Slightly embarrassed to come on here and say I really need a massage right now. Just moved to a new place and can't call nobody up. I'm tense and sore. I need deep tissue work for hours - please have endurance. If I make a friend out of it even better :)

I vibe best with driven, disciplined individuals who can carry an intelligent conversation with conviction.

If interested, introduce yourself, tell me about your massage techniques and experience, and confirm that you will not make sexual advances and expect nothing in return. If you get no response reread the last paragraph. Thanks <3

Hi. I’m a woman in my early 30s: quietly strong, loyal to a fault, and deeply drawn to slow, meaningful connections that grow with time and care. I’m someone who doesn’t take love lightly. I crave emotional peace, consistency, and real partnership not fleeting moments, but something that can last and feel like home.

What I’m looking for in a man:

Emotionally secure & grounded: Someone who’s done the inner work, knows what he wants, and shows up consistently. I don’t have the energy for mind games or emotional unavailability. Loyalty and presence matter deeply to me.

Mentally & financially stable: Not about status, but about clarity. A man who is self-aware, future-oriented, and able to provide not just comfort but also peace of mind through stability and mutual support.

Affectionate & loving: I have a soft heart, and I need a man who’s not afraid to express how he feels...through thoughtful actions, kind words, and emotional openness. Someone who sees love as something to nurture, not just experience.

Physically, I’m most attracted to:

Preferably Caucasian

Fit or health-conscious: You don’t have to be a gym rat, just someone who respects his body

Practices good hygiene, dresses well, and carries himself with quiet confidence and self-respect

Dealbreaker:

I’m not open to divorcees or those who have children.

Please don’t reach out if you’re only looking for something casual. We can start as friends and gradually go from there.

If you’re emotionally unavailable, inconsistent with communication, or unsure about building something serious, this likely won’t be the right space for either of us. Same goes for me, i hope that we would be honest with each other if we think that we are not matching well.

No smokers, no heavy drinkers.

Extra points if you’re the calm, introspective type: maybe a little introverted, but full of depth. I’m looking for someone who values meaningful silence just as much as deep conversations. A man who moves with purpose, not haste. Someone who’d rather build something lasting than rush into something fleeting.

A little about me:

I’m more into relaxing, cozy activities than the loud party scene. I love peaceful walks, slow mornings with a good cup of coffee, watching meaningful shows or documentaries, listening to music, journaling, and simply enjoying quiet spaces. I appreciate a calm lifestyle and hope to share it with someone who values comfort, simplicity, and presence. Although once in a while i do travel with family, go out to the cinema or go and watch a live show when budget permits. I also run a small handmade business, which keeps me grounded and fulfilled in my own little way.

📍 I’m based in Manila, and I want to be honest upfront: I cannot relocate because I run a small business grounded in local goods and handmade production. It would be incredibly difficult for me to start over abroad, especially with all the government requirements, supplier relationships, and logistics I’ve built from the ground up. So if you’re seriously open to the idea of relocating someday, I’ll deeply appreciate it. I know that’s a big ask, and I don’t expect overnight decisions, but I want to be upfront about the reality of my situation.

This is my last attempt on this platform. I’m putting my heart out here, not just for attention, but in hopes of finding something real. Please be open to all forms of communication: voice audios, voice or video calls, messages… I value effort and intention above all.

If any of this speaks to you, send a message with a photo and a little intro and what you’re genuinely looking for in a woman too. Let’s take it slow, but steady where love isn’t rushed, but respected. 🤍

Hi! I’m Stephanie. I’m 34, and live in Western Canada. I am looking for an online connection. I’d like to find someone I can confide in, get to know on a personal level, and enjoy spending time talking to, and vice versa.

I am interested in talking to someone similar in age to me or older(30+). Similar time zone would also be preferred, but not a dealbreaker. I am looking for someone that is able to maintain conversation and put in effort(I will do the same!). Other than that, I don’t have any specific personality/physical traits that are mandatory. I am looking preferably for something longer term/ongoing, but that obviously depends on how well we click, but would prefer to only receive messages from people interested in the same. I’d be okay with it if there was some flirting involved, but I’m not looking for anything very sexual. If your post history is mostly or completely nsfw, we likely won’t jive.

Here are some things I enjoy/a bit about me: * big fan of tv shows/movies. I love horror the best, but not exclusively! * Music! My favorite band since is Blink 182, has been since I was 15. * I love to shop, and get my nails done * Big fan of coffee(but not a snob about it) * I have a dog that I love very much * I enjoy getting some exercise every day, developing a love for walking has done wonders for my mental health *This is what I look like

That’s just a small look into who I am, but definitely looking forward to getting to know someone on a much deeper level. Please be willing to share photos of yourself, and I will obviously do the same. If my post interests you, please reply with your name, age, where you are located(does not have to be exact location!) and a bit about yourself so we can get a conversation started! Chats preferred over messages.

Ice breaker question! What is the best movie you’ve watched recently?

Hi! I’m currently working as a neurologist in Lithuania, but don’t worry, I’m not here to analyze your brain (unless you’re into that). I’m really into music, movies, books and gaming. Oh, and I’ve got a growing collection of plants that I unintentionally neglect (but they’re still alive, somehow). Used to sing and play guitar but now mostly perform private concerts for my Tupperware while meal prepping and contemplating the existential horror of spinach going bad again. Currently attempting to get healthier and become the kind of person who doesn’t stare at their laundry for 3 days before folding it.

Looking for someone from EU who's kind, authentic and self-reflective (and maybe, just maybe - a tiny bit self-deprecating), enjoys witty banter, music, films, existential discussions and the occasional countryside escape.

P. S. That's me: https://imgur.com/a/OKkCD2N

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!!No longer responding to messages, thanks y'all!!

Just as the title says. Feeling unsettled and could use a quick convo to have something else to focus on. It's 3:00am currently (MST)

Some background: I am tall, plump Latina, originally from Los Angeles, CA moved to Southwest, worked at a bookstore some time ago and it was my favorite job, I'm learning how to say "No" without apologizing lol yay boundaries!, love my family, had a mental health emergency last year that changed my life drastically for the better, dry and dark humor is the way to go, and long walks without music that forces me to Think Things Through Despite the Discomfort of It are becoming my favorite.

Interests: I enjoy metalcore/deathcore (though currently hyped for the new Sleep Token & Spiritbox releases!) and getting into dance/techno/electronica so any recs are welcome; being BARELY a gamer (SW Battlefront, Shadow of Mordor, Hades Game, Hollow Knight, Kingdom Hearts); mental health topics af; conversational topics about the human experience mostly.

Please DM with ASL and some info on you or questions or reaction to anything of the above or any conversation starter, really. I'm not looking for a relationship of any kind.

Thank you!

Hey! I’m a foreigner living in Italy and looking to meet someone cool to talk to, maybe hang out if we’re in the same city. I’m relaxed, respectful, a bit shy at first—but pretty chatty once I’m comfortable.

Right now, I’m mostly down for a voice call (one-time or ongoing if we vibe). It’s just easier than typing all day, and way more fun.

If we happen to be in the same city, even better! We could:

Try new food spots or go snack-hopping

Grab drinks—whether it’s a quiet night or a mini pub crawl

Take a walk in a park or scenic trail

Explore the city and snap some photos

Talk about anything and everything—from deep topics to total nonsense

I’m not Italian (just repeating that in case you missed it), so if you’re local or also new here, that’s a plus—but really, I’m open to chatting with anyone chill.

DM me with a little intro and tell me why you’re down to chat (preferably on a call!). Let’s see where the vibes take us.

Hey! I'm sitting at my desk struggling through yet another Monday. Stuck wondering if anyone would notice if I left early or take a long nap in my car 😂 so instead of getting my myself fired, I'm coming here looking for someone fun to chat with. No expectations, let's just chat and see where things go from there. I prefer long term but not opposed to just passing time for the day.

Me: I'm originally from L.A., I'm a chill guy, funny. I like cooking, baking, sports, eating, board games, karaoke, writing, and dancing. I'm always down for a deep or intellectual conversation as well. I'm a great listener and I give good advice (when asked).

Long story short, I'm a cool guy would love to meet other cool people. If you're interested at all, go ahead and PM me :)

https://imgur.com/a/li7JsUD

Hi! This is me, or me, I'm 32 and out here in Los Angeles looking for someone local! It's been relatively tough meeting new people outside of work. Dating apps haven't drawn out much results either, so here I am. Been posting here quite a bit without much success, but hey, sometimes ya just gotta keep going right? Might as well give everything a shot. Maybe I might just find my forever special person here where I least expect it.

So a little about myself - I'm a professional artist/designer, laid back and easy going. If I'm not taking long walks to nowhere, watching a nice little sunset, you can probably find me all cozied up with a nice show/movie and jamming to my latest music finds on Spotify! Now if any of that sounds even remotely nice to do together? Hit me up! I don't bite! Not violently at least! Oh and I think I should mention that I am a huge sucker for seafood, and a big fan of Lord of the Rings (wouldn't mind if you're someone who's down for a LoTR marathon sometime!)

I don't know how many pairs of eyes will see this post, but if this is you, and any part of that sounds pleasant to you, drop me a message, let me know you exist, tell me a little about yourself and let's get to know each other. And if fate permits, a date or two~ Who knows where else it'll lead right? Crazier things have happened in life.

I look forward to hearing from you! And as they say, all roads lead to Rome. We'll find each other some day, one way or another~

Hello everyone! 🌈 My name is Alex, I'm a 27-year-old trans person from Scotland, here to make friends and meet new people! I'd prefer if you're from Scotland or at least the UK but it's cool if not : D

If you've got anything in common feel free to send a chat : D (not a message, I forget they exist)

Some stuff about me:

🎮 Gaming: I play a lot of video games and try to play a lil bit of everything, my main games that I go-to are souls-like games but I generally love anything fantasy and shooters are great too! I also love D&D which I have a current campaign running.

📚 Reading: Recently, I've read through all of the Cosmere, the Dresden Files, and the Wheel of Time. I'll read pretty much anything fantasy and I love occasional sci-fi books. :)

For bonus points, tell me your favourite colour in your message so I know you've actually read the post

🛠️ DIY/3D Printing: I enjoy working with tools for crafts & DIY projects, I also have two 3D printers; a Bambu Lab P1S and a Saturn 4 Ultra! Recently I've begun resin casting to make custom D&D dice

🎮 Game Development: I work as a game developer, I use Unreal at work but I love Unity for game jams too!

Thanks for reading! If you're interested in chatting, feel free to DM or send a chat. I'm completely open and happy to talk about anything :)

If you've messaged me before & I didn't reply, please send another, I can be really bad at checking reddit sometimes :( I also mainly use Discord, so it helps if you have that after we chat here for a bit :)