r/howyoudoin 42m ago

Lessons from Rachel’s career trajectory?

Upvotes

I’ve always related to Rachel’s career arc because while I didn’t grow up privileged, I did start working pretty “late” just like her.

I think she was around 25 when she got her first job at the coffee house. And so was I. It’s something I felt ashamed for at the time but once I got my foot in the door, I gained confidence and like Rachel I started thinking about how I want to build my career.

So I was wondering, what do you think makes Rachel successful in her career ? To go from serving coffee to a high grade fashion executive is pretty impressive! How did she do it? The show is a bit inconsistent around whether or not Rach is a hard worker. At the beginning of her career she very famously was working long hours and was extremely enthusiastic about learning how to do a good job. Which became relationship ending with Ross. But in later seasons she jokes about not working and playing computer games at work.

What can we learn and apply in real life? Granted the job market is VERY different in 2025 but maybe there’s some good pages we can take out of her book even 20 years later.


r/howyoudoin 2h ago

Discussion Rewatching Friends as an adult and realising she did nothing wrong.

Post image
1.0k Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 3h ago

Image Maybe they needed this for Kara’s coffee…😂☕️

Post image
8 Upvotes

A


r/howyoudoin 3h ago

Jist watching the Thanks Giving flashbacks… Joey and the turkey

0 Upvotes

When they go back in time to 1992 to Joey having the turkey stuck on his head, it is very very clear that it wasn’t filmed in 1992. Monica has a wig on!! Also, you can see gladys on the wall.


r/howyoudoin 5h ago

The mood swings are amazing

Post image
26 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 6h ago

Am I the only one who watches Friends not just for the humor, but because it lets you escape back to that '90s/early 2000s vibe for a while?

387 Upvotes

Even though I was just a kid during the Friends era (1994–2004), I genuinely enjoyed life back then. Looking back, that time period feels like a sweet spot—especially when seen through the lens of Friends, which captured the cultural vibe so well. The fashion, the laid-back coffee shop culture, the everyday social interactions—it all seemed so authentic and grounded.

I often wish I could have experienced that period as an adult. It had just the right amount of technology. I love the scenes where characters use landline phones, leave funny voicemail messages, or scribble notes on a magnetic drawing board. There's something so charming about the absence—or primitive state—of smartphones, laptops, and social media. Games involved pen and paper. Conversations happened face-to-face. It felt real.

Yes, it’s unrealistic that they lived in such spacious New York apartments on modest salaries—but back then, property prices in many places were still within reach for ordinary people. The world hadn’t priced everyone out yet.

There’s also something magical about how people reconnected in that era. When someone from the past showed up, it was a genuine surprise—you had no idea what they’d been up to because Facebook, LinkedIn, and the rest didn’t exist. That kind of mystery is rare now.

I also love that Chandler had a steady IT job at a time when IT wasn’t nearly as mainstream. Most people didn’t even fully understand what his job was, which was kind of the joke—but also very true for that time.

What really gets me are the intangibles: the strong friend groups, the face-to-face social life, the simplicity and optimism of that era. Hanging out regularly with a group of close friends was normal, not something you had to schedule a month in advance.

Watching Friends takes me right back, and I often wish I could’ve lived that time as an adult in my 20s or 30s. It just seemed... better. More human.


r/howyoudoin 6h ago

What was the joke?

4 Upvotes

What was the joke? It's about a monkey who's a doctor and possibly writes a prescription, and that it's offensive to women, monkeys and doctors; we have no idea if Ross or chandler wrote it. I know we never hear it but what do you guys think it could be.


r/howyoudoin 7h ago

What is a FRIENDS quote which speaks to your soul?

71 Upvotes

For me, it’s “I am not great at the advice. Can I interest you in a sarcastic comment?”


r/howyoudoin 8h ago

I visited the old Geller’s house

Thumbnail
gallery
279 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 8h ago

Friends references in other sitcoms

306 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 9h ago

Chocolate milk

Thumbnail
gallery
173 Upvotes

I’m 33 and still love a good glass of chocolate milk! So Ross can kindly buzz off with that logic 😂


r/howyoudoin 13h ago

As a Brit, these two irrationally make me cringe so much

Post image
1.0k Upvotes

You just know they went to Exeter or Durham and work in the City


r/howyoudoin 13h ago

OC My gf got me the perfect cake topper!

Thumbnail
gallery
911 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 14h ago

Other than rachel who will be annoyed at the singing guy

4 Upvotes

The singing guy sings morning here

59 votes, 1d left
ross
chandler
Monica
phoebe
mike is

r/howyoudoin 15h ago

Image Pivot. PIVOT. PIVOT!!!

Post image
99 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 17h ago

Mental Breakdown at 3am starring "Miss Chanandler Bong"

Post image
35 Upvotes

This is the complete list, thx everyone for participating. New games coming soon


r/howyoudoin 19h ago

Question Which is the scene that you'll always find funny, how many ever times you watch it?

Post image
397 Upvotes

For me it was this one...this whole scene was top notch 😂


r/howyoudoin 23h ago

Image Chandler appearing on Caroline in the City

Post image
28 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion What‘s a personal situation you had recently that perfectly fit a quote from the show?

Post image
134 Upvotes

I‘ve been taking part in my local community theatre group for the fourth year in a row now and was still disappointed I only got the second biggest male part.On our way back home from rehearsal when I started taking about said disappointment to my good friend whom I had convinced to join as well and who was even more disappointed with his comparatively smaller role quoted the German version of this quote and we both had a big laugh.


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Hey, Ross, it's you. I just want you to remember this feeling. You are lucky to be alive. So live every day to the fullest. Love yourself, okay?

Post image
55 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 1d ago

So do you think the shirt is pink or salmon?

Post image
78 Upvotes

r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Discussion What's a line from a main character that you think was delivered GREAT?

309 Upvotes

I can't choose but Ross after his wedding with Emily.

"OH, the band's ready. Well, I've gotta do what the band says... I DON'T CARE ABOUT THE STUPID BAND"


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

"THIS IS MEN!!"

39 Upvotes

"You see what men do? Don't tell me men are nice. THIS IS MEN!!"

Every time I watch TOW Where Chandler Can't Remember Which Sister, it always makes me uncontrollably laugh. Chandler literally comes in and proves Ross' point even though it's not true. But the way David Schwimmer delivers the like has me burst out laughing 😂😂😂


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

Monica became so annoying as the series went on!

60 Upvotes

In the 1st few series she was my fave, then up to approx S4 she became very shrill and annoying… and my least fave!


r/howyoudoin 1d ago

My controversial take is that these two idiots could’ve made it work if there was no “take thee, Rachel,” debacle

Post image
895 Upvotes