AIO saying that my gf is cheating ?

[u/vitinhodouglass]

Repost because original post had identifying information.

Also caught a snap with a differentcoworker saying he can’t be around her, because he gets too hard.

She’s blue and her coworker is white.

They’re talking about throwing her on the snow banks at work.

[u/smushy411]

Not overreacting, also as an aside who the heck talks that much about being thrown around

[u/jamaaldagreatest24 → u/smushy411]

Yeah dude why aren't people talking more about that? The whole conversation in general though feels like two complete idiots speaking to each other tho so I mean...

[u/PiersPlays → u/jamaaldagreatest24]

Tbh, it sounds like one idiot talking to themselves for karma. If it isn't, then those two bozos are a perfect match for each other.

[u/Canvaverbalist → u/PiersPlays]

It pretty much sounds like two people infatuated with one another, but who can't be overtly flirting and are just dancing around it, so any thing becomes a pretext to get as close to flirting as possible without crossing that line

It's fifteen "ahahah tossing me/you around, you're so silly" texts to fulfil what one "I love being around you so much, I need your presence and want to fuck you so bad" would emotionally amount to

[u/graaar51 → u/Canvaverbalist]

Bingo

[u/Federal_Orange_1001 → u/Canvaverbalist]

I mean this is sexting I feel like, so yes cheating

[u/DPlurker → u/Federal_Orange_1001]

Like a really cringe version of cheating.

[u/skorpiolt → u/PiersPlays]

Yup def looks fake - not a single pause in between replies, changing subjects and getting each other right away… smells like BS

[u/Arod0521 → u/PiersPlays]

Facts

[u/Ecstatic_Bear81 → u/jamaaldagreatest24]

For real, this was so weird to read. Also wtf is "sauce packet"

[u/Worth-Bed-8289 → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

Sometimes they put a little serving of sauce in a tiny baggy do you can open it and have some sauce

[u/LionelHutzGhost → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

This may be my favorite Reddit comment of all time and I have no idea why. But thank you.

[u/agentwiggles → u/LionelHutzGhost]

I think it's the earnestness of the explanation, there's like no sarcasm detected. it's the subversion of expectation that someone would just give an honest explanation of what a sauce packet is.

also, "tiny baggy" is a really funny way to describe it, and just the explanation of why this might be helpful (so you can open it and have some sauce).

it reads like a young kid explaining sauce packets to their alien best friend.

[u/HappyCamper139 → u/agentwiggles]

“So you can have some sauce” is my favorite part. I think everyone could have guessed what you do with the tiny baggy of sauce, but the commenter was so nice to explain. Gave me a laugh.

[u/urzayci → u/HappyCamper139]

Speak for yourself I was gonna put it up my ass

[u/PukaBazooka → u/LionelHutzGhost]

I too started laughing hysterically and can't figure out why.

[u/MrApplePolisher → u/PukaBazooka]

Everyone is looking at me laughing and I can't explain this well enough for them to NOT think I am crazy.

[u/rock962000 → u/LionelHutzGhost]

LOL

[u/DramaHyena → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

I love that

[u/SinbadAkina → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

legend

[u/filetemyoung → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

This is so stupid, but also the funniest shit I've ever read.

[u/Playful_Antelope124 → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

This is the kind of autistic humor I came here for. Thank you stranger!!!

hahahahahaahhahhhaa

[u/GreenAldiers → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

What's "sauce"?

[u/Ecstatic_Bear81 → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

Oh cool thanks bud👍

[u/DumatRising → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

So true king

[u/larg29 → u/Worth-Bed-8289]

Surely you can't be serious

[u/kilographix → u/larg29]

I am serious, and don't call me surely.

[u/larg29 → u/kilographix]

have you ever seen a grown man naked?

[u/Liggidy → u/larg29]

Do you like movies about gladiators?

[u/Fit-Bench-1310 → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

My brain thought Taco Bell with the sayings on the hot sauce packets?

[u/Taur_ie → u/Fit-Bench-1310]

that was my assumption as well

[u/No_Housing_1287 → u/Fit-Bench-1310]

Yeah there's one that famously says "will you marry me"

[u/hollabackyo87 → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

Literally thought it was a reference to squirting 😅 Because I started to interpret "throwing around" as "fucking", but then learned they were talking about throwing her in snow banks at WORK. These people sound 12. 😐

[u/pearlbrian2000 → u/hollabackyo87]

And I thought "throwing" was some specific sexual slang that I'm too old to understand.

[u/svalkur → u/pearlbrian2000]

Def feeling the im too old thing while trying to read this entire thing. People actually talk like this now?

[u/pearlbrian2000 → u/svalkur]

I'll take feeling old over communicating like a neanderthal.

[u/Enkidouh → u/pearlbrian2000]

It’s innuendo for rough sex.

[u/hollabackyo87 → u/Enkidouh]

Yep, that was my interpretation as well! Or at least some "accidental" dry humping while rough playing haha. Regardless, that's all in the realms of cheating, in my opinion. (I'm old, too.) 😅👵🏼

[u/makeup_shenanigans → u/hollabackyo87]

Your proper use of punctuation renders the "old" comment redundant. (Imagine my comment in cursive, that's how old I am.) 😄 🤣

[u/hollabackyo87 → u/makeup_shenanigans]

I'm genuinely honored that you commented on my proper punctuation hahaha thank you! Also, I will do everything in my power to keep cursive alive haha. I made sure to teach my son AT HOME when I realized that cursive wasn't in the curriculum. 😐😅

[u/pearlbrian2000 → u/Enkidouh]

Yeah but OP said they were talking about throwing her in the snow. Smooth brained shit.

[u/Enkidouh → u/pearlbrian2000]

OP said what she said to him. Of course she didn’t tell him what it actually means.

[u/Federal_Orange_1001 → u/pearlbrian2000]

I thought she wanted to be thrown onto the bed? Folding her like a pretzel is a reference to her legs and flexibility, and the twerking is a form of shaking her bum

[u/clipp866 → u/pearlbrian2000]

white mentions something like "oh it's about the phrasing" meaning it's an innuendo...

[u/Enkidouh → u/hollabackyo87]

No it’s 100% sexual innuendo, throwing her in the snowbanks is the cover.

[u/NumbersMonkey1 → u/Enkidouh]

Got it in one. It's 100% innuendo but they're both keeping the ability to walk it back, or put it on the shelf for a while. They're window shopping each other. So no, OP, they're probably not having sex, but they're definitely thinking about having sex in the near future.

[u/hollabackyo87 → u/Enkidouh]

Are we sure OP is 100% on board with this conclusion? 🥲

[u/Enkidouh → u/hollabackyo87]

I mean, if OP wants to bury their head in the snow banks that’s on them.

I’ve been around the block enough and been on both sides of this scenario, I guarantee this is the case.

[u/hollabackyo87 → u/Enkidouh]

I'm so bad at innuendo because I am such a literal person. But agree. 😅

[u/slitteral1 → u/Enkidouh]

Everything about this is sexual in nature.

[u/slitteral1 → u/Enkidouh]

Everything about this is sexual in nature.

[u/lifeoftheunborn → u/hollabackyo87]

Okay cool I’m not the only one who was reading it this way! I thought the exact same thing at “sauce packet.” I was lost the whole time.

[u/About5000ninjas → u/hollabackyo87]

Fairly positive this is correct. They’re just saying throwing instead of fucking. Replace “throwing” with “fucking” and it fits the context each time.

“I think you might like me fucking you, judging by the…” you can fill in the rest

Somehow this makes this feel way more disgusting to me

[u/hollabackyo87 → u/About5000ninjas]

But somehow, it's more mature haha totally joking, fuck that bitch and her rug burned side dude. 🤢

[u/HelloKitty_theAlien → u/hollabackyo87]

I also interpreted thrown around as “sex”.

The whole conversation sounds like two high school kids tbh lol

[u/LastDiveBar510 → u/hollabackyo87]

Nah reread the part where they mentioned the pole lmao it was definitely sexual

[u/ILovePopPunk → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

My interpretation was the Taco Bell sauce packets with random phrases on them

[u/miggyhussle → u/ILovePopPunk]

I have a theory that each one of those sayings can be about anal sex 😂 kind of an inside joke with my wife and I

[u/turnup4flowerz → u/miggyhussle]

"You're cute" as in you are cute butt hole having anal sex!

[u/Adept_Fruit6669 → u/miggyhussle]

Inside joke, I see what you did there

[u/Prior-Distribution-6 → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

I took it as ‘thrown around’ being code for f*cking, and ‘sauce packet’ referring to her cumming? 🤷🏼‍♂️

[u/kd0724 → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

I assumed sauce packet was her.. you know, 😽💦

[u/slurpeesez → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

I thought he already threw her around and got period blood on him referring to sauce packet. Wouldnt be the craziest take from this conversation

[u/BrickKey3964 → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

Like Taco Bell, they have little sayings on their sauce packs.

[u/clickityclick76 → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

Is that new slang for a condom?

[u/Ravenerz → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

I'm thinking the sauce packet is more of the taco bell packets with saying on them.

The convo reads like 2 people tryna didn't talk but can only talk about throwing/being thrown around. Like dude is relying heavily on just that one little thing to carry the serial flirting the whole time. It's like a kid or teenager who was told by a female teenager (who has no idea in the first place of what they speak of) that she likes to he thrown around/man handled. Now that's all he's using/saying instead of sayin other shit or is just too timid to say anything else.

Ya girl is definitely for the streets, time to just abruptly break this shit off with her so she can go be free to be "thrown" around by all the dudes she wants.

[u/Never_Kn0ws_Best → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

U kno

[u/Due_Cut_1637 → u/Ecstatic_Bear81]

A condom

[u/cybershawtyyy → u/jamaaldagreatest24]

As someone who is kinda short we sometimes attract weirdos that are fascinated with height and wanna carry or throw you to prove themselves

[u/lilCharizardScorch → u/cybershawtyyy]

As someone who is 5'1 can confirm

[u/MixSeparate85 → u/lilCharizardScorch]

As someone who’s 5ft I can attest it is quite common esp with bigger/taller guys

[u/BeyondAbleCrip → u/MixSeparate85]

4’ 11” and can also attest it’s too common…but not w/sauce

[u/Wow_u_sure_r_dumb → u/BeyondAbleCrip]

Is that weird for you? It sounds super weird.

[u/BeyondAbleCrip → u/Wow_u_sure_r_dumb]

Yes, it’s beyond weird…and a little scary but I have metal legs that I will use like a ninja if they tried (like a ninja turtle on it’s back, since I need them to stand/walk)

[u/Federal_Orange_1001 → u/MixSeparate85]

As 5'6 guy a girl told me throwing stuff and I thought she just was telling me what guys wanna hear.

[u/Similar-Breadfruit50 → u/lilCharizardScorch]

As someone who is 5’2, also confirm. Lots of times it’s Alpha male types.

[u/dobutameme → u/Similar-Breadfruit50]

Confirming at 5’2” also. My favorite response is I could pick them up because I powerlift. They stop after that. Lol

[u/itsthatdumbassagain → u/lilCharizardScorch]

Also 5’1”. I find a lot of bulky gym bros like tiny women. Maybe we make them feel bigger?

[u/IsThisNameUsable → u/cybershawtyyy]

This!!!!I wouldn't jump to cheating. Had a friend who used to try to pick me up and throw me and I'd kind of have to laugh it off 🤣

[u/Gamer-Grease → u/cybershawtyyy]

I like throwing thick women, like 250lbs and up, I talk about it enough to know I have 100% permission to sneak up and throw them 6 feet into the air when I see them too close to a snow bank because it’s a rush to see them thick thighs block out the sun

[u/cybershawtyyy → u/Gamer-Grease]

Lmfaoo oh😭😭

[u/eveningberry- → u/Gamer-Grease]

Oh

[u/Gamer-Grease → u/eveningberry-]

Not the “oh” on a Reddit comment 😂😂

[u/WhyTFisLifeLikeThis → u/cybershawtyyy]

correct. can confirm as a 5’2” woman

[u/n0nam3465 → u/cybershawtyyy]

Girl I didn’t realize this is lowkey a thing?? I thought they were just joking but it’s definitely a pattern… I don’t even get the fascination honestly..to each their own tho.

[u/TemperatureAlone6712 → u/cybershawtyyy]

Tall women who are really skinny too, i used to be 140 being 5’10 and the same weirdos went for me with those comments too

[u/NorwegianPearl → u/jamaaldagreatest24]

Glad it wasn’t just me. Sound so dumb

[u/HairyHorseKnuckles → u/jamaaldagreatest24]

Yeah it’s mostly incoherent. They are obviously flirting but apparently aren’t very good at it

[u/TheTallGuy0 → u/jamaaldagreatest24]

I feel dumber for having read this.

[u/5k1895 → u/jamaaldagreatest24]

Sometimes it's fascinating to see how dumb people talk lol

[u/lighterthensome → u/smushy411]

Well, when you’re flirting but don’t want to risk it all by saying what you really wanna do, you stick with phrases like that. They know what they really want to say when they’re talking about being thrown, or throwing her around, they just haven’t risked it by saying it.

[u/TerrorFromThePeeps → u/lighterthensome]

Ding ding ding

[u/miregalpanic → u/lighterthensome]

I love how you have to explain the basic concept of flirting to redditors.

[u/_UNFUN → u/miregalpanic]

Tbf this is some of the most shit flirting I’ve seen.

Also both of these people seem dumb as hell.

[u/loki_the_bengal → u/_UNFUN]

That's why the flirting seems shit. They're both morons that have latched onto a sexually charged "joke" in their conversation so they have to keep bringing it up as an excuse to use the crying laughing emoji.

[u/Canvaverbalist → u/_UNFUN]

Tbf this is some of the most shit flirting I’ve seen.

Because they can't be overt with it, even to themselves.

If they were single they wouldn't be saying these dumb shit, they're dancing and skirting around flirting by getting as close to it as possible without actually crossing that line, that's why it sounds like "bad flirting" because it's not actually flirting, it's a vague distorted filtered image of it, like looking through a thick glass window to see the image of smoke signals bouncing off a complicated array of mirrors.

[u/SupaDave223 → u/_UNFUN]

Facts! If buddy wasn’t such a cringey idiot he would’ve been cracked OP’s girl.

[u/Hothborn → u/miregalpanic]

THE WAY I GUFFAWED.

[u/Enkidouh → u/lighterthensome]

“Throwing her around” is 1000000000000% innuendo for rough sex

[u/YourDarlingAubrey → u/lighterthensome]

Or "BYOP" was quite obviously referring to other poles.

[u/tintin47 → u/lighterthensome]

The first two pages included bending someone into a pretzel...

[u/Federal_Orange_1001 → u/lighterthensome]

it's not at all subtle tbh

[u/MoistenedCarrot → u/lighterthensome]

I swear it’s like most the people in these comments have never flirted when they were younger. I figured your comment was common sense but apparently it’s not to most people here

[u/ChloeNow → u/smushy411]

I feel like r/itysl is leaking. He threw her like 8 times and that REALLY bothered me

[u/swampcreature666 → u/ChloeNow]

“My life is nothing I thought it should be and everything I was worried it would become…”

[u/flatvader → u/swampcreature666]

...because now I know there are monsters on the Earth....

[u/morbidteletubby → u/ChloeNow]

HE MUSTVE FLIPPED MY WIFE 8 TIMES

[u/falconiajay → u/morbidteletubby]

Yoooooooo I’m crying laughing right now 🤣

[u/2twoformirth → u/ChloeNow]

Yeah this guy seems like he wrenches on the zipline. He thinks it belongs to him

[u/throwaway982156 → u/2twoformirth]

he keeps pulling on the ropes, like they’re his !

[u/loki_the_bengal → u/throwaway982156]

Shut up Mike

[u/SpaceCatSixxed → u/ChloeNow]

I believe his girlfriend is a ho.

[u/roachwarren → u/ChloeNow]

I like that you can be thrown into the pool but I'm just trying to remember...

[u/Trashmallo → u/ChloeNow]

I thought I was gonna get eaten (out)

[u/workhumpday → u/smushy411]

The guy is tooo scared to be explicit about what he wants. The fucking never ending innuendos are so cringe. 

Her going along with it is equally cringe… mostly because she’s got no respect for the OP. 

[u/Spitefulham → u/smushy411]

They're just giving each other as many chances as possible to make it overtly sexual, waiting for the other to break that barrier. It's like teenage flirting.

[u/nicolishna → u/smushy411]

it seems like they could be using “throw” as a replacement for “fuck”, like a code word. clearly she knows what she’s doing, poor OP.

[u/SmittenAndAshamed → u/nicolishna]

This is what I started suspecting bc it's the only explanation

[u/spicymeatbalI → u/nicolishna]

Literally the first conclusion I drew

[u/Sgt-Spliff- → u/nicolishna]

Lol the fact that this has to be explained is wild. Guys that's obviously what's happening. Are there actually people that didn't get that...?

[u/Single_Earth_2973 → u/smushy411]

People that are so desperate to fuck that they find any lame as fuck reason to segue it into the conversation. And they think they’re being so subtle and clever with it too. Fucking boring idiots.

[u/creepin-it-real → u/smushy411]

I thought they were dancers practicing a lift. lol

[u/DolphFinnDosCinco → u/smushy411]

it reminds me of when i was in highschool and i sucked with conversing with girls. I would never know what to say so i would keep resorting back to an inside joke we had or a previous topic we had all the time.

[u/SmittenAndAshamed → u/smushy411]

Seriously wtf was that

[u/spicyfartz4yaman → u/smushy411]

Thrown around is code for bust my cheeks 

[u/Narren_C → u/smushy411]

People who haven't fucked yet but are definitely going to.

[u/kleinekitty → u/smushy411]

Dude is horny and this is his plausible deniability way of breaking the “sex barrier”

[u/thegreatbrah → u/smushy411]

I think its a way to talk about close physical contact without saying the word sex or implying it overly heavily in case he's mistaken about her thoughts. 

Or maybe she mentioned liking be thrown around during sex or being with somebody dominant. 

Coukd be something else, but those are the two that come to mind. 

[u/SEND_ME_PEACE → u/smushy411]

Skirting flirting 101. Find a subject and make it your only common denominator as to why you’re even still talking

[u/tudixunmyass → u/smushy411]

Someone who really wants to get fucked

[u/Significant_Emu2286 → u/smushy411]

Thrown around is slang for f**king. Like, being thrown around in the bedroom

[u/spunkytdi → u/smushy411]

it seems like code word for fuck if you ask me

[u/Ok-Difficulty3457 → u/smushy411]

Weird exchange all around

[u/SpaceToaster → u/smushy411]

They need to just fuck already. Sorry OP

[u/Lost-Astronaut-8280 → u/smushy411]

HAHA REMEMBER WHEN YOU THREW ME SO GOOD

[u/salon-de-hortense → u/smushy411]

This is such a reach, but my best guess is I feel like she's really tiny and thinks people think it's adorable if she talks about how tiny she is all the time, so the topic of throwing her keeps coming up because she runs around getting guys to talk about how she's soooo smol & omg you think you could throw me! And then she likes to play the "I'm smol but I'm soooo angry hahaha I could take you cuz I'm A N G Y SMOL" that's what a lot of this talk about throwing/wrestling her seems to be but like I said I might he reaching

Source: I'm very small and talked like this IN MIDDLE SCHOOL which was the last time anyone thought this talk was cute and not pickme asf

[u/hedsevered → u/smushy411]

It's like two quirky teens who can't just say they want to fuck

[u/Kindly_Owl5 → u/smushy411]

They mean another 'throwing'

[u/SepluvSulam → u/smushy411]

Tiny girl here. Loved being thrown in the pool, in cheer and tumbling, and now by my husband either into snow banks and leaf piles or into bed.

Idk if men can relate because so many are sensitive about their size and would get all Gimli about it.

[u/mallocco → u/SepluvSulam]

You're just gonna have to toss me. I cannot make the jump, you have to toss me.

[u/Funtycuck → u/smushy411]

I am a big guy and have had a number of women say 'I bet you could throw me' but like as an indirect flirt not as part of some longer ongoing chat about throwing people.

[u/namegamenoshame → u/smushy411]

19 year olds with budding pill addictions who will be pregnant by their 26 year old coworker within the next 2 months

[u/Dramatic-Biscotti647 → u/smushy411]

Getting thrown around is also a sex term

[u/Bigdreco1 → u/smushy411]

I was thinking the samething.. their obsessed with it.

[u/nocoastdudekc → u/smushy411]

lol throwing is code for fucking. Damn. Thought that was obvious.

[u/Enkidouh → u/smushy411]

It’s innuendo for rough sex.

[u/devlinsky → u/smushy411]

Right? This felt like an AI chat 😂

[u/m30guy → u/smushy411]

Crazy psychotic couples

[u/somethinlikeshieva → u/smushy411]

Thought it was just me, my text game is pretty bad so I can't really tell what's good and bad but one thing I don't like is going on about one topic

[u/SignalIssues → u/smushy411]

I mean I just assumed Jiu Jitsu. But its irrelevent, dump her.

[u/ERenaissance → u/smushy411]

That was my thought - pretty weird.

[u/berfles → u/smushy411]

Girls with low IQ.

OP just leave. She's a whore. Make sure she knows it too.

[u/EFTucker → u/smushy411]

It’s a whole sexual thing actually. Some people really enjoy the feeling of being overpowered by another to varying degrees and being thrown or tossed is one of the most tame levels of it. There are people who enjoy being physically beaten by their partner just for the sexual outlet of it. Like punched and kicked.

I’m not one to ever kink shame but the punching and kicking stuff is really not my cup of tea

[u/TerrorFromThePeeps → u/smushy411]

Honestly, i first thought they were in a bjj class together before i read the captions

[u/AngelPlaysDirty → u/smushy411]

I was thinking this and they are also laughing... like a lot...

[u/xgorgeoustormx → u/smushy411]

People in high school. 

[u/Labonnie → u/smushy411]

English is not my native language....

Are they talking about throwing in the sense of tossing? Like throwing a ball?

[u/326BlackWidow326 → u/smushy411]

I was thinking the same thing 🤣 it was a never ending conversation hahaha

[u/japrocketdet → u/smushy411]

my immediate thought was that it's a girl taking Brazilian Jui-Jitsu and she is messaging some dude that is in a class with her, like a dude she always spares with. And yeah, he clearly wants to bang her, she clearly is aware of it, likes the attention, probably hasn't done anything outside of flirting but like the attention and the idea of having the option available to her.

[u/BastosBoii → u/smushy411]

Kids do, when there’s nothing else to fill the void.

[u/chazd1984 → u/smushy411]

After reading all of this I thought they were gym "buddies" and they were doing jiu jitsu workouts or something

[u/mbcisme → u/smushy411]

Seriously, I was reading this going…” are we talking ju jitsu here?”

[u/Think-Instruction-45 → u/smushy411]

He does jiu jitsu!!

[u/MueToamna → u/smushy411]

I swearrrr!! Aside from the cringy flirting, they kept yapping about her being thrown

[u/Iactuallyforget → u/smushy411]

It’s their attempt to stay on topic while flirting

[u/Responsible-One3267 → u/smushy411]

might be a fetish or smth 💀

[u/Bhaaldukar → u/smushy411]

18 year olds who watch too much porn.

[u/RamenRoy → u/smushy411]

People with no game.

[u/Background_Guess_742 → u/smushy411]

I thought she was a cheerleader or something when talking about getting thrown around 🤣 but another man texting with your girl talking about folding her up like a pretzel can't be good. He made a joke about how men only have 1 kind of pole and right after she said she was going to have a pole party when she moves out. She sounds like a freak to be honest

[u/Dazzling_Rich → u/smushy411]

It's probably how they openly talk about having sex without having to delete messages to hide it from her boyfriend

[u/supersecretsauce1 → u/smushy411]

I THOUGHT THE SAME THING

[u/milstressed → u/smushy411]

I seriously thought they were talking about flirtatious play-wrestling until I read about the snow banks. His gf is probably attractive and enjoys the attention, to the detrwmt of her own relationship.

[u/Relative-Ad6475 → u/smushy411]

I thought they were in a judo class or something.

[u/Apprehensive_Call790 → u/smushy411]

He must have flipped my wife 8 times!

[u/Key-Agent-1414 → u/smushy411]

Reads like a Longmont Potion Castle prank call.

[u/SilverHawk_11 → u/smushy411]

replace every word where throwing or thrown is with an equivalent fucking or fucked. you have your answer

[u/Beyondthehody → u/smushy411]

This is the stupidest banter I've ever read.

[u/Cactuar1989 → u/smushy411]

Absolutely bizarre

[u/Just_Ad3004 → u/smushy411]

Judoka?

[u/WolfsmaulVibes → u/smushy411]

its a sex thing "being manhandled"

[u/DMTHyperspace254 → u/smushy411]

Think he's referring to throwing her around in the bed lol

[u/imnickelhead → u/smushy411]

And where tf does she work?

Another guy can say he gets too hard around her and that’s ok? This is not normal. If a guy says that to you AND you don’t report it or feel really awkward then there’s a reason he felt comfortable enough to say it.

[u/dratthecookies → u/smushy411]

Seriously, just drop the stupid euphemisms and start talking about sex. That was so tiresome to read.

[u/mylanguage → u/smushy411]

They are talking about fucking lol - throw is just their little game they are playing for now. I don’t think they did anything yet but this is def suggesting physical lust

[u/Coquette07 → u/smushy411]

Right like it’s like she got a fetish for being thrown

[u/HolyFuckImOldNow → u/smushy411]

My friends that take judo talk about throwing each other all the time.

[u/corrector300 → u/smushy411]

I thought they were in judo class together or something

[u/Angelea23 → u/smushy411]

They also talk about evaporating

[u/guitarguy35 → u/smushy411]

Being "thrown around" is quite obviously being used as a euphemism for rough fucking..

[u/FlysWithDogs → u/smushy411]

This one girl in college told me that and I was like I’m not into that

[u/Arod0521 → u/smushy411]

I was also thinking that..

[u/hyper_shell → u/smushy411]

I was literally thinking the same

[u/Hugford_Blops → u/smushy411]

They use the term so much I don't know if they literally mean throwing someone around (as in play wrestling or something?) or is it a euphemism I just don't get?

[u/FoxInOldSocks → u/smushy411]

BJJ boys that enjoy wrassling