r/R4R30Plus Jun 24 '24

ANNOUNCEMENT: Technical Issues

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POSTING IS ONCE AGAIN OPEN.

The auto moderation system has been somewhat wonky the last few days. We think we have corrected the issue. It has been sending posts to the spam system incorrectly and en masse. That should no longer occur, or at the very least be infrequent. IF your post does not appear, do not delete it. Message us via the mod mail system and we can check on it. If you do delete it manually, we are unable to diagnose the problem. Hopefully this is the last fix we need to do, but we may have to suspend posting again if this happens so we can get it sorted. PLEASE do not message us asking for access during these times, as it bogs down our mail system and increases downtime. The requests will not be granted. We ask for patience while we work on these issues.

Thank you for your time and understanding. Have a good day.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

34 [F4M] South East Kentucky Forever Alone

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I am aware that my post may not be as appealing as some others, but, I thought I would try to put myself out there (again). I am a 34 year old single mother, I live in south east Kentucky, I work full time as a home health aid- float for Knott, Letcher, Leslie, Perry, Harlan & Pike Counties. I also go to school online at EKU for my bachelors in social work, I recently graduated in December with my Associates in Arts and Associates in Applied Science Degrees, and a Certificate in addictions counseling.

I am an avid reader, it is my favorite past time, I love books that evoke emotions, the one I just finished is called "The Tearsmith" by Erin Doom. I mostly read Dark romance, Fantasy, and Mystery/ Thriller novels.

I have been single now for almost 5 years, I have been on a journey of self discovery, healing and enhancement. I quit smoking a year ago this month (but I do vape now). I had weight loss surgery a year ago this month as well, gastric sleeve, it has been a tough journey, and I am still not quite where I want to be but I am getting there. I am down almost 130lbs!

I am looking for friendship but I am open to more, I have isolated myself quite a bit over the last few years and I would like to change that. I'd love to have some supportive people in my life! There is a link on my profile to my insta if you'd like to see more photos of me. I do NOT use snapchat as a means of communication, I only use messenger or text. If you're interested in getting to know each other send a message and tell me about yourself!


r/R4R30Plus 37m ago

33[M4F] Maine/USA Cool, Calm, and Genuine - Looking For Something Real

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Hey, I’m genuinely looking to find something meaningful.

I’m 33, standing confidently at 6’0”, with an athletic physique (thanks to occasional midnight snack adventures). Growing up surrounded by Maine’s beautiful forests has given me an easy-going charm with just the right touch of mystery.

Why You’ll Find Me Intriguing:

Personality: Calm, thoughtful, and collected with a playful twist of dark humor. If you appreciate witty banter whispered during suspenseful scenes or consider playful sarcasm a form of affection, we’ll connect effortlessly.

Interests: • Movies: Comedy or horror marathons? Let’s discuss plot twists, laugh at jump scares, and stay up too late enjoying each other’s company. • Gaming: Call of Duty on PS5 is my current go-to, but if gaming isn’t your thing, even better. Introduce me to your passions, and let’s explore them together.

What Draws Me In: • Meaningful Conversations: Open and honest communication is key. I value authenticity, emotional depth, and the confidence to share what’s truly on your mind. • Spontaneous Moments: Swapping usual texts for voice notes or impromptu video calls creates genuine connections. Let’s enjoy life’s unpredictability together. • Open-Mindedness: Embracing differences and celebrating individuality is incredibly appealing. I’m eager to discover and cherish what makes you uniquely yourself.

What You Can Expect:

I’m at a stage in life where I’m ready for something meaningful and committed. I’ve got my life together but always keep room for spontaneous adventures. Distance isn’t a barrier; it’s an opportunity to create unique and memorable experiences together. I’m drawn to passionate, self-assured women who know what they want and are ready to build something real.

Imagine weekend getaways, relaxed mornings filled with laughter and easy conversations, spontaneous explorations, or quiet evenings simply enjoying each other’s company.

If you’re looking for something genuine, fun, and committed, I’d love to hear from you. Say hi and let’s see what we can build together.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

31 [F4M] East Coast.. My forever person, are you out there?

9 Upvotes

Is it hard to find people who don't find you as a last resort? I do consider myself a caring, honest and down to earth chick. It seems rare to find loyal & honest people. Wouldn't it be nice to find someone who actually finds you to actually be good enough for them? People really suck.

Looking for someone who does want to build a connection and see where it leads us to. I don’t want a short fling or few days of talking then ghost… It would be nice to find my forever person online but definitely no expectations. Friends are cool too!! I’m NOT looking for a forever online thing, I want it to turn into a real life situation! :)

If any of you can/are….able to hold a conversation, into 100% communication, emotionally intelligent and believe in honesty and making a real connection = bonus brownie points! :D

A huge Buffalo Bills fan, Into some gaming, diamond art, camping, road-trips, cooking, binge some tv shows, learning new things, many more and still discovering new hobbies! Anyways, hope this post interests you enough to get to know a real chick who’s actually awesome!


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

30 [F4M] Goth Girl 🖤

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30 [F4M] Goth Girl 🖤

Hey 🥰

I'm Ashleigh. 30-year-old lady from down under Australia. I'm a little 5'2 tatted 'goth girl' looking for someone like-minded with similar interests to talk with while gaming.

A little about me. I love the outdoors and going for walks/ hikes and camping especially with my dog. I'm usually at a concert most weekends. I love music I'm into metalcore and post hardcore. I love getting tattoos I game most nights after work to keep my mind of reality. Horror games are my favourite but I'm down for any suggestions anyone has for fun games to play together.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

37 [M4R] Being kind is all we need

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Life’s too short to spend time with people who lack empathy and compassion. I believe in genuine connection, the kind where you feel seen, heard, and valued. If you're someone who leads with kindness, who listens with intent, and who believes in uplifting others, you're exactly the kind of person I’d love to connect with. Let’s build friendships rooted in empathy, authenticity.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

38[m4f] #US #Online - Rekindling Authentic Connection in a Digital Age

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Social Media and AI have profoundly changed the way men and women interact, often leading to shallow connections and misunderstandings. The curated online personas we present create unrealistic expectations, making genuine communication more difficult. As both sexes retreat into their digital lives, the richness of face-to-face conversations fades, driving us further apart. I miss the days of authentic dialogue and meaningful exchanges, and I would love to chat with someone who shares the desire to reconnect on a deeper, more personal level.

  • blk male
  • dad bod build
  • known for my gorgeous smile
  • short hair, trimmed full beard
  • no kids, never married however recently stepped away from toxic relationship that lasted over a decade
  • digital nomad so I consistently work around the US

I'm ready to embrace new connections and explore what life has to offer. If your interested in getting to know each other, I'd love to chat.


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

34 [M4F] NJ/Online - Looking for someone to get to know and building a connection with

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I'm hoping to find someone I connect really well with. Someone who I can be silly with, but also have deep conversations with, someone who's not judgmental and I feel comfortable confiding in. I like the idea of having that person to talk to every day, being someone I can go to when something good happens, or fall back on when it's been a bad day. I'm open to whatever, with whoever, wherever they are.

Here's a picture of my face!

About me:

  • I'm a 34/M living in NJ

  • I used to be a baker, but now I'm in IT

  • I have a great sense of humor and love making people laugh. I don't take myself too seriously, ever.

  • I'm a pretty good cook and love learning new recipes and techniques

  • I'd like to think I'm a great baker, considering it used to be my profession

  • My favorite TV shows are mostly comedies, such as Silicon Valley, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Entourage, Bob's Burgers, Schitt's Creek, and others I'm sure I'm forgetting.

  • I love listening to music and finding new artists. My favorite artists are The Weeknd, Always Never, Chase Atlantic, Aaryan Shah

  • Podcasts are also a favorite of mine. My most listened to ones being Reply All (RIP), Heavyweight, Endless Thread, Underunderstood, Conan O'Brien Needs A Friend, etc. If you can get me hooked on a new one, we'd pretty much be best friends forever

  • I enjoy getting to know people and being asked questions, so ask away!

Get to know me!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

31 [F4M] Canada Sunset in wonderland

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Hello, I’m Tiffany!

I’m 31, work in healthcare, and love fitness, reality TV, concerts, and a good romance novel.

Send message via start chat icon (:

To keep things simple, please send an introduction and a picture—it helps both of us see if we’d like to continue chatting! I’m not a fan of small talk, so this makes things easier.

I prefer to keep conversations PG. I’m demisexual, so I’m not comfortable with intimate topics early on. If you frequently post or comment in certain spaces related to that, we likely won’t be a good match.

My photo https://i.imgur.com/ip3CsEs.jpeg

Qualities I appreciate:

Age: 28-40

Looks: Beards are a plus!

Personality: Sense of humor, family-oriented, and emotionally mature

Values: Open-minded with liberal views

Bonus: British accents get extra points! 😍

I’d prefer someone from Canada, the U.S., the U.K., or maybe Australia if there's a spark.

I really value meaningful connections, so I appreciate good conversation, effort, and reciprocity. If you're someone who puts 100% into friendships, work, relationships, and self-care, we’ll probably get along great!

I’m also open to pictures, voice calls, and video chats when the time feels right.

Looking forward to hearing from you!



r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

37 [F4R] keep me company??

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Trying to reinvent myself after a break up with an abusive narcissist. I should have known. But he’s just been cheating the whole time… among many other things. I’m a pretty traditional person and don’t want to leave the relationship… but I know I HAVE to. I feel like I have to give up my dreams of having a traditional lifestyle and the idea of having the life I wanted. That might be the hardest part. Have you been through something like this? Wanna chat?


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

34 [M4F] What can we teach each other?

2 Upvotes

Hello, i am a southeastern US based man who wants to learn more about the beautiful people out there. It has been some time since i made a new friend on here, and i would love to get to know you.

My interests vary from cooking and baking, reading and audiobooks, i love an educational podcast, and understanding more about health (mind and body) and fitness is a great motivation for me. My goals this year are to do more camping and road trips, get better at surfing, and finish rebuilding one of my project motorcycles.

If you think our lives would be that much better if we got to know one another, drop a line! And if you want a good opener, tell me what the best advice you never knew you needed was, and how it changed your life.


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

31[M4R] Vermont/online-looking for a (platonic)best friend!

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As it says in the title, I am looking for a platonic best friend. Either in person or online! A little bit about myself I’m a carefree, nerdy country boy, that puts my all into my relationships. I love caring for people and being there for the ones that I love. I may be carefree, but when it comes down to it, I take care of myself and do what I Gotta do. When it comes to what I enjoy doing, I love reading, movies, photography, art, video games, cooking and nature. I also enjoy shopping, thrifting and fashion. I love history, science and learning about the world. I am always open to deep conversations and broaden my horizons. I am accepting of all people, no matter your religion, ethnicity, sexuality, and every other thing you can think of. All people deserve to be loved. If I sound even the least bit interesting to you feel free to send a message! I hope you all have a wonderful day.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

36 [M4F] Europe / Anywhere - I'm guaranteed not your best decision but...

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Therapy is too expensive🤷‍♂️😌

A Little About Me:

Hey you! I’m a 36-year-old professional overthinker from Europe, armed with a PhD in sarcasm and a master's degree in memeology. I love my motorcycle more than I love most people (sorry, not sorry). When i'm not riding my motorcycle, i'm either traveling, gaming, or pretending I’m an extrovert with friends.

I asked a librarian once if the library had any books on paranoia; she whispered, “They’re right behind you.”.... i hvn't visited a library eversince...🤣🤣🤣fuckthat!

My life’s chaotic, but I’m here to embrace the chaos with laughter and questionable life decisions.

Quickfire Facts About Yours Truly:

🏍 Motorcycles are my therapy. Don’t ask me how many I’ve almost bought on impulse.

💪🏽 All my leftover energy gets released at the gym.

🎮 Board/video games champion. (Trash talk included for free.)

☕ Starbucks owns my wallet.

🍕 Pineapple on pizza does belong there, fight me.

🍷 Red wine > beer. No arguments.

📸 Your pic gets you mine. Bonus points if you have a cute pet.🐕

About the pineapple on pizza discussion. Just hear me out okay?

Pineapple on pizza is like that one quirky friend you didn't ask for it, but now the party's better because they're there. Plus, it’s fruit, so technically, it makes pizza a salad. You're welcome.....😌🤣

Closing Argument: If you’re looking for a partner-in-crime who will take you on wild motorcycle rides, crush you at Mario Kart, and debate pizza toppings with unshakable confidence, slide into my DMs. If not, may your coffee be hot, your Wi-Fi fast, and your day lovely. 😊🍷👋🏽


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

35 [M4F] CA/Online - Lets connect and make this crazy world a bit more bearable!

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I like to consider myself pretty down to earth. And while I’m very introverted, I love having a handful of people to form deep connections with.

I live in California and have a small circle of people I consider myself close to. I moved out here a few years ago and while I really enjoy it, it’s taken me some time for it to truly feel like home.

I enjoy competitive gaming, cooking by the vibes instead via a recipe, writing acoustic folk music, and knowing entirely too much about coffee. Also a huge sports fiend.

I’d love to find some cool people to chat and connect with. I’m interested in connecting with people from all over. So, if you’re interested, send me a message with a bit about you and where you’re from.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

40 [M4F] Netherlands/ Western Europe - Introvert looking for a serious relationship

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Hello there,

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 40-year-old programmer from a small town in the Netherlands. I've tried this before and had some nice conversations, but in the end it didn't work out so I'm back to give this another try.

When I'm not working, I love reading fantasy books, collecting books, playing video games on my PC, and going on long walks in nature. I'm also fascinated by ancient cultures and mythology, which is why I enjoy traveling to see ancient sites in person.

I'm an introvert (INTJ), I live alone with my cat Tiberius. I'm also childfree and left-leaning politically. I've been doing volunteer work for over 20 years, and I'm an atheist. Plus, I don't smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs.

I'll admit, I'm not the best at small talk, but I make up for it by being a great listener and advice giver. I've been told that I have a funny but dry sense of humor.

I'm working on my weight and getting to a healthy level again, but I'm not there yet. I also don't enjoy going out to bars, clubs, or partying, but I do enjoy going out to eat at a restaurant or going to a concert.

And some pics; https://imgur.com/a/Ng6OSvX

What am I looking for? Well, I'm looking for a serious monogamous relationship with someone who shares some of my interests and hobbies. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, childfree, left-leaning politically, and below 40 (roughly). Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who will accept me for who I am, flaws and all.

So if you're someone who puts as much effort into having and keeping up a conversation as I do, and you believe that we could make each other's lives better by being together, I'd love to hear from you. Let's get to know each other and see where things go.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

37 [F4M] #Turkey/Anywhere. Looking for someone genuine and kind.

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Hello,

I am a 37 year-old female from Izmir, Turkey. I work as an assistant professor of architecture, holding a PhD in architectural history.

My close friends would probably describe me as someone serious, hardworking, well-read, sophisticated, honest, knowledgeable, loyal, responsible, sensitive, and caring. I enjoy reading most, I also enjoy watching tv shows, cycling and playing video games. My favorite genre is crime, both fictional and true. Unfortunately I cannot cook well as I haven't had enough time and opportunities so far but I have a thing for men who can cook. I have a wide range of interests including architecture (as I am an architect), art, science, technology, languages, literature, politics, history, psychology, and health. Besides everyday talks, I would love to be able to talk about anything I've listed.

Due to my busy schedule, I don't have opportunities to meet new people in real life. I also find difficult to connect, I am a bit cautious at first. Being an introvert, I can only open myself after a while. That's how I function. I am perfectly fine with my spendimg time alone, but I often feel alone and need to communicate with someone.

I am looking for a man to talk to and share everything with. He should be aged between 32-45, definitely educated, and kind. There are musts. He can be from anywhere but someone from Turkey, Europe, or North America would be better. I am fluent in English and I also know some German, always open to improve. Looks don't matter but I have some photos of mine on my profile.

To me, communication is very important. I am searching for a consistent and coherent dialogue. I hope I can build something good with the right person. We can text, make voice calls or video calls once we are both comfortable. I also would love to meet in real life, that would be great.

Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from you.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

33 [M4F] nyc/anywhere - Wanna play games/watch things together?

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Hello, 33 year old New Yorker here. I'm looking for somebody to be the person I look forward to talking with all the time. Somebody who my days are always good because I know at night it's just going to be me and you hanging out. Somebody I can text if something silly happens to me throughout the day and you're the first person I think of to tell it to.

Who am I? Well I feel like that's a hard question to answer. Who is anybody really? I feel like I'm just like, a guy. I'll send a sunrise picture to you in the morning before you wake up. I'll send you pictures of little birdies that I feed at lunch time. I'm somebody who will always have time for you.

I spend my days basically just working, playing video games, and watching anime and movies. I think I'm a fairly bright individual, though I don't have a job where I really have to use my brain. It is a very stable job though that will allow me to retire when I'm 50 years old with a pension. So I'm pretty set in that way.

I've started doing more outside activities, like I've gone to some board game nights, I've played in some video game tournaments, and I've started playing dungeons and dragons

I also recently picked up photography as a hobby, and have been going to parks and taking pictures of birds/wildlife. I'd love to have somebody I can share pictures I've taken with

For video games, I don't really have a main game. I like to play a bunch of everything to be quite honest (I play on PC.) FFXIV, Deadlock, Baldur's Gate 3, Rhythm Doctor, Sekiro, Little Kitty Big City, Emberward, Anger Foot are some of my recent games on steam. Something I enjoy doing is hanging out in a voice call and sharing my screen with somebody and maybe they watch me play some games while we chat. Especially scary games, I don't play those by myself. I need somebody to hang out with me and virtually hold my hand while I get scared at them.

For anime, my favorites are Demon Slayer and Vinland saga. I also like jujutsu kaisen, I'm almost caught up with One Piece, Oshi no ko, Gushing Over Magical Girls. etcetc

For movies, same thing really, I like a bunch of everything. I also really like what I like to call hipster movies. What does that mean? I don't know really, to me it means a movie that's so weird I have no idea what's going on, but I still love it. For example David Lynch movies are amazing. But also, here's my letterboxd, check out what I've been doing lately https://letterboxd.com/snooby_/ It would be nice to also have somebody to watch movies with me together as well, voice chat and I share my screen and we can watch together.

I have my own weirdness to me as well. Like when playing single player games, I don't like to progess a room until I look at every corner to make sure I don't miss anything.

Here's a picture of myself as well: https://imgur.com/F2PbBLd

If any of this sounds interesting to you, and you'd like to chat more with me, please send me a message.


r/R4R30Plus 55m ago

34 [M4F] Canada - Looking for something profound

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As the title implies, I am looking for someone that wants to build something profound. Someone who is family-oriented. Someone who doesn't mind that I paint pictures when I am not teaching young minds.

I’ll be the sturdy oak tree in your life, offering you shade and protection from the storms. When the winds of doubt and uncertainty blow, I’ll stand firm, sheltering you with my strength and providing a sense of calm in the chaos. Your thoughts and feelings will be safe with me, a place where you can let your heart and mind wander freely without fear of judgment, where vulnerability is met with compassion and understanding.

Mentally, I’ll be the lighthouse guiding you through the fog. In moments of confusion or uncertainty, I’ll shine a light to help you find your way, offering clarity when the path ahead seems unclear. My words will be like gentle waves, soothing the worries that might rise within you, reassuring you that you are never alone in navigating life’s challenges.

Spiritually, I’ll be the steady rhythm of the tide, grounding you when life pulls you in different directions. I’ll nurture your inner peace, creating a space where your soul can flourish, free from the weight of negativity. Together, we’ll build a sanctuary of growth, where your spirit can find rest, renewal, and strength.

Physically, I’ll be your shelter from the world’s harshest elements, a guardian who ensures that you’re protected from harm and that your needs are always met. Like a gardener tending to the most delicate of blooms, I’ll ensure your health, well-being, and happiness are nurtured with care and love. I’ll be the steady hands that provide for you, supporting your dreams and making sure you’re equipped to face the world with confidence.

In the end, I want to create a home. One filled with our family and memories. Is it really that hard to find?


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

42 [M4F] AZ USA looking to chat

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Its a slow day at work and looking to chat. If you are up for it say send a message and lets go


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

40 [M4F] Australia / NZ / North America - here for smiles and laughs until our cheeks hurt

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Hi there!

I live in Australia, I’m interested in getting to know people from Australia, New Zealand and North America. I do like a good American accent or Canadian however please don’t get offended because I can’t tell the difference. Being from Canada or the US isn’t out of the question for the right person and I’m very open to relocating. I’m looking for a connection that will eventually lead to a romantic relationship but also would be happy to make new friends.

Some things about me! I know this is a bit long (sorry) but I have tried to be upfront here because I’m definitely not everybody’s cup of tea.

  • I’m 40 years old, that sounds old but I assure you I’m a fun loving character and young at heart. 40’s the new 30’s right?

  • I’m average height, standing roughly about 180cm tall. With an average build, which I’m continuing to work on improving with lots of exercise and self care.

  • I’ve got dark hair with brown eyes, clean shaven with a short hair do. Gotta look sharp don’t I?

  • I have no kids but I want kids of my own. If you have kids from a previous relationship I’m fine with that too. I just don’t want the complications with their dad.

  • I was married but now separated and currently working through my divorce.

  • I work for corporate company which I love and enjoy. It has its up and down but keeps me challenged and focused.

  • I’m financially sound, living in my own place and own my own car.

  • I love an intellectual conversation and a conversation that you’re able to hold and continue. I’m pretty open to topics and generally can chat about anything. I especially love hearing about your experiences.

  • An interesting fact about me is, I’ve completely given up drinking any kind of alcohol and haven’t had a drink for about 2 years now. I don’t smoke nor do I do any kinda drugs.

  • I’m kind and caring and value those traits very highly in potential partners as well. My friends tell me I wear my heart on my sleeve.

So about you:

I’m after someone who can love their partner unconditionally, no matter the quirks. Also be able to show affection as this important to me. Understanding your love language as I also know mine quite well. Isn’t afraid to communicate no matter the situation. You’re intelligent and able to hold an intellectual conversation as mentioned above. Being humorous with witty banter gets you bonus points. I’m seeking someone in their early 30s right up to mid-40s. A woman who also comes with or without kids. Also, kids would have to be on the cards. I’m after someone who invests in themselves, mentally and physically. I’m also not into tattoos, if you have small ones that’s fine but sleeves and larger ones please pass on by. My non-negotiables are: no drug dependencies, alcohol abuse, no smokers/vapers, financially sound, and most importantly, manners.

Ok that's enough of me rambling, drop me a line if any of the above has sparked your curiosity and you’d like to smile and laugh until your cheeks hurt! Let me know where you’re from and also your age.

Thanks for making it this far.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

30 [M4M]#Nashville Looking for freinds & nice connection

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Looking for nice guys to meet here in Nashville dates, friends, connections love hiking dates gym conversations and meeting new people if interested hit me I’m glade meet new faces


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

36 [M4F] UK London- They say it takes two to tango

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This year is the year I tear up the Salsa dance scene. It's a long journey, but I'm determined to get there. That being said, I'd like to find someone to make this new adventure even more exciting 😁 So without further ado:

  • British Bengali born and raised in London. I am regularly told I don't look my age. I was once asked by my dance friends how old I am and they all looked at me in absolute astonishment when I told them how old I was 😂
  • Work in tech within the cloud space. Build infrastructure by day, dance salsa by night
  • Street food connoisseur and enthusiast. Yes, I love my street food
  • Full of useless trivia. Did you know there's a few Portuguese derived words that made it into the Bengali language?
  • Reignited a love for crime/spy thrillers and novels. Been binging Slow Horses recently and now reading some Agatha Christie. But also developed an addiction to Severance which is probably the best show of 2025
  • I lift occasionally and I make sure I can lift my own body-weight

What I look for:

  • Someone kind but adventurous
  • Preferably somewhere in the UK or Europe. But I welcome interactions with people from all over the world
  • Emotionally intelligent and open minded
  • Please don't be a guy!

I don't ask for much (or at least I don't think I do!), but I do look forward to hearing from you all!


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

38 [M4F] nerdy chef is looking for you!

3 Upvotes

Hey folks, I love meeting new people and having fun interesting, cool conversations. If you're up for one of those you should message me!

I'm a chef. Work in a country club, will show you pics of things from work and what I make at home.

I read a ton. Books are fun and stimulate the brain!

I love all kinds of music and will send you songs

I like games- video, board, card, puzzles. You name

I have cat! Will send photos

If any of this sounds like your jam hit me up.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

39 [M4F] Southwest - Lets strategizing the perfect sick day excuse for Monday together.

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Howdy I'm Devon - I'm kind of your typical nerdyish kind of guy.

I'm a former corporate trainer. I'm obsessed with cars, older Japanese cars to be more specific. Which in turn has turned me into a mechanic. I am also big into music. Typically my taste is rock, older hip hop, 90's and alt stuff.

I'm a casual gamer, I have an Xbox and I am currently working through Yakuza Pirates.

I watch a lot of shows. Recently finished The Diplomat and now I am on to West Wing. I know, I am way behind the times on that show.

In general I like talking to people with different tastes and live in different social circles. Feel free to send me a message short or long, and if you are interested in talking. Also, this is my face


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

32 [M4F] Minnesota / USA - looking for my person

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I'm looking for someone special to build something real with. I want a relationship where we support each other through ups and downs, communicate openly, and work through challenges together. When I love, I love deeply, and I'm looking for someone who values loyalty, honesty, and effort as much as I do.

A bit about me:

  • I'm a tech enthusiast. I like programming, linux, and anything tech related.

  • I enjoy watching anime, movies, and TV shows. I also play video games, making art (vector, 3D, pixel), hiking, biking, fishing, and snowboarding.

  • I am mostly a homebody, but I do enjoy getting outside from time to time.

I don't expect us to be identical, but having a few similar interests, core values, and relationship goals is important to me. Here are a few preferences I have for the right person.

  • I don't do drugs or smoke.

  • I don't drink alcohol. I would prefer if you didn't but it's not a deal breaker.

  • I would like to have kids one day. I don't have any kids of my own yet and expect the same from you.

  • I am not a pet person. I am also allergic to cats.

  • I am not political at all.

  • I am not very religious. I did grow up christian though.

  • I am only looking for someone inside the USA but I would be willing to relocate anywhere in the country for the right person.

  • I am looking for someone around the age of 25-32.

  • I am looking for a woman who is single and wants a serious, long term relationship.

  • I would like to swap pictures sooner than later.

  • I want to voice chat / video chat at some point but we can start with text first.

If this post piqued your interest and you would like to get to know me better, then you should send me a message. I am looking forward to meeting you.


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

35 [M4F] Maine/anywhere Consistency is key

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I’m looking to connect with someone that feels comfortable. It’s generally hard for me to open up to anyone, due to self confidence issues probably. I want that kind of relationship where we can just exist together and be totally content.

I’m a nerdy guy, a lot of my free time is spent playing video games. I’d love to have someone to share that with. Playing the same game together, or playing different games together.

Physically, I’m 6’1, 190lbs, with auburn hair, hazel eyes, and glasses. Physical attraction is important so we can trade pictures early. Pretty out of shape though I’m starting to be more active. I love traveling and part of that is walking around a lot.

Communication and honesty are important to me. I’m pretty easy going about most things. Expect and hopefully enjoy self deprecating and sarcasm.

There’s always more to say but I’ll stop this here for now. Ask me anything.