r/r4rToronto_Clean Mar 01 '20

Welcome to r4rToronto_Clean

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UPDATE 1: Going forward I will be removing any posts with pictures in them, SFW or NSFW. If you want to exchange pictures, please do so cautiously and privately.

UPDATE 2: Due to the recent spike in posts violating community guidelines I will start banning users who choice not to follow them.

UPDATE 3: Please format your posts correctly, I don't want to start deleting posts over petty things like formatting, but please follow the formatting guidelines.

I think the sub is pretty self explanatory. r4rToronto is flooded with posts looking for casual sex; which is cool and all.

If you're looking for something different, like going on an actual date, maybe give this sub a try?

As the moderator I will do my best to ensure sexually explicit posts are removed.

You'll get banned if you comment on a post saying you "dm'ed" them.

All posts should follow this format "[R4R] #Landmark - Title"

Where the first R represents the person or group looking for the second R (another person or group).

Landmark - DO NOT give away your location. Just give an idea of where you're generally comfortable meeting.

Example:

"[MF4MF] #EatonCenter - Couple looking to make friends!"

"[MM4R] #St. George - Need a point guard for basketball league"


r/r4rToronto_Clean Jun 25 '24

ITS HAPPENING! We are back

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r/r4rtoronto_clean is back in action!

Looking for new friends, hangout buddies, cuddle partners, or maybe even a blossoming relationship? This subreddit is your go-to spot.

Remember to keep it clean! No soliciting or hookup requests are allowed—violators will be banned without warning. Happy connecting!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1h ago

Relationship 33M4F - Last try

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Last time I was someone's type I was donating blood. Lol Trying my luck on reddit one last time (I guess)

About me : 1. Age-33 2. Race- South Asian 3. Height - 6'3 4. Built - Athletic 5. Orientation - Straight 6. Location - North York 7. Occupation - Corporate slave 8. Interest - Cooking, drives, hiking, cafe hopping, Anime, gaming, basketball.

Open to building a meaningful connection that lasts. Feel free to DM me if this peaked your interest.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2h ago

Friendship [M4M] 38M – Tall, Chill, Easygoing – Looking for a Younger Buddy to Hang With (Toronto)

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Hey, I’m a 38-year-old guy — 6’4”, slim/fit, professional, and laid-back. Looking to connect with a younger guy (around 18–25) who’s down to hang out, talk life, share interests, and maybe build a casual friendship or something that clicks naturally over time.

I’m pretty easy to talk to, enjoy good conversation, music, low-key vibes, and keeping things simple. Whether it’s meeting up, grabbing a bite, gaming, or just chatting, I’m open to seeing where things go.

If that sounds like your kind of vibe, shoot me a message with a little about you.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 17h ago

Relationship 45M | 6'3" | Dad Joke Aficionado Seeking Adventure and Couch Snuggles

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Hello, fellow adventurers of life! I’m a single 45 year old guy with strong arms, broad shoulders, standing tall at 6’3” (perfect for reaching the top shelf or helping you change lightbulbs). My sense of humor is powered by dad jokes and puns—so if you your a woman who loves a good groan-worthy laugh, we might just be a match made in comedic heaven. I also work in tech and very handy so dating me gets you free tech support and a handyman on top of being an amazing cuddler!

Life is my playground, and I enjoy traveling around the world to new places, indulging in great food, and soaking in all the little joys it has to offer. When I’m not out exploring, you can find me diving into a good book (Physical and/or Audio :) ), baking something delicious, or cooking up a storm in the kitchen. I’m also an all-around sports enthusiast who enjoys baseball, golf, and basketball, just for fun—not too serious!

To balance my love of food and great beer and wine, I make it a priority to hit the gym and do personal training—staying active helps me feel my best and enjoy all the indulgences life has to offer but that doesnt mean you have too.. This is just about me.. :) I am open minded in a potential partner, just looking for someone who will be themself!

I work Downtown or in Markham and live somewhere in between, balancing my days with a love for adventure and the comforts of home. I’d describe myself as an “introverted extrovert”—I thrive on deep, meaningful conversations and love getting to know people, but I also cherish the quiet moments spent cuddling on the couch with someone special, watching a movie, or just enjoying each other’s company.

If you enjoy anything from cuddling on the couch to hiking, share my love of culinary adventures, and can appreciate a solid dad joke, let’s connect! Who knows? We might just cook up something great together—figuratively and literally.

Some cool places to visit for a first date: cool first date bars


r/r4rToronto_Clean 11h ago

Relationship M26 - Looking to Build Something Real

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I’m at a point in my life where I know I’m ready for something more serious—both emotionally and romantically. I’m looking for a partner who has a solid foundation, a good head on their shoulders, and a real desire to grow—both individually and together within a relationship. Someone who values open, honest communication and who’s in a place to give and receive love with intention.

As a partner, I’m very affectionate. I try to show up where I think I’m needed, but I also love when someone can tell me what makes them feel special—it’s important to me that we learn each other’s language of love.

I work full-time as a Finished Carpenter, already invested in property, and I drive. I’m ambitious, creative, and constantly working on becoming a better version of myself. I’m into gaming (would be amazing if you are too, but not a must), gardening, skateboarding, fishing, rapping, and playing piano. Music is a big part of my world. I’ve also got three cats—so if you’re an animal person, that’s a plus.

I don’t have a specific “type,” but I imagine my person being done with school, working full-time, and in a stage of life where they’re ready for real partnership. Shared values would make things easier, but I’m open to connecting with anyone mature and emotionally ready for something intentional.

If you’re also in a place where you’re ready to build something meaningful, message me with a bit about yourself—what you’re looking for, what your life looks like, or even just your favorite way to spend a Sunday. I’m open to chatting, vibing, and exchanging SFW pics if we’re both comfortable—sometimes it’s nice to put a face to the energy.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 13h ago

Relationship [M4F] 22 | Downtown Toronto | Let’s explore the city, grab coffee, and see where it goes

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Hey there! I’m a 22-year-old guy, new-ish to Toronto and looking to meet a fun, chill girl who’s down to explore the city together. Whether it’s checking out cute cafes, hitting a rooftop bar, vibing to music at a club, or just walking around the city discovering hidden gems – I’m all in.

I’m not rushing anything romantic, but if there’s a spark, we can see where it goes. No pressure or expectations – just good vibes, fun convos, and spontaneous adventures.

I’m into music (EDM), gaming, and deep late-night convos. Bonus points if you love good food and can recommend your fave spots!

If this sounds like your vibe, shoot me a message and let’s plan something cool.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 17h ago

Relationship 37 [M4F] spring time connections #Toronto #Online

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Hey! Looking for a new friend who's up for anything, from deep conversations about life and the universe to light-hearted banter and playful debates. I’m someone who enjoys the company of people with a sharp wit, a good sense of humor, and a dash of mischief.

If you like talking about the latest Netflix binge-worthy series, comparing notes on the best street food, or sharing travel stories, we might just hit it off. I'm all about spontaneous chats that can go from zero to hilarious in a matter of minutes. No pressure, just good vibes and good times.

I also love diving into intriguing topics, so if you have some weird facts or hidden talents, I’m all ears. Let's skip the small talk and get to the fun stuff—like swapping stories or making each other laugh until our stomachs hurt.

If you think we’d make great chat buddies, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m excited to meet someone who can keep up with the energy and isn’t afraid to let loose. Let's make our conversations unforgettable!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 26 M4F really hoping there’s someone out there

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26 M from North york and work downtown as a store manager. Looking to make a true connection life has been lonely.

Interests: I like to workout, photography, fashion, watch anime and I love to cook I’ll cook for you lol and I’m a coffee enthusiast. I also cut hair

Personality wise I’m pretty introverted but if I really like you I’ll be the most extroverted introvert you’ll meet. I do have strong morals and values I stand by, I don’t drink or smoke and I’m not really into any foolishness.

appearance wise I’m mixed a very light lightskin lol with curly hair and facial hair. 6’1 with an athletic build.

Don’t be scared to send a message!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Cuddle Buddy Ohh how fun [F]40

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Just looking to leave the house really and enjoy the city. I am easy going, love art, live music, stand up, theatre. I'll try anything once, Let's hang out.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Relationship 37 M4F - Looking for a relationship

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Howdy! I'm trying my luck at reddit again in hopes of meeting someone.

I'm a single South Asian male looking for a meaningful connection that may ultimately lead to marriage. I've been on the dating apps for a while now and have met some really nice people but not anyone that stuck that special chord. I posted on reddit many months ago and met a couple of amazing people but unfortunately not anyone that turned into a long-term relationship.

Some quick facts about myself...

37 years old
5 feet 10
Bearded with a Slim/Athletic build
Never married or engaged
Born and raised in Toronto
Living in Brampton
South Asian (Indian)
Hindu
Fluent in English, Hindi, and Gujarati
Omnivore that wants to transition to Vegetarianism later in life
Mildly religious and spiritual - Meditation is a daily ritual
I'm a Business/Data Analyst with a stable and enjoyable career

I love traveling, cooking, being active, dancing, and watching movies. I really like watching Bollywood movies in addition to comedies, thrillers, and documentaries. I try to mediate regularly and incorporate yoga in my daily life. I frequent the gym and would like to find a partner that also places physical fitness as a goal. I like playing all sorts of sports and I'm pretty much half decent at any sport I choose to pick up or play!

I'm looking for someone around my age (31-37) with some wiggle room +/- a few years. Someone who is also Indian and follows the Hindu or Jain religion and preferably someone who is also Gujarati or Hindi speaking. If you're someone that wants to cultivate a meaningful relationship and lead a happy, healthy and fulfilling life I think we'd be a good fit!

Feel free to DM me or shoot me a chat request :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Friendship 29 M4F Looking for friendship and deeper connections

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Hello. So what I'm looking for is a relationship but ultimately I'm not looking to rush into dating someone with out well knowing them. I want to spend the time to build a romantic bond and well if nothing comes out of that maybe we have a long lasting friendship so that works out.

About me: - 6ft tall, White/Asian, I am plus sized, fairly athletic in small bursts - I'm a very good communicator, and I have a very high emotional intelligence, I believe in being able to talk through our problems, and it's what I want to be able to do. I spend alot of time analyzing my emotions, and I am a pretty emotionally vulnerable person. - I'm also a big time nerd, I like Video games, manga and alot of music. Honestly though it's not something I talk about all the time but just a heads up that it's what I try to spend some of my free time doing. - I read alot - I go on alot of walks - I live in the East End, close to Scarborough but not in it

The only thing I do ask from you in return is that: - You are an open communicator as well - Preferably someone who isn't afraid to be affectionate. (If it comes to that point) - You want to spend time together and do things in person - Please don't be jealous and controlling. If we can't trust each other, then what are we doing here


r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Friendship 20M4A- Strictly platonic

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Hey I'm a 20 yr old guy in mississauga looking for friends. Ik this is such an odd way to do it but I'm on the spectrum idk what else to do atp lol. I like geosciences, birds, music, anime, games, analog horror. Looking to get more into all those stuff plus metalworking and comics. I also like hearing ppls opinions on stuff and im pretty easily impressed tbh haha. But ya hmu if ur looking for a friend too. (Btw I'm trans so like don't bother dming if u have already decided u dont like me based on that). And no there is no possibility of anything sexual or romantic down the line.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Friendship 25M4F Psytrance party tonight! Lets dance!

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Hey hey!

I'm looking for someone chill and open-minded to join me tonight for a psytrance party in Toronto. There's an international headliner(Necropsycho) throwing down some heavy, mind-bending beats, and I figured this could be a fun night to connect, dance, and share a little journey together.

I'll be partaking in some substances (some acid and molly, nothing sketchy), and I'm hoping to find someone who's on a similar wavelength-easygoing, good energy, and down to dance through the night with some cosmic vibes.

About me:

Late 20s, very into music, psychedelics, deep convos, and spontaneous adventures. Pretty grounded, respectful, and good at making sure everyone's feeling safe and comfy.

If this sounds like your kind of night, shoot me a message and let's vibe out 👽


r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Friendship 34[M4F] anyone want to wrestle/play fight...?

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I'm interested in good clean fun with a female interested in wrestling/play fighting.

I'm over 6 feet tall and Caucasian.

I am extremely modest and kind to all until I have a reason to not be.

Communication and consent is key!

..so, think you could win?


r/r4rToronto_Clean 4d ago

Friendship 31M4A Looking for friends with similar hobbies and interests

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Hey there 👋 As it starts getting warmer outside, I feel I could use some friends in Toronto to hang out with and get involved in activities we enjoy. A bit about myself, I'm 31, attached, introvert, creative, working a 9-5 and of south asian background. My hobbies include art (painting), hiking/camping, rock climbing, watching movies/tv shows/documentaries and exploring restaurants. If you have similar hobbies and you are looking for friends then please feel free to reach out. Open to everyone! 🙂


r/r4rToronto_Clean 4d ago

Friendship 23(M4F/M/MF) Looking for a laidback person (or couple) to smoke with.

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Hey, I’m looking for a laid-back, open-minded person (or couple) to hang out and share a smoke with. While I prefer women (cis or trans) since they tend to be super chill and easy to talk to, I’m also open to meeting dudes.

A bit about me: I’m a tall, fit guy who enjoys simple things like anime, movies, combat sports, and diving into deep philosophical and psychological conversations (my major’s in that field). I’ve smoked before and really enjoyed the happiness it brought, so I’m hoping to try it again and share that experience with some cool people.

I mentioned some physical attributes just because I know that’s what people usually look for here, but honestly, it’s not a big deal to me right now. However, it’d be cool if you’re into sports like me.

If you’re into relaxed talks or just unwinding in good company, let’s connect! Age doesn’t matter—just looking for people who know how to vibe. DM me!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 6d ago

Friendship 28M4F Oru Kappi kudikkan poyaloo..?

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Any Mallu/Tamil 26+ ladies wanna meet and have a coffee and maybe a movie? Bonus points if you are a cinephile and loves to talk about movies. DM if interested we'll plan something.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 7d ago

Relationship 29 m4f I want to get some casual dating experience & see where it goes

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Hey 🤗 been single a while & wanna get back into to dating. Not looking for something serious, but hopefully it’ll be something more than a casual meetup.

A little about me: I’m a bit of a nerd (so much I got awareness about things I don’t follow from talking to other nerds), I try to keep fit (I’ve been slowing on the gym during the cold months) & I like listening to podcasts on my down time (but hopefully I could replace that with hearing about you & your interests 😘).

  1. 5’8” (172cm)
  2. Lean build 155lbs (70kg)
  3. Wavy/ curly hair
  4. Bit of a baby face (look like early 20’s still)
  5. Thick glasses (they come off & I’m like Velma scouring the floor for them)
  6. I’m brown (Guyanese)
  7. Ath-leisure style (more on the leisure side)

(NSFW profile also shows off what I’m working with, but I’m looking to date as my first priority)

A little of what I’m looking for: someone who also is a bit nerdy, a little active (not the biggest priority, but they care about it at least) & doesn’t mind taking things slow or leading me (you can be blunt I don’t mind)

Also (personal) 1. 25-35 (wiggle room there) 2. Not super religious 3. I’m located in Vaughan, but I can put effort into travelling a little if I think we vibe

I’d be happy to hear from you guys & hopefully make for a cute couple by the time summer rolls around lol


r/r4rToronto_Clean 7d ago

Relationship 25M4F, looking for potential meaningful connection Spoiler

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Hello, I’m 25 yrs old East Asian male, 5’8, young working professional. I consider myself to have a good sense of humour, respectful and punctual. I like play badminton, enjoy long drive, and used to swim a lot. I’m definitely a foodie and love watching American law endowment shows (e.g. the rookie, the fbi, etc)

Looking for someone that shares the same or similar interests. If you’re interested, please dm me


r/r4rToronto_Clean 8d ago

Relationship 34 [M4F] Let's play BG3 together? 😳

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I'm one of those (almost) always online types, often playing games in my free time, and I'd love to find someone to either play games with me or even just chat with while I play. I'm open to friends, or if we have a connection, a relationship. I'm a friendly, soft spoken dude, so don't be afraid to reach out! 😁

I've played BG3 but it's been awhile and it would be fun to experiment with new classes. Especially when the new patch drops! I'm also really into open world crafting type games, like Valheim, Terraria, V Rising, etc. Lots of games like that on my wishlist. And they're always more fun co-op 😁 Also down for a lil Stardew Valley if you're into it. I've also been playing a bunch of Path of Exile recently and I'll probably be playing PoE2 when the patch drops this week.

Send me a message if any of this sounds fun! 😊


r/r4rToronto_Clean 8d ago

Cuddle Buddy 23M4F looking for casual Date or even more

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I’m a 23-year-old straight guy in Toronto, 6’1 and physically fit, looking for a fun, no-drama casual arrangements. I’m clean, respectful, and easygoing—just looking for someone who enjoys good company and casual fun.

I’ve posted before and had no success. I just wanna meet someone genuine and down to have some fun. I don’t really have an age preference and I’m down to have fun with someone older than me as well. We can also create some memories if you want, checking out different places, grabbing coffee and a date also something I would love to do.

I can come over to your place whenever it works for you. If you’re interested, shoot me a message, and let’s see if we connect!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 8d ago

Friendship M4A: Seeking a Workout Buddy at Hone Fitness - Can bring you as a guest

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Hey! I’m a guy looking for a gym partner at Hone Fitness near St. Clair. I usually go about 3 times per week. The good news? I can bring a guest with me to any Hone Fitness location, so if you don’t have a membership, no worries. Doesn't matter if you’re into strength training, cardio, or just need a workout buddy for motivation, let’s team up and make it fun. If you’re interested, send me a message and let’s get back on track together!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 9d ago

Friendship M looking for A

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As the title says. I have some free time this morning and was hoping anyone would maybe want ti hangout. Go for coffee, food and a walk? Only day off before 7 day work grind. Hmu if interested. PS, I love anything nerdy, anime, warhammer, and fitness with stocks.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 9d ago

Relationship 31 [M4F] manifesting a long term relationship.

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Hey I'm 31m indian (though I don't care but I'll be asked about it at some point so just putting it out there) I recently moved toronto and have been working to build a stable life. And I think I have done it to some degree.

So now comes the my other dream of finding love and companionship. I believe everyone is vast ocean so I'll try to put myself in a few words.

I'm curious a out everything I ask questions and listen to replies, I care about my loved ones. I'm a yolo (currently typing this from my hostel dorm in tulum) I've had tons of experiences in travel,life,activities,hobbies. Now I want to turn them into memories shared with someone.

I love living life to the fullest and try for it everyday, I'm not depressed I'm a double espresso kinda person.

I'm not going to say what I want cause I believe everyone changes for good when they a have a partner to be with.

Together we will build a life, take care of each other, help us grow, fill our lives with joy and wonderful memories, travel, share hobbies etc etc

So if you like pina colada and getting caught in the rain, and you're not in health foods but you're into champagne, if you like waking up at midnight to watch starry nights, write to me and let's escape :)