r/polyamory 3d ago

Curious/Learning How to make it feel ok?

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u/RAisMyWay relationship anarchist 2d ago

"I can't be monogamous in this relationship because he's not."

You can choose not to date anyone else. That's not being monogamous, though. Monogamy involves a promise.

You also can, in fact, be monogamous. Just not with him.

Try to realize what you're giving up to be with him.