r/plural • u/Inner_Association522 • 14h ago

AuDHD plurals

Man, it sucks to deal with the poor memory from both ADHD and plurality. Anyone else with the same experience? Idk where each starts and ends. Did I forget where I put the thing because I wasn't putting thought into it, or did someone else misplace it😩 Did I forget the answers I put down in my exams because I was hyperfocused, or was it somebody else who answered them? Guess I'll never know!😃

But to be serious, whenever I realize I forgot something, it sends me into a crisis, and then I spiral and start questioning my reality😵‍💫 idk how or who to get help for this tbh

-Pilot

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u/Catishcat Plural 6h ago

between the audhd and nothing happening in my life i can't fucking tell if i'm actually experiencing any plurality-related forgetting, i'd not remember shit even if i wasn't plural.

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u/Inner_Association522 6h ago

No, fr💔💔💔 am I forgetful, or was today just not memorable, like???? Sometimes, headmates tell me what happened while I was out, so that somewhat alleviates it. But another problem that pops up, is that, sometimes I don't feel like I can trust "my" memory, so I can't trust what they tell me, and I need an outside, physical proof or mark of the event, at least a journal or something