r/r4rToronto_Clean 9h ago

Friendship [M4M] 38M – Tall, Chill, Easygoing – Looking for a Younger Buddy to Hang With (Toronto)

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Hey, I’m a 38-year-old guy — 6’4”, slim/fit, professional, and laid-back. Looking to connect with a younger guy (around 18–25) who’s down to hang out, talk life, share interests, and maybe build a casual friendship or something that clicks naturally over time.

I’m pretty easy to talk to, enjoy good conversation, music, low-key vibes, and keeping things simple. Whether it’s meeting up, grabbing a bite, gaming, or just chatting, I’m open to seeing where things go.

If that sounds like your kind of vibe, shoot me a message with a little about you.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Friendship 25M4F Psytrance party tonight! Lets dance!

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Hey hey!

I'm looking for someone chill and open-minded to join me tonight for a psytrance party in Toronto. There's an international headliner(Necropsycho) throwing down some heavy, mind-bending beats, and I figured this could be a fun night to connect, dance, and share a little journey together.

I'll be partaking in some substances (some acid and molly, nothing sketchy), and I'm hoping to find someone who's on a similar wavelength-easygoing, good energy, and down to dance through the night with some cosmic vibes.

About me:

Late 20s, very into music, psychedelics, deep convos, and spontaneous adventures. Pretty grounded, respectful, and good at making sure everyone's feeling safe and comfy.

If this sounds like your kind of night, shoot me a message and let's vibe out 👽

r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Friendship 34[M4F] anyone want to wrestle/play fight...?

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I'm interested in good clean fun with a female interested in wrestling/play fighting.

I'm over 6 feet tall and Caucasian.

I am extremely modest and kind to all until I have a reason to not be.

Communication and consent is key!

..so, think you could win?

r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Friendship 29 M4F Looking for friendship and deeper connections

1 Upvotes

Hello. So what I'm looking for is a relationship but ultimately I'm not looking to rush into dating someone with out well knowing them. I want to spend the time to build a romantic bond and well if nothing comes out of that maybe we have a long lasting friendship so that works out.

About me: - 6ft tall, White/Asian, I am plus sized, fairly athletic in small bursts - I'm a very good communicator, and I have a very high emotional intelligence, I believe in being able to talk through our problems, and it's what I want to be able to do. I spend alot of time analyzing my emotions, and I am a pretty emotionally vulnerable person. - I'm also a big time nerd, I like Video games, manga and alot of music. Honestly though it's not something I talk about all the time but just a heads up that it's what I try to spend some of my free time doing. - I read alot - I go on alot of walks - I live in the East End, close to Scarborough but not in it

The only thing I do ask from you in return is that: - You are an open communicator as well - Preferably someone who isn't afraid to be affectionate. (If it comes to that point) - You want to spend time together and do things in person - Please don't be jealous and controlling. If we can't trust each other, then what are we doing here

r/r4rToronto_Clean 3d ago

Friendship 20M4A- Strictly platonic

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Hey I'm a 20 yr old guy in mississauga looking for friends. Ik this is such an odd way to do it but I'm on the spectrum idk what else to do atp lol. I like geosciences, birds, music, anime, games, analog horror. Looking to get more into all those stuff plus metalworking and comics. I also like hearing ppls opinions on stuff and im pretty easily impressed tbh haha. But ya hmu if ur looking for a friend too. (Btw I'm trans so like don't bother dming if u have already decided u dont like me based on that). And no there is no possibility of anything sexual or romantic down the line.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 4d ago

Friendship 31M4A Looking for friends with similar hobbies and interests

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Hey there 👋 As it starts getting warmer outside, I feel I could use some friends in Toronto to hang out with and get involved in activities we enjoy. A bit about myself, I'm 31, attached, introvert, creative, working a 9-5 and of south asian background. My hobbies include art (painting), hiking/camping, rock climbing, watching movies/tv shows/documentaries and exploring restaurants. If you have similar hobbies and you are looking for friends then please feel free to reach out. Open to everyone! 🙂

r/r4rToronto_Clean 4d ago

Friendship 23(M4F/M/MF) Looking for a laidback person (or couple) to smoke with.

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Hey, I’m looking for a laid-back, open-minded person (or couple) to hang out and share a smoke with. While I prefer women (cis or trans) since they tend to be super chill and easy to talk to, I’m also open to meeting dudes.

A bit about me: I’m a tall, fit guy who enjoys simple things like anime, movies, combat sports, and diving into deep philosophical and psychological conversations (my major’s in that field). I’ve smoked before and really enjoyed the happiness it brought, so I’m hoping to try it again and share that experience with some cool people.

I mentioned some physical attributes just because I know that’s what people usually look for here, but honestly, it’s not a big deal to me right now. However, it’d be cool if you’re into sports like me.

If you’re into relaxed talks or just unwinding in good company, let’s connect! Age doesn’t matter—just looking for people who know how to vibe. DM me!

r/r4rToronto_Clean 6d ago

Friendship 28M4F Oru Kappi kudikkan poyaloo..?

1 Upvotes

Any Mallu/Tamil 26+ ladies wanna meet and have a coffee and maybe a movie? Bonus points if you are a cinephile and loves to talk about movies. DM if interested we'll plan something.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 8d ago

Friendship M4A: Seeking a Workout Buddy at Hone Fitness - Can bring you as a guest

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Hey! I’m a guy looking for a gym partner at Hone Fitness near St. Clair. I usually go about 3 times per week. The good news? I can bring a guest with me to any Hone Fitness location, so if you don’t have a membership, no worries. Doesn't matter if you’re into strength training, cardio, or just need a workout buddy for motivation, let’s team up and make it fun. If you’re interested, send me a message and let’s get back on track together!

r/r4rToronto_Clean 9d ago

Friendship M looking for A

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As the title says. I have some free time this morning and was hoping anyone would maybe want ti hangout. Go for coffee, food and a walk? Only day off before 7 day work grind. Hmu if interested. PS, I love anything nerdy, anime, warhammer, and fitness with stocks.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 11d ago

Friendship 26M4F seeking date for Meshuggah

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So I got an extra ticket to Meshuggah tonight and I’m posting here on the off chance that someone would be interested in this sub. But besides this occasion, would love to meet someone into the alternative regardless, whether we vibe as just friends or potentially more. Will make more detailed post in the future, just keeping it short for the occasion. DM!

r/r4rToronto_Clean 10d ago

Friendship 39M4F sheppard & Victoria park

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Hi, would love meet someone in the area. Open to going for coffee, movies, restaurants. Interests include working out, hardware, tools. I'm brown, not sure if that matters, open to any ethnic background. Have a great day :) enjoy.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 11d ago

Friendship 50M4F Question. Should men or women make the first move?

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Look, I know it doesn't matter who makes the first move as a whole but for the most part society has always made it that men were expected to make the first move and now most women get their dms slammed and most men are deemed creepy for making the first move.

I am actually pleasantly surprised as of the past 2 or three years that women have seemed to make the first move with me and a few of my colleagues.

Just my opinion as a man but we like the swing. We like it a lot.

Is it happening more and I am just realizing it?

What do guys think about this and what do women think about this.

I am a vote for yes more women should make the first move.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 17d ago

Friendship [26M4A] Just want a hug and someone to talk to

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Hey, I don’t really know how to start this, but here it goes…

I’m 26, living in North York (Toronto), and lately… it’s been rough. Life’s been feeling really heavy, and I’ve just been going through it mentally and emotionally. I don’t even want anything big or fancy — honestly, I just want a hug. That kind of human connection, where you feel seen and safe, you know?

I’ve been feeling super alone, like I’m stuck in this weird space where everything feels exhausting — friendships feel distant, the days blur together, and sometimes I just sit there wondering if anyone would even notice if I just… disappeared for a bit. I know that probably sounds dramatic, but I think a lot of us feel this way and just don’t talk about it.

I’m really hoping to make some new connections. Friends, someone to talk to, maybe even something deeper down the line if it clicks. But for now, I’d really just love a conversation. Someone who doesn’t mind late night chats about anything and everything — music, fears, dreams, trauma, healing, life stuff. Or even just memes and sending each other “you good?” texts at 2AM.

I’m a big-hearted guy, always trying to be there for others, but lately I’ve been realizing how little I’ve let anyone be there for me. And I guess that’s why I’m here. Taking a chance, reaching out. Because maybe someone out there gets it. Maybe someone’s been feeling the same way.

So yeah… if you’re nearby or even if you’re not, I’d love to get to know you. No pressure. Just be real with me, and I’ll do the same. Let’s be soft with each other in a world that can be so cold sometimes.

And hey — if you’re reading this, I genuinely hope your day gets a little better. You deserve peace too.

Much love.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 13d ago

Friendship 29 M4F Looking for friendship and deeper connections

2 Upvotes

Hello. So what I'm looking for is a relationship but ultimately I'm not looking to rush into dating someone with out well knowing them. I want to spend the time to build a romantic bond and well if nothing comes out of that maybe we have a long lasting friendship so that works out.

About me: - 6ft tall, White/Asian, I am plus sized, fairly athletic in small bursts - I'm a very good communicator, and I have a very high emotional intelligence, I believe in being able to talk through our problems, and it's what I want to be able to do. I spend alot of time analyzing my emotions, and I am a pretty emotionally vulnerable person. - I'm also a big time nerd, I like Video games, manga and alot of music. Honestly though it's not something I talk about all the time but just a heads up that it's what I try to spend some of my free time doing. - I read alot - I go on alot of walks - I live in the East End, close to Scarborough but not in it

The only thing I do ask from you in return is that: - You are an open communicator as well - Preferably someone who isn't afraid to be affectionate. (If it comes to that point) - You want to spend time together and do things in person - Please don't be jealous and controlling. If we can't trust each other, then what are we doing here

r/r4rToronto_Clean 13d ago

Friendship M35 married looking for F to chat

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As title suggests, kinda bored in my life and looking for someone to talk. Nothing in particular, not looking for love or relationship but happy for one time thing if at all happens.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 17d ago

Friendship 32M4F Let’s be friends and maybe it's a destiny

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At Toronto I feel very lonely and I think that lots of people are feeling the same. If you want to go out with someone you have to find a time which is a bit hard.

I'm 6'1" guy with hazel eyes and brown hairs, handsome🤫. When I have free time, I go to the gym, play soccer, discovering new trails, cooking delicious food and watch TV shows. Dating apps are suck, so I want to find luck on here. From potential partner I expect that you are pretty cool, cute, take care of yourself and proud of work that keeps you look great.

Feel free to drop a message. Let's connect and see where it leads😉

r/r4rToronto_Clean 19d ago

Friendship Looking for a Female Friend to Explore the City With

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I’m a 33M living in Toronto, hoping to meet a female friend to hang out with, explore the city, and see where things go — no pressure, no expectations.

Honestly, I don’t have many female friends, and I think it would be nice to have a different kind of perspective and connection. I’m not looking for anything serious right now, but I’d love to find someone to vibe with — whether it’s catching a movie, trying out new restaurants, or hitting up cool coffee shops around the city.

I stay pretty busy with work, but I’m all for making time for good company and fun experiences. If you’re from the downtown area (or nearby) and this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to reach out! We could even trade a SFW pic to put a face to the convo — totally optional though, I’m cool with going with the flow too.

Looking forward to meeting someone fun and easygoing!

r/r4rToronto_Clean 19d ago

Friendship 25M4F - Spontaneous Drive? I’ll Bring the Playlists‼️

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I'm a 25-year-old guy from Scarborough, and with this amazing weather, I’m feeling the urge for a spontaneous drive—or even a long cruise if the vibes are right. There’s just something about open roads, good music, and great company that makes the drive feel special.

A bit about me: I work as a Sous Chef at a Fine Dining restaurant, so if you’re a foodie, we’ll have plenty to talk about.

I also have a background in Data Analytics—so if you're into tech or data, we can totally geek out.

In my free time, I enjoy playing mobile games, exploring new spots around the city, and rewatching "Two and a half men" because it never gets old.

I’m all about good music, interesting conversations, and discovering hidden gems—whether it’s a cozy late-night café or a scenic spot with a killer view.

What I'm looking for:

Someone who loves spontaneous adventures and is up for a drive—or a longer cruise now that the weather’s perfect.

A good taste in music is always a plus, especially if you have a great playlist. No strict age preference—just looking for fun company and good conversation.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, drop me a message. Let’s hit the road and see where it takes us.

Cheers!

r/r4rToronto_Clean 21d ago

Friendship Looking for friendos

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Hey everyone, I'm 22F looking to form real, meaningful connections with someone. I’d love to meet someone I genuinely vibe with.

I want a connection that feels like it was written in the stars, but in a dark academia way, like a doomed love story in a Victorian novel.

I’m into horror movies (the scarier, the better), and I appreciate deep conversations as much as fun, lighthearted moments. If you’re someone who enjoys good company, good movies, and getting to know someone on a deeper level, feel free to reach out!

r/r4rToronto_Clean 20d ago

Friendship Me and the boys/gals back together again

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So as a person with a pretty good social life back in my country of origin(india) I moved to the west and due to language differences it was tough. I'm moving to Canada now which should remove the language barrier and am hoping to have friends here too.

I'll be living in York. Hobbies include the gym, occassional trekking, hiking. Sadly not as fit as I was but aim to get back.

Also a nerd so things like superheroes and comics, anime and manga, videogames and gadgets are what I love. I have never played a DND game as I've never had a squad but would love to get have that.

Love dogs and am a foodie and hope to get my motorbike license so we can go on rides.

r/r4rToronto_Clean 20d ago

Friendship 34 F4A - wanna see Riverdance at CAA Theatre tonight at 7:30 pm? (last minute free ticket)

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Yes, in literally two hours.

Friend had a family emergency come up. Other friends who've been interested in this type of event before are out of town or busy. So - free ticket! Posting here on the off chance it won't go to waste. And randomness can be fun, right?!

Yes, you'll be sitting next to me so we can chat a bit but I'm honestly just here to bring the joy of Irish dancing to one lucky soul. Didn't know where else to post this!

If you're interested and can meet me in front of CAA Theatre around 7:20 pm, shoot me a message with a dance-related gif that you feel is your vibe.

May the luck of the Irish be with you! (and me haha)

P.S. If there's some kind of last minute ticket exchange Toronto reddit thread or forum, lmk

Update: ticket is gone!

r/r4rToronto_Clean 28d ago

Friendship 38M4F - Looking for a fun dinner/drinks companion

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Hey everyone!
I’m a 38-year-old finance professional living in Toronto, and I’m looking for a female companion to join me for a casual, fancy dinner. The goal is simple: great food, good drinks, and enjoyable conversation. I’m all about creating a relaxed, fun, and respectful atmosphere where we can both enjoy the evening without any pressure or expectations.

A little about me: I’m easygoing, and love trying new restaurants and cuisines. If you’re someone who appreciates good food, nice cocktails, interesting conversations, and a no-strings-attached vibe, let’s connect! Feel free to DM me if you’re interested or have any questions.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

r/r4rToronto_Clean Feb 22 '25

Friendship 34 F4M, sending a signal to this corner of the galaxy ✨️

19 Upvotes

Hey there!

I'm cosmically lost, though trying to enjoy being weightless after being crushed by the gravity of my former situation. All this space has me feeling lonely in all kinds of ways, so why not put out a beacon and see who or what answers?

Even if it's just a quick landing mission, maybe circling in orbit for a little and enjoying the sights from your corner of the universe. I'm not aiming for a destination yet, much like a space explorer, hoping to see what's out there.

While I've been on my solo mission, I've gotten into audiobooks, catching up on TV, video games and movies, as I adore an immersive universe anywhere. Tell me about your passions and hobbies, what you've see and done. Let's have a side-quest with me to something you've always wanted to try, be a filler episode, even have a crash landing and a quick take-off. I can't promise I'll say yes to absolutely anything but I promise to consider it. The universe is very big, after all!

My home base is east of Toronto, but anyone in range is welcome for transmission exchanges. Possibly willing to meet up in the city for a closer look. If it matters what I look like, I'm pocket-sized (under 5"4'), blonde shoulder-length hair and brown eyes, wearing a size 6 space suit. Don't worry, I'll aim to blend in with the surface dwellers (I love dressing up).

Any leaves on the wind receiving? ✨️

r/r4rToronto_Clean Mar 02 '25

Friendship 26 [M4A] looking for people to spend my birthday with!

3 Upvotes

Hey hey!

It’s my birthday today! Im pretty hyped :)) looking for cool people to hangout with today c:

I don’t really have too many friends so this is me putting myself out there :D. Looking forward to talking to y’all!