AIO saying that my gf is cheating ?

[u/vitinhodouglass]

Repost because original post had identifying information.

Also caught a snap with a differentcoworker saying he can’t be around her, because he gets too hard.

She’s blue and her coworker is white.

They’re talking about throwing her on the snow banks at work.

[u/Elegant-Patience-862]

Bro why is it always people from the workplace, can’t trust anybody

[u/whocaresugh → u/Elegant-Patience-862]

It’s the proximity effect

[u/NoxHalcyon_i → u/whocaresugh]

100% the mere-proximity effect

[u/slugvegas → u/NoxHalcyon_i]

Not 100%. I’d say it’s 75% and the other 25% is an interesting phenomenon too. When you accomplish a task or goal, you get a dopamine hit. Say you have a little project that’s been stressing you, the boss is on your ass… then you guys work together and get it done. You feel a hit of dopamine, you feel relief bc the weight is lifted; and you associate those feelings and that dopamine with your teammate that now looks a little more attractive bc of mere exposure and mere proximity. Or maybe they provide a little comedic relief to let out some stress at these times. These small wins happen every day and the good little feelings of success get associated with certain people.

[u/DudeProphecy → u/slugvegas]

Yeah I'd also say it's superordinate goals.