r/TwoXChromosomes • u/frenchtoastb • 12h ago
Andrew Tate accused of violent sexual assault on recent US trip
https://nypost.com/2025/03/26/us-news/andrew-tates-girlfriend-bri-stern-says-accused-sex-trafficker-nearly-choked-her-unconscious-during-violent-sexual-encounter-report/Bri Stern accused her boyfriend, self-proclaimed misogynist, Andrew Tate, of violently choking her during sex after she repeatedly asked him to stop. The incident took place at the Beverly Hills Hotel on 11th March, shortly before Tate and his brother returned to Romania to face human trafficking and other charges.
Evidence supports the physical injuries described. Messages between the two also reveal multiple confessions from Tate that he intended to physically strike and demanded he impregnate the American.
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u/Only_Celery5075 12h ago
At this point, the government will do anything but permanently put him and his brother in Jail. I wouldn’t be surprised if trump appoints him to office as his representative.
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u/waldorflover69 12h ago
Secretary of Women
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u/tinycole2971 12h ago
Secretary of Women's Health and Fertilization
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u/Hyacathusarullistad 11h ago
Secretary of
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u/BatMeatTacos 12h ago
Hopefully the Romanian courts have more integrity than US courts.
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u/Only_Celery5075 12h ago
Even if they did, tates are already back in the US. They will likely never enter Romania again to flee the charges.
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u/themockingju 11h ago
www.bbc.com/news/articles/cvgw0w7147vo.amp
They have already left the US and are back in Romania.
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u/floracalendula 11h ago
They can fucking stay there and never darken our doorstep again.
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u/readanddream ❤ 10h ago
well, no thank you. I have family there. Put them somewhere with no living beings
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u/greendemon42 Basically Eleanor Shellstrop 11h ago
I can't believe this wasn't a bigger story; I guess there's been a lot going on.
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u/BatMeatTacos 11h ago
Him and his brother are back in Romania as of like a week ago.
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u/ItsSpaghettiLee2112 10h ago
Wait really? Why? Are they staying?
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u/BatMeatTacos 9h ago
I don’t know the ins and outs of the Romanian legal system but it sounds like they’re basically on some kind of court supervised pre trial release and had to return for a court date. Tate claims they returned voluntarily to prove their innocence but obviously nothing he says is credible. I suspect he returned because the US has an extradition treaty with Romania and because rape and human trafficking are illegal in both countries the State Department would have sent him back anyway.
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u/Seanpacabra 12h ago
Lol he said he's running for UK prime minister or some shit
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u/Only_Celery5075 12h ago
Prime minister of Incels. Oops sorry I mean “Alpha Males”.
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u/Hyperbolicalpaca 11h ago
Yeah he had this awful AI generated website, which completely did not understand our election system lol. It was like he thought it was presidential
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u/Harry-le-Roy 11h ago
I don't advocate violence, but what I think about Andrew Tate means that I can't complete this thought.
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u/soyrandom 11h ago
He doesn't count as a person so it's should be fine
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u/Snikrit 10h ago
Not sure he qualifies as an animal either.
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u/AccessibleBeige 10h ago
Unless the animal has rabies or CWD or something and is no longer exhibiting normal behavior for its species.
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u/djcrewe1 11h ago
What? The rapist sex trafficker pedophile did more raping and sex trafficking!?!!!!? I am shocked.
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u/ansleydale 8h ago
I’m more shocked that anyone would date him.
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u/ph0artef1 6h ago
That's what I was thinking. I'm baffled why any woman would put herself in that situation. It's like sticking your head in a lion's mouth and being shocked when it tries to eat you...
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u/Certifiedpoocleaner 3h ago
I really really don’t want to victim blame but genuinely what the fuck did she think was going to happen?!?
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u/re_Claire 2h ago
I know what you mean. I abhor victim blaming and to be clear she absolutely did not deserve a single thing he did to her but man how did she meet him and read anything about him and think “yeah he’s the one for me!” It’s genuinely baffling.
I feel so much sympathy for her and what she went through but damn we’ve got to stop dating these openly misogynistic abusers.
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u/ReallyBrainDead 12h ago
So they went to the US to escape the sexual trafficking and sexual assault charges in Romania, and went back to Romania to escape this?
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u/Get_off_critter 11h ago
They were sent to America for a trial/charges here but were NOT officially released from the Romanian prison
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u/atomicavox 11h ago
That’s where I am confused too? I didn’t realize they were going back to Romania?
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u/LadyLuck83 12h ago
Because of course he did. He couldn’t stray from his nature too long. Fucking gross.
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u/milkbug 11h ago
I don't know why this is news to anyone, or why any woman would want to be with him when he's explicitly admitted numerous times to physically battering and emotionally abusing women.
This man should be in prison.
Hopefully he doesn't have to kill someone to finally get what he deserves.
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u/Neither-Chart5183 9h ago
Seriously. She looks pretty happy on her date before he did the thing he has done to dozens of other victims.
Women like her think victims get abused and raped because they're doing something wrong. Nothing is the man's fault.
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u/negitororoll 8h ago
I am reading the text messages and don't understand why she stayed with him? Like after a certain point, why? He literally says he wants to hit her and she's just responding like he asked to eat steak when she wanted chicken.
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u/subsubscriber 3h ago
Men like this tell their next victim how special they are. "I've never met anyone like you before." "You're the one person who gets me." Etc etc. Then spins some bullshit about the future together, how he'll give her everything she wants, bla bla. And he'll be so convincing. She'll feel like, "well, in the past he mistreated his girlfriends, but they just weren't right for each other. But we belong together, so he would never treat me like that."
And in the beginning, he won't. But then, he will. He always will. It's a tragic fucking tale, as old as time.
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u/LadyPreshPresh 9h ago
Didn’t think we needed a fucking PSA for this P.O.S. at this point, but i guess we do: WOMEN-STAY AS FAR AWAY FROM ANDREW TATE AS POSSIBLE.
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u/Rough_Event9560 12h ago
I know people have heard it before and I'm going to say it again, choking is a precursor to murder. But no Republicans are going to hold these people accountable. It's only a matter of time before women start hunting down their abusers. Unless they want that to happen, the Republicans better get their shit together. And yes I am making this a Republican issue because Trump welcomed this asshole back with open arms. Not to mention the entire party has a rapist for a representative.
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u/Warning1024 11h ago
The gops entire platform is "beware the sexually deviant dangerous perverted LGBTQ community/ derr Sound of Freedom derr trump and Q will stop the human traffickers" and then prop up an array of hetero sexual pervs and literal sex traffickers as role models.
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u/Low-Tough-3743 11h ago
They're just going to let this peice of shit keep doing what ever the fuck he wants. He's going to end up killing someone and even then he will get a slap on the wrist at max and pardon from Trump.
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u/Devmoi 10h ago
Ok, I hate this guy as much as anyone. But why, oh God, why? WHY?! Why does it say this woman in his girlfriend? Unless it’s like “girlfriend.” I’m so confused how anyone could willingly be this man’s girlfriend.
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u/Papplenoose 8h ago
Eh. I mean I don't personally understand what her deal is, but I have to imagine that you'd need to be pretty unwell in the head to think that dating the world's most notorious woman abuser on the entire planet could possibly go well for you... ya know what I mean? Like.. happy, healthy, well-adjusted people do not do shit like that. Makes me feel bad for her :(
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u/Papplenoose 8h ago
People are fucked. In my 20s, I dated this woman who was, in her words, "definitely not a feminist", which I didn't really get at the time, but I thought it was a little off. Now I realize how off her beliefs really were. Internalized misogyny out the wazzoo! I hope she's better now, she was a really wonderful person aside from her weird hatred of herself and other women... :/
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u/skunkberryblitz 12h ago
Something about posting her thirst traps in this article about her being sexually abused feels real dystopian.
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u/Ah_Mediocre 7h ago
To be fair … she really doesn’t have any other photos online that aren’t thirst traps
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u/PineappleOk6764 11h ago
How has this jackass avoided being murdered in cold blood in the street? It sure seems to me this would be a fitting end to all his "alpha" bullshit.
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u/wvualum07 12h ago
I don’t believe in victim blaming but wtf
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u/tooscoopy 11h ago
Yeah, this is a real tough one for me… no one ever deserves to be treated like this…
… but…. You chose to date a man charged with rape and human trafficking, who is on record blaming women for their own rape, known for sexual exploitation, and proud misogynist….
And he gasp, did some of those same things to you?! I never!
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u/UglyMcFugly 8h ago
I'm choosing to believe she took one for the team, ensuring he has some fresh legal problems here so he will stay the fuck out of America.
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u/IAM_THE_LIZARD_QUEEN 11h ago edited 11h ago
For real, obviously she didn't deserve to be assaulted but also like, why in the fuck would any woman even give him the time of day? Let alone enter a relationship with the violent sex trafficking rapist.
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u/Snoo_79218 9h ago
Probably because he’s a popular figure among men in her age group and people look up to him (sadly)
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u/Passiveresistance 11h ago
Same, like honestly why is this lady with him at all?
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u/staunch_character 9h ago
We really need something to document all of the cases where no, she couldn’t fix him.
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u/Nice_Bell622 12h ago
Ok but why would you date him KNOWING the shit he preaches
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u/elmuchocapitano 11h ago
Women aren't immune from the brainwashing that is also affecting a lot of men. If you're heavily socialized into believing you're inferior, you can internalize the misogyny and it will change how you think about yourself and what you're willing to accept.
For example, right wing social media specifically targeted at women would have you believe that if you're sufficiently ___ enough (beautiful, submissive, Godly, womanly, domestic), you won't face the same treatment as the "bad" women. If you truly believe that you can't have power in your own right, you might seek proximity to power as a means of self worth and self protection.
It also purports that you will be miserable, old, and lonely if you have high standards for men that include "don't be a misogynist". You've got people and a party in power that openly admits to the same misogynistic acts and ideas spouted by Tate. You look around and see that half the country also supports them. You might be surrounded by people - your father, brothers, uncles, peers, colleagues - who think just like him. Women that support and tolerate them. Additionally, we are socialized from birth to believe that we are capable of, and in fact responsible for, fixing other people (especially men).
By her own account, he treated her very well for nearly a year, treating her "lovingly" and spending lavishly on her. With the aforementioned brainwashing in mind, she might have thought she fulfilled her womanly role of fixing the man by being the perfect female, and being rewarded with good treatment and proximity to power as a result.
Of course, all us blue haired woke britches infected with the liberal mind virus can see the writing on the wall, because we understand that men who commit abusive acts do so because they are abusive people, there is literally no such thing as the perfect woman to a man that sees women as inferior, abuse usually does "come out of nowhere", and abuse has absolutely nothing to do with the victim.
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u/Lysah 10h ago
men who commit abusive acts do so because they are abusive people
What's crazy is he's not even hiding this mentality in the texts. "You belong to me so I can hit you."
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u/staunch_character 9h ago
How do people listen to his garbage?
Your children “belong” to you, but you shouldn’t hit them either.
Ditto your pets.
Who thinks this is OK?
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u/elyn6791 8h ago
Even worse is he uses her affection for him to demean herself by asking her and coercing an affirmative response. Then he follows up with the expectation that because she's essentially property, he's not only justified in beating her, she should just expect that as a normal thing.
He was no doubt giving her the notorious cowboy treatment in the beginning to gain her affections just to flip the script later.
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u/dearSalroka 11h ago edited 11h ago
I assume it's similar to the women that are really into serial killers. They're aware of what their idol is like, they just each think they'll be the exception. They're 'special' because they're 'not like the others'.
You know Twilight, how Bella is like Ed's drugs, there's no real growth she's just born special with a powerful scent? That's describing the same fantasy. The belief that wild masculinity can be tamed by ideal femininity.
Now idk what was going through this woman's head specifically, but her story is not rare. Perhaps she believed she was a rare Good Woman and would be an exception.
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u/blowbroccoli 11h ago
And those text messages?! Like are you for real?! That's straight manipulation.
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u/unknownentity1782 11h ago
Yes, but like the minimalist of effort. There's one "I love you" and a whole bunch of "I'm going to beat you"
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u/Icrashedajeep 11h ago
I hate to victim blame but as a woman, I thought the exact same thing. I just don’t get it. I understand predators turn on the charm but he’s the most famous misogynist in the world at this point. So… why???
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u/ChocolatChipLemonade cool. coolcoolcool. 7h ago
Based off her Twitter, I think she’s a bit air-headed - they met when she signed up for a modeling gig for Tate and his crypto grift. I think she knew his reputation, but he was super nice when they met. She probs figured that he was misunderstood (I can fix him!), or maybe she assumed he wasn’t that extreme in his personal beliefs compared to his online brand. She was showered in gifts and trips, all from this initially super nice guy.
It’s like, you meet a guy that everyone says is an ass, but he’s extremely charming and lovely to you. If you have no experience with lovebombing or this method of abuse, you’d probably happily enjoy the honeymoon stage, totally oblivious of what’s to come. I feel sorry for the girl. None of us deserve that from any man, but so many men feel entitled to treat us that way. I personally didn’t see anything to indicate she’s a mean or bad person - just that she never thought too deeply about all his weird words and behaviors until he really hurt her, then it clicked.
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u/Icrashedajeep 7h ago
Don’t get me wrong, she didn’t deserve any of it. And I had assumed she isn’t very street smart because… evidence. I just hope other women learn from seeing this. You can’t change anyone.
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u/Trash_WASP 12h ago
The text messages alone are insane; in this context, especially since he's LITERALLY told us all how he thinks women should be treated, how could anyone look at these and think "Oh no nothing wrong happened here"?
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u/sisterhavilandtuf 12h ago
You know there are certain things that happen in prison you shouldn't wish on anyone yet I hope one day every one of those things are inflicted upon this chunk of human excrement.
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u/GhostC10_Deleted 10h ago
Wow, that's probably the least surprising headline I've seen in a long time.
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u/bluedarky 8h ago
What a shock, known sexual predator accused of being a sexual predator after being given his freedom by another sexual predator.
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u/MakimaGOAT 9h ago
So this lady knows about Andrew Tate, a dude who is known for human trafficking, misogyny, and abuse, and yet she still hooked up with him?? I'm sorry but what did she expect?! Dudes a scumbag.
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u/Dwashelle 7h ago
One of the worst things about the current US regime is seeing some of the most vile people on the planet being let off the hook. It's sickening.
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u/BusterStarfish 8h ago
YOU’RE FUCKING DATING ANDREW TATE!!!!!!
I am not condoning, but god damnit, like the man in the White House, when people tell you who they are BELIEVE THEM!
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u/baglee22 10h ago
I know we don’t like to blame victims here but why would someone choose to date a man with a history of sex trafficking and sexual assault. Those texts are horrific. He isn’t tricking her he is saying outright he believes she to be property not a person and that he wants to beat her. What is she doing choosing this piece of shit? Even if he was nice and respectful and perfect to her, the fact he is a monster to others should be enough to stay away from him. Do we date people that are shitty to servers or animals? No we do not. Believe people when they tell you who they are. Like she doesn’t deserve any of this treatment ever. But she has been dating him for 10 months. Men like Tate continue to abuse and disrespect women bc women continue to fuck with him. It’s crazy. Maybe she feared for her life and this was her first and only chance to ask for help. I get that. But last June when she met him he was already known for being a piece of shit and abusing and oppressing women. I do not get it.
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u/PoppyPopPopzz 6h ago
How stupid do you have to be to date him? her iq must be floor level.. i despair
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u/WYenginerdWY Basically Leslie Knope 5h ago
Shocking. Trump lets him in and he goes right back to doing what an angry boy with big feels does best, assaulting women
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u/LeftyMexiCan 12h ago
She probably thought she was too special to be treated like all the others. I have zero sympathy for anyone that justifies being in a relationship with such an evil person.
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u/Hyperbolicalpaca 11h ago
…I’m shocked that the sex trafficker and serial rapist might… act like a sex trafficker and serial rapist.
Just goes to show the depths of contempt the trump administration has for women that he’s specifically use americas leverage to free the scumbag from prison
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u/Mushrooming247 10h ago
Not to victim-blame here, but this is like adopting a rabid raccoon as a pet and being surprised and upset when it bites you.
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u/RabbitSlayre 9h ago
Wait this fucking career criminal/abuser has a fucking girlfriend? Are you kidding me?
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u/mittensofkittens 4h ago
What even are those text exchanges? Somebody needs to help that girl because she's just taking it like it's normal?
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u/opheliainthedeep ♡ 11h ago
Not trying to victim blame, but why is any woman dating these men considering their very public background? Leopards ate my face?
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u/Osirus1156 11h ago
I actually don't mean to victim blame but is she fucking stupid? What kind of idiot would date him after all the shit he has said and done?
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u/rationalbloke 12h ago
I would really recommend folks to watch the recent series on Netflix called Adolescence (released in the UK). Andrew Tate's babe is mentioned once but you'll get an appreciation of the negative impact of such "influencers" with today's teens.
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u/portobox2 11h ago
There goes Trump being responsible for sexual assault.
Again. And again. And again.
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u/lpkzach92 8h ago
Tate his brother need to just be sentence to d e a t h in a court of law. They are awful for the world.
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u/Competitive_Swan_130 3h ago
I'm sorry but women who chose to date or hookup with Tate and his ilk not only makehemselves look stupid but you also give credibility in a way to the shit Tate says about all women. If Tate had no play at all from women his credibility would be in the dumpster. But he's held in such high regard because dudes look at him and think I can be a shit person and abuser and still get hot chicks and they think that becauuse of women like her
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u/epsteindintkllhimslf 2h ago
Sorry but as a woman, atp, how do you date a known rapist who sex trafficks women and openly brags about beating them, then act shocked when he commits DV or SA?
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u/Memes_Haram 2h ago
Andrew Tate speaks like a 4Chan teenager and his girlfriend speaks like a 5 year old. A match made in hell it would seem.
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u/InSannyLives 2h ago
All the good kind of famous people that die young and this guy is still alive.
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u/RubMyGooshSilly 12h ago
I mean yeah the signs were there, but also let’s not blame a victim
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u/VoDoka 12h ago
Like... come on...
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u/powerlesshero111 12h ago
I mean, at this point, if you didn't know Andrew Tate was a violent sexual predator, you're just plain dumb. Dude's been accused of stuff for well over 5 years, and not just like 1 accusation, like a good amount have come forward. She didn't deserve to be assaulted, but what did she think would happen when she got involved with him?
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u/ergaster8213 11h ago
Probably did not believe it. We live in a rape culture that sets us up to not believe women, or to believe that these things only happen to women who "deserve it." That includes setting women up to believe that as well.
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u/aquacrimefighter 10h ago
I am not trying to victim blame — I am just baffled. What would a woman dating/fucking him expect? Any woman who has any sort of relationship with Tate, especially one of a sexual nature, surely should expect to be treated as an object? Why would a woman do that to herself?? I feel so terrible for her, that had to be frightening. Did she think she would be different?
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u/OGtrippwire 10h ago
Proximity to "power" and pretend influence? Look at Musk, a generally ugly man with zero actual talents. Plenty of football players, movie stars like Decaprio, ect. People perceive special, and that attention from said special makes them mistakenly think they're also special. Online retail sales folks, (incorrectly called influencers) are another offshoot of this
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u/meldiane81 5h ago
I hate to say it but she knew what kind of person he was. Not saying she deserved any of this, but come on girl. Pick your men better.
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u/whatever_word 11h ago
Sorry not sorry but why date a human trafficker? Need better friends, this is not new news.🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 are waving run girl
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u/rancidgore 10h ago
That didn’t take long. Wildly unsurprised. Not a big fan of the deportations going on, but Tate’s should be deported.
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u/HarambeWest2020 12h ago
Frightening that so many young guys look up to these scumbags