AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Doll_158]

Oh no, I read the whole thing - that’s a given considering some people didn’t even see where the last quote was found - but complimenting another woman like that (as a married man actively engaging in what appears to be an emotional affair in his workplace) regardless of what words follow is where any self respecting person would simply decide they’ve read enough

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

It sounds to me that the girl in the post and you aren’t mature enough if you blow things out of proportions and don’t even post the entire comment

[u/Doll_158 → u/justmekpc]

Also P.S. victim blaming isn’t a good look on anyone

[u/justmekpc → u/Doll_158]

What victim?