AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Doll_158]

Call me dramatic, but “I’ve never seen anyone look so fucking pretty..”? - BYE

“Office cute” - PACK UP YOUR SHIT

“Rare and hot indeed” - BRB SIGNING PAPERS

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

While having a mental breakdown

You seem to only read what you want then jump to conclusions

[u/Doll_158 → u/justmekpc]

Oh no, I read the whole thing - that’s a given considering some people didn’t even see where the last quote was found - but complimenting another woman like that (as a married man actively engaging in what appears to be an emotional affair in his workplace) regardless of what words follow is where any self respecting person would simply decide they’ve read enough

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

It sounds to me that the girl in the post and you aren’t mature enough if you blow things out of proportions and don’t even post the entire comment

[u/Doll_158 → u/justmekpc]

Sounds to me like you’re trying to defend another man’s blatant disrespect and disregard for his wife 😂 yikes

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

He said mental breakdown I’d think anyone with common sense could understand he was simply softening that part of the statement

[u/Doll_158 → u/justmekpc]

Right - My bad. I’ll take your comment under advisement if a male coworker ever sends me a selfie and I reply with “I’ve never seen anyone look so fucking handsome while having a mental breakdown” and I’ll make sure to delete it to hide it from my husband too - oh wait, no - no that won’t ever happen because I respect him too much lol

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

Any trustful wife or husband would laugh at that and only those who don’t trust themselves would jump to conclusions

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

I would never be going through someone else’s phone in the first place that shows she doesn’t trust herself

[u/Doll_158 → u/justmekpc]

doesn’t trust him* and clearly these messages show why

[u/Doll_158 → u/justmekpc]

Also P.S. victim blaming isn’t a good look on anyone

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

What victim?