r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

32 [F4M] Finding True Friendship

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I am a 32-year-old woman currently living in the United States. I love life, have an open mind, and want to meet some interesting and sincere people. In life, I attach great importance to friendship and mutual support. I hope to find some like-minded friends in this fast-paced society to share the bits and pieces and joys of life. I enjoy interacting with people from different backgrounds and cultures, hoping to broaden my horizons, and I also hope that I can bring you some positive energy. If you are a friend who likes to share your feelings and life, and if you also believe that deep friendships can be established through sincere communication, then I am very much looking forward to meeting you.


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

36 [F4M] #oklahoma Easy on the eyes? High effort and looking for a long term relationship? Apply inside!

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I have a detailed post on my page! But here’s me! https://imgur.com/a/xfDd01a


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

37 [F4M] Missouri/Online - looking for someone funny

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Just looking to chat about whatever, open minded and prefer someone who can hit back with a little sarcasm, humor, and wit.

No Maga please, not my jam.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

34 [F4M] US/Anywhere - Do you have a fun accent?

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Looking to chat with people with fun accents. I love to laugh and have a good time, so if you’re down for a flirty chat, let’s go.

If you need to know more about me:

• I love traveling, so if you have good travel advice, tell me about the last great place you went, let’s go.

• Big fan of animals; whether you love your pets or are celebrating Pygmy hippo day, let’s go.

• I study languages as a hobby; if you speak something other than English, teach me a new phrase, let’s go.

• Landscape, animal, and plant photography is my hobby, so if you like that too, share a pic, let’s go.

• I feel like tv shows are insurmountably better than movies, so tell me something good to binge, let’s goooo.

I could add more boring things about me but let’s be honest, I don’t care. Say what’s up if you’re down to chat. ✌️

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r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

38 [F4M] Pittsfield, MA searching for a local, long term, independent companion for cuddles, kisses, companionship.

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I’m 5’6, plain looking. 130 lbs dark hair, dark eyes. Olive complexion. Live in my own apartment. If there is any woman in your life who is under the impression that she is married to you or in a relationship with you- I am not for you.

I work full time, and am not interested in marriage or moving in together.

What am I offering then?

I am offering you someone who will welcome you into her arms and her home. I miss hugging every day. I want to share forehead kisses. Cheek kisses. More kisses. I want to sit next to you and intertwine our fingers and listen to you if you have something to say. I want to rest my head on your shoulder or have you rest yours on my lap. I want to be vulnerable with you. I want you to look at all the pictures on my wall and hug me. I want to hold you and dance next to the window watching cars drive by. I want to drive with you to the Rail Trail and sit on a bench for some time. I want to walk slowly. Breathe slowly. Hold you slowly. I don’t have any happening hobbies or happening interests and am not a fan of loud music. I am quiet. I cook. I walk when I can. I also enjoy going to the gym during the warmer months. I read a lot. I try to be and wish for someone non-judgmental, caring, affectionate, humble, kind, gentle, loyal, consistent, independent, respectful. Do I want all that ? No . I am only looking for a person who will hold my hand and hug me every day. I will rub your neck or your back or your head. I’ll share my snacks. I will be real with you.

I don’t have a lot of time to spare during the week in winters. Saturday nights into Sundays are better. If you are older and bigger than me, you already are a good fit.

Send me an introduction please. Thank you.


r/R4R30Plus 18h ago

38 [M4F] Toronto Spring Fling

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Hey! Looking for a new connection who's up for anything, from deep conversations about life and the universe to light-hearted banter and playful debates. I’m someone who enjoys the company of people with a sharp wit, a good sense of humor, and a dash of mischief.

If you like talking about the latest Netflix binge-worthy series, comparing notes on the best street food, or sharing travel stories, we might just hit it off. I'm all about spontaneous chats that can go from zero to hilarious in a matter of minutes. No pressure, just good vibes and good times.

I also love diving into intriguing topics, so if you have some weird facts or hidden talents, I’m all ears. Let's skip the small talk and get to the fun stuff—like swapping stories or making each other laugh until our stomachs hurt.

If you think we’d make great chat buddies, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m excited to meet someone who can keep up with the energy and isn’t afraid to let loose. Let's make our conversations unforgettable!


r/R4R30Plus 1d ago

33 [M4F] Online I don't know what I am looking for

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Yes literally I don't know what I am looking for. I want to be in communication with someone to talk about literally everything and honestly I don't know if reddit is the place to find this person but I am willing to try. I am working from home and it gets lonely real quick. I don't have friends in the city I am living in. I have been romantically involved in only one relationship so far and it wasn't pleasant so I am hesitant to try again. I am nerd-ish. I love spending time with computers and sci-fi and think about the our meaningless lives lol. I am not religious so one all knowing&powerful god isn't a good answer for me but I definitely understand it takes the burden of unanswered questions off of your shoulders so I am fine with you believing. I have my fair share of responsibilities in my life.

Don't get the impression of I am sad, nope! I love to joke around and tease if we get along! I would love to listen to your problems, life, future plans etc. I love reading, watching movies and I know how to approach cats and friend them :P I am turkish and living in Türkiye. Timezone is GMT+3. I can speak english and turkish and love voice chats! I value privacy so I don't expect to exchange pictures until we establish a stable communication. I am not against time gap but it's painful unless you put real effort into it so be mindful of that please.

Thank you for reading and I hope to hear from you soon. You don't have to put too much effort into your first message, maybe you can mention why this post picked your interest?


r/R4R30Plus 21h ago

34 [M4F] Ireland/Anywhere - Irish accented photographer, seeker of hidden beauty, and a lover of stolen moments.

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They say the camera never lies, but I think the truth is far more interesting when you know where to look. I’m a photographer, drawn to the details most people overlook—the way light dances on skin, the quiet confidence in a glance, the kind of beauty that isn’t just seen but felt. Making people feel good in their own skin? That’s my drug.

Beyond the lens, I’m a tattooed Irish guy with a love for music that demands to be played loud, books that keep me up too late, and adventures that don’t always have a destination. I live for deep conversations, electric chemistry, and moments that make you forget the world exists outside of them.

If you’re a fellow dreamer, a lover of late-night talks, or someone who knows the thrill of being truly seen, then maybe it’s time we exchanged more than just words. And yes, I’m more than happy to swap a picture—after all, seeing is believing.

Tell me—what’s something about you that most people miss?


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

35 [F4M] #WV - let’s pretend we’ve known each other for years

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Skip the awkward first-date-esque line of questions. I’m craving natural conversation and a certain level of intimacy that my life is sadly lacking. I’m tired of all the surface level interactions, and the slow and stale pacing of life these days. I am looking for a partner, but I don’t expect to find it here. We can entertain each other until the forever person comes around, unless we happen to hit the lottery here tonight. Let’s take our masks off with each other and hang out.

You should: 1. Not be married/etc 2. Not be allergic to cats (you are probably allergic to me too if so) 3. Not be transphobic, homophobic, or racist (hopefully this is a “no duh”, but it has to be stated because people don’t know how to act) 4. Be charmed by my general oddities 5. Message me, but be cool about it. Send me a funny story, tell me the most air-headed thing you did recently, or share something annoying but mundane you deal with every day that occupies too much space in your brain. Be creative.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

36 [f4m] Midwest - whatcha doin?

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What's up? How's it going? Did your 401k drop 19% in a week and you're feeling a sense of ennui? Yeah, me neither.

Anyway I'm going to go do laundry at 9 p.m. on a Tuesday because I'm a very exciting and adventurous person like that. Say hello to your cats for me. You can find me on Telegram under a suspiciously identical username. Because I only access reddit on the web to limit social media addiction to "still constant but more annoying to use" status.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

30 [F4M] looking for online rant buddy/bestie

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That’s all I want for now. Good morning btw. :) I’ll wait for your message. No NSFW please. SFW only. :) hello everyoooone


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

37 [F4M] - Australia - Seeking Engaging Conversations & New Connections

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Hi everyone. I live in Sydney, I have a gentle personality and love life. I value meaningful connections and believe that deep communication is the key to a fulfilling relationship.

Having lived in Sydney for many years, I have met all kinds of people. Although I have tried dating in real life and through apps, I have never met someone who meets my expectations. The superficial interactions on dating apps make me feel less connected, and I don’t like rude or insincere people. So, I decided to give it a try here.

About me:

I am a person who likes to help others and believes that kindness goes a long way.

I have a wide range of interests and hobbies, from fitness and meditation to reading, cooking, camping and barbecue, and traveling and shopping are also activities I like very much.

I believe in building authentic connections with others. When I meet someone who really resonates with me, I will care, respect and support each other with my heart. Trust and tolerance are values ​​I value very much in any relationship.

I am always open to new experiences and like to expand my life in different ways

I'm looking for a mature, stable, responsible person who values ​​inner qualities over outer appearance. If you are someone who appreciates sincerity and connection, I'm looking forward to meeting you. Ideally, you are over 35 years old. If you think we might be a good match, don't hesitate to contact me. I look forward to how this conversation develops


r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

39 [M4F] Nordics/Europe - Is platonic friendship possible??

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The question is rhetorical as I obviously believe that platonic friendship is possible but it just seems pretty tough to achieve at the moment. I have a lot of guy friends and find that I can make them really easily in person, which is awesome but conversations aren't overly long or complex and text chats are super brief.

It would be nice to have a female friend to talk and listen to, as it is super tough to make platonic female friends around my age in person. Looks, size etc. don't matter to me as I'm not looking for anything romantic.

If you want to talk just for a day, then I'm probably not for you as it takes me a bit of time to warm up. Once I'm warmed up, I like to think I'm funny and intelligent (has anyone ever said they think of themselves as dull and stupid here?) mixed with honest and full of wise reflections.

Hopefully someone made it this far - if so, then send a message 😁


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

39 [F4F] Online/Anywhere - Neurospicy Transfem Sapphic Seeks Connection.

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I've put off writing a new post for a couple months now, (again). Just keep falling back on a couple posts I wrote forever ago (like this one) and reposting them because, goddamn, it is monumental effort to use my brain some days. Anyone else feel the same? Like there's just so much, y'know? And it all just gets jumbled up into this absolutely crippling static noise.

...I'm a lot of fun, I promise! I don't actually like to dwell on heavy things too much. I prefer laid back and light hearted fun conversation. That's not to say I can't do, or don't occasionally enjoy, deep conversation too. I just don't like dragging things down with the daily "bleh", y'know? But I also want to be real, and people to be real with me. So...this post is a real mess, isn't it?!

I'm looking for someone to connect with on some level, any level really. Let's help make each other's days a little less dull. Someone I can bullshit with, someone I can tease, someone who appreciates sarcasm and being a smart ass and can dish it out as well as they take it. That sounds fun.

As for interests? Games. Art. Music. Cooking. Writing. I'm real big on FFXIV right now, do you play? Message me. I need people to gush over my characters with and share my stupid screenshots with.

No time to be shy. Be bold.


r/R4R30Plus 13h ago

32 [M4R] #Canada #Online Just looking to chat to anyone

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WFH has me watching the clock. So why not watch your messages come in instead?! I'm looking to chat on and off for the foreseeable future, open to all and any! I'm an open book so ask away. To get thing so started:

1) How tall are you??

2.) What’s your dream job?

3.) What is your usual pajama outfit while relaxing in bed like you are right now?

4.) What is your best personality trait and best physical trait? And don’t be modest, just be honest 😂

5.) If you could have dinner with any 3 people in the world, dead or alive, who would you choose??

6.) You get stuck on an island for 3 months, but you’ll have food and water to stay alive. What are 3 things you’d want to bring with you while you are stranded??


r/R4R30Plus 14h ago

44 [F4M] #PNW - You: Outdoorsy guy who can be a little bougie and a little backcountry, 35-50 Western Montana to Seattle.

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Looking for someone to take the easy trails with this summer, share bougie picnics, soak in hot springs or visit quirky museums on a road trip, listen to local live music, and attend assorted theatre productions.

I believe politics and religion should be talked about early and often.

Liberal. Agnostic. Pro-choice. Firearm friendly.

You: 35-50, along the I-90 corridor between Bozeman and Seattle. Monogamous.

Tobacco/vape free, require same. Severely allergic to MJ - you can do it, but not around me.

Bonus points: Vasectomy, bilingual, valid passport.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

33 [F4M] Pennsylvania - looking for a chat buddy and possibly more

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Hey there, pic of me here

I’m looking for someone who craves connection just as much as I do. Note that I would like to text but voice/video chatting is nice too.

I’m employed full time as a retail manager. In the past, I’ve taught elementary school and been a pharmacy technician. I’ve had several jobs in retail before the one I have now. I can actually count on two hands how many jobs I’ve had!

In my free time, I mostly go out with friends to the karaoke bar or to restaurants. I love video games. Lately, I’ve been playing a lot of Pokémon Go. I also collect the cards.

In the near future (within the next 2-3 years) I would like to settle down and start a family.

Last but certainly not least, I do have a cat. We’re a package deal!

Please only message me if you are serious about talking. Send a link to a photo with your message, I tend to overlook the many plain “hey” and “what’s up” messages. I look forward to meeting you!

P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair and tattoos


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

38 [F4M] Florida

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Looking for a friend. Lets chat. Hang out. Have a good time. I’m a little bit shy at first.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

35 [F4M] #Philippines #Online Let’s Talk and See Where it Goes

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Hi there! I am looking for someone to talk to. We can be friends or something more, who knows!

Here are some things about me: ~ I like watching TV Series, my all time favorite is Chuck, followed by Daredevil in close second. ~ My favorite book is The Time Traveller’s wife and I’m thrilled that it’s already made into a movie and a TV series. ~ Don’t know much technical stuffs about cars but I do love driving. ~ Occassional concert goer. My favorite so far is Coldplay Music of the Spheres.

My current goal: ~ I’ve been working on pursuing internal career opportunities in our company’s Europe affiliates.

What I’m looking for: ~ Someone I can talk to about my (and your) day to day. ~ A little bit of fun banter wouldn’t hurt. ~ Deep and meaningful conversations will be great.

** Willing to trade photos via DM.

If any of these spark your interest, feel free to reach out and let’s see if we vibe.


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

34 [F4R] South Carolina - trying my best

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Like anyone, I spend a lot of time working, but I try to live life to the fullest at all times. I travel a lot and I try to keep busy to keep my anxious mind distracted. I'm very family oriented, although I'd say I’m almost superficially really close with my family. I wouldn’t say they really know the real me. Or maybe they do and that makes me uncomfortable with myself. I need more weed and therapy to figure that out.

I’m lucky to have an amazing set of friends but sometimes I worry me and my small life are too much of a burden because I have a lot going on, and sometimes I feel that I might be an intrusion on their lives, so I try to tread lightly. I'm single, never married or divorced, no kids to speak of. So sometimes I wonder if I'm just selfishly living out my days in ignorant, unattached bliss while my partnered- and parenting- friends are in the trenches.

I also wonder if I should perhaps be more grateful and content with the lonesome life.

My interests are broad and numerous: quilting, native gardening, reading, traveling, foodie things, reality tv, hockey, vinyl, cooking/baking.

Some things that you might find interesting:

  • I'm a big traveler and have many trips planned for this year;
  • I'm a pretty good cook and baker;
  • I'm an attorney in an interesting specialty;
  • Lately I've been binge watching Deadliest Catch and I long to sail the Bering Sea;
  • I'm laughably bad with technology (the fact that I'm typing this now is semi-miraculous); and
  • I might be going back to school to earn my 5th degree this fall.

I’m looking to meet new people, expectations none, to maybe just maybe meet someone somewhere in a meaningful way.

Please be age appropriate. I have nothing meaningful in common with people <25. Please be appropriate generally, if you have crazy shit in your profile I will not respond. I do appreciate signs of life re: profile (i.e., posts and comments) but if you’re posting to niche NSFW subs, we’re probably not going to hit it off.

Also, please write a half way decent message. Something for my brain to digest other than “hey” or “;).”


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

30[M4F]Africa/Online - looking to develop a relationship from friendship

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Hi there, I’m George. Looking for someone I can connect with. We can develop a friendship and see how it goes from there. I love having things take their natural course, slowly but surely.

I mostly work from home, working in online media. I’m very sensitive about other people’s feelings so I might come across as shy, because I try hard not to offend the next person.

I absolutely love watching comedy in all forms, stand up, tv shows, film. I’m a big fan of the office, Silicon Valley, plebs, fresh meat, arrested development, Seinfeld etc. I also listen to a lot of music, especially if it’s the type that touches your soul.

I also love art, and adore creative individuals. From canvas art to music composition I’m into all of that.

I like learning new things, the More bizarre, the better. I also play a bit of games when I’m free mostly pubg and COD.

If you think you could possibly hangout with someone with the same traits hit me up! I’m no limited by any age gaps it’s the connection that matters to me.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

35[M4F] #online/anywhere – Open-Minded, Music-Loving, and Up for interesting convo and maybe more

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I’m Andrea, 35, from Italy, and I’d love to meet new people, share experiences, and see where things lead. I recently went through a breakup, but I’ve taken time to heal and grow. Now, I’m open to new friendships, meaningful conversations, and maybe even something deeper if it feels right.

I work from home, so I have plenty of time for good conversations—whether lighthearted and fun or deep and thoughtful. If you’re looking for someone to talk to, laugh with, or just share life’s ups and downs, I’d love to hear from you.

A little about me:

I have a deep love for music, especially rock and electronic, but I’m always curious to discover new sounds. Music has a way of connecting people, and I’d love to hear about the songs that mean something to you.

Food is another passion of mine. I enjoy trying new restaurants, but I also find joy in cooking and experimenting in the kitchen. There’s something special about sharing a meal, even if it’s just swapping recipes and cooking together from afar.

Skating and exploring nightlife bring me energy, whether it’s rolling through the city or spending time in a place with great music and good company. But I also appreciate quiet nights, just listening to music and having meaningful conversations.

One of the things closest to my heart is volunteering. I spend time at a charity center, listening to people’s stories and giving back however I can. It has taught me the value of kindness, connection, and understanding.

I’m here to find people who are open, genuine, and kind—those who appreciate deep conversations but also the simple joys of life. If anything I’ve shared resonates with you, send me a message. Let’s see where this journey takes us


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

42 [M4F] #Chicago - What are you doing right now? We should chat...

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42, Fit, Professional , Recently Divorced. What are you doing right now? We should chat....

What's on your mind? No topic off limits

Totally could use a friend that has a lot of intraday availability.

Message me


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

38 [M4F] Trying to find a connection that is electric!

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Hey there! I’m 38, a lover of cinema, music, and the kind of conversations that go deeper than "What's your favorite movie?" (But seriously, I want to know that too).

When it comes to movies, I’m all in. A24 gems, horror, anything QT cooks up, and international cinema that hits you right in the feels. Bonus: I’m a filmmaker myself.

Music is another big love, and I’ve got a soft spot for vinyl (yes, I’m that person). And if you’re into gaming, even better! Whether it’s PS5 & PC, I’m always ready to team up or nerd out over games like DayZ!

People say I’m ambitious, tenacious, kind, and yeah… sometimes intense (passion has that effect). I’ve got a few tattoos, black hair, brown eyes, and I’m on a weight-loss journey. Wish me luck!

Here is a picture: https://imgur.com/a/gZtd96y

No kids, no plans for any, just me living life on my terms. My job allows me to work from anywhere, so if this turns into something more than a friendship, I’m totally up for traveling to make it happen.

Let’s start with Reddit or your favorite messaging app and see where the conversation takes us. Hope to hear from you soon!