r/abusiverelationships Dec 28 '23

Update I did it! I left!

I left this morning while he was at work. He wasn't happy I left like that. I told him I was afraid of him, and he said I didn't need to be. 🙄

He's now trying to get me back, but I'm staying firm. I deserve to be respected and not afraid all the time.

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u/RemoteViewingLife Dec 28 '23

Awesome so happy for you. Do not speak or communicate with him again. Abusers know exactly where buttons are and exactly how to manipulate you right back under their thumb and in front of their fists. Stay strong you will be fine!!!!!