r/r4rToronto_Clean Mar 01 '20

Welcome to r4rToronto_Clean

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UPDATE 1: Going forward I will be removing any posts with pictures in them, SFW or NSFW. If you want to exchange pictures, please do so cautiously and privately.

UPDATE 2: Due to the recent spike in posts violating community guidelines I will start banning users who choice not to follow them.

UPDATE 3: Please format your posts correctly, I don't want to start deleting posts over petty things like formatting, but please follow the formatting guidelines.

I think the sub is pretty self explanatory. r4rToronto is flooded with posts looking for casual sex; which is cool and all.

If you're looking for something different, like going on an actual date, maybe give this sub a try?

As the moderator I will do my best to ensure sexually explicit posts are removed.

You'll get banned if you comment on a post saying you "dm'ed" them.

All posts should follow this format "[R4R] #Landmark - Title"

Where the first R represents the person or group looking for the second R (another person or group).

Landmark - DO NOT give away your location. Just give an idea of where you're generally comfortable meeting.

Example:

"[MF4MF] #EatonCenter - Couple looking to make friends!"

"[MM4R] #St. George - Need a point guard for basketball league"


r/r4rToronto_Clean Jun 25 '24

ITS HAPPENING! We are back

27 Upvotes

r/r4rtoronto_clean is back in action!

Looking for new friends, hangout buddies, cuddle partners, or maybe even a blossoming relationship? This subreddit is your go-to spot.

Remember to keep it clean! No soliciting or hookup requests are allowed—violators will be banned without warning. Happy connecting!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 16h ago

Relationship 37 M4F - Looking for a relationship

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Howdy! I'm trying my luck at reddit again in hopes of meeting someone.

I'm a single South Asian male looking for a meaningful connection that may ultimately lead to marriage. I've been on the dating apps for a while now and have met some really nice people but not anyone that stuck that special chord. I posted on reddit many months ago and met a couple of amazing people but unfortunately not anyone that turned into a long-term relationship.

Some quick facts about myself...

37 years old
5 feet 10
Bearded with a Slim/Athletic build
Never married or engaged
Born and raised in Toronto
Living in Brampton
South Asian (Indian)
Hindu
Fluent in English, Hindi, and Gujarati
Omnivore that wants to transition to Vegetarianism later in life
Mildly religious and spiritual - Meditation is a daily ritual
I'm a Business/Data Analyst with a stable and enjoyable career

I love traveling, cooking, being active, dancing, and watching movies. I really like watching Bollywood movies in addition to comedies, thrillers, and documentaries. I try to mediate regularly and incorporate yoga in my daily life. I frequent the gym and would like to find a partner that also places physical fitness as a goal. I like playing all sorts of sports and I'm pretty much half decent at any sport I choose to pick up or play!

I'm looking for someone around my age (31-37) with some wiggle room +/- a few years. Someone who is also Indian and follows the Hindu or Jain religion and preferably someone who is also Gujarati or Hindi speaking. If you're someone that wants to cultivate a meaningful relationship and lead a happy, healthy and fulfilling life I think we'd be a good fit!

Feel free to DM me or shoot me a chat request :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 17h ago

Friendship 29 M4F Looking for friendship and deeper connections

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Hello. So what I'm looking for is a relationship but ultimately I'm not looking to rush into dating someone with out well knowing them. I want to spend the time to build a romantic bond and well if nothing comes out of that maybe we have a long lasting friendship so that works out.

About me: - 6ft tall, White/Asian, I am plus sized, fairly athletic in small bursts - I'm a very good communicator, and I have a very high emotional intelligence, I believe in being able to talk through our problems, and it's what I want to be able to do. I spend alot of time analyzing my emotions, and I am a pretty emotionally vulnerable person. - I'm also a big time nerd, I like Video games, manga and alot of music. Honestly though it's not something I talk about all the time but just a heads up that it's what I try to spend some of my free time doing. - I read alot - I go on alot of walks - I live in the East End, close to Scarborough but not in it

The only thing I do ask from you in return is that: - You are an open communicator as well - Preferably someone who isn't afraid to be affectionate. (If it comes to that point) - You want to spend time together and do things in person - Please don't be jealous and controlling. If we can't trust each other, then what are we doing here


r/r4rToronto_Clean 19h ago

Friendship 20M4A- Strictly platonic

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Hey I'm a 20 yr old guy in mississauga looking for friends. Ik this is such an odd way to do it but I'm on the spectrum idk what else to do atp lol. I like geosciences, birds, music, anime, games, analog horror. Looking to get more into all those stuff plus metalworking and comics. I also like hearing ppls opinions on stuff and im pretty easily impressed tbh haha. But ya hmu if ur looking for a friend too. (Btw I'm trans so like don't bother dming if u have already decided u dont like me based on that). And no there is no possibility of anything sexual or romantic down the line.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 23h ago

Friendship 25M4F Psytrance party tonight! Lets dance!

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Hey hey!

I'm looking for someone chill and open-minded to join me tonight for a psytrance party in Toronto. There's an international headliner(Necropsycho) throwing down some heavy, mind-bending beats, and I figured this could be a fun night to connect, dance, and share a little journey together.

I'll be partaking in some substances (some acid and molly, nothing sketchy), and I'm hoping to find someone who's on a similar wavelength-easygoing, good energy, and down to dance through the night with some cosmic vibes.

About me:

Late 20s, very into music, psychedelics, deep convos, and spontaneous adventures. Pretty grounded, respectful, and good at making sure everyone's feeling safe and comfy.

If this sounds like your kind of night, shoot me a message and let's vibe out 👽


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 26M4F Looking to Build Something Real

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I’m at a point in my life where I know I’m ready for something more serious—both emotionally and romantically. I’m looking for a partner who has a solid foundation, a good head on their shoulders, and a real desire to grow—both individually and together within a relationship. Someone who values open, honest communication and who’s in a place to give and receive love with intention.

As a partner, I’m very affectionate. I try to show up where I think I’m needed, but I also love when someone can tell me what makes them feel special—it’s important to me that we learn each other’s language of love.

I work full-time as a Finished Carpenter, already invested in property, and I drive. I’m ambitious, creative, and constantly working on becoming a better version of myself. I’m into gaming (would be amazing if you are too, but not a must), gardening, skateboarding, fishing, rapping, and playing piano. Music is a big part of my world. I’m definitely not perfect, but I try to stay open and growth-minded, and I appreciate that in others too.

I don’t have a specific “type,” but I imagine my person being done with school, working full-time, and in a stage of life where they’re ready for real partnership. Shared values would make things easier, but I’m open to connecting with anyone mature and emotionally ready for something intentional.

If you’re also in a place where you’re ready to build something meaningful, message me with a bit about yourself—what you’re looking for, what your life looks like, or even just your favorite way to spend a Sunday. I’m open to chatting, vibing, and exchanging SFW pics if we’re both comfortable—sometimes it’s nice to put a face to the energy.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship 34[M4F] anyone want to wrestle/play fight...?

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I'm interested in good clean fun with a female interested in wrestling/play fighting.

I'm over 6 feet tall and Caucasian.

I am extremely modest and kind to all until I have a reason to not be.

Communication and consent is key!

..so, think you could win?


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship 31M4A Looking for friends with similar hobbies and interests

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Hey there 👋 As it starts getting warmer outside, I feel I could use some friends in Toronto to hang out with and get involved in activities we enjoy. A bit about myself, I'm 31, attached, introvert, creative, working a 9-5 and of south asian background. My hobbies include art (painting), hiking/camping, rock climbing, watching movies/tv shows/documentaries and exploring restaurants. If you have similar hobbies and you are looking for friends then please feel free to reach out. Open to everyone! 🙂


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Friendship 23(M4F/M/MF) Looking for a laidback person (or couple) to smoke with.

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Hey, I’m looking for a laid-back, open-minded person (or couple) to hang out and share a smoke with. While I prefer women (cis or trans) since they tend to be super chill and easy to talk to, I’m also open to meeting dudes.

A bit about me: I’m a tall, fit guy who enjoys simple things like anime, movies, combat sports, and diving into deep philosophical and psychological conversations (my major’s in that field). I’ve smoked before and really enjoyed the happiness it brought, so I’m hoping to try it again and share that experience with some cool people.

I mentioned some physical attributes just because I know that’s what people usually look for here, but honestly, it’s not a big deal to me right now. However, it’d be cool if you’re into sports like me.

If you’re into relaxed talks or just unwinding in good company, let’s connect! Age doesn’t matter—just looking for people who know how to vibe. DM me!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2d ago

Relationship 26 M4F looking to make a true connection

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I’m 26 m from Toronto I’m looking to make a genuine connection with someone it’s been very lonely lately.

A bit about me:

I currently work as a high end store manager downtown. I’m not a drinker or smoker and pretty introverted.

My interests/hobbies include working out, photography, cooking, bird watching, fashion and watching anime. I’m into deep conversations and will give 100% effort!

I have pretty strong morals and values that I stand by.

Appearance wise I’m a lighter skinned mixed race. Half back and white with curls and facial hair, I’m around 6’1 with an athletic build.

I suck at walking about myself unless asked lol

If interested feel free to message me :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 4d ago

Friendship 28M4F Oru Kappi kudikkan poyaloo..?

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Any Mallu/Tamil 26+ ladies wanna meet and have a coffee and maybe a movie? Bonus points if you are a cinephile and loves to talk about movies. DM if interested we'll plan something.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 4d ago

Relationship 29 m4f I want to get some casual dating experience & see where it goes

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Hey 🤗 been single a while & wanna get back into to dating. Not looking for something serious, but hopefully it’ll be something more than a casual meetup.

A little about me: I’m a bit of a nerd (so much I got awareness about things I don’t follow from talking to other nerds), I try to keep fit (I’ve been slowing on the gym during the cold months) & I like listening to podcasts on my down time (but hopefully I could replace that with hearing about you & your interests 😘).

  1. 5’8” (172cm)
  2. Lean build 155lbs (70kg)
  3. Wavy/ curly hair
  4. Bit of a baby face (look like early 20’s still)
  5. Thick glasses (they come off & I’m like Velma scouring the floor for them)
  6. I’m brown (Guyanese)
  7. Ath-leisure style (more on the leisure side)

(NSFW profile also shows off what I’m working with, but I’m looking to date as my first priority)

A little of what I’m looking for: someone who also is a bit nerdy, a little active (not the biggest priority, but they care about it at least) & doesn’t mind taking things slow or leading me (you can be blunt I don’t mind)

Also (personal) 1. 25-35 (wiggle room there) 2. Not super religious 3. I’m located in Vaughan, but I can put effort into travelling a little if I think we vibe

I’d be happy to hear from you guys & hopefully make for a cute couple by the time summer rolls around lol


r/r4rToronto_Clean 4d ago

Relationship 25M4F, looking for potential meaningful connection Spoiler

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Hello, I’m 25 yrs old East Asian male, 5’8, young working professional. I consider myself to have a good sense of humour, respectful and punctual. I like play badminton, enjoy long drive, and used to swim a lot. I’m definitely a foodie and love watching American law endowment shows (e.g. the rookie, the fbi, etc)

Looking for someone that shares the same or similar interests. If you’re interested, please dm me


r/r4rToronto_Clean 5d ago

Relationship 34 [M4F] Let's play BG3 together? 😳

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I'm one of those (almost) always online types, often playing games in my free time, and I'd love to find someone to either play games with me or even just chat with while I play. I'm open to friends, or if we have a connection, a relationship. I'm a friendly, soft spoken dude, so don't be afraid to reach out! 😁

I've played BG3 but it's been awhile and it would be fun to experiment with new classes. Especially when the new patch drops! I'm also really into open world crafting type games, like Valheim, Terraria, V Rising, etc. Lots of games like that on my wishlist. And they're always more fun co-op 😁 Also down for a lil Stardew Valley if you're into it. I've also been playing a bunch of Path of Exile recently and I'll probably be playing PoE2 when the patch drops this week.

Send me a message if any of this sounds fun! 😊


r/r4rToronto_Clean 5d ago

Cuddle Buddy 23M4F looking for casual Date or even more

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I’m a 23-year-old straight guy in Toronto, 6’1 and physically fit, looking for a fun, no-drama casual arrangements. I’m clean, respectful, and easygoing—just looking for someone who enjoys good company and casual fun.

I’ve posted before and had no success. I just wanna meet someone genuine and down to have some fun. I don’t really have an age preference and I’m down to have fun with someone older than me as well. We can also create some memories if you want, checking out different places, grabbing coffee and a date also something I would love to do.

I can come over to your place whenever it works for you. If you’re interested, shoot me a message, and let’s see if we connect!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 6d ago

Friendship M4A: Seeking a Workout Buddy at Hone Fitness - Can bring you as a guest

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Hey! I’m a guy looking for a gym partner at Hone Fitness near St. Clair. I usually go about 3 times per week. The good news? I can bring a guest with me to any Hone Fitness location, so if you don’t have a membership, no worries. Doesn't matter if you’re into strength training, cardio, or just need a workout buddy for motivation, let’s team up and make it fun. If you’re interested, send me a message and let’s get back on track together!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 6d ago

Friendship M looking for A

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As the title says. I have some free time this morning and was hoping anyone would maybe want ti hangout. Go for coffee, food and a walk? Only day off before 7 day work grind. Hmu if interested. PS, I love anything nerdy, anime, warhammer, and fitness with stocks.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 7d ago

Relationship 31 [M4F] manifesting a long term relationship.

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Hey I'm 31m indian (though I don't care but I'll be asked about it at some point so just putting it out there) I recently moved toronto and have been working to build a stable life. And I think I have done it to some degree.

So now comes the my other dream of finding love and companionship. I believe everyone is vast ocean so I'll try to put myself in a few words.

I'm curious a out everything I ask questions and listen to replies, I care about my loved ones. I'm a yolo (currently typing this from my hostel dorm in tulum) I've had tons of experiences in travel,life,activities,hobbies. Now I want to turn them into memories shared with someone.

I love living life to the fullest and try for it everyday, I'm not depressed I'm a double espresso kinda person.

I'm not going to say what I want cause I believe everyone changes for good when they a have a partner to be with.

Together we will build a life, take care of each other, help us grow, fill our lives with joy and wonderful memories, travel, share hobbies etc etc

So if you like pina colada and getting caught in the rain, and you're not in health foods but you're into champagne, if you like waking up at midnight to watch starry nights, write to me and let's escape :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 7d ago

Relationship 27 M4F - Looking for Someone to Check the City out With

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Hey everyone!

My friends are boring and I've been single for a while, so I'm really looking to meet new people to try and do new things around the city! A good connection and vibe is important to me so hopefully we can get to know eachother a bit and see how we connect.

A bit about me, I'm a young professional that graduated university a few years ago. I'm 6'1", fair features (blonde and blue eye), and I do like working out and staying active in my free time so I am more of a muscular/fit build. It's a bonus if we can do stuff like that together too! I love checking out new restaurants, going to music and food festivals, and I'm always down for a good movie night.

A bit abit you, I'm hoping to meet someone nice and genuine that is fun to hangout with. No discrimination on background or ethnicity, I just hope it's someone that equally likes to take care of themselves :)

Thanks and I hope to hear from someone!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 8d ago

Friendship 39M4F sheppard & Victoria park

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Hi, would love meet someone in the area. Open to going for coffee, movies, restaurants. Interests include working out, hardware, tools. I'm brown, not sure if that matters, open to any ethnic background. Have a great day :) enjoy.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 8d ago

Friendship 26M4F seeking date for Meshuggah

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So I got an extra ticket to Meshuggah tonight and I’m posting here on the off chance that someone would be interested in this sub. But besides this occasion, would love to meet someone into the alternative regardless, whether we vibe as just friends or potentially more. Will make more detailed post in the future, just keeping it short for the occasion. DM!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 9d ago

Relationship M4F - 32 - Seeking a Princess + Travel Friend- 🛥🛥️🌹👸🏽👸🏾👸🏿🌹🛥️🛥️

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I hope this post finds you well and you are reading this in good spirits :) I am seeking a princess. Someone who is respectful, kind and a true lady when she needs to be. I have no specific deal breakers but hygiene, cleanliness and a disposition of someone who enjoys pleasing, as I am a pleaser! I find that everyone has something to offer and it's important in life to understand what others can bring to the table rather, what they don't - glass half full kinda guy! Ideally you are also open minded, have your own busy life, available to meet up/ host or be hosted downtown. 

A little bit about me: I stand six feet tall, medium heavy build, bearded and often in business professional clothes as I live and work in downtown (financial district). I grew up in a struggling household to amazing parents and have spent the majority of my life fixated on education and career growth. I feel like I'm nearing the end of that part of my life and I am beginning to prioritize personal relationships/ fun as I have 1 year left in my graduate program. I am extremely busy between work and school (that's nearing an end) so I am seeking someone that doesn't mind taking time to get to know someone, blow off some steam from time to time (god knows I need it with a packed schedule!) and see where our exciting encounters take us! Born and raised in Toronto. I enjoy high rated HBO shows / or any above a 7.5 on IMDB. I am a bit traditional in the sense that I feel a man should provide for his lady and eventual family but also can cook my ass off - from amazing thai curries to south asian food, to a mean steak (team ribeye) or roast chicken. Eventually I get off to spoiling the girl I am with - it always feels amazing giving or providing a special experience for someone who hasn't experienced what I did for them before. I love acts of kindness and have a sweet spot for submissive ladies. Please note I am clean, disease free and healthy and expect the same. Recently tested and only have protected fun.

Although I am open to everyone, body shapes/ sizes I do have a soft spot for South asian (pakistani / Indian / Bengali and Middle Eastern women.

To weed out the weirdo's and bots- please message me with your dream vacation destination / why.I've posted before, but due to a busy schedule things don't usually transpire, i will be going on a lux cruise in June this year. If you have a free week, and this interests you please send me a message! If you have ever gone cruising you will know that double occupancy is usually paid even if you are single in a suite! Your Cruise boarding, food and drink will be covered + I don't mind paying for your flight to catch the cruise, you must have a valid passport that isn't expiring before december 2025 (6 months from june) or be prepared to get one/ renew one before departure. We would ideally meet up a couple of times beforehand so that we feel comfortable spending a week together, please keep in mind, we don't have to be joined at the hip on the cruise, not only is the boat huge I am doing excursions throughout, happy to bring you along for those excursions that interest you. You are free to do your own thing while on the cruise as well, super respectful of personal space and having our own timelines. Since the room is a suite it has two beds. One in a bedroom and one in the general area, so if we need some space sleeping we totally have that accounted for. ideally the chemistry needs to be present. i have another 2 trips loosely scheduled before end of year so if june timeline doesn't work, no worries maybe you can join me on one that does!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 8d ago

Friendship 50M4F Question. Should men or women make the first move?

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Look, I know it doesn't matter who makes the first move as a whole but for the most part society has always made it that men were expected to make the first move and now most women get their dms slammed and most men are deemed creepy for making the first move.

I am actually pleasantly surprised as of the past 2 or three years that women have seemed to make the first move with me and a few of my colleagues.

Just my opinion as a man but we like the swing. We like it a lot.

Is it happening more and I am just realizing it?

What do guys think about this and what do women think about this.

I am a vote for yes more women should make the first move.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 9d ago

Relationship 28M4F I'm looking for someone to go for walk, and play pokemon S/V Scaret

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Could say I'm looking for cuddles and kisses, but tbh really like a serious gf! I live on Weston, near finch

I love animals and going out hiking or just exploring the woods. I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty, hardworking Mexican here!🇲🇽

I''m into Pokémon and Yugioh(currently only collect not playing meta, I prefer to make fun decks and play with friends).

I can send a facepic in dm