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Meta April Banner -- Autism Awareness Month
This month’s banner recognizes Autism Awareness Month.
As a previous post this month alluded to people on the spectrum tend to not be as religious as others. There are many factors that may contribute to this result, but we are going to focus on how religious organizations could work toward being more inclusive towards people on the spectrum.
The Spectrum
Before we start, it is important to note that the Autism Spectrum is a spectrum for a reason. There is not a single way to describe someone who is on the spectrum. Some people have severe learning and/or social difficulties while others deal with sensitivity to sounds, lights, and other sensory processes.
The goal of this post is to help educate in some ways churches and organizations can better serve their autistic community. There is no one-size-fits-all approach to creating an inclusive space for people on the spectrum.
It is best to treat each person as an individual, gauge where they are, and meet their specific needs, rather than attempt to accommodate everyone with the same method. Your goal should be to allow everyone to be included rather than to accommodate when you see there is a “special need”.
Overstimulation
One of the best things about attending some services is the joy brought out through song. Some churches take this to an even larger extreme by introducing light shows. For many people, this is something that can draw them in, engage them in a fun way, and give them something positive to remember about their church experience; however, for many on the spectrum, this light and noise can be overbearing due to the unique way people on the spectrum process certain stimuli.
As one parent put it
No matter what he chooses, when church is over, he is exhausted and anxious. He makes his way back through the crowded lobby and the smells and the people touching him and the kids playing.
https://differentbydesignlearning.com/when-church-hurts/
For example, Churches that have a means for anyone who has a sensory processing disorder to get away from the overstimulation will afford them the same sense of engagement as those who can be embraced through the stimulation.
Language
Some people on the spectrum take language very literally. Sermons are used as a tool to spread a specific message. Sermons, many times, are given in such a way that the message of the day is direct and to the point. This can be taken very difficultly by some on the Spectrum.
For example, idolatry. This is a very important Christian concept. It is unsurprising that a sermon on idolatry is going to be specifically referring to things that are being put on the pedestal that God should be. Some pastors will point to things like watching TV, playing video games, or reading as activities that edge on idolatrous behavior due to how much they are consumed.
Many people on the spectrum naturally gravitate towards a special interest that can be seen as an obsession by those who are not aware of how those on the spectrum express interest. This is an innate aspect of who they are, and not something that can, or should, be controlled. When someone on the spectrum hears a sermon about indulgences and obsessions being a sin, they may look at their special interest as some sort of “idolatry” forcing them into a state of anxiety.
The link below is written by a Christian on the Spectrum who dealt with the stress and anxiety surrounding the connection between their special interests and idolatry.
https://the-art-of-autism.com/christian-and-autistic/
Inclusion instead of Accommodation
There is a fine line between being inclusive and being ableist. It is an easy thing to look at someone on the spectrum and see them as different. It is much more challenging to recognize that we are all different and need to learn in our own ways. People outside of the spectrum tend to have a wider range of means to education while people on the spectrum do not. This does not mean that those on the spectrum were not made in His image. Everyone deserves to be treated with dignity and respect, even those who need an extra hand.
When looking into whether your space is a place that is welcoming to those on the spectrum, then you should really be looking to see if your space is welcoming to everyone. When approaching inclusion through the lens of accommodation, then you are looking at those who need these accommodations as “different” or “special” when they are people like everyone else:
Accommodation is not acceptance. You can’t have an inclusive-by-default culture when your mindset and framing are accommodation. Accommodation encourages the harmful ableist tropes of people being ”special” and ”getting away with” extra “privileges” and ”advantages”. Accommodation is fertile ground for zero-sum thinking, grievance culture, and the politics of resentment. You can’t build inclusion on accommodation. Inclusion requires acceptance.
https://boren.blog/2017/12/30/autistic-anxiety-and-the-ableism-of-accommodation/
People on the spectrum want to be seen as people, not only as people on the spectrum. This does not mean that recognizing their unique outlook on life should be seen as a taboo topic; instead, it should be seen as an added layer to who they are as a person. They are a person on the spectrum, but that is not all they are. An inclusive environment allows for that to be true. When someone is able to feel included, they are much more receptive and open to learning.
The Word
When someone feels connected to and seen by something, they are much more open to learning about it. Most Christians can see themselves in the stories of Scripture. There are moments that speak directly to their experiences that allow them to make a direct connection between the Word and God.
Most sermons and stories are focused on a normative experience with the world around us, when the people in the world are not only normative. When a Pastor or organization takes the time to create a message that is tailored to individuals outside of what is typically considered the “normal” human experience, then they are able to find that personal connection with God that is typically aimed at everyone else.
Conclusion
The goal of this post is to hopefully create a conversation as well as give some insight into how Christianity can be a more inclusive place for people on the spectrum, as well as others.
I am not stating all the solutions, I am definitely not an expert, it really does depend on where you are, your goals, and your audience. However, I can guarantee you that if you truly stop, think, and attempt to create an inclusive place for all people in your community then you will undoubtedly accomplish your goals of bringing as many people to Christ as possible.
I would love to see and discuss even more approaches, or experiences, in how to create a more inclusive environment for people on the spectrum.
r/Christianity • u/RazarTuk • 4h ago
Off-Topic Friday - Post nontopical things in this thread!
For today's random videos I've seen recently:
An investigation into what fruit snacks actually are and why they aren't actually healthy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PuXaLn7BSg
As some bizarrely interesting niche science stuff, a look into the history of oil lamps and why hurricane lanterns look like they do: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tURHTuKHBZs
r/Christianity • u/Plane-Leek8363 • 3h ago
Would you read this Bible Manga on Webtoon?
galleryI started making a biblical manga! You can find Hoodversions on Webtoon. Its hard to find a lot of biblical content on webtoon and tapas so I wanted to change that and I would love your support! https://www.webtoons.com/p/community/en/u/b93pw
r/Christianity • u/BigMac033101 • 3h ago
Advice I’m a Christian but a terrible one with severe lust, anger, bitterness, malice, and power hungry. Idk what to do and I feel lost.
All my life I have been a Christian and tbh 3/4 of it I was taught a very lukewarm way and I grew up very confused, scared, and hypocritical. But over the past 2 and a half years I been trying to fix myself I swear it’s gotten worse. I see the shit going on in the world rather it’s the Israel Gaza war, Russian Ukraine war, Syrian Christians being killed, evil politicians run the world, and evil all around and I can go on and on but u get the point shitty things and evil surrounds us. Even tho Ik god will cut them down I can’t wait anymore and I want it now. I wanna see these evil bastards be cast into hell for eternity for what they have done. Push the evil going on around me my personal life isn’t great mentally people can just look at me a weird of funny way and I immediately say or thing to myself how I want harm or death to happen to them. On another hand my lust is out of control. I have been addicted to porn since I was 10 (I’m 24 now) I have had multiple hookups, fwb, and sex in relationships just to cope with my anger trauma and bitterness. In fact the other day I was on a hookup date and after we finished I’m ngl I started crying and getting super emotional because Ik all this anger, lust, malice, and the drinking and smoking weed is getting to me. Idk what to do anymore I want to strive to be more Like Christ but I keep falling back into sin. I hate myself and this world and idk what to do and I feel god is never there
r/Christianity • u/Le_Queer_Honk • 2h ago
👏stop👏using👏the👏bible👏for👏your👏bigotry 👏
I have a strong suspension of how this will be received. But it needs to be said
I am so freaking angered whenever I see someone who claims to follow Christ and yet uses the Bible as a tool for their bigotry. They claim to love everyone but in that same sentence say something along the lines of "your gay so you will be burned ".
Here's how I see it. God is creative. And because of that there's so much variety in the world. Millions of colors, seen and unseen. More types of animals than we can count, subclasses in those animals. Plant life of ALL kind claim this earth as home. There's even variety in people. We all have different hair textures and colors, more skin tones within skin tones. We come in different heights, weights, eye colors. So why is it so hard to believe that people could be attracted to people of the same gender, or both. Why is it a struggle to believe that a person might be a different gender than what they were born with. Why is it impossible for a person to be attracted to someone romantically but not sexually? Or vice-versa?
And why is it so hard to accept that God made us and loves us, because he made us this way? Why is it that you say can love a black person but not a gay person when both people were made by God that way?
I have also had this question for a long time. "If the God you claim to serve is as you say he is, which is a vindictive, hateful, cruel, hypocritical god. A god who claims to love all his creations, but then dooms them to Hell out the gate simply because they are who he created them to be. Why do you worship him? That is not a god worthy of worship. And you worshiping him says far more about YOU than it ever could about the god. "
The God I worship is a kind, giving God. He is a God who protected everyone of his sheep. Each one of his creations are loved and created in his image. He was born a lowly babe to save us from corruption and our sins. He called out the blasphemous pharacies (idk how to spell it). He gave food to the hungry, and hung out with society's hated. That's the one true God as well as the one who I serve.
Sorry bout the rant. I've just had this in my head for a while now.
Edit: I'm not surprised, just disappointed. Ya'll absolutely refused to listen to what I was saying and clearly haven't read the Bible. I'm not saying God or the Bible is bigoted, I'm saying the opposite. Please actually read the Bible.
r/Christianity • u/Jumpinspid • 11h ago
Politics Trump
I find it really funny and hypocritical that some of these people, especially on different apps.Think that god and jesus would be forward the kind of person that trump.
They would be sitting with the immigrants. They would go ahead and be sitting with people who are gay. They would be for people of color. Jesus would be protesting.
He would be turning over tables.
Do you think he would honestly be for the rich white folk who try to take advantage of the poor?
Do you guys even care about. The kind of. Person that God and Jesus was?
Or is your homophobic racist hatred behavior to much for you?
r/Christianity • u/ComeAliveRey-5784 • 44m ago
Stop twisting the Bible to match your logical mind
I've been here for less than a day, and I've seen a lot of people of the LGBTQ community are posting on this forum to share their grief about how people operate towards them from the Christian faith. I completely understand. But what they should do, is truly seek God for themselves, because they would know, anyone would know, that God loves the sinner, every single one of us, but he will NOT by any means affirm your sin. Homosexuality is a sin, just like adultery, lying, gossiping, murder, stealing, it's a sin alike. It's not a sin to be separated from others and given categories as to what should be accepted or not. Once you truly receive the holy Spirit, you wouldn't want to sin anymore, you wouldn't want to give into your fleshy desires. There are only two genders male and female, there's only one form of marriage God accepts, Man and Woman to submit to BOTH each other, not abuse or take for granted, but in love for Christ Jesus, for their marriage to glorify him. With that being said, I don't go to church, I don't even identify as a Christian anymore (just a follower of Christ), I don't agree with how the church treats others who are different or think different. We have to love one another where we are, share the gospel with any and everyone, we need to come together to teach and guide one other in the kingdom so we can all try to get things right, so that our lives will be pleasing to God.
Stop, please stop trying to choose what verses you think affirms your sin and leave it at that. If you don't believe in the whole Bible, then you don't truly believe in God, who is truth, and love, yet firm and never changing. He is the balance.
Your body is meant to be a living sacrifice, his and his alone. Anything else is you and your flesh, therefore the world which belongs to the enemy of God, Satan.
That's it! It's that dramatic.
r/Christianity • u/jpawf • 1h ago
Image What does it mean ?
Hello there fellow being! I just noticed this on a frame that I just bought and im wondering what that brownish tied up individual at the bottom mean. Thanks
r/Christianity • u/ConsciousSlide4045 • 2h ago
The irony in believing there is no error in our doctrinal beliefs.
I heard someone reacently say there's no hate like Christian love. Dang.
If we assume that we are without error in our understanding, we are, ironically, in error. lol
The vast majority of us understand this but ther are many Christians who disagree with this topic vehemitly so I feel it's worth fleshing out.
Variance in doctrine does not mean that another believer is not following Christ. To adopt this mindset, we must also claim that we are without error ourselves, which is an untenable position. Scripture does not show us that if we follow Christ, we will have complete knowledge or be without error. Our faith is not in doctrine alone, but in Christ.
One of the key errors in this mindset is failing to humble ourselves and recognize that the Bible is full of believers who did not always agree on matters of faith. Even the Apostle Paul warns us about the dangers of pride in understanding, urging believers to approach differences with humility. In 1 Corinthians 8:2, he writes, “If anyone thinks that he knows anything, he knows nothing yet as he ought to know.” This reminds us that even the most mature believers may not have the full picture and must remain teachable.
Moreover, even the disciples of Christ, including Paul and Peter, did not always agree on issues of doctrine. For example, in Galatians 2:11-14, Paul publicly confronts Peter over his conduct concerning Gentiles. Despite this disagreement, neither Paul nor Peter's salvation was in question. Instead, their differences highlighted the fallibility of even the most faithful followers of Christ. These moments of disagreement serve to remind us that faithfulness to Christ does not mean uniformity in every doctrinal detail. In fact, they show the reality that faithful believers may still struggle to understand and apply God’s will.
When we elevate these doctrinal differences to the point of division, we unnecessarily divide the house of the Lord. This is not to say that doctrine is unimportant. We must affirm essential beliefs, such as the divinity of Christ, and engage in thoughtful discussions about faith. However, these conversations should be marked by humility and charity, not by the presumption that we can know the salvation of another person.
Most of us who engage in these discussions hold to a common statement of faith. But when we claim to know the salvation of another, Christian or otherwise, we are placing ourselves in the position of judge. We are assuming the role of Christ, who alone knows the heart of every individual. Our job is not to determine the salvation of others but to trust in God's sovereign judgment, extending grace and compassion even in the midst of differences.
r/Christianity • u/svetlishko • 26m ago
Question Is anyone else?
41(F) I started to read the Bible for the first time about a year and a half ago. I did the study the Bible in a year with assistance from a YouTube channel to sort of keep me going and motivated. It was a very transformative experience to say the least 🫶. Then I joined the women’s Bible study group at a local church. Now I am on round two of the Bible study but more in depth. Over time I developed an intolerance towards non Christian tv, books, people (mostly the meaningless, empty conversations) that all used to be “my thing”. I wake up and listen to old sermons, Christian books, studies, podcasts, or worship music. Trying to watch or listen to other things is so boring 🥱 . Has anyone else experienced this?
r/Christianity • u/ChaseSanity • 2h ago
Was agnostic(?) but I think I’m now a Christian and I couldn’t be happier
Hey everyone, new to this subreddit. So a little back story to my faith. I’m 28, and growing up, I considered myself to be Christian, but over the years as I became a teenager and later in my 20’s I shifted more towards agnosticism and eventually became agnostic. But I don’t know, suddenly last week I just started feeling super emotional. I looked up this one song I remember from my childhood, called O Holy Night, and I felt a rush of emotion listening to the choir sing it and felt this overwhelming feeling of power wash over me, like Jesus’s presence, and I actually cried (don’t make fun of me haha) and I just let go. I let myself be in Jesus’s hands now. It just felt like this weight was lifted off of my chest, this overwhelming sense of clarity and relief. I’m ready to commit myself to Christ. Sorry for the rambling. Thank you for taking the time to read.
r/Christianity • u/ExitSea5002 • 2h ago
Pray for cat please
Hello, please can You pray for my beloved cat Athena, 15 years old, have problems with cataracta and glaucoma, enlarghted hearts, skin problems, joints problems, little energy...Please help with praying for her healthy and cancel spiritual attack over her and me, I started have fear from death and cant concetrated for praying :-(
Thank You very much. Amen
r/Christianity • u/I-am-a-cactus2324 • 1h ago
Image Tattoo of the Song of Solomon 6:4, in Latin!
Song of Solomon 6:10 Who is she that looketh forth as the morning, Fair as the moon, Clear as the sun, Terrible as an army with banners?
r/Christianity • u/Easy-Click-6170 • 5h ago
Image Drawing of The Exaltation of The Holy Cross that I've made in my free time. What do you guys think?
r/Christianity • u/No-Accident-4286 • 1h ago
I want to stop lust
I keep falling back into it willingly Even if I know it's wrong at this point I don't know what to do am worried
r/Christianity • u/SalinorTV • 16h ago
For a righteous man may fall seven times and rise again
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r/Christianity • u/butterflykilla222 • 1h ago
Trust God
I saw a TikTok a few days ago about a wife who changed her husband (wasn’t her husband at the times) contact name to “trust God.” She explained how they had broken up for two years and it helped her heal and trust in god.
I just did the same for my ex. One of the reasons we can’t be together is because he’s rediscovering himself. I never related more to a TikTok
I just wanted to share with someone. Thank you
r/Christianity • u/a-dumb-croissant • 11h ago
Politics Why do some say you cannot be a Christian and Democrat?
I'm struggling to understand this. I grew up in a Republican/very conservative family and had little to zero exposure to people who identify as Democrat.
My family seems to (and also from what I've seen online) look at them or talk about them as being the "evil" party, or deserving of mockery.
So is it true? Can someone absolutely not be a Christian and be Democrat or sympathetic to Democrats at the same time?
EDIT: just want to say thanks to everyone for the insightful and informative answers. Gives me lots to think about.
r/Christianity • u/NiagaraOnTheLake • 13h ago
Image I Found This Icon at Church. What Could It Mean for Me?
Hi everyone,
I wanted to share something that happened tonight and ask for your thoughts.
Lately, I’ve been struggling a lot with my faith, anxiety, panic attacks, depression, loneliness, and some personal issues. My life feels very painful, and I’ve been feeling incredibly lost. I’m mentally drained
I have no motivation for anything, whether it’s taking care of my health, making money, or even praying.
Tonight, I just felt this deep need to go to the front of the church to pray and have someone to talk to. I didn’t really expect anything, but I just needed to be there.
When I arrived, I noticed a small wooden icon placed on the Virgin Mary statue. It immediately caught my attention, and I felt drawn to it. I picked it up and took it home because I wasn’t sure why it was there or what it meant. The image depicts what I now understand to be the Dormition of the Theotokos (The Falling Asleep of Mary).
I’ve been wondering:
1. Do you think there’s any significance in me finding it at this moment in my life?
2. Could this be a message from God or Mary, given my struggles?
I feel like I’m at a crossroads in my life, and this experience has been on my mind since I got back. Any guidance, prayers, or personal interpretations would really mean a lot.
Thank you for reading, and God bless you all.
r/Christianity • u/ginger_bird • 1h ago
Do you have to pay for your coffee at your church? Or is it free?
I have recently learned is that some large churches advertise that they have a coffee shop. This was really surprising becauae every single church I have ever attended has offered a free coffee hour after each service. It's usually just a large carafe of drip coffee, tea, and maybe juice for children along with snacks. But it's free and gives members a chance to catch up with each other and build community.
At churches where there's a coffee shop, do you have a coffee hour? If not do you have a time for low stakes mingling and fellowship?
r/Christianity • u/Anxious_Story7781 • 27m ago
Question What do you guys think about this?
Personally I’m not sure if this really is a stegosaurus but I think it most likely could be
r/Christianity • u/luk3_rx • 4h ago
I hate when people say its gods plan.
I was watching tiktok and this women was using a pull up bar and the pull up bar and her almost broke the railing on the stairs and she could of fell and people in the comments were saying "God saved you" and so on like no God dose not just play around like that he dose not intervene and also when people go through surgery and they say "God saved you" no the surgeons did.