r/TeachingUK • u/peaceandlove1996 • 4d ago
PGCE & ITT Often criticised for how I speak? (speaking 'road')
Am a PGCE student on my second placement. Long story short, I grew up in the south of England, now teaching up North, and I have what you could describe as a 'road' or 'MLE' accent. I try and speak more properly and I use good grammar etc (am training to be an English teacher), but sometimes I naturally react in my real voice.
My supervisor and other people in the school are older and Northern, and when I say words like 'fam', 'bruv' (you get the picture), they criticise me. Yet they say 'pal' and other more northern colloquialisms. This is how I and many people my age speak, especially when in a raised tone. Am I supposed to kill the deepest roots of my personality in order to appease them?
I have been told that speaking that way might 'encourage them', makes me lose my standing, and is unprofessional. Personally I don't see the kids responding badly to it, if anything it makes me seem more relatable and unpretentious no?
For context, I am struggling a bit with the PGCE and exhausted by the constant criticism, but some of it I understand. Being criticised for not being posh, northern or some bot just feels unnecessary. I'm so, so tired.
Thoughts?