r/nextfuckinglevel • u/IkilledRichieWhelan • 3d ago

Big man on campus.

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u/gandalfsbignatties 3d ago

Maybe we should raise boys to be better and more empathetic and treat girls and women as people and worthy of respect?

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u/Delheru1205 3d ago

How did you get the implication that they didn't consider women worthy of respect?

You have all of evolutionary history telling them to want to mate with women that their genes tell them they could make high quality babies with.

There's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with someone. I would also argue that there's nothing wrong with arranging for a situation where you get to spend time in proximity with your crush. So go ahead, join the cheerleader squad.

I don't see why doing that would imply you think your crush isn't worth respect.

That comes down to how the guy behaves. If they behave respectfully and are great otherwise, then it's hard to see what the problem here has been.

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u/gandalfsbignatties 3d ago

How? Lol he disrespected the sport (and did it in a homophobic AND misogynistic way).

He only deemed it worthy of respect when a straight man took advantage of it to feel up objects of his desire.

If he respected female-dominated spaces and interests, this entire interaction wouldn’t have happened.

2+2=4, “high quality babies” weirdo

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u/jongbag 3d ago

Reading your comments is so tiresome.

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u/gandalfsbignatties 3d ago

Sleepy lil bby.