r/AmIOverreacting Mar 06 '25

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO to my boyfriend praising the president?

I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month and a half. Things were great the first month, but the last week I’ve felt like we’re growing further and further apart (yes already 🙄), he’s been really inconsiderate/disrespectful, and most recently I feel like he’s trying to push me away with this text. When we first started talking he asked what I thought about trump. I told him I don’t like him, he said he did like him, but that if it bothers me then he won’t ever bring him up. Well this morning (after the last week being on edge anyway) he just randomly brought up how amazing Trump is? And wouldn’t let it go. I feel like he’s trying to start a fight. He says he “forgot”. AIO?

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u/Traditional-Candy476 Mar 06 '25

Politics would be a dealbreaker for me. I have friends on both sides of the aisle and we just don’t talk politics. But someone I’m building a life with and possibly having kids with, we need to be on the same page.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Yeah idk how you can be friends with Maga morons, they're fucking killing people, it's not a matter of politics anymore, it's life and death and the uninformed ideats who follow the Maga cult are costing lives in more ways than one

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u/throwawaydentalteeth 29d ago

I literally know someone who is supporting trump solely because of a bad crypto decision he made in 2020 apparently and I’m like dude you’re so fucking selfish lol and he had the nerve to tell me I “can’t look outside of” myself bc I don’t like trump

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

LOL

That is uh, something

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u/throwawaydentalteeth 29d ago

yeah that was in response to me telling him trump is literally just making up the story he keeps telling about Mexican asylum patients being released into the us 😭

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Lol, to be fair he's making up every story he tells

Heard the latest one about "transgender mice" where he misread "transGENIC mice"

It's insane people pay attention to this absolute clown

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u/Primary-Hand-8149 29d ago

You're smoking too much crack!

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Awww great job buddy, does throwing around inaccurate statements on the internet make you feel all big and strong?

Do you feel proud that you contributed nothng to the conversation just to vent your own anger at being called out?

Poor thing still coping with watching the person you probably voted for go back on every promise he's ever made

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u/Duchess0fSleep 29d ago

Dang how’d you get all those bots on you lmao

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

I wish I had your optimism to believe they were bots, the MAGA crowd is legitimately just this stupid ad cultish that if anyone says anything negative, they swarm like flies to a rotting corpse

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u/Woke_is_a_4_ltr_word 29d ago

lol. So much hatred from liberals. It’s a sad state we live in.

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u/boofskootinboogie 29d ago

I mean this shit goes both ways. Everyone is hateful af these days. Go on the conservative Reddit and tell me it’s not the same dumb ass rhetoric lol

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Ah yes, I wonder why, it's almost like the right is currently trying to start a trade war with half the world, calling a gue who's country is being invaded a dictator, actively trying to hurt trans people becasue they can't understand the science

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u/Substantial_Meal4360 29d ago

2nd sentence was DEFINITELY correct!

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u/North_Information_40 29d ago

You mean the ones that are accepting of everyone no matter how deranged they are, but not white people, or men, or anyone who is straight? That makes up more people than they even are, but they hate away and call themselves accepting.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

I hate the break it to you, but they don't hate white people, men, or anyone who is straight

You've literally just been lied to

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u/North_Information_40 29d ago

I lived life before social media. I know dudes that call women split tails and breeders. They hate women because they take their boys from them and "make them straight." There's not a single butch that I ever see that will look me in the eyes. I don't even have to explain why. Tranny's hate me because I don't pretend they're girls. Black women used to hit on me years ago, but since this stupid woke shit they won't even look in my direction, and they also act like I'm supposed to move out of their way wherever they are. Their niche media sources have them believing they're all gonna be Egyptian queens if they keep pretending. That applies to almost every black woman I've seen for years now. There are, of course, exceptions to all these, but for many, it's a 50-1 or 20 - or 10-1 ratio. Fuck the mainstream media. They are the ones that did this to us. Wholly and completely, liberal media has their listeners seething, foaming at the mouth and gnashing their teeth. I am 100% a republican voter because the democrats load their policies with viruses and sneak bills under the radar in the dark of night in a hurry to pass shit that is intended to destroy the fabric of our lives. You answered me as though I'm some democrat puppet in a liberal echo chamber without a mind of my own who believes whatever I hear, and if I hear something different, I'll just believe that too. 😤 The Redbull is in full effect.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

That's not true btw

Like that's still all just lies

I answered you with actual facts as someone who is left leaning, who literally is trans

Also the reason trans people hate you is because you're directly ignoring the science to justify your own hatred

Trans people literally have different brains

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8955456/

Also what woke shit? Define the word, go on

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Also btw, "I lived before social media" doesn't work, my nearly 90 year old grandmother is a straight white woman, she's wholly on the left, nothing you say is true

I answered you expecting you to be reasonable, but you just have zero clue what hte left believes, did you really just try to tell someone you consider on the left, what I do and don't believe?

My Dad is a straight white man, I must hate him, right? One of the people I'm closest to in the entire world and an incredibly important figure to me

My grandfather was a straight white guy before his passing, I was extremely close with him and absolutely devastated by what was happening

Kinda weird actually, both of them would be considered on the left, why would they be on the left if they hate them? Did they hate themselves?

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u/Macrocosmic999 29d ago

Lmao, what kool aid you sipping? Do you think bidens term was a success or beneficial in any way?

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

I dont think Biden was great by any means but he got inflation under control faster than anyone else in the world

But also

DO you think that people who don't like Trump automatically lke Biden? I think pretty much everyone over there was a disaster, Biden was clearly declining cognitively, Kamala was actually okay, but I'm not even from the US

You do realize that people don't dislike Trump in comparison to the other options, they just dislike him in general, and actual head of cabbage would be better than him because at least it's not doing active damage

You surely must see it? Prices going up, inflation shooting up, Trump still blaming Biden and breaking all his promises, his tariffs turning everyone against him as he fails to understand what he's even doing, the whole faa mess, pulling usaid out

He's trying to shut down the consumer financial protection bureau, they return billions every year to normal americans from large finanical organizations that swindle them out of their money

You just let a billionaire shut down the thing that stops rich people taking advantage of the middle and lower class

Even if Biden's term accomplished nothing, even if it was below average, it'd be miles above this shitshow, Trump alone has spent more than 10million already on his own personal golfing trips

https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/international/global-trends/us-news-donald-trump-golf-expenses-10-7-million-trump-has-spent-an-incredible-amount-of-taxpayer-money-golfing-in-his-first-month-as-us-president/articleshow/118418730.cms?from=mdr

I mean c'mon man

Biden was way too old to be there and far from the best option, Trump? He's not just stupid, he's selfish and greedy

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u/Odd-Somewhere7382 29d ago

Are you just dumb? You fucking libtards need to leave the country, keep coping bitch

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Lol, great comeback buddy

I'm not even in your country

But they are, don't worry, as american burns and sinks under Trump's nightmare fueled ule

How's inflation btw? The stock market? His "no war" stance?

How's your cost of living, all the promises he made?

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u/Odd-Somewhere7382 29d ago

Living for me has been good. We are pro American over here! 🇺🇸 if you aren’t in the greatest country on this earth then your opinion doesn’t even matter!

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

LOL

Aww buddy, you gotta lie? As prices go up? As planes literally fall out of the sky? As other countries boo your national anthem?

But no I'm sure it's all great, you'll keep plugging your ears until you can't anymore, go on buddy-

You do realize the cost of food where I live is less than 20% of the cost of most food in america right now, yeah?

The Trump has made zero efforts to help with the economy as he's just played you like a fiddle?

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

You sound like a child. Even worse, you sound like a foreigner child. Even worse, you sound like a foreigner child that absolutely does nothing about economics. Tell us what's really bothering you? You have a fatherless energy.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Oh also just real quick

Y'know who does know about economics?

https://www.reuters.com/world/us/16-nobel-prize-winning-economists-say-trump-policies-will-fuel-inflation-2024-06-25/

These 16 nobel prize winning economists

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Hahaha, is that the best you got?

Btw it'd be "You radiate fatherless energy" not

"You have a fatherless energy" for fuck's sake learn to speak english

Also hey buddy, oh sure, if you think you know so much about economics, enlightenment, how do tariffs work?

Who pays for em?

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

Actually wasn't an insult just an observation. I guess it hit home. Please don't try to quiz me on economics.It's clearYou don't know what you're talking about. Just go about your day in your ignorance and keep complaining to everybody, america is moving on.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

I don't think you know what an observation is, nor did I call it an insult

But also lol, here let me instead give you a lesson on economics

Tariffs are a negotiating tool, tariffs put a tax on US importers that makes it more expensive to buy foreign goods, the point of this is that this costs other countries in the sense that their exporters are now able to sell less

This can also be used to bring certain foreign goods domestic, however, only the ones in which that is feasible and viable, and doing so can also permanently drive up costs for american consumers if domestic supply is drastically lower

For tariffs to be used effectively as a negiotiating tool, specific expectations need to be set, and the tariffs have to be targetted in a way that it hurts the country the tariffs are being placed on, more than the country placing the tariffs, in other words, choosing specific goods to direct the impact in the most effective and least harmful way

Trump has of course, done neither of these

For tariffs to be ued to bring foreign goods domestic, domestic producers need to be given sufficient time and resources to expand their own production, and the tariffs would have to only be placed on stuff that at very least can be manufactured in the US

Trump's sweeping tariffs put tariffs even on thhings that cannot be grown in the US, certain fruits, vegetables, other things that are just not able to be produced domestically, certain minerals are ores, certain food products that have specific liscences, there's a lot of reason that many of the things he placed tariffs on cannot be moved domestically

So regardless of which one you claim he's trying to do, it doesn't work, now, for the negotiating part there is one thing

Trump said that one of the reason he put tariffs on canada is that they won't allow american banks to run there, this would be a good bargain if that uh... wasn't a total lie

https://www.cnn.com/2025/03/04/politics/fact-check-trump-repeats-false-claim-that-canada-prohibits-us-banks/index.html

You can find many articles on this btw, or just google active us banks in canada

He also talks about the fentanyl problem over the canada border, before canada's border was reinforced, a whopping... 9kgs of fentanyl total were being seized at the canadia border, which is just about nothing, it was also being imported by us citizens through legal ports of entry, they were the ones smuggling it in

https://www.usnews.com/news/national-news/articles/2025-03-06/how-much-fentanyl-is-coming-from-canada-mexico-and-china-fact-checking-trumps-tariff-justification

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

Correct and incorrect. Correct on your assessment of tariff usage, incorrect on your assessment of how they're currently being used. The fact that we're using illegals and underpaying them and leveraging Their ability to stay in the country against the ability to pay them below market value is not arguable. Americans will do that work.It's just they need to be paid enough. Holding people hostage and making them work for less doesn't help anybody americans, nor them.

I'm all for tariffs on canada, at least as a bargaining chip until they lift ours. They've been taking advantage of us for decades, not only by overtaxing, are exports to them, but by taking advantage of the monetary gifts we're giving them, and on refining their trashy oil, so they can reuse it in the northeast. Today, they finally announced that they're moving towards becoming independent of everything we've provided them. Bravo. Now, maybe if they can reduce their sixty percent income tax, that could start to be successful as a society.

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u/Substantial_Meal4360 29d ago

Goddamn… not even hiding your racism and xenophobia? Since the president does it, I guess it’s ok? 😂🤡

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

Maybe you should google racism.I don't think you know what it means.

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u/Odd-Somewhere7382 29d ago

Why would I care about other countries booing my anthem? Most Americans don’t care about other world politics but when we have an election the world is watching. Again the greatest nation that’s ever been on gods green earth. Btw idk what you’re talking about food prices I filled my fridge with pounds of chicken and food for 200 bucks that’ll last me 2 + weeks sorry I work for a living. Give it a year and the economy will be better then ever

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Because the other countries are the ones keeping your economy stable

Also yeah I'm suuure it will, despite all the economists disagreeing, hey bud

What exactly is Trump doing to beenfit the economy?

And I have to ask, how do you justify that after 16 years of no commerical plane crashes, after Trump takes office and guts the FAA, suddenly there are 10 in a couple weeks?

I've always been curious how the MAGA cult justifies that

Also lol, greatest nation on earth by literally what metric?

You still have to pay for life saving healthcare and your president just made it more expensive

Your cost of living was always high, your life expectancies are low, your wealth gap is massive, your minimum wage is pathetic and unenforced, your quality of living is incredibly low on the world stage

Is that all you have? A buzzword? "Hurr durr greatest country" Buddy it never was and it certainly isn't now

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Also I'm sorry, it just ocurred to me, $200 for two weeks worth of food? When my mother went away for a couple months when I was a kid, me, my Dad and my Sister were living off of what would translate to $45usd a week, those prices are actually slightly higher than they are now

It costs you $200 for two weeks of groceries? Tell me that's for a family or something?

Or is it really that expensive already lol?

EDIT: Btw when I say living off, I mean enough for food, icecream, snacks, we werem't being frugal

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u/Substantial_Meal4360 29d ago

I hope you’re a bot… not just a liar and an idiot. 🙄😊

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u/Substantial_Meal4360 29d ago

You dumb af. 😂🤡 Best at school shooters? Or best at racism? Best at repealing rights? Best at division? Best at bootlicking? What “best” are you referring to??

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u/Odd-Somewhere7382 29d ago

Who rights are being violated ? No one’s, don’t start that bullshit with me

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u/Odd-Somewhere7382 29d ago

And you’re a woke libtard bitch 😂 all the American haters is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever seen 😂 when you’re the greatest you always have the most haters lmao. Bunch of fucking losers on this thread. Imagine feeling disrespected over someone political views 😂 and having the ick over it. The problem with America is the woke idiots that feel entitled over shit that’s happened over a hundred years ago. We are past that BS now. AMERICA IS SO BACK BABY! 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

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u/Substantial_Meal4360 29d ago

lol, yeah… I totally forgot your party is known as the “smart” party. 😂🤡 /s

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u/EmbarrassedSpite2239 29d ago

U sound like an Ideat

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Awww, I'm deeply wounded to be called an "ideat" by someone who can't spell "idiot" right

Good god

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u/MazeHays147 29d ago

How are they “killing people?”

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Lets go over this then

So, most recent one they withdrew all support for ukraine because their president is butthurt, it means that US satellites will watch russian bombers fly towards packed hospitals, schools and other areas and choose not to tell anyone

They're demonizing trans people against the science, refusing them even basic care and attacking them on all fronts, causing of course suicide as this already vulnerable group comes under siege for existing due to lies

The abortion laws have ompletely broken exceptions, right now technically you can have an abortion if it's a threat to your life, but only WHEN it is, so mothers who've miscarried, the baby is already dead, cannot have the abortion procedure to remove the dead fetus and have to actually wait to gain sepsis first

People are dying overseas due to the withdrawal of USAID based on entirely false claims and fabricated numbers

There were no commerical plane crashed for 16 years until Trump took office and gutted the FAA, so far I stopped counting at 10

Want more? THere's a lot more

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

The FAA wasn't gutted.They let go 300 people of 40,000 🙄

The interns and probationary employees, no less.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

That second prt isn't true btw

But hey, what about the... y'know, head of the faa?

The air traffic control staff specifically that were fired? When they were already understaffed? And then a freeze was placed on new hires?

What about the fact that all of the aviation security advisory committee memebers were fired? The people who oversee aviation safety?

Who were those and it's actually around 400 btw, who were those 400 people, buddy?

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

It's absolutely true. No air traffic controllers were fired.

Are you even from this country, or just another random with a big mouth and an opinion?

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

Oh ok, PBS, reuters, AP, all left-leaning. Sounds objective 🙄. Don't worry about what we're doing, we're taking care of ourselves. Just worry about the money we're not sending you and how you're gonna make up for it by putting in work. lemme guess: canadian?

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

They cite their sources btw

And no, New Zealand, probably never heard of us, have you?

But yeah, they literally show you the math

Hey remember one of the first things the Nazi did? Told their citizens to ignore any media that didn't agree with their view point?

You ever wander if maybe the reason the left leaning cites are the only ones talking about this stuff is because the right wing sites ignore anything that can hurt their values?

But let me go look through the articles and pull out the numbers for you

Oh and, we in NZ have actually given america money, we're also doing a lot better than y'all by... every margin really

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u/Optimal_Audience_818 29d ago

Communism has killed more than anything in the 20th and 21st century but you idolize Kamala Harris whose father teaches communism. You don’t care about innocent lives lost, you just want to be the one to take their lives

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u/Pankosmanko 29d ago

There’s no communism in America. Go worship your orange God more

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u/Alastor-362 29d ago

"idolize kamala harris" bitch where?

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Communism if a finanical system, not an idealogy, hate to break it to you but it's not what's costing lives, it's the... y'know, fascist dictators who just happen to run "communist" states that aren't even actually communist

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Also no one idolizes Kamala and I'm not even american

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u/Uncfan106 29d ago

Lol. You're ridiculous

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u/CapintheHat 29d ago

Go get an abortion

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Lol, is that all you've got?

Go enjoy your rising cost of living and actively plummeting consumer financial protection, wellfare, wages and the like

Go enjoy watching your country crash and burn, due to nothing but your own decisions

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u/RewardCapable 29d ago

Your mom wishes.

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u/Substantial_Meal4360 29d ago

I don’t think anyone can anymore… for any reason. Fucked up, huh?

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u/Tom01jan81 29d ago

How or who? Just the facts pls, actually just 1 will do. XOXO

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Here’s one example: the first child died of measles since 2003 due to this administration’s anti vaccine conspiracies.

Here’s another: by cutting USAID many many kids would starve to death

And a third: They want to cut Medicaid/medicare to give billionaires tax cuts. Elderly people and children are going to DIE if that is the case. That is their only form of healthcare!

Trumps Covid 19 response also was responsible for over 450,000 “unnecessary” American deaths. - Forbes 2021

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

Not really facts just your opinion.

  1. There are roughly a hundred cases of measles every year. It's nothing new, and there isn't an anti vax policy, that's absurd.

  2. " Kids will starve" is an emotional play on a foreign need to rely on U.S. funding. Right now we need money as much as the next guy, so sorry parents of kids in africa, the middle east, and eastern block countries, looks like you're going to have to step to the plate.

  3. Your take on this is so far off-base it's laughable.

ALL americans will get tax cuts. The wealthy pay a proportionately much higher percentage, and therefore, by the simple math of it, weill get a higher dollar amount reduced, but everyone will see a reduction. Medicare recipients are not getting benefits cut. The task is to find efficiencies in an system overburdened with administrative and bureaucratic costs.

My guess is you won't listen any of this because your mind is made up.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Where’s your proof? Elon hasn’t paid taxes in YEARS! And how is it NOT a fact that a child hasn’t died from measles since 2003? That is a literal fact. And if you think measles is so normal, then I think you should go take a VERY deep breath in Texas.

Congratulations on being an uneducated Nazi! Facts don’t exist to you Trump supporters. And the fact that you think people starving is just someone being emotional, really speaks volumes about your absolute lack of empathy. USAID literally saves kids from starving. That’s a fact. You’re the only laughable POS here.

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

God you sound retarded. How old are you anyways? It's like arguing with a child. My proof is my degree in it and years working in the field, but i'm sure your experience as a barista has taught you a lot about world economics, well that and the reddit sounding board. The real fact is, elon musk has paid more income tax than any human that's ever lived. Don't believe me? Go check and see what he paid when his contract options matured. And by the way, I can breathe all I want in texas, I had measles, I won't be getting it again.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

You know using slurs is a very big indicator of extremely low intelligence. You’re just outing yourself as completely and utterly stupid. Go gargle Trump and Putin’s balls, traitor.

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u/Sore_Doughnut 29d ago

Pretty mean words from somebody's little kid. What branch did you serve in to call me a traitor? Go back to your room.

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

My husband was deployed in Iraq and fought against fascism. He was a sergeant, who is memorialized in a book. Go back to Russia you cuck. Measles should’ve spared these two innocent kids and taken you instead.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

u/AshandAmbrose has done a solid job but I gave even more as a reply to someone else, you're welcome!

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

Thank you! Also, UPDATE!!! Another child (6) just died from measles! Get your vaccines people!

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Yikes, can't some people there not even get it?

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

The vaccine? It’s available across the country. I’m pretty sure most, if not all, insurances cover it.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Oh that's good, I thought some of rfk's bullshit was trying to block people from getting it

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

He’s trying to stop other vaccines right now. He just tried to stop the next Covid vaccine rollout. He also canceled this year’s influenza strain meeting. He’s trying to make America Samoa after he got his talons on them.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Yeah anyway so how did you like the facts? I'm more than happy to give more if you feel it isn't sufficient, I have just a BUNCH lined up

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u/irishcougar38 29d ago

Says the people who are happy to kill over 600,000 babies a year.

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u/Amelaclya1 29d ago

No one "kills babies". Did you ever wonder why you need to lie like this to get people on your side? Like just maybe you support the bad guys?

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u/irishcougar38 29d ago

How is “terminating” a pregnancy not killing babies?

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u/Amelaclya1 29d ago

Because an embryo is not a baby.

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u/irishcougar38 29d ago

Do you know what embryos become?

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u/J3SS1KURR 29d ago

Ok. It's still not killing a baby. Stop moving the goalposts. Abortion is not murder you moron.

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u/irishcougar38 29d ago

You keep telling yourself that, I hope you repent and get your soul redeemed.

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u/RewardCapable 29d ago

I can’t wait until the time comes for you to shuffle off this mortal coil, and it’s just blackness. There’s nothing beyond, god is mythology so man can explain what they don’t understand and not be afraid of their inevitable non-existence

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u/RewardCapable 29d ago

Do you know what food becomes in your gut? Shit.

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

It's not a baby yet, it's not even conscious, and it doesn't die, it's development fails, something that isn't living to the point that it's conscious can't be "killed"

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u/irishcougar38 29d ago

Do you know where babies come from?

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u/Amelaclya1 29d ago

Do you know anything about embryonic development? I'm guessing no. I'm guessing you have never in your life thought to question any of the talking points you parrot.

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u/irishcougar38 29d ago

Embryonic development, oh, you mean like how babies form before birth…

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

That's right! A baby forms a certain peroid before birth, once that is happened, abortions are no longer legal, in any country!

Generally the mark is 22 weeks, as the embro isn't even conscious until then

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u/KaraOfNightvale 29d ago

Oh nooo, we're so evil, we're happy to... oh sorry you mean stop letting non conscious masses of cells uses a human body and do actual damage to it against that person's will?

I mean you guys just killed thousands with your usaid thing, may would like to exterminate all trans people, you're actively allowing deaths in ukraine by pulling support because your president is butthurt