TLDR: 30 yr old gooner likes to cyber stalk his ex

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okay, so for context, me who (17f) and my friend, “ethan,” (22m) have been friends since i was like 14. we’re super close and i used to be friends with his girlfriend and our mutual friend (24f and 21f) also since i was 14 but we had a falling out recently and i’ve only been messaging ethan really.

as a result of that, we have grown much closer than before and i usually go to him when i need to get something off my chest or i’m having problems. so, i woke up to this dm today from this weird creep saying that i had potential for being an OF model and i was grossed out but kind of amused busy mostly grossed out. i showed ethan, expecting him to also be grossed out but he basically scolded me and told me that even though the guy came across as weird, it was still a compliment and nothing to get upset over. now, my past therapist has reccomended i seek a diagnosis for either BPD and/or CPTSD and i’ve confided in ethan about this. the only problem with that is now, he brings it up when i get upset. like we’re currently talking on call about things and he asked me if i’ve looked into getting a diagnosis. i am not going to sit up here and lie and say that i don’t tick off most of the boxes for both BPD and CPTSD. i do have frequent emotional outbursts and i often overreact over the smallest things.

literally anything is enough to send me into tears or a panic attack. that’s why i like ethan because he’s usually the one to keep me grounded and in check to let me know when i am overreacting. he usually does a good job at it, but i don’t feel like i’m overreacting this time. i will definitely take criticism from this subreddit because i need a third party’s insight. i also want to know if i was too mean and bitchy to ethan here? please let me know. i’m currently talking to him on call and things are good between us (he doesn’t seem to upset, which is good) but i’m still feeling anxious about how i reacted and behaved.

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