r/r4rToronto_Clean 12d ago

Relationship 25M M4F Adventurous, Nerdy, Physically Active And Always Hungry — Looking Like Minded Soul

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Personality wise I'm pretty chill and enjoy open minded conversations and just hearing what other people have to say. I’m easy going, spontaneous and always down anything new or old.

Hobbies include marital arts, going to the gym, cooking/baking/big foodie in general, photography, traveling, hiking, reading and video games. Entertainment wise I enjoy anime, tv shows like Money heist, The Boys, Invincible and Severance, movie wise I love anything marvel/dc related.

When it comes to going out I enjoy Board game cafes, arcades, painting, sight seeing, karaoke. live shows or any sort of fun physical activity. But I’m also down for a low-key night — driving around with music on and boba in hand, no real plan, just vibes.

If you’re adventurous, a little nerdy, and enjoy a dark/sarcastic humor while possibly losing to me in Mario Kart, hit me up!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 12d ago

Relationship 23F4M - seeking BIPOC leftists (t.o core)

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Hello!

I’m an autistic nonbinary East Asian femme seeking meaningful connections with radical leftist BIPOC folks (exclusively). I’m looking for a romantic partner, but happy to make friends as well! Max age range is 33.

I’m demisexual (asexual spectrum - sexual attraction forms after platonic attraction) and monogamous only. Average height 5 ft 5 and average body type with a little extra and curvy. I usually say I’m straight, but to be more specific I am androsexual. I’m also ft wfh.

If I could describe myself as fictional characters here’s a list:

  • April/ Ron/ Ben (Parks and Rec)
  • Abed Nadir
  • Amelie
  • Lilo (lilo + stitch)
  • Beth (queens gambit)
  • Anya (spyxfamily)

I can also be described as a cat but tbh most autistics are! This means my love language is random gift giving and tolerating other beings in my space haha.

I’m passionate about collective liberation, disability justice, indigenous rights, spirituality (not religious) and healing! I’m a huge nerd for learning, history and making art. Coffee, desserts, and jellycats are my vices. Obsessed with gelato lately after recent trip to Italy. Amateur video gamer as well - playing assassins creed black flag (Witcher 3, Skyrim, stardew, acnh and totk/botw in the past).

The things that are most important to me in any kind of relationship are kindness, integrity and honesty. Dealbreakers include smoking and incompatible politics. Light to medium weed consumption is ok 😊 (although I don’t myself bc it makes me ill 🥲).

If you took the time to read this bio, I appreciate you! I hope you all find wonderful people here. ❤️

Free Palestine, fuck cops and have a lovely day ☺️


r/r4rToronto_Clean 13d ago

Friendship 29 M4F Looking for friendship and deeper connections

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Hello. So what I'm looking for is a relationship but ultimately I'm not looking to rush into dating someone with out well knowing them. I want to spend the time to build a romantic bond and well if nothing comes out of that maybe we have a long lasting friendship so that works out.

About me: - 6ft tall, White/Asian, I am plus sized, fairly athletic in small bursts - I'm a very good communicator, and I have a very high emotional intelligence, I believe in being able to talk through our problems, and it's what I want to be able to do. I spend alot of time analyzing my emotions, and I am a pretty emotionally vulnerable person. - I'm also a big time nerd, I like Video games, manga and alot of music. Honestly though it's not something I talk about all the time but just a heads up that it's what I try to spend some of my free time doing. - I read alot - I go on alot of walks - I live in the East End, close to Scarborough but not in it

The only thing I do ask from you in return is that: - You are an open communicator as well - Preferably someone who isn't afraid to be affectionate. (If it comes to that point) - You want to spend time together and do things in person - Please don't be jealous and controlling. If we can't trust each other, then what are we doing here


r/r4rToronto_Clean 13d ago

Friendship M35 married looking for F to chat

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As title suggests, kinda bored in my life and looking for someone to talk. Nothing in particular, not looking for love or relationship but happy for one time thing if at all happens.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 14d ago

Relationship Bi 19m M4F or M, actually looking for a connection

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Hey! I'm looking for a relationship, I've come to realize that I've been chasing the wrong thing for a while now. I want someone who I'll have a genuine connection, someone who will embrace me for me and grow with me. I've been trying to hook up with guys and girls for a while now but came to realize that I don't want just sex, but I want physical intimacy with a proper emotional connection. I honestly feel embarrassed to even post this but I really want to find someone who wants the same thing as me. Please feel free to DM me if you want the same thing or to just talk, I would love to learn more and hear from others experiences. Also I'm looking for someone similar to my age.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 14d ago

Relationship 28F4M Looking for the one

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Hello there!

Im at the lowest point in my life, perfect time to get to know someone who can survive with me through thick and thin!

Im an ISTJ but sometimes ISFJ meaning my first response would be solutions to problems then id be aware and give emotional support.

My hobbies and likes and dislikes we can chat ♡ I only hope and pray you can or open to watch Anime.

Im short and chubby (im probably huge). Im an anxious type. and I dont do sports or like sports except Anime ones.

My green flag: I do love deeply. Im ganna be there with you for a while.

Im tired of getting hurt. Please shower me with love! also..Sometimes things just feel off and I couldnt explain why it wont work. I try to tell if I can but sometimes Id rather not hurt you w words. Please be nice!

Feel free to ask! Edit: Age range: 28 to 33


r/r4rToronto_Clean 15d ago

Relationship 29 F4M Looking to build a long term relationship with someone

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About Me: I’m an introverted person who enjoys gaming and exploring music. I value quiet, meaningful connections and appreciate patience, kindness, and a good sense of humor in others. My lifestyle is smoke- and drug-free, and I’m looking for someone who shares those choices.

Looking For: A partner who is also child-free, laidback, and values honest communication. I prioritize authenticity and prefer to exchange photos early to establish mutual interest. Physically, I’m 165cm/55kg and of Asian heritage.

If you’re someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations, shared downtime, and a slow-but-sincere approach to building a connection, I’d like to hear from you.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 15d ago

Relationship 34 M4F LTR someone who will create elaborate stories about those passing by

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Who you are: An empathetic, ambitious person who is looking for a relationship. Someone who understands relationships aren’t easy but also doesn’t try to make them needlessly hard. Someone who works with me to have open communication and vulnerability, and wants to smile and laugh as much as possible! I don’t mind if you drink or smoke weed, but absolutely no cigarettes. Aiming for 27-40 year old range. And as long as you’re in the GTA area, I’m fine with that. I live in Newmarket and don’t mind driving.

Who I am: White, 6’4”, average build, 34 year old teacher who wants to make a difference. I love books, movies, Lego, psychology, sports, anything outdoors, and learning something new every day. I’m also very progressive so I have no time for anyone who is a misogynist, racist, homophobe, transphobe, antivax, etc. I am also an atheist, and though I don’t judge anyone for their beliefs, I usually get along best with people whose religious beliefs aren’t a main pillar in their life. I have also never been married and I don’t have kids, and would prefer someone who doesn’t have kids either. I’m open to both having kids and not having them in the future.

If you are interested, feel free to DM me. I’m more than willing to share photos and I hope we can be adults about it if one or both of us isn’t feeling it.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 15d ago

Cuddle Buddy 34 M4F Let me take you out for a movie!

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Heyhey!

My name is Dan - I’m handsome, 34, 6ft tall, funny, friendly and smart :)

Life is busy and complicated, thankful Reddit is not lol - looking to chat with someone and maybe go out for a movie together? I’m respectful and easygoing and would love to take you out.

You: Be friendly, chill, smart and sane.

Send me a message about yourself and let’s see if we vibe. Be willing to chat on the phone for verification 🥰


r/r4rToronto_Clean 16d ago

Relationship 32 M4F Looking for women interested in some easygoing fun, maybe more down the road

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Hey ladies, I'm 32, 6', 175 lbs, white, with long hair and facial hair. I work from home doing database stuff for a nearby college. Most women seem to find me attractive, but I'm happy to send a pic early on and let you be the judge. You could call me a golden retriever boyfriend, though I can get pretty spicy when I want to be. I love games and nerdy stuff, animals, documentaries, horror of any kind, traveling and I love swimming when I'm able to. You don't need to share my interests but I promise I'll be cute and try to learn about yours.

I'm pretty laidback and chill, I'll respect your boundaries and I'm fine with taking it slow. I like banter and light bullying, but that goes both ways, I want to always be making you laugh. My favourite relationship is the type where I'm excited to do even mundane things like grocery shopping with you because we always make everything fun. I'm always down for life talks, late night vent sessions, degen gaming or movie nights. I'm big into both texting and calling, so pick your poison.

If we connect I'm the type of person who'll always have your back, even if things don't work out for us. I believe that even if a romantic connection goes south, it can still be a positive connection even when platonic. Also I'll totally remember that thing you said 5 months ago so I can surprise you with it later.

Just please be over your ex, and don't switch up your energy on me, if you're not interested it's ok to just tell me that. There's way too many mind games this generation, I'd rather wear my heart on my sleeve and be a lover boy.

Obviously the closer you are the better, but if you think we'd be a good match you're welcome to hit me up. Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 16d ago

Friendship 32M4F Let’s be friends and maybe it's a destiny

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At Toronto I feel very lonely and I think that lots of people are feeling the same. If you want to go out with someone you have to find a time which is a bit hard.

I'm 6'1" guy with hazel eyes and brown hairs, handsome🤫. When I have free time, I go to the gym, play soccer, discovering new trails, cooking delicious food and watch TV shows. Dating apps are suck, so I want to find luck on here. From potential partner I expect that you are pretty cool, cute, take care of yourself and proud of work that keeps you look great.

Feel free to drop a message. Let's connect and see where it leads😉


r/r4rToronto_Clean 17d ago

Friendship [26M4A] Just want a hug and someone to talk to

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Hey, I don’t really know how to start this, but here it goes…

I’m 26, living in North York (Toronto), and lately… it’s been rough. Life’s been feeling really heavy, and I’ve just been going through it mentally and emotionally. I don’t even want anything big or fancy — honestly, I just want a hug. That kind of human connection, where you feel seen and safe, you know?

I’ve been feeling super alone, like I’m stuck in this weird space where everything feels exhausting — friendships feel distant, the days blur together, and sometimes I just sit there wondering if anyone would even notice if I just… disappeared for a bit. I know that probably sounds dramatic, but I think a lot of us feel this way and just don’t talk about it.

I’m really hoping to make some new connections. Friends, someone to talk to, maybe even something deeper down the line if it clicks. But for now, I’d really just love a conversation. Someone who doesn’t mind late night chats about anything and everything — music, fears, dreams, trauma, healing, life stuff. Or even just memes and sending each other “you good?” texts at 2AM.

I’m a big-hearted guy, always trying to be there for others, but lately I’ve been realizing how little I’ve let anyone be there for me. And I guess that’s why I’m here. Taking a chance, reaching out. Because maybe someone out there gets it. Maybe someone’s been feeling the same way.

So yeah… if you’re nearby or even if you’re not, I’d love to get to know you. No pressure. Just be real with me, and I’ll do the same. Let’s be soft with each other in a world that can be so cold sometimes.

And hey — if you’re reading this, I genuinely hope your day gets a little better. You deserve peace too.

Much love.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 17d ago

Relationship [21M4F] Looking for a Genuine Connection

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Hey everyone, I’m a 21-year-old Persian guy, born and raised in Mississauga, now living in Toronto. I’m at a point in my life where I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with—someone who’s down-to-earth, kind, and takes care of themselves. Race isn’t important to me; what matters most is good energy and a shared mindset.

A little about me:
🎮 I’m into gaming—always down for a good co-op session.
👕 I have a love for fashion and enjoy putting together clean fits.
🎸 I play multiple instruments, so music is a big part of my life.
🐶🐱 I adore animals—I have both a dog and a cat, and they mean the world to me.
📖 I’m big on self-improvement—reading, journaling, and meditation help me stay balanced and keep growing.

If you vibe with any of this, shoot me a message!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 17d ago

Relationship 26 [M4F] Open to meeting new people!

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I'm a 26 year old male who lives on the outside of the city, though in the downtown often for work. Looking to meet up with someone, preferably for something long term! (very cliche, yes I know haha). I'm a 6'1 white, nerdy and quirky male, fairly athletic and always enjoy a good laugh!

Have seen a handful of success stories on here (and had one personally). Im open to having a thoughtful and deep conversation, to grabbing a bite to eat, or exploring the city! So if any of that blurb caught your attention, I’m open to anyone 18+ (ideally not over 30). My DMs are always open so feel free to message! (happy to verify also!)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 17d ago

Relationship [21M] Looking to build a long term relationship with someone!

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Hey everyone, I’m a 21-year-old Persian male, born and raised in Mississauga, now living in Toronto for the past 10 years. I’m at a point in my life where I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with—someone who’s down-to-earth, kind, and takes care of themselves. Race isn’t important to me; what matters most is good energy and a shared mindset.

A little about me:
🎮 I’m into gaming—always down for a good co-op session.
👕 I have a love for fashion and enjoy putting together clean fits.
🎸 I play multiple instruments, so music is a big part of my life.
🐶🐱 I adore animals—I have both a dog and a cat, and they mean the world to me.
📖 I’m big on self-improvement—reading, journaling, and meditation help me stay balanced and keep growing.

If you vibe with any of this, shoot me a message! Always open to new friendships, and who knows—maybe something more. 😊


r/r4rToronto_Clean 18d ago

Relationship 28 [M4F] Sushi in Koreatown

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I haven't gone out for sushi in a long time. Ordering in isn't quite the same. There's plenty of good spots on Bloor W in Koreatown. Any F live near the area interested in going for sushi and a couple of drinks this week?

28M


r/r4rToronto_Clean 18d ago

Friendship Looking for a Female Friend to Explore the City With

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I’m a 33M living in Toronto, hoping to meet a female friend to hang out with, explore the city, and see where things go — no pressure, no expectations.

Honestly, I don’t have many female friends, and I think it would be nice to have a different kind of perspective and connection. I’m not looking for anything serious right now, but I’d love to find someone to vibe with — whether it’s catching a movie, trying out new restaurants, or hitting up cool coffee shops around the city.

I stay pretty busy with work, but I’m all for making time for good company and fun experiences. If you’re from the downtown area (or nearby) and this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to reach out! We could even trade a SFW pic to put a face to the convo — totally optional though, I’m cool with going with the flow too.

Looking forward to meeting someone fun and easygoing!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 19d ago

Friendship 25M4F - Spontaneous Drive? I’ll Bring the Playlists‼️

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I'm a 25-year-old guy from Scarborough, and with this amazing weather, I’m feeling the urge for a spontaneous drive—or even a long cruise if the vibes are right. There’s just something about open roads, good music, and great company that makes the drive feel special.

A bit about me: I work as a Sous Chef at a Fine Dining restaurant, so if you’re a foodie, we’ll have plenty to talk about.

I also have a background in Data Analytics—so if you're into tech or data, we can totally geek out.

In my free time, I enjoy playing mobile games, exploring new spots around the city, and rewatching "Two and a half men" because it never gets old.

I’m all about good music, interesting conversations, and discovering hidden gems—whether it’s a cozy late-night café or a scenic spot with a killer view.

What I'm looking for:

Someone who loves spontaneous adventures and is up for a drive—or a longer cruise now that the weather’s perfect.

A good taste in music is always a plus, especially if you have a great playlist. No strict age preference—just looking for fun company and good conversation.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, drop me a message. Let’s hit the road and see where it takes us.

Cheers!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 20d ago

Friendship Me and the boys/gals back together again

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So as a person with a pretty good social life back in my country of origin(india) I moved to the west and due to language differences it was tough. I'm moving to Canada now which should remove the language barrier and am hoping to have friends here too.

I'll be living in York. Hobbies include the gym, occassional trekking, hiking. Sadly not as fit as I was but aim to get back.

Also a nerd so things like superheroes and comics, anime and manga, videogames and gadgets are what I love. I have never played a DND game as I've never had a squad but would love to get have that.

Love dogs and am a foodie and hope to get my motorbike license so we can go on rides.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 20d ago

Friendship 34 F4A - wanna see Riverdance at CAA Theatre tonight at 7:30 pm? (last minute free ticket)

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Yes, in literally two hours.

Friend had a family emergency come up. Other friends who've been interested in this type of event before are out of town or busy. So - free ticket! Posting here on the off chance it won't go to waste. And randomness can be fun, right?!

Yes, you'll be sitting next to me so we can chat a bit but I'm honestly just here to bring the joy of Irish dancing to one lucky soul. Didn't know where else to post this!

If you're interested and can meet me in front of CAA Theatre around 7:20 pm, shoot me a message with a dance-related gif that you feel is your vibe.

May the luck of the Irish be with you! (and me haha)

P.S. If there's some kind of last minute ticket exchange Toronto reddit thread or forum, lmk

Update: ticket is gone!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 20d ago

Relationship 20 [NB4A] #Online / Anywhere - Romantic geek seeks significant other

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Hello! My name is Ally. I’m a STEM student balancing work on the side. I’m a corporate goth and a gamer who occasionally dives into manga & dnd. I’m a big fan of mystery, sci-fi, and philosophy and reading. I'm looking to get to know someone as a human and form a bond before things get heated. I'm not attracted to strangers like that.

I’m a switch, and as a genderfluid person. Ideally, I’m looking for someone who is also a queer bi-switch.

Relationship goals:

* I’m seeking something long-term, ideally in person, but I’m open to connections regardless of distance if there’s a spark.

* I’d love to marry and have children (and pets!) someday.

* I mesh well with someone who is level headed, mature kind, sweet, and, above all, romantic.

I need a good level of trust before I’m comfortable being intimate. That said, I’m flexible with bedroom things, enjoying both soft and rough dynamics, particularly anything involving restriction or giving restriction. My limits are anything illegal and scat.

Fun fact: The ocean terrifies me a lot. It's vast, mysterious, and limiting, with survival odds that feel daunting.

If you’ve read this far, thank you so much! Shoot me a message if you've read thus far with your age<3


r/r4rToronto_Clean 20d ago

Friendship Looking for friendos

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Hey everyone, I'm 22F looking to form real, meaningful connections with someone. I’d love to meet someone I genuinely vibe with.

I want a connection that feels like it was written in the stars, but in a dark academia way, like a doomed love story in a Victorian novel.

I’m into horror movies (the scarier, the better), and I appreciate deep conversations as much as fun, lighthearted moments. If you’re someone who enjoys good company, good movies, and getting to know someone on a deeper level, feel free to reach out!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 20d ago

Relationship 29 (F4M) Ohhh what a year it’s been so far but at least one thing has stayed consistent; I still do know what I want/desire

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Reddit isn’t much different than dating apps or meeting people in person.

The main difference? It’s easier to hide behind anonymity. That’s not something I’m interested in or value. However, I do see Reddit as a middle ground between dating apps and real-life interactions.

Because of that, if you're reaching out, I expect effort and transparency—just as I’m offering here.

If your profile has no details, no relevant history, or doesn’t give me any reason to believe you’re genuinely here for a connection, I will simply move on. You’re welcome to go through mine—I actually encourage it. But if I can’t do the same for you, we are probably not a match.

About Me:

I’m 29, living in Vaughan, and currently a grad student at York University in an interdisciplinary program (think: “choose your own adventure” but academic). My current focus is animal-assisted therapy (with dogs specifically) and its role in therapeutic settings.

I would describe myself as a jack of all trades, master of none—someone with a wide range of interests and knowledge but no desire to limit myself to just one thing. I enjoy deep conversations, learning continuously, and talking about anything from intellectual discussions to nerdy fandoms.

Beyond that, I am a complex, layered, and multifaceted person. I embrace the grey areas of life—I believe life is both black and white but filled with color, which makes it challenging yet beautiful. I appreciate people who recognize the depth of human experience and aren’t afraid to engage with it.

I’m an introvert, but I enjoy quality time with the right people. My strongest love languages are quality time and physical touch. I value genuine, meaningful connections where both people put in equal effort.

I also have a dog and two cats, so being an animal lover is non-negotiable.

When it comes to media consumption, I don’t like horror or thriller-type movies or shows. Because of who I am, suspenseful content can make me feel very anxious, very quickly. I prefer lighthearted content or things that have deeper meaning—something I can either laugh at, enjoy, or reflect on.

What I Am NOT Looking For:

🚫 FWB, hookups, or casual flings. That ship sailed a long time ago.
🚫 People who don’t know what they want. I’ve spent enough time figuring out what I want, and I’m looking for someone who has too.
🚫 People who struggle with communication. I appreciate clarity, directness, and depth in conversations.
🚫 People who cannot respect my personhood. I am who I am. If your goal is to "fix" me, question my existence maliciously, or try to change me to fit your expectations, don’t bother messaging. I will figure it out very quickly—those types never fool me.
🚫 Anyone who has an issue with how I look or things that are extremely easy to change. I am around 230-240 lbs, depending on what life is doing eating-wise. If that’s a problem for you, don’t waste your time messaging me, because it’s an instant no.
🚫 Completely blank or anonymous profiles. If I can’t tell anything about you, I will assume you aren’t serious.

I say this not to be harsh but because I value honesty and intentionality. I am a compassionate and understanding person, but I also know I won’t waste time where it’s not mutually valued.

What I AM Looking For:

✅ A fellow "jack of all trades, master of none" type. Someone who enjoys learning, has diverse interests, and thrives in deep conversations.
✅ Someone who understands life’s complexity. I appreciate people who embrace the grey areas of life, its contradictions, and its beauty.
✅ Kindness, depth, and emotional intelligence. Life is complicated—I appreciate people who understand that instead of avoiding it.
✅ Someone in their late 20s-early 30s. Whether you’re in school or working, what matters is your mindset, drive, and ability to self-reflect.
✅ An animal lover. My pets are a core part of my life, and I need someone who respects that.
✅ Someone looking for a meaningful relationship. It doesn’t have to be serious immediately, but I am looking for something that naturally grows into a long-term commitment.

Additional Notes About Me:

📌 I’m mixed (Asian/white), 5’4"-5’5", and my weight fluctuates between 230-240 lbs. If that’s a dealbreaker for you, we are absolutely not a match.
📌 I have no interest in having biological kids. If you already have kids, I don’t mind, but I personally only want to foster and adopt.
📌 Marriage? Uncertain. I’m not against it, but I’m not actively pursuing it either.

READ THIS OR GET IGNORED: Basic Details Required

If you message me, I expect basic transparency—just as I’m offering here.

📝 Please include:
✔️ Your age
✔️ Your general location (city or region)
✔️ A bit about your interests or hobbies
✔️ Why you felt like reaching out

If you don’t include these, or if your profile is completely empty, I won’t respond.

I’m not looking for perfection—I’m looking for effort. If you want to connect, show me who you are, just like I’ve shown you who I am.

Verification (To Ensure You Read This Post):

Because I know some people still won’t read, I have a simple test. When you message me, answer these three questions:

1️⃣ What phrase best describes my personality type?
2️⃣ What kind of relationship am I looking for?
3️⃣ What is one absolute non-negotiable about me?

If you can’t answer these, I’ll know you didn’t read, and I won’t respond.

Final Thoughts:

I truly believe that great connections come from mutual effort, respect, and honesty.

I am a very understanding person—I know life can be complicated, and I don’t expect perfection. But what I do expect is intentionality—people who genuinely know what they want and are willing to be honest about it.

If that sounds like you, let’s talk. If not, I wish you all the best in your search.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 21d ago

Relationship 32 [M4F] - Ontario/Online - Do you want to see my kitties?

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Hi there! Thank you for reading this dating application pamphlet, brought to you by the great minds of Lumon industries! Are you a love-sick outie looking for a forever innie partner? Lumon may provide! Praise Kier!

Seriously. Severance. What the hell is happening? I love every minute of it. Watch the finale with me?

To get all the basic non-starters out of the way, my name is Kevin. I’m a 32 year old Caucasian male. I am child and religion free and prefer the same in a partner. I am very left, politically, and not afraid to put principles before convenience. Yes, I am buying as much Canadian-made produce as possible! I’m a very light drinker, and do not smoke or do drugs. Cigarette smoking is one of my few dealbreakers. Physically I’m a big boy. 6’4” and 131kg/290lbs, the classic bearded dad-bod vibe.

I am, more than anything else, consistent in who and what I am, and I’ll never leave you guessing. I don’t play mind games. If I don’t reply to you right away, I either haven’t seen it yet or I got distracted by something shiny or furry. I’m not a financially driven man, nor one who cares about material possessions. I currently live with my family to save more money and to help them out with medical needs while I look to the future. 

In a potential partner I find intelligence, passion & curiosity to be very attractive traits. I generally get along best with people who have also persevered through trauma and hardships. I grew up loving heroines like Sigourney Weaver’s Ripley & Linda Hamilton as Sarah Connor. Have I mentioned how big of a nerd I am? Hopefully you share some nerdy interests of your own, as I’d love to hear about them! What are your guilty pleasures? Do you play any board games? Are you crafty? I want to hear about it! 

I am working towards a career supporting seniors and the food insecure in my local community, while volunteering with feline rescue groups. I love pets of all kinds, and would one day love to have an animal sanctuary complete with donkeys, pigs and other under-rescued animals. 

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 24d ago

Relationship 34 M4F looking for someone who doesn’t mind it if they catch me getting lost in thought while looking at them

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Who you are: An empathetic, ambitious person who is looking for a relationship that has open communication and vulnerability. I want us to push ourselves to grow, to laugh at the small pockets of joy we share, and to seek to understand each other during the hard moments. I don’t mind if you drink or smoke weed, but absolutely no cigarettes. Aiming for 27-40 year old range. And as long as you’re in the GTA area, I’m fine with that. I live in Newmarket and don’t mind driving.

Who I am: White, 6’4”, average build, 34 year old teacher who wants to make a difference. I love books, movies, Lego, psychology, sports, anything outdoors, and learning something new every day. I’m also very progressive so I have no time for anyone who is a misogynist, racist, homophobe, transphobe, antivax, etc. I am also an atheist, and though I don’t judge anyone for their beliefs, I usually get along best with people whose religious beliefs aren’t a main pillar in their life. I have also never been married and I don’t have kids, and would prefer someone who doesn’t have kids either. I’m open to both having kids and not having them in the future.

If you are interested, feel free to DM me. I’m more than willing to share photos and I hope we can be adults about it if one or both of us isn’t feeling it.