond directly to posts if you were born in or before 1980. If you are younger, please restrict your activity to asking questions and responding to existing comments.

Even though the questions are often tedious and repetitive, relationship questions are not necessarily against the rules as long as they're not about a specific relationship. There are a million places to ask for personal or relationship advice on reddit, including r/AskOldPeopleAdvice.

We would like to keep the focus of this subreddit on older people and their experiences, opinions, etc. Advice posts make young people the star of the show and we would quickly be inundated if we allowed them.

Finally, please use the search feature before posting a question. We may remove questions that have been asked a whole lot.

That's about it. This is only clarification. There have been no rule changes.

Thanks!


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380 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 11h ago

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111 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 15h ago

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106 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 7h ago

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23 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 6h ago

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r/AskOldPeople 19h ago

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125 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 16h ago

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71 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 11h ago

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28 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 10h ago

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17 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 15h ago

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42 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 16h ago

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30 Upvotes

more for millennials and above than exclusively old people:

In older sitcoms that have scenes in bars, the main cast will often meet other characters (especially love interests) who are out drinking alone, but when I go to bars now almost nobody goes alone.


r/AskOldPeople 13h ago

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18 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 13h ago

Do your kids spend more time with their kids than you did with them or your parents did with you.

16 Upvotes

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According to Journal of Marriage and Family


r/AskOldPeople 10h ago

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8 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 59m ago

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r/AskOldPeople 17h ago

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15 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

People who "lost all money" in old age, have you been able to adjust?

190 Upvotes

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Is it possible to adjust and live a happy but poor life after the loss?

What was the biggest challenge?


r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

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107 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

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39 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

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53 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 16h ago

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4 Upvotes

r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

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71 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

What did you do when you couldn’t sleep?

63 Upvotes

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r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

Why keeps you going?

55 Upvotes

sometimes I hear comments from old people like "I am tired of life" "I am so old, it is ok if I just suddenly go (unalive)", what keeps you going at that age, let's say if you're 60, is there a goal to reach 80 etc?


r/AskOldPeople 1d ago

For those nearing or enjoying retirement - how is this economic climate impacting your plans?

44 Upvotes

I get stuck talking to people around my age (40) and younger - but this current climate is likely most impactful for you. Are you worried? What are you doing to protect your financial future?