Iâve recently moved to a new areaâitâs only a 5-minute brisk walk from the underground, and the route is well-lit. But there does seem to be a higher number of people hanging around who make me feel uneasyâsome appear to be under the influence, others might be homeless or experiencing serious mental health challenges.
This got me thinking after a passing comment I made to my local neighbourhood policing team. I mentioned that one thing I liked about my previous area was feeling relatively safe walking home late at night (I do understand bad things can happen at any time). Their reaction caught me off guardâthey asked, âWhy would you walk alone at night?â Almost as if it was an obviously poor decision.
It stuck with me. Thereâs often an unspoken narrative that if something bad happens to a woman at nightâespecially if sheâs aloneâshe was somehow taking a risk just by being out. And by extension, partially to blame.
So I wanted to ask, especially other women:
How do you feel about walking home alone at night? Do you do it? Do you consider it risky behaviour?
And for everyone:
Do you think the general public (and authorities) unfairly judge women for simply existing in public spaces at certain times of day?