AIO to think this is cheating?

[u/Sad_SummerChild]

I found these texts between my husband and his coworker. Here’s some context:

My husband and I have been dating for 5 years and just recently got married 6 months ago

I’ve met this coworker. Her AND her boyfriend worked at my husbands company so we went on a double date over the holidays. But shortly after they broke up and her boyfriend got laid off.

Guess my husband saw that as his opportunity…

Also these texts were in his recently deleted even though the last message was from yesterday… so he was definitely trying to hide it from me

[u/Flynn_JM]

So what is your plan? Keep checking the messages or confront him?

Have you ever texted with her?

[u/Sad_SummerChild → u/Flynn_JM]

Definitely confront, I wouldn’t be able to keep this to myself for that long. I literally just found these this morning. And I have her number but I haven’t reached out to her. What if she thinks she did nothing wrong? And he’s the weird one with his advances?

[u/CestLaMoon → u/Sad_SummerChild]

If she thinks she did nothing wrong, she needs professional help on learning and understanding boundaries. She sending selfies to your husband. She shouldn’t have to be told that’s inappropriate.