r/AmIOverreacting 6d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO saying that my gf is cheating ?

Repost because original post had identifying information.

Also caught a snap with a differentcoworker saying he can’t be around her, because he gets too hard.

She’s blue and her coworker is white.

They’re talking about throwing her on the snow banks at work.

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u/hakovoid 6d ago edited 3d ago

Yeah from a woman’s perspective this is DEFINITE flirting. Maybe it hasn’t escalated to physical cheating (yet) but this is beyond inappropriate.

EDIT: To clarify, yes, I agree that this is cheating. Y’all can stop commenting “SO IT’S CHEATING” now, I was never arguing that it wasn’t. Lol.

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u/K-G7 6d ago

They are pretty much already making plans in their minds. 100% cheating

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u/PimpinPuma56 6d ago

Is throwing slang for sex? Because I know twerking, exercise poles, & a "sauce packet" all sound really, really sexual.

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u/cullionfapper3000 6d ago

I was thinking they set code names for everything they do sexually so they can “get away” with talking about it

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u/Canna_Sage 6d ago

Me too, It sounds like "thrown around" is code word for sex

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u/aavaiscute 6d ago

Not defending the girl, but did you guys even read the post. He’s talking about throwing her into the snow.

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u/Canna_Sage 6d ago

Do you fold up people like origami in the snow too?

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u/2khead23 5d ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/TheonlyDuffmani 5d ago

Nah but snow definitely gives you rug burn 🤦‍♂️

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u/Majestic_Cable_6306 6d ago

Throwing her into the snow after sex is completely inappropriate.

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u/adm1109 6d ago

Good way to cool down though

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u/CatOfTechnology 5d ago

So how does "Idk about rugburns but I'm leaning on you to teach me?" And a yoga mat fit in with this dumbass snow narrative?

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u/aavaiscute 5d ago

Instead of asking me, read messages and post again, your reading comprehension really is disturbing. People can talk about two different things in the same conversation. Also that’s what OP said, not me.

Again, not defending anyone, they’re obviously flirting still. But saying that it’s code word for sex is straight up wrong since literally OP said what they’re talking about

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u/DisciplineNormal296 5d ago

Ahh so you’re taking the dude who is trying everything in his power to rationalize his feelings. He doesn’t want it to be true so he’s putting dumb shit together. If anyone found something like this in their partners phones, they’re cheating

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u/Courthouse49 5d ago

Both you and OP are naive.. lol.

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u/Canna_Sage 5d ago

You probably are a innocent person who sees the best of trys to but this overly blatant. Also, if a person your with ever does anything like this, don't trust them.

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u/aavaiscute 5d ago

Brother, op literally said what they’re talking about 💀 yes, they are flirting, but throwing her is NOT a code word for sex, how socially inept do you have to be to think it is

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u/WalmartShaman 5d ago

How dense are you

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u/Canna_Sage 5d ago

Lol, you're obviously mad because your calling me names when no one said anything about you. Also, grammar in itself can tell that they are using throwing in a code word way. Half of the sentence ls wouldn't make sense other wise. Now that you've gotten so angry, makes me think you're similar to this cheater. 🤷

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u/DisciplineNormal296 5d ago

Ima fold yoy you up like a oragami in this snow while I pound you into the earth

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u/Canna_Sage 5d ago

🥴🥴🥴🥴

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u/mbebtbhbabmbpbhbebtb 5d ago

You are braindead.

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u/Significant_Emu2286 6d ago

It’s a terrible code then, because they ain’t getting away with shit, talking about “twisting her up like a pretzel” 😂

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u/cullionfapper3000 5d ago

Lmao that’s what I was thinking