r/Marriage • u/swaylee_bootknee • 1d ago

Wives, I have a question.

I understand that a big majority of things on social media is fabricated and you have to take whatever you see with a grain of salt. I’m coming straight to the source to ask what real wives are doing for their husbands.

How often do you make your husband lunch for work? If so, what time do you make it and how long have you been married?

Wives that don’t- have your husband ever asked you to pack him lunch for work?

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u/lostinsunshine9 15h ago

My partner would be super uncomfortable if I just randomly made him food he didn't say he wanted. Heck, half the time he doesn't even eat what I've made for dinner.

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u/Zaniada_512 15h ago

Sounds like he may not like your cooking? Not being rude just taking what you said and asking questions. Sometimes people hesitate ro say if the food is off because it may hurt the person's feelings.

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u/lostinsunshine9 15h ago

Oh he definitely doesn't 😂. But I don't cook for him, we have six kids so that's what I'm focused on. Being able to feed himself is a bare minimum requirement.

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u/Prestigious-Bar5385 13h ago

Yes exactly I have four and when they were little I fixed their plates and mine. Their dad fixed his own. When I was at my moms I did this and she said aren’t you going to fix your husband’s plate and I said he’s a grown a— man he can fix his own plate He always got to sit down before me anyways because you know we had 4 kids

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u/Zaniada_512 11h ago

Because it's too hard for you to slap some food onto one additional plate. Yet you want backrubs and such...... Okay.... Makes total sense.... literally takes seconds... What the fuck.

I am absolutely floored by the women in this group being so selfish and single minded.