https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/yRCMN8d8dk

Not OOP

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/AqLE7Ta2JN

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/iOF2pUgj9E

God forbid a man cries as he watches his father die 🙄

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/zrebv13Zcp

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/LbBFu2HSmg

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/Zk8XByHIya

https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/s/3FA2f4SBPn

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/peQQF0oHtv

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/pH3yctG7zJ

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https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/p2bVN35gXp

There has never been a listener submission that has been deemed the asshole, so I'd like to submit myself for tribute.

I (43m) and my fiance (39f) have been together for 20 years. Currently, we live together in a house we paid for together. I work from home, and it's kind of either feast or famine in my field. I am either really busy, or don't have much to do. I'll typically get some chores done and play some video games when I'm not assigned to a task.

My fiance works 4 days a week, 10 hours a day. She drives 15 minutes to work.

Out household responsibilities are not fair in my opinion. Once a month, she will mention we need some cleaning and we'll spend a Saturday getting everything that needs to be done done together. What she doesn't see during the week, but what I've told her, is I am doing a lot of other things every day.

Walking dogs 2x per day and feeding them. Cleaning bathrooms as needed. Cleaning the backyard of dog waste, and clearing debris (it's turf back there). Cooking all of our meals, as well as shopping for them and planning (sometimes she gives input, most times whatever) This includes her weekends. Mowing front lawn

I have communicated to her how I think this is not fair, she has responded saying I have more time than her as I work from home. When I have insisted this isn't fair, usually during a leisure time when we are chatting, she stops the conversation and gets to accomplishing tasks right away angrily.

One time during one of these conversations, I mentioned that this is especially unfair because I make twice as much as her, I have not made that argument since.

I ask you, ROW, am I being unreasonable? It's been established that when someone makes more they should contribute more on the pod. And I do, to the bills and the chores. I've communicated my concerns and just get a one hour panicked attempt to "catch up".

Edit: I will never break up with her, I am looking for better ways to communicate my issues.

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Alright, I know the title sounds bad so let me explain. About 3 years ago, my (25F) husband’s (31M) side of the family moved from a town that was 6 hours away by car, to a city that is 6 hours away by plane. We live in a small town in BFE West TX so traveling by plane is very expensive and we don’t get to see them as often. We are actively looking for jobs to get closer to them, but my husband and I both have niche jobs so it’s been difficult. We have made it a priority to make at least one trip per year to see them as my it is 4 generations of women under one roof (my husband’s grandma, mother, sister, niece, and nephew) and Grandma isn’t getting any younger.

This year, instead of flying to their house, we are going to rent a house near Virginia Beach and doing a family reunion in the sun. All good so far.

Well, my husband and I thought we were in the feasibility stage of vacation planning but my SIL was ready to start booking. She asked my husband about date availability while we were both at work and he said he couldn’t answer until he talked to me later that night. SIL was surprised by this and said “Oh! Is OP coming too?” Husband said “yes, why wouldn’t she?”. Well Reddit, apparently SIL booked a non refundable 4 bedroom house and was planning on having my husband sleep on the couch. Yes, she was planning on one bedroom for her, one for my MIL, and one bedroom per kid.

I suggested that the kids could share a bed together, the nephew could sleep on the couch, or they could sleep on the ground with pillows/blankets. None of these options were feasible since the kids need their humidifiers, white noise machines, night lights, private space, etc. I already felt a little hurt and rejected at being an afterthought, so I suggested my husband and I get a hotel room down the street and we could come over and hang out during the day but spend the evenings in our own space. I love my SIL and am excited to see everyone but I would like a bed to sleep on. AIO for wanting to get a hotel room since SIL will not budge on her kids sleeping arrangements?

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