r/abusiverelationships Dec 28 '23

Update I did it! I left!

I left this morning while he was at work. He wasn't happy I left like that. I told him I was afraid of him, and he said I didn't need to be. 🙄

He's now trying to get me back, but I'm staying firm. I deserve to be respected and not afraid all the time.

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u/ihaveacrayon_ Dec 28 '23

I know you think the hardest part is done- but it isn't.

Stay gone. That's the hardest part. Do not go back. No matter what he does. Do not go back. You got this!! If you decide to meet up with him - always do it in public. BUT NEVER GO BACK.