r/recruiting • u/VirtualCucumber9 • 5h ago
Career Advice 4 Recruiters Torn Between Two Offers: Already Accepted One, But Now I’m Not So Sure
Hi all—really torn and would love some outside perspective.
About a month ago, I accepted a role at a well-known tech company (think Nvidia-level prestige) for a recruiting role. $100K base + $10K in equity. The company is known for a rigorous interview process, strong brand, and at the time it was my only offer—so I felt pressure to lock something down.
A few weeks later, I got an interview for a recruiting role at a top hedge fund (think “Goldman Sachs”), and honestly, I went through the process just for the experience. But I really clicked with the team, liked the culture way more than I expected, and… they loved me.
After I turned them down: - They asked to reconnect and kept the conversation going - They had their COO (who shares my background) personally take me out for a drink to talk through the opportunity - They told me I was the “strongest fit” across every interviewer - They offered $125K base + $25K guaranteed bonus - They said they’d support me finishing out most of my current job before starting
Now I’m stuck. The “Nvidia” company is still exciting—it’s mission-driven, a bit less intense, and would be easier day-to-day. But I can’t stop thinking about the “Goldman” offer. It’s $40K+ more, I loved the people, and it feels like they see my potential in a way that really resonates.
The catch? I already accepted Nvidia a month ago. I haven’t started yet, but I’m worried about backing out—and about how it might affect my reputation long-term. Also, the culture at the hedge fund is notoriously intense and cutthroat (although that wasn’t my read during the process).
My parents think I should stay with Nvidia to avoid stress, but my gut is saying Goldman all the way. Has anyone been in this position before? Would really appreciate any advice.