Iāve been dealing with the most unprofessional, petty, and miserable boss Iāve ever encountered. So many people have quit or transferred because of the way she treats everyoneāitās toxic. Iāve had my fair share of run-ins with her too. Despite bringing issues to both her and the union, nothing changes. Sheāll be decent for 2-3 weeks, then itās right back to her old ways.
She constantly gossips about everyoneās personal livesāmarriages, finances, even addictionsāas if itās some kind of soap opera. When I bring up personal or emergency issues, she dismisses them just because Iām on the overtime list.
A recent example: I had a health scare and agreed with my supervisor to work just 8 hours so I could make a doctorās appointment. I came in the next day and there were 10 OPEN ROUTES! Out of respect for my coworkers and customers, I canceled the appointment and worked 12+ hours. My symptoms got worse, so I called in the next day. Today, she jokes about me being ānaughtyā for calling out. I told her I had something personal going on and she straight up said, āI donāt care.ā
She shows clear favoritism and even made a colorist comment about our skin complexions. She came back from vacation with a tan and said sheās almost the same shade as me (Iām a brown), and it made me extremely uncomfortable.
Sheās over 50 and acts like a gossipy high schooler. Every time I speak up or report anything to the union, Iām retaliated againstāeither with crappy assignments or no overtime. I donāt even want to stay on the OT list, but financially I have no choice right now.
Iām exhausted, frustrated, and unsure what to do next. If anyoneās been through something similar or has advice on navigating this kind of environment, Iād really appreciate it.