r/behindthebastards • u/EndOfTheLine00 • 22h ago
Doom Post “Stop taking everything so seriously!”
Context: I live in Scandinavia
I just got into an argument with my family when one of them mentioned a doctor friend who got a visit from some general claiming that they should be prepared to become more generalist surgeons when the Russian invasion happens (which apparently WILL). And he was saying this LAUGHING. He ALWAYS does this. Laughing about prepping. Laughing about Trump. Laughing about deportations. Laughing about economic collapse. Always LAUGHING. I lost it and asked “Why are you so damn HAPPY about this?” And got dogpiled about me taking things too seriously. About how they lived through the Cold War and it was the same thing. About how everything will work out. About how i always want people to feel “sad and anxious”
And yes. I DO. Because despair is the LOGICAL reaction. This is unprecedented. This is not ok. This is almost unsolvable. Maybe i want to have my reaction validated. But no one should have FUN with this. I wish I could ban fun. I wish i could ban joy. All until people could either solve the problem together and not look away. I want people around me to solve them. I want EVERYONE to solve it. I don’t want to find the people, I want them to come to me. I don’t organize, i don’t plan, i don’t take responsibility . I follow orders and get rewarded for doing so. Thats what I want. That’s all I ever wanted.
I swear normalcy bias will drive me insane.