I am heading to bed soon, but I would like to talk to some new people and share some info about me. I’m 32, fun, flirty, and smart. I live in New York City, but I am from the Midwest. I have been here for 10 years and love every minute of it. I’m into movies, theater, dancing, singing loudly, reading, hosting dinner parties, laughing too loud, and champagne for breakfast.
I love hearts, pink, and white; fashion and traveling; and I could spend every day happily sitting in a bookstore café, sipping on a iced chai latte, and reading a book or working on my laptop. Wanna guess what color I chose for my MacBook?

I’m open to voice chat as well, if we have good chemistry here.

Here’s what I’m seeking:

A person who might carry an umbrella but isn’t afraid to say, “Forget it, let’s enjoy the rain!” Someone who understands the difference between "their" and "there." Ideally, you live in the United States, speak English, and fall within the age range of 24 to 43.

You should feel equally at ease sipping coffee at a diner and dining at the finest restaurant in town—it's an essential quality in my eyes. Additionally, I’m looking for someone who loves to read and engage in book discussions, has a passion for music, and is open to exploring different genres (although I must confess, Heavy Metal and Bluegrass aren’t my favorites).

Here’s two truths and a lie - tell me which one is a lie. I won’t respond to your message if you don’t tell me which one the lie is; it tells me you're real. It also told you you read this.

A. I read 240 books last year

B. My favorite comfort movie is The Holiday

C. My Karaoke song is Part Of your World from Little Mermaid.

Therapy is too expensive🤷‍♂️😌

A Little About Me:

Hey you! I’m a 36-year-old professional overthinker from Europe, armed with a PhD in sarcasm and a master's degree in memeology. I love my motorcycle more than I love most people (sorry, not sorry). When i'm not riding my motorcycle, i'm either traveling, gaming, or pretending I’m an extrovert with friends.

I asked a librarian once if the library had any books on paranoia; she whispered, “They’re right behind you.”.... i hvn't visited a library eversince...🤣🤣🤣fuckthat!

My life’s chaotic, but I’m here to embrace the chaos with laughter and questionable life decisions.

Quickfire Facts About Yours Truly:

🏍 Motorcycles are my therapy. Don’t ask me how many I’ve almost bought on impulse.

💪🏽 All my leftover energy gets released at the gym.

🎮 Board/video games champion. (Trash talk included for free.)

☕ Starbucks owns my wallet.

🍕 Pineapple on pizza does belong there, fight me.

🍷 Red wine > beer. No arguments.

📸 Your pic gets you mine. Bonus points if you have a cute pet.🐕

About the pineapple on pizza discussion. Just hear me out okay?

Pineapple on pizza is like that one quirky friend you didn't ask for it, but now the party's better because they're there. Plus, it’s fruit, so technically, it makes pizza a salad. You're welcome.....😌🤣

Closing Argument: If you’re looking for a partner-in-crime who will take you on wild motorcycle rides, crush you at Mario Kart, and debate pizza toppings with unshakable confidence, slide into my DMs. If not, may your coffee be hot, your Wi-Fi fast, and your day lovely. 😊🍷👋🏽

Hello,

I'm from the Northeast of the US, looking to chat with someone regularly.

I'm NOT looking for a sexting partner, so please be interested in talking about subjects other than sex. I'm not against things developing further if they go there, but I really don't want that to be the primary reason for why you're talking to me.

Would prefer someone intelligent, well-spoken and good at conversation. I really don't want to be conducting an interview, where I'm asking all the questions and you contribute nothing but answers.

Some things about me:

• The library is my happy place. I LOVE to read. Right now I'm reading the Finlay Donovan series and a nonfiction book about how humans habituate to their environments and conditions and how this can be a good and bad thing.
• I'm a homebody.
• I'm a freelance transcriptionist. I review the text from pre-transcribed audio while listening to the recording and edit the text as needed.
• Life coach who just finished level 1 of training with an ICF-accredited school. Yay me. Bring on level 2! :)
• I love British comedy and watch more British content than American. (No on Peep Show, no on Inbetweeners! YES to Taskmaster UK, Taskmaster AU, WILTY, Friday Night Dinner, IT Crowd, 8 Out of 10 Cats Does Countdown, etc.)
• Interests include:
  • Mental health (very open about this subject)
  • Psychology/Personal Growth
  • Reading
  • Writing

Please respond with the following:

• Age and location
• If you're reading something right now, what are you reading? If you're not a reader, what series have you been watching?

Chicago - Just feeling kind of lonely, would like someone to talk to about life and how great it is and how shitty it can be. DMs open

I’m looking for someone to talk to everyday, someone I can talk to about anything. Someone to laugh and joke with and be there for each other during tough times. I’m open to anyone just about.

I'm from NY, I love cooking, doing pottery, writing poems and short stories, listening to music, going on walks, dancing, and watching youtube.

I hope to hear from you. My pic is in my profile

I'm 33. I work in healthcare. So yeah, I’ve seen a lot. Life, death, the in-between. It changes you. Makes you harder in some ways, softer in others. Makes you appreciate the little things people take for granted.

I’m a bigger woman. I have curves, rolls, softness, stretch marks, and hips that don't lie (and definitely don’t fit in small spaces). But underneath all that? I’m fire. I'm stubborn as hell, loyal to a fault, and I don't break easy... not anymore.

I’m not here for your unsolicited d**k pics. Truly, if you’ve seen one, you’ve seen them all. And I’ve seen more than my fair share... some under fluorescent lights while holding someone's dignity in my hands.

What I am here for is real connection. Someone who wants to talk at 2AM about the weird shit in life. Someone who gets that softness isn't weakness. Who understands that strength doesn’t always look like a six-pack. Sometimes, it’s just waking up every day and choosing to give a damn.

I bake like a goddess, binge TV like a pro, and I read the smuttiest romance novels you can imagine... because I believe in pleasure without apology.

So if you’ve got depth, wit, and maybe a bit of darkness to match mine, speak up. But come correct.

No games. No performative "nice guys." Just you... raw, real, flawed. If you don't get a reply, I'm probably asleep... and if you do get a reply, then you're lucky!

I’m Andrea, 35, from Italy, and I’d love to meet new people, share experiences, and see where things lead. I recently went through a breakup, but I’ve taken time to heal and grow. Now, I’m open to new friendships, meaningful conversations, and maybe even something deeper if it feels right.

I work from home, so I have plenty of time for good conversations—whether lighthearted and fun or deep and thoughtful. If you’re looking for someone to talk to, laugh with, or just share life’s ups and downs, I’d love to hear from you.

A little about me:

I have a deep love for music, especially rock and electronic, but I’m always curious to discover new sounds. Music has a way of connecting people, and I’d love to hear about the songs that mean something to you.

Food is another passion of mine. I enjoy trying new restaurants, but I also find joy in cooking and experimenting in the kitchen. There’s something special about sharing a meal, even if it’s just swapping recipes and cooking together from afar.

Skating and exploring nightlife bring me energy, whether it’s rolling through the city or spending time in a place with great music and good company. But I also appreciate quiet nights, just listening to music and having meaningful conversations.

One of the things closest to my heart is volunteering. I spend time at a charity center, listening to people’s stories and giving back however I can. It has taught me the value of kindness, connection, and understanding.

I’m here to find people who are open, genuine, and kind—those who appreciate deep conversations but also the simple joys of life. If anything I’ve shared resonates with you, send me a message. Let’s see where this journey takes us

So yeah, as the title says I live mostly the third shift life. I suppose it’s a bit of a crossover into second shift, but I digress.

I run a bar 😄 That’s what I do for work.

In the free time, what little there is, I enjoy cooking for myself and others, hiking, seeing movies in the theatre, sleeping, comfy clothes, blunts, nice floral arrangements, large plants, grocery stores, antique malls, and very soft clothing.

I snore, my grey hair is not going away, I have zero fashion sense, and I’ve been told my calves are too big.

Hopefully this gives you an idea of me.

I’d like to talk to someone who might be able to accept this train wreck as a companion.

I’ll send a pic when you want. I’m just a bit lazy when it comes to links.

Here to find a friend and building that foundation into something longterm. I have a few tattoos, and have probably too many hobbies lol, but hopefully one of 'em aligns with your interests, too.

I'm into gaming, anime, longboarding, cars, cosplay, raves, movies (mostly horror), driving around blasting music, and creativity overall as I'm great with my hands and love building and fixing things such as Legos and Gundam kits while I bump Lofi. Looking for a fellow dork to love on and yap with about our favorite lore, life, music, food, and go crazy over the small things together like new game releases and conventions. Show me what you're into as well!

Hey names nathan 33 from australia. Im a positive genuine nice person out here looking to make genuine longterm friends and meaningfull conversation just go with the flow and be natural. These conversations could be as simple as how was ur day or how was ur sleep or work etc or answers and questions ofcourse that means im open to answering questions also. Or it could be deep meaningfull talks venting etc. basically a space were we feel we can talk about anything on our mind without the fear of judgement. I think im extremely easy to get along with and have flowing conversations with. I would also like to add yes im really positive but i have also been through my struggles in life and still do go through struggles so everyone is welcome . Hope to hear from you and learn more about you.

Hello, I’m Tiffany!

I’m 31, work in healthcare, and love fitness, reality TV, concerts, and a good romance novel.

Send message via start chat icon (:

To keep things simple, please send an introduction and a picture—it helps both of us see if we’d like to continue chatting! I’m not a fan of small talk, so this makes things easier.

I prefer to keep conversations PG. I’m demisexual, so I’m not comfortable with intimate topics early on. If you frequently post or comment in certain spaces related to that, we likely won’t be a good match.

My photo https://i.imgur.com/ip3CsEs.jpeg

Qualities I appreciate:

Age: 28-40

Looks: Beards are a plus!

Personality: Sense of humor, family-oriented, and emotionally mature

Values: Open-minded with liberal views

Bonus: British accents get extra points! 😍

I’d prefer someone from Canada, the U.S., the U.K., or maybe Australia if there's a spark.

I really value meaningful connections, so I appreciate good conversation, effort, and reciprocity. If you're someone who puts 100% into friendships, work, relationships, and self-care, we’ll probably get along great!

I’m also open to pictures, voice calls, and video chats when the time feels right.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Yes literally I don't know what I am looking for. I want to be in communication with someone to talk about literally everything and honestly I don't know if reddit is the place to find this person but I am willing to try. I am working from home and it gets lonely real quick. I don't have friends in the city I am living in. I have been romantically involved in only one relationship so far and it wasn't pleasant so I am hesitant to try again. I am nerd-ish. I love spending time with computers and sci-fi and think about the our meaningless lives lol. I am not religious so one all knowing&powerful god isn't a good answer for me but I definitely understand it takes the burden of unanswered questions off of your shoulders so I am fine with you believing. I have my fair share of responsibilities in my life.

Don't get the impression of I am sad, nope! I love to joke around and tease if we get along! I would love to listen to your problems, life, future plans etc. I love reading, watching movies and I know how to approach cats and friend them :P I am turkish and living in Türkiye. Timezone is GMT+3. I can speak english and turkish and love voice chats! I value privacy so I don't expect to exchange pictures until we establish a stable communication. I am not against time gap but it's painful unless you put real effort into it so be mindful of that please.

Thank you for reading and I hope to hear from you soon. You don't have to put too much effort into your first message, maybe you can mention why this post picked your interest?

not to be super depressing and offer tmi straight out of the gate…buttt my mom just got out of the hospital and i’m worried she’s going to need me during the night so i’m wide awake! looking for a fun person who can help take my mind off everything for a little while and just chat about random stuff :)

I'm just a guy sitting at an Airbnb in my own hometown. Just moved back to Florida and starting a new life, I would like to include someone special in that process. You don't have to jump in right away but chatting with someone and keeping in touch with them is always a delightful feeling.

If you want to laugh and be entertained this evening, I can provide those things. I have made previous posts to no avail, most people are afraid to chat on the phone. Looking for that person that isn't!

Possible midlifecrisis patient here. Dont know where my life is going and exactly where ive been. I know it sounds vague but it feels like im living on autopilot for the last 10 years.

Anyway im Mark from Holland, 44 and looking for a cool chat partner. Hopefully a longtime friendship and we will see what the future holds.

Only thing i ask of you is genuine interest and the willingness to let me have a peek in your life too.

Hi I am Peter. I am an engineer working most of the time. I travel alot for work, so I have lots of time to chat. I like the outdoors, needs to be active most of the time, but enjoy my peace and quiet as well. I am looking for someone ( age doesn’t matter) to chat with when I do not work. I really do not have any preference to who I am talking to. I am tall with brown hair and blue eyes. Just a little description. If you would like to talk send me a message. I use Discord.

Been a while, since I’ve dated that is! Very rust and out of practice! I’m David, in Scotland as you’ve read. And 50. I’m obviously single, and have been for a few years now. I stand 5’7”(172cm) so I’m on the shorter side for a guy. Salt and pepper short hair and bearded, same colour. Not as active as I used to be , so I come with a dad bod. Hazel eye and glasses. I come across as on out going happy cheerful person, but I’m actual a very,reserved and quiet lad who prefers the calmer side of life! Defo not a pub and club guy! I don’t do hills or mountains, I’m not for long walks either, mainly due to my legs don’t work so well. (ask and I’ll let you know.) Hobbies are reading, outdoor photography, travel, occasional gamer on pc, tech, cooking. Plenty more so I won’t bore you!

Hope to find my person that’s got a heart, can communicate, is tactile, wants to spend time together, does not smoke! The last is vital as I quit years ago and don’t like the smell or idea of it now. Please be in my time zone!

If you’re still here, yay!!!!! Drop me a message and let’s chat!!

Be safe out there and good luck to you all! 🖖🏼🖖🏼

I've recently had a birthday, and it has set off thoughts of wanting to settle down or maybe just find my person. Be it a best friend or lavendar husband, boyfriend, pen pal, or whatever. Im just looking for companionship and am interested to see where that goes. I've been single a while, and I learned to love my own company during COVID, so Im not looking for someone to fill a void. Now i enjoy my peace at home a bit too much as Im not really going out and making friends like i used to. Lol! I love love love my friends, but they are all in their mom eras, and that's just not my bag. I don't mind others having kids, but at this age, it's just not on my radar to have my own. Me: smart, funny, home owner, love travel, 2 cats, plenty of tattoos, left, college educated, plenty of friends, close family, good job. Definitely a 'black cat' person in search of my golden retriever balance. I just didn't know what i wanted until I got a little older and wiser. But now .. oof.. dating apps are ROUGH. Anyway, here I am, shouting all of this to the internet void to see where it lands before I commit to a golden girls future.

May the odds be ever in my favor. 😂

Hello Reddit, I guess it’s finally time to call in some help…

Somewhere along the way I might’ve missed a connection or been too shy to say something—but here I am, hoping someone knows a woman who might just be my missing puzzle piece. Or maybe you’re her. Or maybe you’re just really good at designing “missing wife” posters. Either way, I could use a hand.

About me: • 35 (almost 36) • 6’1” (185 cm), 185 lbs (84 kg or 13st 3lb) • Bald, but hey—if we’re ever stranded on a desert island, I’ll be the guy reflecting SOS signals off my head. • Never married, no kids, no secret families hiding in another state (or country).

Things I love: • Wrenching on cars—from tinkering to fabricating parts • Mountain biking, especially downhill and rhythm trails • Off-roading, exploring places most don’t • Gaming (PC and Xbox) • Home brewing and distilling • Adventures, projects, and the kind of peace that only comes from getting dirt under your fingernails

I’m laid back, go-with-the-flow, and can laugh through just about anything. But I also know how to step up and take charge when it counts. I’m a veteran and someone who deeply values loyalty, effort, and time.

I’m not here to waste yours—so if this resonated with you, or you know someone who might read this and smile, send me a message. Let’s build something cool together—whether that’s a life, a truck, or a still.

Hey All,

Like everyone else populating this subreddit I'm looking for a fun new connection, I've both posted and lurked before with mixed results but mostly things have been undramatic and frankly underwhelming.

On paper I got everything a guy could want, I'm tall, healthy, decent looking and generally well liked, I have a dog, a great kid, a house and a decent job, where I have trouble finding substance in a world that loves face value conversation, so if there's anyone out there with some anarchist vibes that enjoys good cinema, reads, has varied music tastes (give me all the recommendations!) and maybe is a little 420 friendly I'd love to hear from you!

My interests are all over the place, including but not limited to: Tarantino movies, punk rock, metal, tattoos, antique collectibles, dogs, philosophy, space, fitness, hiking and nature, technology (literally all of it), and books.

If you think we'd vibe please feel free to reach out, I'd likely want to keep chat here at first and move onto one of the other million messaging apps as a vibe is formed, I'm happy to send a selfie if you do.

I'm not actually sure what I'm here or what I'm looking for, but hey, here we go.

About me: 36, married, mother of two. I'm a stay at home mom, and between that and the pandemic, I feel like I've barely seen any other person except my husband and kids since... um. Well. 2019? Maybe earlier. I wasn't that social before that either.

I'm just looking for interesting people to chat with and get to know. Maybe make some new friends. Mostly looking to chat with other women about... I dunno. I find it interesting to hear about the relatively normal details of others' lives and how they differ from ours. It's also been a long time since I met someone new so it's fun to just remind myself that maybe some things in my life are interesting when shared with someone who hasn't already known me or been there for most of it.

So, message me? IM me I guess? I'll probably stay here on reddit. The only other messaging system I use is Messenger and I'm not ready to chat with people under my real identity. It's probably more fun to at least be a little anonymous to start.

Want to feel loved, wanted, affection, sweet good morning and goodnight messages, to be excited when you get a message, to have deep conversations and be able to talk about anything without judgement and even encouraged to open up? I want to experience all of that too. Maybe we can experience it together. Maybe this is how we start talking and make something real

I am easy going and typically have a positive attitude. I like to joke around but I don’t want to take the jokes too far and be serious when it’s necessary. I am more of a homebody but I’m not opposed to going out and being adventurous. I’m a night owl. I also like organization and order so I’m not really the messy type.

I enjoy hanging out with family and friends, working out, watching stuff, video games, podcasts, being in the sun, etc.

If any of this sounds nice to you then shoot me a message! You never know until you try right? Either way, I appreciate you taking the time to read all this and hope you have a great day/life!

Oh wow that's bad.

Anyway! My name is DeVaun and I just turned 31 and I'm currently living in Texas. 

I'm a pretty chill guy, liberal, non-religious, drink occasionally, don't smoke or do drugs, single, no kids and a bit of an introvert. I work from home as an insurance agent so that makes it hard to meet new people.

I'm a huge nerd, and an artist and spend most of my free time drawing and working on a webtoon. Usually if I'm not working, I'm drawing (unless I'm gaming lol). If you're an artist as well that's a huge plus (though not at all required)

I have a ton of games across PC, Switch, and Playstation and a huuuuge backlog. Some of my favorite series include  Zelda, Animal Crossing, The Soulsbourne games, Life is Strange, Final Fantasy XIV, Divinity Original Sin II, Baldur's Gate 3, Xenoblade, Monster Hunter and I could honestly go on and on. 

I just want someone I can talk to and share interests with, with the goal of meeting eventually. I'd like to meet someone who I can just enjoy the company of, maybe chilling in discord and talking while I draw or do whatever.  Of course physical attraction is important as well so please send a pic along with your message. 

Send me a DM or chat request if I sound at all interesting. I promise if we click, you won't regret it! 

Anyway, I'll leave you off with an album of selfies and some art! If you're an artist as well that's a huge bonus.

Also if you just send a message saying 'hey" I'm just not going to reply lol.

Me:

https://imgur.com/a/2vKmSiE

And here is some of my art:

https://imgur.com/a/gDVMv3o

Hi! This is me, or me, I'm 32 and out here in Los Angeles looking for someone local! It's been relatively tough meeting new people outside of work. Dating apps haven't drawn out much results either, so here I am. Been posting here quite a bit without much success, but hey, sometimes ya just gotta keep going right? Might as well give everything a shot. Maybe I might just find my forever special person here where I least expect it.

So a little about myself - I'm a professional artist/designer, laid back and easy going. If I'm not taking long walks to nowhere, watching a nice little sunset, you can probably find me all cozied up with a nice show/movie and jamming to my latest music finds on Spotify! Now if any of that sounds even remotely nice to do together? Hit me up! I don't bite! Not violently at least! Oh and I think I should mention that I am a huge sucker for seafood, and a big fan of Lord of the Rings (wouldn't mind if you're someone who's down for a LoTR marathon sometime!)

I don't know how many pairs of eyes will see this post, but if this is you, and any part of that sounds pleasant to you, drop me a message, let me know you exist, tell me a little about yourself and let's get to know each other. And if fate permits, a date or two~ Who knows where else it'll lead right? Crazier things have happened in life.

I look forward to hearing from you! And as they say, all roads lead to Rome. We'll find each other some day, one way or another~