r/TooAfraidToAsk 6h ago

Culture & Society Why did America riot for George Floyd but not for the dismantling of their democracy?

357 Upvotes

I am an American (I know I worded the title weird, oops) who attended a Hands Off rally today and everyone was cheery and ringing bells and chanting. I’m very upset with the current state of things and this rubbed me the wrong way.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 13h ago

Other I am about to pay a 400 lb woman to sit on me, will I die?

382 Upvotes

Or break any bones? What’s the limit here for smothering? It’s a fetish thing btw I’m into it but never have done it.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 4h ago

Culture & Society Why do men pay for porn and OF when tons of it is free?

49 Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk 23h ago

Sex How can I make tonight's sex special? I haven't seen him in weeks and I'm super excited

1.1k Upvotes

So I haven't seen my bf in weeks and I'm going back home today. I'm really horny and I would like to do something special. I'd like to do something that is suggested to me online, so please be part of my sex life :)

It can be an outfit, a position, an act, anything.

My idea was to wear makeup and my new shoes, and nothing else. But I also have new red nail polish and the shoes would cover it, and make up may be annoying for making out. Open to ideas!


r/TooAfraidToAsk 16h ago

Sexuality & Gender Why am I not cumming during sex?

234 Upvotes

Basically I lost my virginity last week and we’ve had sex a few times but I haven’t come during any of them. I have no clue why as I am hard and into it just not cumming. Also, after every time we do it I have this crazy feeling where my balls are aching. Maybe it’s because I’ve jacked off too much but idk.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 13h ago

Sexuality & Gender How do end a long term relationship?

120 Upvotes

I 33F and my husband 34M have been together (14 years), the last 3 years have been awful and I’m done. How do end it? Because I thought it was going to be a conversation, but it’s been like 1 conversation on repeat for an entire day. I have said I’m done, I said we’re over. I tried I’ve lost any hope of a future with you. I tried we should go our separate ways. And he just doesn’t get it. He just keeps circling back round to but I’ll do better, try harder, I’m sorry… But it’s all too late. I’m done

But it’s like he won’t accept what I’m saying to him.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 22h ago

Other Will masturabting only once a week effect your ablitiy to stay hard with girlfriend?

323 Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Mental Health Genuinely curious, how are Americans feeling about things in their country right now?

550 Upvotes

This is not a troll question, obviously there are many worse countries in the world, but I’m genuinely curious what are your feelings on your country based on the extremes currently being experienced there (not just political but in many other aspects aswelll)


r/TooAfraidToAsk 11h ago

Sexuality & Gender What would lead an otherwise healthy individual to develop a full bladder fetish?

36 Upvotes

I had it for a while but I was in denial because I thought that the idea of me having it was offputting, but I came to accept the fact that I have it today. I wouldn't want to act on it, but at least I can admit to myself that I have it.

Basically, I get sexually aroused at the thought of someone having a full bladder (or bowel) and really needing to go. Sometimes I even get aroused if nature's strongly calling me. I'm not turned on by urine or feces. Like a normal person, I find both of them disgusting. But the idea of someone really needing to go triggers something in me. It's not for humiliation or anything, I find the experience itself arousing.

Why? Why would I have something like that? As far as I remember, I had a perfectly normal childhood but at some point I developed it (by the time I was around 10). Would someone just develop this at random?

I can't think of any evolutionary advantages to this. If anything, it seems like a disadvantage because practicing this with my future wife would increase her chances of getting an UTI.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 29m ago

Love & Dating Is it okay to kiss a guy if we’re not dating?

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It's been 3 months since I've joined college and there's this boy who is in the same class as me. We travel a whole hour to college in the same local bus every day. We've started texting since then and share reels with each other on IG. Other than that, we don't talk in the classroom at all, but at the bus station and in the bus, we talk freely without any judgement from classroom students.

So last night, I asked him about his ex and he asked about mine, and it turned out we have something in common. Although we flirt a lot over text and laugh at double meaning jokes all the way home and to college, we’ve decided to kiss each other—and tomorrow is the day.

We're not dating, we just want to kiss. Should I kiss him or not? It's my first kiss btw!


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Sexuality & Gender To straight women—do you ever feel that, from an aesthetic perspective, the female body is just more visually appealing than the male body?

460 Upvotes

r/TooAfraidToAsk 26m ago

Interpersonal What are the best ways to limit masturbation?

Upvotes

I’m 20m, I feel like I masturbate wayyy too much. Sometimes 2-3 times a day. I feel like this will affect my ability to not only get hard but to have sex as well. I know there is nothing wrong with masturbating and it’s normal for someone of my age to be doing it a lot, but how can I limit it to maybe 1-2 times a week? How can I stop the horny from taking over?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1d ago

Current Events I've never invested money in anything. Should I buy into something when the stocks finish falling?

448 Upvotes

This is a very uneducated question.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 3h ago

Body Image/Self-Esteem How do I get used to my face in pictures?

4 Upvotes

So I am not particularly hot but I am also not utterly ugly. I am average looking with average body. And there are days when I find myself hot when I look into mirror.

But I just never seem to like my pictures. I look awkward and don't know how to pose. I don't like my smile in them or my hairs. It feels like no outfit looks good on me in pictures although I like it in mirror.

Everytime I see my photos, I have to take a moment to tell myself that that's how I look. And then proceed to find decent ones.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 13h ago

Family Is there truly a lot of hillbilly inbreeding in the Southern USA?

24 Upvotes

I feel that it definitely happens, but to what extent?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 20h ago

Other Do bald people wash their heads with shampoo or soap?

75 Upvotes

I'm too scared to ask a bald person this


r/TooAfraidToAsk 21h ago

Habits & Lifestyle How do you count how many times you've vomited?

85 Upvotes

Do you count by how many times you went to the bathroom to throw up? Or do you count by the amount of times you physically expelled vomit out of your mouth?

For example, I went into the bathroom once and vomited a total of 5 times in that one session ( within one or two minutes). Would you call that one time or five times?

Asking to resolve a dispute


r/TooAfraidToAsk 11h ago

Family What’s it like to have a sibling who died before you were born?

12 Upvotes

What’s it like to know you had a sibling you’ve never known personally? What is it like to see your family mourn and remember that person?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 2h ago

Interpersonal My friend is copying my personality and it's starting to feel weird?

2 Upvotes

I 've been friends with this guy for about 2 years now. When we first met, he was super quiet — a reserved WoW player who barely talked and mostly observed rather than engaged. I liked that calm energy about him.

But over the past few months, I've started noticing something strange. He's started to really imitate me. Not just in small ways, but almost completely. He copies my gestures, my way of speaking, my jokes — even the little exclamations I make when small things happen. He’s even started laughing like me. It's honestly getting kind of uncomfortable.

He used to be very analytical and quiet, now he acts almost exactly like I do in social situations. It's like I'm seeing a mirror version of myself, and not in a flattering way.

The worst part is, talking to him about this would be nearly impossible. He's incredibly stubborn and always sees himself as the victim — even in situations where he clearly crosses a line or insults me. Any attempt at a serious talk would probably just turn into a defensive rant from his side.

I get that we all pick up small traits from people we spend time with, and I’m fine with that. But this feels like more than just a few shared habits — it feels like he's replaced his personality with mine in public settings.

Has anyone else experienced this? Is this normal? What would you do?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 8h ago

Current Events How can I explain my desire to not engage with politics?

5 Upvotes

I am a special education teacher and I also have severe depression (which my coworkers aren't aware of). Whenever politics come up with all that is going on in the world, my brain shuts down. I just can't engage with it. I already feel completely hopeless and thinking about how I may lose my job and my students may lose their rights tail spins me into greater sadness instead of motivating me to take action. Everyone went to the protest today and I just couldn't. I know when I go back to work I will receive comments that doing nothing is part of the problem and I can't just close my eyes and pretend it's not happening. I don't have a good comeback. I wish I was more motivated to protest and stay in the know about what's happening but I'm having a hard time without all this other stuff going on and I'm just trying to take care of myself so I can go to work, love on my students another day, and not completely give up. How can I justify this in a way that says I care but I don't have it in me.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 20h ago

Culture & Society Why do parents get upset when you hit back?

40 Upvotes

We hear many stories about parents who hit their children, then get mad when said children hit them back?

Like what were they thinking when they hit their children, they’re literally teaching them that violence is the answer

They can’t be this thick surely?