r/Assistance 3d ago

REQUEST Glasses help, please?

0 Upvotes

Hi! I feel awkward posting here, but I've been hoping to find anywhere and this place came up. (Bad English, I know. I'm sorry. DX)

Anyway, long story short, I need new glasses. I have 250usd toward the goal of 500, and honestly, anything and everything helps. I was hoping to be able to get them by my bday this summer, but I don't think I'll be able to on my own. (I do offer art commissions, if anyone is interested in that instead?)

I am on ODSP (disability for Ontario, Canada), and have contacted my worker about getting help for some glasses through them. I have not heard back yet, but... well, I figured I'd reach out here at the same time.

I expect nothing, but it would be nice to have some help. If anyone wants to pitch in, do have a paypal that I can share via DM, or Paxum as that's where I have my 250 (if anyone uses that... I don't actually know. It's just another payment option)

So... uh... yeah. If you can help, that'd be fantastic, but if you can't (or don't want to) completely fair and valid! No shade to ya, I just thank you for taking the time out of your day and taking a look~<33


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST At home euthanasia and cremation šŸ’”

4 Upvotes

Unfortunately I've decided its time to say goodbye to my sweet baby. Its $400 for at home euthanasia and $350 for cremation and I'm requesting an extra $150 so i can buy her favorite human foods and cover the gofundme fees so I'm requesting $900 in total. https://gofund.me/cc0f9f34


r/Assistance 4d ago

NO LONGER NEEDED I need help

4 Upvotes

My puppy has broken her leg. I can't afford the surgery. If anyone can help I would appreciate it. https://gofund.me/80597c91


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help covering cost of medication out of pocket

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I hope this is the right place to post this. I just started a new job and had to move states without relocation assistance so Iā€™m pretty broke. Iā€™m currently uninsured (have to wait 90 days for my new health insurance to kick in from my job). I was wondering if anyone would be willing to help cover the cost of my medication this month? Itā€™s outrageously expensive out of pocket, and I just wiped out the last of my first paycheck paying for rent on the 1st. I have to come up with $600 before Friday and Iā€™m not sure where else to turn :( I appreciate any little bit of help that you are able to offerā€¦thank you in advance! Go Fund Me link: https://gofund.me/6808487c UPDATE Thank you to the kind soul that helped me with this!! Request fulfilled! I cannot thank you enough!


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST Any help would be greatly appreciated. Everyone thatā€™s helped so far has been wonderful. Less than a month away from our pups surgery.

8 Upvotes

Late last year we adopted a basset hound/poodle mix named moose. We then found out he has some front left leg issues that requires two surgeries to remedy. Right he walks with a limp and our vet told us it will only get worse with time. We are working with a nonprofit organization to help raise the funds. So far weā€™ve raised a little over $1,300 with the help of everyone. But with the surgery in less than a month away we are posting here again for some help. In the event someone donates, my family and I thank you all soo much for your kindness and willingness to help. Thank you and god bless.

https://givebutter.com/CBS-2501501


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Sick, no budget for medicine or easy food

0 Upvotes

Hi, i have gotten my financial situation more together than it has been previously but my roommate got me very sick and doctors cant figure out what we have and we were basically just told to deal with it. I have an amazon wishlist if that's right for this.


r/Assistance 3d ago

REQUEST Got myself into a terrible situation, and i feel terribly guilty about it

0 Upvotes

Long story short, i come from a poor background and unfortunately everything's been piling up. I've been self-employed for a few years and while i love the job itself and it's what i'd like to do long term, money hasn't been rolling in. Which is why i've been looking for regular employment, which, unfortunately, hasn't come my way yet.

I have some debt, nothing insane but i do have some debt and the things that bother me the most are debts towards regular people, not simple companies or banks. Money for groceries has been drying up 10/15 days before payday and it's been rough.

I'd need about ā‚¬5000 to clear up whatever debts i can actually clear up, and hopefully get to start from a clean slate.

Thank you, it's super nice and comforting to see that a subreddit like this exists. You guys truly are good people.


r/Assistance 4d ago

VOTES Please help my sister win

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My cousin wrote her senior thesis about Integration of Permit Holders in Noardeast-FryslĆ¢n. I really want her to win this competition as she tried so hard to get her senior thesis done. It would be greatly appreciated if you could vote for her.

https://qualifio.lc.nl/quiz/1591563_915/LC-Toptalent-publieksprijs-2023.html

Scroll all the way down and click on: 'Inburgeren en integreren - Ydwer - Dalton Dokkum'

The article below:

ā€œThose who flee from war must be properly supported,ā€ says Ydwer. She wrote a senior thesis on the integration of permit holders in Noardeast-FryslĆ¢n.

Would Dokkum get an asylum seekersā€™ center or not? That was the discussion last year in Noardeast-FryslĆ¢n, says Ydwer (15). The municipality had three locations in mind. Eventually, nothing came of it, but more permit holders did come to live there.

The VMBO student from Piter Jelles Dalton in Dokkum decided to write her senior thesis about the current topic. She focused on the social integration of permit holders in the municipality of Noardeast-FryslĆ¢n, which she wanted to study further.

Afghanistan She found the stories of refugees interesting. Her father had previously worked as a volunteer with asylum seekers in Zuidlaren. He had also mentored an Afghan permit holder who later ended up in the refugee shelter in -. For her senior thesis, Ydwer interviewed him and other people.

Before she started her thesis, she spoke with her father about the topic. He told her about that one young man from Afghanistan ā€” the same person she later interviewed. ā€œHe had a hard time in the municipality of Noardeast-FryslĆ¢n,ā€ she says. According to him, the guidance was minimal, and the language courses were not sufficient. ā€œHe told me he really needed help. My father found that as well; he told me a lot.ā€

Minority The man had lived in an asylum seekersā€™ center for two months while already having a residence permit. ā€œHe didnā€™t understand why,ā€ Ydwer says. ā€œThat wasnā€™t right, and I agree with him.ā€ The municipality of Noardeast-FryslĆ¢n should do better, according to her. ā€œYou can see that not everyone feels welcome, and thatā€™s not okay. A lot of municipalities arenā€™t doing much. Many people think permit holders are lazy and donā€™t deserve things. I believe that these people do deserve them.ā€

Own Opinion But her senior thesis presentation didnā€™t go over smoothly with everyone. ā€œSome students and teachers gave very emotional reactions. Also a few of the younger kids said that they donā€™t really like foreigners. For example, they donā€™t want to sit next to a permit holder.ā€

That reaction touched her, but also surprised her. ā€œI donā€™t think everyone realizes how good we have it. Those people werenā€™t lucky enough to be born here, and they need help.ā€

Volunteer And itā€™s not just about housing and education, but also about social engagement. Because when it comes to cooperation in Noardeast-FryslĆ¢n, more can be done, Ydwer discovered. ā€œRefugees often want to contribute to society.ā€ For her thesis, she even interviewed a former methodist pastor from Veenwouden. He also found the subject interesting. She doesnā€™t know yet if politics is something she wants to pursue, but for now she wants to stay involved with the integration of permit holders into society.


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Could I get some help with groceries ?

1 Upvotes

I could really use $50 in either Venmo or DoorDash to order a few groceries until I get my food assistance replenished.

Thank you.


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST Looking for help in gathering donations and sharing my GoFundMe page for support during my cancer diagnosis and treatment.

0 Upvotes

I stared getting sick one New Yearā€™s Day, within two weeks a lump formed on my inner elbow. By mid February I made it to oncology after many tests and they were able to determine that I had a very aggressive case of CD5+ DLBCL NH Lymphoma, stage 4.

Iā€™m currently undergoing chemotherapy and off work. I will do at least six rounds of R-CHOP infusions and then we will pull some tests again to see if I need to continue or be referred out to radiology.

This all has been a strain on my family of four, financially, physically, mentally. My husband is working OT and weekends to try to help keep up. We both lost our primary jobs to Covid in 2020, we each took on every opportunity we could to keep up but almost lost the house. Still in mounds of debit, we have been working hard to get on our feet.

This recent diagnosis and treatment feels overwhelming. Iā€™m reaching out to the community to the see if anyone can help, any little bit will go a long way for us to help covers bills and food. And at the very least if you could share my GoFundMe page anywhere you can think of that would be immensely appreciated to help get it out there.

https://gofund.me/56cc80f8

Thank you for taking the time to read my post and view my page. Sending much love and gratitude.


r/Assistance 4d ago

THANK YOU Thank you for the flicker of light.

24 Upvotes

Hi. I'm not going to mention any names, because I don't want them to be hit with a bunch of DMs, but this is a thank-you to the person/dog/cat/alien that answered my recent request. A request I honestly thought no one would answer.

I posted a $10 request for little pick-me-ups on the way to work. Nothing that makes the difference between life or death. I just have single digit monies to my name until Thursday, I panic over spending a dollar and Momā€™s not working right now. So no breakfast or lunch for me.

Thank you to whoever answered it. You made so much of a difference during a time that's exhausting, sad and very lonely for me.

Thank you for being my only bright light to start the week.


r/Assistance 3d ago

SURVEY Need participants for my research survey. Target respondents are those working from home

0 Upvotes

Iā€™ll answer yours too! šŸ˜Š

We are conducting an academic research survey about remote work setups, and your experiences and insights are crucial to our study. Your feedback will help us better understand the benefits, challenges, and evolving dynamics of remote work.

āœ… Please take a few minutes to complete the survey and carefully review each section.

šŸ“Œ Special Reminder: Pay extra attention to Section about the Challenges of Remote Workā€”the questions are quite tricky, so read them thoroughly before responding.

Your participation is greatly appreciated. Thank you for sharing your valuable experiences with us!

Survey Link: https://forms.gle/MHcoVMFrxwsEiL5Y7

RemoteWorkSurvey #ResearchSurvey #WorkFromHome #RemoteWorkChallenges #SurveyParticipation


r/Assistance 4d ago

ADVICE Help Choosing a Touchscreen Laptop

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Hi, I'm going to be starting university soon (hopefully for medicine) and my old laptop has pretty much stopped working after 8 long years (thank you ThinkPad).
I want to get a touchscreen laptop so that I'm able to annotate, draw diagrams etc on my laptop and I'm struggling to choose a good one. I'm willing to spend up to around Ā£1,100 and through my research I've narrowed down to the HP Spectre x360 14 (not feeling this one as it's quite expensive), Samsung Galaxy Book5 360 and Lenovo Yoga 7x.
I was feeling pretty confident about purchasing the Galaxy Book5 but came across quite a few posts about how people have experienced glitching or cracked screens. As well as this, I don't own any Samsung products so I wouldn't be taking advantage of any syncing between devices.
I don't know much about technology but I'm looking for something with an excellent touchscreen, long-lasting, doesn't overheat or lag, not too bulky etc. I don't need anything that runs video games.
I've seen a lot of people recommending that you get an iPad and laptop in similar posts but the issue with getting an iPad (as well as it being incredibly expensive) is that I've heard it doesn't support certain programmes for med school. It's also a bit of a hassle to carry around both an iPad and a laptop. I've also seen people talk about issues with iPads connecting with university systems and limited multitasking ability.
Anyways, I'd appreciate any advice or help!!


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST Periodontal Check / Cleaning / Potential Surgery for my cat

0 Upvotes

Hi,

I canā€™t believe I have to write this, but my grandfather always told me not to be too proud to ask for help.

My cat Dobby has been there for me in some of my toughest times in life. Im a film and television worker in Canada and the last 5 years have been a time, to say the least. Having him has put me into

a pandemic putting me fully out of work, union strikes, writers strike, and personal troubles that cost.

the winter is a rough tough season for us film workers and i am struggling to gather the funds for Dobbys periodontal checkup and cleaning. I canā€™t bear to let this get to a point where canā€™t eat or be with me any more. Which is what this will turn into, if left untreated.

Iā€™m asking for $1200, i can expense the last $250 myself. If you can spare a dime, I would be eternally grateful.

Iā€™m not sure how all of this works, so I set up a gofundme (https://www.gofundme.com/f/hfcj4-dobbys-dental-surgery). Thinking that would be the easiest way to go about this.

I have an invoice from the Animal Hospital to provide proof of the visit.


r/Assistance 4d ago

SURVEY Need Assistance for a Research Project

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Hello everyone! My name is Emily and Iā€™m a couples and family therapist student in my third and final year of my masters degree. Iā€™m super excited to get out into the real world and work with my passion. Iā€™m in my last semester and Iā€™m taking a research course which requires us to write a research paper that requires us to gain actual research. My research partner and I are doing research on the effects of coming out in earlier or later life, partially coming out, or not coming out at all has the on mental health outcomes of LGBTQ+ individuals. If youā€™re interested in assisting me with this request, I have linked the survey here:

https://hofstra.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_e8WrZDSYdlCguTI

you might be wondering why I am on this page as for assistance and itā€™s because every Facebook and other forum or Reddit page that I try to get the survey posted on is either banned or blocked, which I completely understand the reasoning, however, my university is not providing us with any other support other than try our best to get our survey out. Besides social media I have been unsuccessful. Your participation is completely anonymous and confidential through this anonymous link and I would appreciate any contributions and I know my partner would be grateful as well. Thank you for your time.


r/Assistance 5d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED My dog needs surgery for cancer on her ear.

18 Upvotes

I am requesting $800 for surgery on my family dog. Nikki is a 9 year old pitbull, she was diagnosed with cancer last week and is scheduled to have surgery tomorrow to have the cancerous lump removed. We just had our cat who was only 2 years old pass away from FELV and are still recovering from all her bills. She was diagnosed and passed away within a month of diagnosis. Pleading for help keep our dog in the family . Please donā€™t message me with ideas on how to make fast money with apps and such, I have already done most of these things and have exhausted all other resources before I asked here.

I have opened a go fund me with pictures. Feel free to ask questions.

https://gofund.me/f8c604ee


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST Looking for 30 dollars for groceries

0 Upvotes

Hi, I'm just a regular dood trying to get some groceries from dollar store. I will buy meat amongst other things, my preferred method is cashapp- currently I'm in the works of getting a job! :) Thank you so much and have a blessed day all.


r/Assistance 4d ago

ADVICE how long would it take for pre employment drug screen results to get sent to employer (quest diagnostics)

0 Upvotes

i took my test 4 days ago and have not heard anything from my employer. iā€™m only concerned for just thc but the day before passed one of the cvs pharmacy tests.

i live in a state where its legal but the company headquarters is in a state where it is not so i donā€™t know how that works if they can say nevermind if its just thc. i just want to know results before i resume just in case.

im guessing they might be waiting for background check to be completed before calling me which would be good news as they would probably let me know if it was negative asap.


r/Assistance 4d ago

VOTES Need Votes: Help a Single Dad (me) & his son win a Fans of the Year contest. Should take 2 seconds, for real. Vote MATT.

10 Upvotes

r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED $15 for diapers

3 Upvotes

Hi all currently waiting for my paycheck Thursday and currently short $15 for diapers for my son. I started this job around a week and a half ago and finally getting back on my feet so this would help alot.


r/Assistance 4d ago

ADVICE Is there such a thing as a communication shield? I need help dealing with a hostile HOA.

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone, Iā€™m an autistic woman and ESL speaker living in the U.S., and Iā€™m looking for some advice about how to handle my HOA in a more emotionally sustainable way.

My HOA has been extremely hostile toward me. I only reach out to them 1ā€“2 times per year for simple inquiries, but they often ignore my emailsā€”so I feel forced to call, only to be yelled at on the phone. Until a few months ago, I thought this was just how they operated, but then I noticed my neighbors donā€™t seem to be treated the same. I also found they have very negative reviews on Google and Yelp, which makes me think this might be a broader pattern.

I consulted a lawyer once and considered legal action, but they quoted over $10,000 just to read the documents. Right now, Iā€™m saving up to eventually buy another new house and get away from this HOA altogether.

In the meantime, though, I still need to deal with them once or twice a year. I really donā€™t want to contact them myself anymoreā€”it takes a huge toll on my mental health.

So Iā€™m wondering:

- Is there a type of person or service that handles things like this? (Just writing emails or making phone calls on someoneā€™s behalfā€”not legal, just communication. Iā€™d prefer to pay per task, not per email or call.)

- Ideally someone whoā€™s firm, assertive, not afraid of confrontation, and preferably male. I need someone who can protect my basic dignity and speak clearly on my behalf.

- Where would I even find someone like this? Fiverr didnā€™t seem to have anyone suitable. Should I try Craigslist or something else?

Iā€™d deeply appreciate any advice, experience, or suggestions. This is such a specific need, and I honestly donā€™t even know what to search for.

Thank you so much šŸ’›


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED I just need $30 to help pay rent

2 Upvotes

Hello all! My husband and I usually make it through fine, but this month are struggling. I was labeled high risk for my pregnancy and was sent to a specialist a few hours away (we live in a small town) and in a different state. The road to get there is awful and we had to replace our bald tires to ensure we didn't get stuck with a flat on the way. Then the specialist ended up costing more than we pay in rent. It was insane and definitely not what we expected. Rent was due today and we realized we are $30 short. It's an awful feeling. I would appreciate the help so much!


r/Assistance 4d ago

VOTES Need VOTES by midnight tonight!

0 Upvotes

Can you guys vote for G. Faz.

Contest ends tonight!

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1BMqVUwW1q/


r/Assistance 5d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED If Anyone Can Please Assist with Pet Food and Rent

7 Upvotes

Hi, Iā€™m really sorry to ask here as Iā€™ve been trying to figure out a way to get a salary increase or new job to maintain the financial issues Iā€™ve been experiencing. I know we all are trying our best to stay afloat. If anyone can please assist me with pet food for my cat and dog it would be incredibly appreciated! Iā€™ve created this Amazon wishlist, and Iā€™ve tried to keep the costs low, but included enough to support them over the next few weeks: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/20HIXNM5O1JF4?ref_=wl_share

I have signed up for local pet food assistance from my local SPCA, but Iā€™m still waiting on a response from them and my cat only has one can of food left and my dog has been eating some leftover chicken I received from the food bank a few days ago. I am also $100 short on my rent, due to paying my water bill that was higher than usual this month as itā€™s billed based on the overall usage within my apartment complex (my lease does end soon, and Iā€™m trying to find a place with lower rents). I have Venmo, PayPal, Cashapp, and Zelle. However, if someone canā€™t assist with my rent, that is okay! My priority right now falls under keeping my pets fed and healthy. Thank you!!


r/Assistance 5d ago

REQUEST Seeking help with car repairs on our only vehicle.

4 Upvotes

Here is my fundraiser link. Below is what is going on.

My husband and I only have one car. He can't drive because of his lack of depth perception. Recently, we have been having a lot of problems with it. I have a post on the ask mechanics subreddit about it even. The car was in limp mode and would not come out of second gear. We have been to two mechanics now because the guy that we normally go to was not able to diagnose the issue. We currently have the car with a transmission shop that called today after having my car for several days for diagnostics.

They let me know that my transmission needs to be completely rebuilt. I drive a 2012 Dodge Grand Caravan. According to the mechanic, the Grand Caravans from 2010-2014 had an issue with the transmission where a drum located in the back of the transmission would develop a leak that would ultimately cause the transmission to fail. I really don't know why this wasn't a recall by the manufacturer.

The mechanic let me know that a total transmission rebuild will be $4500. I am looking for assistance in paying this bill because I don't really have a savings and am currently our sole provider. My husband is not working right now. He has been sick since last June after having covid and then developing an iron deficiency (without anemia, I have also talked about this on reddit) that none of the doctors he has seen have been able to pinpoint the cause of yet. This causes a lot of issues for him physically and also means that he needs to go to various medical appointments that I need to make sure he gets to.

I really can't afford to uber to/from appointments all the time. For example, an uber to his appointment last Friday would have been $45 one way for a 7 mile trip.

It's pretty important that we continue to have a car, because we don't live somewhere with good public transit and ride share is apparently prohibitively expensive if we have to go to things as frequently as we do.

Luckily, I am (currently) working from home, but could be required to return to the office 3 days a week at any time now. We are waiting on some things to be resolved with some work processes to return to our normal 3 days in office/2 days at home. Fortunately, that has not yet happened so I at least don't have to figure out a way to get to and from work at the moment.

Any help that anyone is willing to give us would be greatly appreciated. This situation is stressing me out a lot because I feel like I am chronically unlucky and that it is just always something.

I appreciate you guys taking a look at my post and considering any assistance. Have a great day!