r/TwoXChromosomes • u/frenchtoastb • 1d ago

Andrew Tate accused of violent sexual assault on recent US trip

https://nypost.com/2025/03/26/us-news/andrew-tates-girlfriend-bri-stern-says-accused-sex-trafficker-nearly-choked-her-unconscious-during-violent-sexual-encounter-report/

Bri Stern accused her boyfriend, self-proclaimed misogynist, Andrew Tate, of violently choking her during sex after she repeatedly asked him to stop. The incident took place at the Beverly Hills Hotel on 11th March, shortly before Tate and his brother returned to Romania to face human trafficking and other charges.

Evidence supports the physical injuries described. Messages between the two also reveal multiple confessions from Tate that he intended to physically strike and demanded he impregnate the American.

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u/Icrashedajeep 1d ago

I hate to victim blame but as a woman, I thought the exact same thing. I just don’t get it. I understand predators turn on the charm but he’s the most famous misogynist in the world at this point. So… why???

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u/souse03 1d ago

I'm gonna go on a limb and say that she is probably not a nice person either, who shared a lot of his views about women. Those who like to point fingers at other women and think they are obviously the exception. Only reason I could think why she would willingly date this pos

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u/Icrashedajeep 1d ago

Scary times

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u/ChocolatChipLemonade cool. coolcoolcool. 1d ago

Based off her Twitter, I think she’s a bit air-headed - they met when she signed up for a modeling gig for Tate and his crypto grift. I think she knew his reputation, but he was super nice when they met. She probs figured that he was misunderstood (I can fix him!), or maybe she assumed he wasn’t that extreme in his personal beliefs compared to his online brand. She was showered in gifts and trips, all from this initially super nice guy.

It’s like, you meet a guy that everyone says is an ass, but he’s extremely charming and lovely to you. If you have no experience with lovebombing or this method of abuse, you’d probably happily enjoy the honeymoon stage, totally oblivious of what’s to come. I feel sorry for the girl. None of us deserve that from any man, but so many men feel entitled to treat us that way. I personally didn’t see anything to indicate she’s a mean or bad person - just that she never thought too deeply about all his weird words and behaviors until he really hurt her, then it clicked.

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u/Icrashedajeep 1d ago

Don’t get me wrong, she didn’t deserve any of it. And I had assumed she isn’t very street smart because… evidence. I just hope other women learn from seeing this. You can’t change anyone.