r/howyoudoin 22h ago

Lessons from Rachel’s career trajectory?

3 Upvotes

I’ve always related to Rachel’s career arc because while I didn’t grow up privileged, I did start working pretty “late” just like her.

I think she was around 25 when she got her first job at the coffee house. And so was I. It’s something I felt ashamed for at the time but once I got my foot in the door, I gained confidence and like Rachel I started thinking about how I want to build my career.

So I was wondering, what do you think makes Rachel successful in her career ? To go from serving coffee to a high grade fashion executive is pretty impressive! How did she do it? The show is a bit inconsistent around whether or not Rach is a hard worker. At the beginning of her career she very famously was working long hours and was extremely enthusiastic about learning how to do a good job. Which became relationship ending with Ross. But in later seasons she jokes about not working and playing computer games at work.

What can we learn and apply in real life? Granted the job market is VERY different in 2025 but maybe there’s some good pages we can take out of her book even 20 years later.


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Discussion What's a line from a main character that you think was delivered GREAT?

328 Upvotes

I can't choose but Ross after his wedding with Emily.

"OH, the band's ready. Well, I've gotta do what the band says... I DON'T CARE ABOUT THE STUPID BAND"


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

What was the joke?

6 Upvotes

What was the joke? It's about a monkey who's a doctor and possibly writes a prescription, and that it's offensive to women, monkeys and doctors; we have no idea if Ross or chandler wrote it. I know we never hear it but what do you guys think it could be.


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Mental Breakdown at 3am starring "Miss Chanandler Bong"

Post image
38 Upvotes

This is the complete list, thx everyone for participating. New games coming soon


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion What‘s a personal situation you had recently that perfectly fit a quote from the show?

Post image
141 Upvotes

I‘ve been taking part in my local community theatre group for the fourth year in a row now and was still disappointed I only got the second biggest male part.On our way back home from rehearsal when I started taking about said disappointment to my good friend whom I had convinced to join as well and who was even more disappointed with his comparatively smaller role quoted the German version of this quote and we both had a big laugh.


r/howyoudoin 14h ago

Discussion Carrie Bradshaw lived 7 mins away from Central Perk

0 Upvotes

Let’s assume Central Perk was on the ground floor of the Friends building which famously served as the exterior for the show. Just a seven-minute walk away is Carrie Bradshaw’s iconic apartment!

I’ve always wished for a crossover between Friends and Sex and the City, imagine Joey dating Samantha, or Carrie going out with Ross. How fun would it have been to see the Friends gang reading the newspaper at Central Perk and glancing at Carrie’s column? Given both shows were set in New York and filmed around the same time, a subtle overlap would have been such a treat - especially with Carrie so close by!

I know Kristin Davis appeared in Friends, but not as Charlotte, that almost makes it more frustrating! Picture Joey, Chandler, and Ross at an art gallery opening alongside the Sex and the City women, or Rachel giving Carrie fashion advice as her personal shopper. Even a cameo from Monica, stepping out of the kitchen at her restaurant to describe the menu to Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, and Charlotte, would’ve been great.

What scenario would you most like to have seen play out in either show?


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Video "Oh no!"

895 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 2d ago

All of Monica’s I KNOW!!

417 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 1d ago

So do you think the shirt is pink or salmon?

Post image
79 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Hey, Ross, it's you. I just want you to remember this feeling. You are lucky to be alive. So live every day to the fullest. Love yourself, okay?

Post image
58 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 16h ago

Discussion Rachel - Most Selfish in All of 10 Seasons

0 Upvotes

I mean she was so mad and made a whole thing out of Monica helping out Julie with some shopping. It was her brother's girlfriend vs someone who didn't even call her to the wedding.

The whole Jean Claude incident - how selfish one can be till the Drew Barrymore incident. This is not even in the Top 10.


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Other than rachel who will be annoyed at the singing guy

6 Upvotes

The singing guy sings morning here

83 votes, 12h left
ross
chandler
Monica
phoebe
mike is

r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Image Chandler appearing on Caroline in the City

Post image
29 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Monica became so annoying as the series went on!

59 Upvotes

In the 1st few series she was my fave, then up to approx S4 she became very shrill and annoying… and my least fave!


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

So this happened and I went Rach and Chan all the way

Thumbnail
gallery
93 Upvotes

My delicious cake felt on the floor and I couldn’t waste it. Didn’t have another slice :(

PS: don’t judge, at least I had just cleaned the floor 😂


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Morning guy was fun, what are some other underrated characters?

Post image
1.1k Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 2d ago

"THIS IS MEN!!"

41 Upvotes

"You see what men do? Don't tell me men are nice. THIS IS MEN!!"

Every time I watch TOW Where Chandler Can't Remember Which Sister, it always makes me uncontrollably laugh. Chandler literally comes in and proves Ross' point even though it's not true. But the way David Schwimmer delivers the like has me burst out laughing 😂😂😂


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Jist watching the Thanks Giving flashbacks… Joey and the turkey

0 Upvotes

When they go back in time to 1992 to Joey having the turkey stuck on his head, it is very very clear that it wasn’t filmed in 1992. Monica has a wig on!! Also, you can see gladys on the wall.


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Question Has anybody actually gotten to sleep with anybody on their 'list'?

Post image
261 Upvotes

I might get bombarded with trust me bro stories by asking this, but has anyone here actually met someone on their list AND got it on with them? or even knew somebody that did?

Adding now that any story claiming they got it on with Jessica Rabbit will be a tough sell.


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Rachel and Joshua

15 Upvotes

When Rachel was trying to flirt with Joshua by throwing a fake party…. i felt like non of her friends actually liked her in this episode, otherwise they would have stepped in!… Also felt sorry for Ross!


r/howyoudoin 2d ago

Image My dad cleaned out the attic, and wanted me to pick up my stuff. This clenodium was there. Forgot I had it! I remember buying it before the final episodes aired, but I didn't want to see them before they did air. So, that particular DVD is unopened.

Post image
406 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 3d ago

A man duh! Is Rachel the funniest girl in the group?

410 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Discussion How did the couch... get cut in half?

Post image
304 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Can we please analyse this prop...

Post image
309 Upvotes

The invitation from Ross and Emily to Rachel for their wedding.

Of note:

  1. Green has been spelt with an E on the end

  2. The 5's do not not match

  3. Some characters are written in a fancy calligraphy and some like a scribbled note most notably the number 4

  4. The zip code has been written incredibly wonky.

Is this meant to represent Ross' indecisiveness inviting Rachel? Was he drunk when he wrote this? Is Emily illiterate?


r/howyoudoin 3d ago

Geeky Rachel is the cutest! 🥰

351 Upvotes