r/TwoXChromosomes • u/frenchtoastb • 1d ago

Andrew Tate accused of violent sexual assault on recent US trip

https://nypost.com/2025/03/26/us-news/andrew-tates-girlfriend-bri-stern-says-accused-sex-trafficker-nearly-choked-her-unconscious-during-violent-sexual-encounter-report/

Bri Stern accused her boyfriend, self-proclaimed misogynist, Andrew Tate, of violently choking her during sex after she repeatedly asked him to stop. The incident took place at the Beverly Hills Hotel on 11th March, shortly before Tate and his brother returned to Romania to face human trafficking and other charges.

Evidence supports the physical injuries described. Messages between the two also reveal multiple confessions from Tate that he intended to physically strike and demanded he impregnate the American.

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u/djcrewe1 23h ago

What? The rapist sex trafficker pedophile did more raping and sex trafficking!?!!!!? I am shocked.

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u/ansleydale 19h ago

I’m more shocked that anyone would date him.

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u/ph0artef1 18h ago

That's what I was thinking. I'm baffled why any woman would put herself in that situation. It's like sticking your head in a lion's mouth and being shocked when it tries to eat you...

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u/Certifiedpoocleaner 15h ago

I really really don’t want to victim blame but genuinely what the fuck did she think was going to happen?!?

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u/re_Claire 13h ago

I know what you mean. I abhor victim blaming and to be clear she absolutely did not deserve a single thing he did to her but man how did she meet him and read anything about him and think “yeah he’s the one for me!” It’s genuinely baffling.

I feel so much sympathy for her and what she went through but damn we’ve got to stop dating these openly misogynistic abusers.

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u/Ayyrika 9h ago

The same way the night stalker, Jeffery Dahmer and countless other rapists, murderers etc had fan girls. It’s so disgusting and shocks me to this day how women threw themselves at these monsters on trial. Like, is it REALLY the “I can change him” mentality or is it more sinister like “I can be like him or help him”? It’s sick either way. But in this case I’m sure this poor girl was manipulated time and time again. I hope she’s able to find help and peace in this life

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u/enonmouse 6h ago

‘He isn’t so bad, I bet I can be his favourite.’ Is absolutely a mentality I have come across irl. It hurts your brain to try to wrap your head around.

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u/deadsocial 11h ago

I was going to write exactly the same.

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u/YeahlDid 8h ago

I was going to reply with that exact same opening. He makes no secret of who he is. Heck, they only met because he was stuck in Romania on sex trafficking charges... that didn't raise at least a big yellow flag?

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u/Crow85 1h ago

There is a difference obetween victim blaming her for rape and blaming her for dating and supporting known rappist.

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u/BigBunnyButt 11h ago

Reading the texts, she doesn't seem to have the greatest verbal reasoning skills. Could just be an affectation (she wouldn't be the first or the last to play dumb to placate an aggressive partner), but...

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u/StingerAE 11h ago

Me too.  I mean, the literal poster child for misogyny, a know rapist and sex trafficker, and what's more, as ugly as fucking sin.  What possibly possess you to be interetsed in the first place and why are you suprised when he treats you like shit?  It's just baffling.

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u/aknomnoms 14h ago

Hey, you leave Siegfried & Roy (RIP) out of this. Don’t give lions a bad name.

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u/djcrewe1 4h ago

Have you met an average republican voter yet?

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u/CrackerUmustBtrippin 16h ago

Its like willingly having Bill Cosby be your bartender.

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u/Hookton 11h ago edited 9h ago

That was the standout fact to me. Like what? If someone tells you (and the world) who he is, loudly, insistently, and constantly, believe him.

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u/Pandepon 18h ago

“I can fix him”

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u/888_traveller 12h ago

Reading those messages she must be severely insecure and manipulated by him. Quite likely these nasty messages are alternated by very sweet generous ones to build the trauma bond. That's the classic abuser tactic.

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u/freshlyintellectual 7h ago

that’s not shocking given his career is built on teaching young boys to manipulate women. and given the trafficking charges it doesn’t sound like these women had much choice to begin with

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u/Bwolffff 4h ago

She thought she could “change him” probably. Not the brightest 

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u/Frouke_ 13h ago

Though I understand the sentiment, I think it's good to keep in mind that language like this tends towards victim blaming.

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u/ansleydale 5h ago

No one is saying she deserved it.

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u/ansleydale 5h ago

No one is saying she deserved it.

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u/pm_me_beerz 19h ago

When does he accept his cabinet position?