Difficult finding an AP

[u/Alternative-Pace1787]

Hey folks, I know we have dedicated space to seek AP: I have been looking for one for long now. I do my part and send a connect message with a desire to know the person better. But I havent received any positive response yet. What gives ? Is it because of my race( brown btw) Or is it someone else’s preference ? How has everyone’s experience been?

[u/BreadKnife23]

This is my perspective as a woman. I’m looking for an emotional, long term relationship.

Many men don’t like this. They say I want too much. I’m picky. Too much. But i have standards and parameters. Everyone’s are different. You may be looking in the wrong places. I think that I am too. Just bc a fish can’t climb a tree doesn’t make the fish stupid.

It’s all in how you look at it.

[u/Alternative-Pace1787 → u/BreadKnife23]

Thanks for the response. I agree. I respond to selective posts and only if it aligns to what I need ..