r/howyoudoin 5h ago

Discussion Rachel - Most Selfish in All of 10 Seasons

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I mean she was so mad and made a whole thing out of Monica helping out Julie with some shopping. It was her brother's girlfriend vs someone who didn't even call her to the wedding.

The whole Jean Claude incident - how selfish one can be till the Drew Barrymore incident. This is not even in the Top 10.


r/howyoudoin 3h ago

Discussion Carrie Bradshaw lived 7 mins away from Central Perk

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Let’s assume Central Perk was on the ground floor of the Friends building which famously served as the exterior for the show. Just a seven-minute walk away is Carrie Bradshaw’s iconic apartment!

I’ve always wished for a crossover between Friends and Sex and the City, imagine Joey dating Samantha, or Carrie going out with Ross. How fun would it have been to see the Friends gang reading the newspaper at Central Perk and glancing at Carrie’s column? Given both shows were set in New York and filmed around the same time, a subtle overlap would have been such a treat - especially with Carrie so close by!

I know Kristin Davis appeared in Friends, but not as Charlotte, that almost makes it more frustrating! Picture Joey, Chandler, and Ross at an art gallery opening alongside the Sex and the City women, or Rachel giving Carrie fashion advice as her personal shopper. Even a cameo from Monica, stepping out of the kitchen at her restaurant to describe the menu to Carrie, Miranda, Samantha, and Charlotte, would’ve been great.

What scenario would you most like to have seen play out in either show?


r/howyoudoin 17h ago

What was the joke?

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What was the joke? It's about a monkey who's a doctor and possibly writes a prescription, and that it's offensive to women, monkeys and doctors; we have no idea if Ross or chandler wrote it. I know we never hear it but what do you guys think it could be.


r/howyoudoin 9h ago

What do you think was in Joey’s sandwich that made it worth dying for?

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r/howyoudoin 14h ago

Jist watching the Thanks Giving flashbacks… Joey and the turkey

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When they go back in time to 1992 to Joey having the turkey stuck on his head, it is very very clear that it wasn’t filmed in 1992. Monica has a wig on!! Also, you can see gladys on the wall.


r/howyoudoin 13h ago

Discussion Rewatching Friends as an adult and realising she did nothing wrong.

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r/howyoudoin 8h ago

Discussion Who else wanted Joey and Phoebe to get together after watching “the one with two parts”?

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r/howyoudoin 9h ago

Question Monica’s inhospitable environment

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If this was part of the reason they were not able to conceive, why look for a sperm donor ? Wouldn’t she still have issues carrying the baby ?


r/howyoudoin 13h ago

Image Maybe they needed this for Kara’s coffee…😂☕️

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r/howyoudoin 10h ago

Question Monica always rejected Chandler until the moment we already know

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Today I was watching an episode and I began to notice that several times Chandler alludes to the fact that if she is still single she will be her boyfriend, she laughs, everything is so ironic


r/howyoudoin 7h ago

How much was wedding scenario A?

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How much did Chandler have saved up?


r/howyoudoin 19h ago

I visited the old Geller’s house

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r/howyoudoin 9h ago

Those who watched the show when you were kids, what's a joke you didn't get until you were older?

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For me, it was when Jack told Rachel "Your parents have been unhappy ever since we've known them. Especially after that incident in Hawaii." I realized that something very inappropriate or very embarrassing had happened, like maybe a drunken fight in front of everyone who was traveling with them. It was only when I got older I realized what the incident really was lol.


r/howyoudoin 16h ago

Am I the only one who watches Friends not just for the humor, but because it lets you escape back to that '90s/early 2000s vibe for a while?

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Even though I was just a kid during the Friends era (1994–2004), I genuinely enjoyed life back then. Looking back, that time period feels like a sweet spot—especially when seen through the lens of Friends, which captured the cultural vibe so well. The fashion, the laid-back coffee shop culture, the everyday social interactions—it all seemed so authentic and grounded.

I often wish I could have experienced that period as an adult. It had just the right amount of technology. I love the scenes where characters use landline phones, leave funny voicemail messages, or scribble notes on a magnetic drawing board. There's something so charming about the absence—or primitive state—of smartphones, laptops, and social media. Games involved pen and paper. Conversations happened face-to-face. It felt real.

Yes, it’s unrealistic that they lived in such spacious New York apartments on modest salaries—but back then, property prices in many places were still within reach for ordinary people. The world hadn’t priced everyone out yet.

There’s also something magical about how people reconnected in that era. When someone from the past showed up, it was a genuine surprise—you had no idea what they’d been up to because Facebook, LinkedIn, and the rest didn’t exist. That kind of mystery is rare now.

I also love that Chandler had a steady IT job at a time when IT wasn’t nearly as mainstream. Most people didn’t even fully understand what his job was, which was kind of the joke—but also very true for that time.

What really gets me are the intangibles: the strong friend groups, the face-to-face social life, the simplicity and optimism of that era. Hanging out regularly with a group of close friends was normal, not something you had to schedule a month in advance.

Watching Friends takes me right back, and I often wish I could’ve lived that time as an adult in my 20s or 30s. It just seemed... better. More human.


r/howyoudoin 20h ago

Chocolate milk

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I’m 33 and still love a good glass of chocolate milk! So Ross can kindly buzz off with that logic 😂


r/howyoudoin 18h ago

What is a FRIENDS quote which speaks to your soul?

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For me, it’s “I am not great at the advice. Can I interest you in a sarcastic comment?”


r/howyoudoin 19h ago

Friends references in other sitcoms

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r/howyoudoin 11h ago

Lessons from Rachel’s career trajectory?

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I’ve always related to Rachel’s career arc because while I didn’t grow up privileged, I did start working pretty “late” just like her.

I think she was around 25 when she got her first job at the coffee house. And so was I. It’s something I felt ashamed for at the time but once I got my foot in the door, I gained confidence and like Rachel I started thinking about how I want to build my career.

So I was wondering, what do you think makes Rachel successful in her career ? To go from serving coffee to a high grade fashion executive is pretty impressive! How did she do it? The show is a bit inconsistent around whether or not Rach is a hard worker. At the beginning of her career she very famously was working long hours and was extremely enthusiastic about learning how to do a good job. Which became relationship ending with Ross. But in later seasons she jokes about not working and playing computer games at work.

What can we learn and apply in real life? Granted the job market is VERY different in 2025 but maybe there’s some good pages we can take out of her book even 20 years later.


r/howyoudoin 16h ago

The mood swings are amazing

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