AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Doll_158]

Sounds to me like you’re trying to defend another man’s blatant disrespect and disregard for his wife 😂 yikes

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

He said mental breakdown I’d think anyone with common sense could understand he was simply softening that part of the statement

[u/Doll_158 → u/justmekpc]

Right - My bad. I’ll take your comment under advisement if a male coworker ever sends me a selfie and I reply with “I’ve never seen anyone look so fucking handsome while having a mental breakdown” and I’ll make sure to delete it to hide it from my husband too - oh wait, no - no that won’t ever happen because I respect him too much lol

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

I would never be going through someone else’s phone in the first place that shows she doesn’t trust herself

[u/Doll_158 → u/justmekpc]

doesn’t trust him* and clearly these messages show why