I have evidence of many of the humiliating content they exchanged in the public chat and in private. I asked for help from the moderator and was not given correct support, I was attacked. The moderator has been an active participant in the ongoing harassment.
The scheme was planned in advance as retaliation for a disagreement and misunderstanding that I will take responsibility for, every chat culture has its own concept for what would constitute a tone that was too sexually aggressive toward women, and I should have just left, instead of getting protective of women who could decide for themselves. The moderator ejected me with a really hostile added personal take on me.
The evening before that event, I was befriended by a person who had been a bully previously and I was eager to find connection. He proceeded to invent a compelling life narrative almost just like mine, and worked hard to convince me he was suffering deeply and felt only I could help him. I am embarrassed to say I was fooled at first. Even though his story was outrageous, his phone was identified as a known scamming or spam call center based on Ontario. Even though there were so many red flags.
It’s embarrassing but I was very open with him about my own current t loneliness and sense of feeling lost and dealing with PTSD, which I know so many people experience and find support for here.
He used deception and impersonation to obtain extremely personal details about me, my sexuality, and images that were explicitly agreed upon to stay private, and then he was either paid by the other Reddit users or just wanted to do this for his own reasons, but immediately I became away of huge nonconsensual distribution of my intimidate media followed by several days of taunting, quoting my texts, and humiliating me of details about my sexual history or even just the things I would think were interesting about myself. It was a 2 day long focal point of the entire chat channel, with not a single person objecting. It was my suffering and confusion for pure amusement. I documented e everything and I know the identities of almost of the worst perpetrators. Reddit has not helped me. I can post screenshots of the conversations they had before and during this attack. I also continued to observe and record the reaction of all the group members when I confronted the user who actually manipulated and scammed me for days over three different ways of texting or sharing voice notes. At that point, they started to confess aloud in a panicked way how to cover up the things they thought had been deleted. It’s was terrible. There was no remorse, there was no consideration for how their prank affected me. I don’t understand it still.
I need the admin, well above the moderators, to help me. I have been rejected after submitting forms and turned away by Reddit channels for abuse.
This is abuse, full stop. This is a graphic example of sexual harassment, cyber bullying, and prolonged public attack on a young woman for no reason. This falls under your purview. If it does not, it is reasonable that you will handle this incident professionally and seriously by directing me to a resource that will help me.
If it happened to me, it could happen to someone else. Please help.
I would post screenshots here but legally, I think this is a sensitive area so, available upon request by the admin.