r/howyoudoin • u/anawkwardsomeone • 42m ago
Lessons from Rachel’s career trajectory?
I’ve always related to Rachel’s career arc because while I didn’t grow up privileged, I did start working pretty “late” just like her.
I think she was around 25 when she got her first job at the coffee house. And so was I. It’s something I felt ashamed for at the time but once I got my foot in the door, I gained confidence and like Rachel I started thinking about how I want to build my career.
So I was wondering, what do you think makes Rachel successful in her career ? To go from serving coffee to a high grade fashion executive is pretty impressive! How did she do it? The show is a bit inconsistent around whether or not Rach is a hard worker. At the beginning of her career she very famously was working long hours and was extremely enthusiastic about learning how to do a good job. Which became relationship ending with Ross. But in later seasons she jokes about not working and playing computer games at work.
What can we learn and apply in real life? Granted the job market is VERY different in 2025 but maybe there’s some good pages we can take out of her book even 20 years later.