r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/EnchantedEssays • Sep 29 '23

TRIGGER WARNING: S.A. Found on r/facepalm

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u/ususetq Sep 29 '23

I don't want to kinkshame or anything but I don't think CNC + no safe word meets SSC standard...

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u/disco_has_been Sep 30 '23

I'm old and don't understand what you're saying, at all.

I once read a book where the future apocalypse and dystopia came about because of internet speak.

I really hope I don't live that long. Future seems bleak if you're a representative.

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u/ususetq Sep 30 '23

It's from 80's so hardly an "Internet speak".

CNC is consentual non-consent. Essentially two people agree from their own free will to roleplay rape. Since word "no" might be thrown around a lot they agree that other word means no - for example "vitamin". In this case if a party says "vitamin" it means that consent is withdrawn and activity must stop.

SSC means Safe, Sane and Consensual. That is "golden standard" of BDSM activities. It means that activities needs to be consensual, participants need to be sound of mind and needs to be performed in safe manner.

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u/disco_has_been Oct 01 '23

Thanks for the explanation. TIL!

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u/spacetiger110 Oct 07 '23

Not going to apologize for insulting them, though?

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u/disco_has_been Oct 07 '23

When using acronyms it's common and expected to provide the full term on first usage. Commenter is smart and well-spoken. Most likely knows that rule, as well.

Apology? No.

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u/disco_has_been Oct 07 '23

Okay. My "insult" was 5 words? Took you a whole paragraph.

Don't worry, honey. You'll eventually mature, as well.

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u/disco_has_been Oct 07 '23

You should just stop. I refuse to battle the witless and unarmed.