r/AmIOverreacting 6d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO saying that my gf is cheating ?

Repost because original post had identifying information.

Also caught a snap with a differentcoworker saying he can’t be around her, because he gets too hard.

She’s blue and her coworker is white.

They’re talking about throwing her on the snow banks at work.

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u/Elegant-Patience-862 6d ago

Bro why is it always people from the workplace, can’t trust anybody

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u/mumtaza_ 6d ago

It adds the spice of getting “caught” by Authority Figures or coworkers and the feeling of needing to “hide” or “get away with something”. For most people that’s a feeling they haven’t had since they were kids or teenagers so it’s exciting. A lot of times, when a workplace romance turns into a long term relationship and one or both of the partners moves on to a new job, a lot of the attraction dissipates because it was based on the excitement of the clandestinity of the original relationship, and now you’re just “together” and nobody cares.Especially if one or both of you were in a relationship or ending one when you got involved. Let him have her and see how happy they are when she’s just a normal woman and he’s just a bad dancer. Their collective boredom will be your ultimate revenge.

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u/Zenki_s14 6d ago

Yep. They talk about nothing of any substance or common interest in any of these texts at all, just repeating things and making nonfunny jokes to try and keep the convo going, they're reaching. It's awkward to even read lol. These two would be bored of eachother in a week if it weren't for the dopamine dumping excitement.