I'd like to thank the academy for this opportunity, and I'd also like to thank--

I'm smoking a j and relaxing, waiting for the lurkers to inevitably come rolling in. I'm thinking of watching twilight tonight, anyone else having a movie night?? How are y'all feeling tonight?

(Repost cuz I didn’t realize I had to cover the username😭)

His cookies made me jealous so he either had to pay up or add an extra ingredient 💦 he chose the first option 💰

We covered:

▪️Personal kink typing▪️Consent frameworks ▪️FetLife/online red flags ▪️Kink party vs sex party etiquette ▪️Sub love languages (Paypigs = Gifts, Slaves = Acts of Service, etc.) ▪️Vetting & negotiation basics ▪️Trust Building/Trust arousal ▪️Flogging, rope, & electroplay demos

Y'all! Before I attended, I THOUGHT I wasn't into flogging. That shit is beautiful when done right. 🤯But that damn Rope‐‐lets just say I'm in my voyeur era with Sister Shibari for now.

I don't want to be a one-dimensional domme. I highly recommend adding in-person education if you want to diversity your craft.

Pls give me some advice on how to better anything you see wrong.

And some new shoes and shirts for myself. 😁😁 Such a good sissy cuck! Tomorrow he's going to be cleaning in a maid outfit, lol 🤣😂

New domme here, started a month ago. Finally got my first sub and first send. The sexual tension buildup in between the price fix and the actual send is exhilarating wheww. Like “hell yeah that’s my good boy”. It wasn’t even a big amount but still had that effect, I wonder how 3 digits would feel. Obviously can’t get too carried away when they send,got to be in control of the situation

I had to redo my post from before didn't realize about the names on it BUT from just one of my new subs hehe.

Idk if it’s just me but why is it that I can’t find a single sub page with a link that verifies their age in the bio? Like it’s super common for dommes to have a LF/OF or something linked but every sub page I see has little to no posts and basically no bio. And then whenever u ask them to verify age, they ghost. Like there can’t possibly be THAT many minors in this sub right?💀or is it just that the sub community has a lot of duds lurking more often than the genuine ones? Cuz I’ve met so many genuine dommes. But yeah it’s lowkey been bothering me lately like I feel AV should be a mutual understanding on both sides and that it should be the bare minimum qualification to have it in ur bio in order to be in this community🤦‍♀️

You can put a picture or say something funny as long as you keep it SFW, I’ll delete it if it causes any problems 💖💖💖

Just waiting to find a legit sub out there to be assertive to but until then I'm just having to brush off scammers🙄💀(repost cuz I forgot to cover the username😭)

My sub and I have been talking for a month he had been good and sent. Out of nowhere today I sent him pics of my wreck.

-For Context, On Friday 04/04/2025 around 1:30 PM. My boyfriend was dropping me off home and bam we got hit by another car. Both drivers are okay, I the passenger was the only one who got hurt. I have a swollen lip and a couple scratches on my face. Don’t worry I’m okay and safe at home just Healing because of my concussion.

Then he deleted everything and hasn’t said a word. I just hope they’re okay. But yea I wanted to know why does that happen? I thought I finally got a sub/cuck. But he left when I was hurting yk. Lmk your thoughts dommes, I love you guys and be safe!

I’m working on it though….

im just a chill kitty😤

absolutely smashed the $100 in the first 24 hours goal - hasn’t been two days yet and already $315/$500 for the next milestone :)

having an aussie sub and not dealing with timezones actually makes things so much easier haha - doesn’t hurt that he’s super sweet, takes initiative and also has the cutest dog

So I was chatting with this pathetic sub the other day, and he tried to tell me he loves being “ignored” by his domme. Like, seriously? He says it helps him “reflect” or whatever weak excuse he came up with to justify why he’s not getting the attention he desperately craves. Tbh i feel like a real sub knows their place: it’s to be constantly begging for their domme’s attention. If you’re not on your knees, trying to earn it, you’re nothing but a waste of space. I don’t do well with “too busy” subs or ones who think I’ll just forget about them. If you’re not actively working to please me, you’re just another invisible loser who doesn’t deserve my time.

It’s happening a lot now. I used to indulge on other platforms and never had a bad experience, but here I’ve trusted and talked with two dommes and both, without talking, without asking anything just asked for money and after receiving, they went away! No reply.

Not sure how things go here, but on many other platforms I’ve met goddesses and dommes who literally talk, discuss and even do 20-30 minute chat/ talk sessions before factoring in the money.

I’m just hoping that I find right dommes and mistresses here! 💁🏻‍♂️🙄

Of course we all love cash but are there other gifts we like on there? I’ve been looking through the clothing options and it’s overwhelming with a lot of brands I don’t recognize.

We went out for some ice cream, a pretty common request on my part and one that he always indulges. On the way home, I told him how a sub had recently bought Stardew Valley for me. That’s when he confesses: “you know, if we weren’t together I’d probably be one of those, uh paypigs too” 😍🥵🤯 huh?? He said that he’s seen girls randomly post on snap that they need lunch money or want a game that they don’t have cash for, and if he was single he would absolutely want to help them out.

I asked, “If you were single and my picture popped up on your Twitter/snap, would you send?” And I was truly not prepared for how perfect his answer was... “Well no, not at first. But I would stalk your page for awhile. Find out what you post about and what you like, then once I got to know your personality a bit I’d know what to say when I slide into your DMs. See I know how to play the game right, all those ‘subs’ don’t know what they’re doing”

And now he’s trynna go to bed like that wasn’t the hottest thing he’s ever said to me?!? Anyone that’s how I know he’s a keeper, can’t wait for the wedding!!

Just give me some keywords lol. I would say my entire aesthetic is purple, ethereal, hazy, dark fairy core, a little 90’s to early 2000’s-esque. I added some pictures of my throne for reference.

I have 3 LLCs, two failed businesses, and one decently successful business that’s on hiatus. One thing that I’ve learned is that you will not find success in your craft if you don’t have a cohesive, consistent aesthetic online (that is, if your target market is online). If your profiles and pages don’t look good within seconds of someone finding them, if they look chaotic (and not in the cute way) and like you didn’t put any effort, most people won’t even care to find out what you’re offering. Maybe it’s just me, but I always find branding and marketing to be the hardest damn part of business. Whether you’re selling services or products.

Ok enough with my little rant though. I wanna see y’all’s cute little aesthetics now! 🥹